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Have a problem? Write to Canadian social worker
Doris Clark in care of this newspaper.
A MOTHER'S SECRET
DEAR DORIS—My daughter
wa born three months after I
was married. My husband isn't
thing to her through all these
years and I don't think anybody
else did either. Stye is engaged
now, age 21.
Should l' try to explain things
now or leave things as they
are? I know if I'd say anything
to her she'd be very upset, as
she keeps asking why her birth-
day is so soon....after our wed-
ding.
How To Handle
DEAR HOW — If it' hasn't
dawned on her yet that she was
conceived before your marriage,
it soon will—sine she wasn't
born yesterday!
It's something else again to
tell a girl her father isn't her
father. If this is a dead secret,
let it lie. Your husband is in
any .ease her legal parent, since
you were married to him When
she was born.
And parenthood, to my mind,
is far more a matter of loving
care and support over the years.
Don't upset her if you don't
have to.
`DEAR DORIS — Our daugh-
ter works away from home and
will be married in the church
where she lives. The minister.
was not known to her until she
went for an interview; neither
were the organist and -soloist:
(1) Is it proper to invite'the
minister and his wife, organist
and soloist to the reception? .
(2) Should the minister not
attend the reception, is it nec-
essary to have "Grace".. said be-
fore taking our seats? The re-
ception will be held in the
hotel.
(3) Should the mother of the
bride remove her gloves while
in the receiving line?
What's Proper?
• DEAR 'WHAT — (1) Proper,
depending on the bride's wish-
es, but not expected. A,,.;ninister
who is not a personal friend is
sometimes quite relieved to
have one less reception to at-
tend—especially during mating
season.
(2) Not necessary but .-.often
expected, especially if most of
the guests are church -going
people.
(3) No.
DEAR DORIS—I frequently
have a pain in my stomach.
The doctor can find nothing
whatever wrong. Now he says
he is beginning to suspect that
I "swallow my anger", and
that this is causing the trouble.
What does he mean by this?
Benny
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DEAR BENNY—Why not ask
him? -
If I might hazard a guess, he
may be discovering that you
are the type of person who can
be pushed around and. still ap-
parently .retain your good l im-
or. What really happens is
that you inwardly resent the
abuse, but say nothing.
Hai ing "swallowed your an-
ger", you find it difficult to .di-
gest. four stomach becomes
{domes tense and. rebellious. It's'
an awful pain—and a very, real
' one.
Part of the treatment is to
talk- it out. Express it. '
D1 'AR DORIS—I have been
asked to escort a boy to his
'1 -graduation“ and T need your
advice on a few things:
I (1) First, what kind of a dress
should I wear? There is a ban-
quet, then a semi -formal dance.
(2) What color should Lohoose
if I have dark brown hair' and
eyes? I also have a very rosy
complexion.,
Brown Eyes
DEAR BROWN EYES—The
boy might• be thought of as
your guest, if you were to pro-
vide the ticket (which I doubt
is the case' here). But he "es-
corts" you. providing -transpor-
tation and paying for any ex-
tras.
(1) ;For a semi -formal oeea-
sion you wear a cocktail -type
dress with gloves.
(2) You need fairly strong
color tones. No pastels. You
could wear geranium red, aqua-
marine blue or daffodil yellow,
and look ravishing. Ivory or'gol-
den brown; or black with bril-
liant touches, are other fetch-
ing alternatives.
TO SISTER'S SHADOW —
Mom and Dad are, overdoing' it
when they harp 'fi, how much
they miss Sandy. Has it occur-
red to you that if you had
been the one to leave they
would be grieving about miss-
ing you to Sandy? Try a pri-
vate chat with your father
about how you feel.
DEAR DORIS—Someone who
comes ' to my house reeks of
foul perspiration so. inuch that
I feel the odor is clinging to
me if I sit in the same chair
hours afterwards.
If it is a problem of chemis-
try, what can be done? I would
try to get the information
across in some tactful way, or
even anonymously, which I
know is unspeakable, but per-
haps better than making a life-
long enemy,
Nearly Gassed
DEAR NEARLY GASSED—
Perspiration does not smell.
when it is fresh. Frequent bath-
ing • and clean clothing are • the
answer. -
• "Some bright sparks can take
a hint. I'd try the gift box ap-
proach •first: an unbirthday
present of soap, talc and deod-
orant. Friendship is risked'
either way! -
Farm News
'(By D. H. Miles, Huron Ag Rep)
Crops are not particularly
suffering' for moisture,- but a
good ram would be most wel-
come. Cool weather of the Last
few days has retarded ground
evaporation. Spring grains are
the' most affected by dry condi-
tions.
Sonte hay is being cut and
processed—lighter than average
crop.
Purple in the -face, Mr. Brown
gasped to his wife, "The laun-
dry's made a •mistake — this
shirt is so tight I can hardly
breathe."
"It's not their mistake," re-
plied his wife, "You've got
your head through a button-
hole."
WOMEN'S •
H'QSPITAL ,
AUXILIARY
The June meeting of the Hos-
pital Auxiliary was held at the
Colonial Inn, Grand Bend, when
41 members and associate mem-
bers attended 'a banquet. 'Fol-
lowing dinner, a short business
meeting was held; presided., ov-
er by Mrs. F. S. Cosford, when
reports were given by various
committees. It was decided that
the, September meeting would
be a pot -luck supper, held at
the Lions lark, with the meet-
ing to follow in the new hos-
pital. The mystery prize was
won by Mrs. Brad. Smith,
A social evening was conven-
ed by Mrs. Ken Etue, Mrs. John
Cardno and Mrs. Gus Boussey.
Court whist and contests were
enjoyed. Winners of prizes
were Mrs. William Stephenson,
floating prize; Mrs. Harry •DOn-
aldson,, elimination prize; Mrs.
Elsie Dinsmore and Mrs. Mae
Hillebrecht, prizes"" for court
whist, and Mrs. Marg Coming,
lucky place card. A skit, "The
Lover's Errand," was presented
by Mrs. Gus Boussey and Mrs.
Ken Etue.
Cash donations. from the van-
ishing bridges and euchres:
Mrs. Willis Dundas, Habkirk
Transit Company, •
Grey Council
Motions approved by Grey
Township council included:
By Kenneth Bray and Law-
son Ward: That we accept the
tender of J. C. Lamont to sup-
ply the cement for the Krauter
bridge at $4.26 per barrel,,.
By Lawson,Ward and Archie
Mann: That we instruct En-
gineer James A. Howes to • ex-
amine and report on the Row-
land Municipal Drain to' clear
lot 20, con. 5, N?s lot 20, con.
6, and lot 21, con. 6.
By Kenneth Bray and Glenn
Huether: That we appoint Clif-
ford R: Dunbar, commissioner
on the Rowland anti Balfour
Drains,
By Glenn Huether and Ken-
neth Bray: That we pass Bylaw
No, 10, of 1965, as read a •first,
second and third time, to 're-
move certain lands from the.
Township School Area . of El-
. rchie Mann and Lawson
Ward: That we pass Bylaw No.
12, 1965, as read a first, sec-
ond and third time, to amend
Bylaw No. 9, 1965; under the
Confederation Centennial Act.
By Archie Mann and Lawson
Ward: That .we instruct the
Clerk to request the tentative
approval of the Ontario Muni-
cipal Board of an expenditure
of $39,000 for the purchase of
school buses.
By Lawson Ward and Archie
Mann: That we pass Supplemen-
tary Bylaw No. 13, 1965, in the
amount of $37,000, for:Kreuter
bridge and culverts and sub-
mit the bylaw to the Depart-
ment of Highways for approval.
By Kenneth Bray and Glenn
Huether: That, we accept the
auditor's report for 1964.
Accounts paid are: Town of
Listowel, .debenture payment,
High School, $3,076.82; drain-
age debentures, $415.32; Mon-
teith, Monteith & Co., auditors'
fee, township .and schotlls, 4515;
Fred Smalldon, warble -fly in-
spector, $295.55: A. B. Louns-
burblinds, office, $97.90; The
Municipal W o'r 1 d, supplies,
$827; Lothar Weber, office sup-
plies, $3.66; Stirling Hood, bull-
dozing Walton dump, $48; Stir-
ling Hood, bulldozing drains:
Close $12, Hoy $36, Sanders $24,
Johnston $20; Ontario Munici-
pal Board, fee, Hanna Drain,
$5; Hienstra Nursing Horne,
May acct„ $91.25; Queensway
Nursing Home, M a y acct.,
$122.25; Twp. of Arthur, April
and May relief, $27; Provincial
Treasurer, insulin, $1.33; Sup-
plementary Aid, $7.25; . J. C.
Conley, bulbs, Ethel Village,
$8.90; Allan Dobson, garbage
collection,. Ethel village, $21;
Robt. C 'i ningham, gas, .fire
truck, $1`.82; Firemen to Clar-
ence. Bishop's, $18; Clifford
Hoegy, fox bounty, $16; Ken-
neth MacDonald, fox bounty,
$24; Nelson Hanna, $40; C. M.
Stevenson, fox bounty, $36; E.
..M. Cardiff, clerk's fees, fox
bounty, $16; Roads and Bridges,
$10,609.24. Total $15,597.56.
JUNE 20th
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THOS' ,•WEEK and NEXT "
Dark African Days
By RAY ARGYLE
The incredible lengths to
which a government will go to
achieve its ends under a pre-
tence of legality became appar-
ent this week in South Africa.
That unhappy country; led by
a band of fanatical racists, has
at last • made a complete mock-
ery of law and order.
Unlike other dictatorships
where law and justice is mere-
ly ignored, South Africa is un-
ique in that its government
goes to the trouble of enact-
ing Legislation to make legal
the most diabolical perversions
of natural just•ce.
The ' South frican parlia-
ment has now before it—and
will pass aim t. without dis-
sent—a catc all package of
new "security" laws which will
effectively make the nation a
universe unto itself. • •
The most significant of the
new laws is one which will en-
able the minister of justice to
forbid the publication of all
statements by anyone in the
world who, in his ()pillion, "has
encouraged the achievement of
any of the objects of Commun-
ism."
The , wording of the bill is
sufficiently general to permit
the government, in all legality,
to keep from South Africans all
nevi?; whish is critical of the
Nationalist ,regime's policies. If
the secretry-general - of the
United. Nations, for instance,
were to" criticize any South
African' actions (as Mr. Thant
has done on several occasions),
it just wouldn't get reported. in
South Africa.
The new ' law is an . amend=
ment to the Suppression . of
Communism Act under which
more than 300 .South Africans,
including- Nobel Peace Prize
winner, Chief Albert Luthuli,
have' already' been put on the
banned list.
In the° treatment of its own
citizens, the government has
gone a step further by a ,has
enabling it to arrest witnesses,
to any crime and hold them for
up to six months, with no right
to receive visitors, even their
lawyers,. •
I£ that sounds bad, the South
African government will from
now on be able to keep in jail
for as. long ;as it wants any
political 'prisoner who has serv-
ed out the time of his senten
In fact, this has already been
applied since 1963 against Rob-
ert Sobukwe,. leader of the out-
lawed Pan-African Congress.
He completed a term for incite -
Merit in May of that year, but
the "government l,,s decided
just to ' keep him in jail, any-
way.
The fact that- these laws ,are
all aimed at strengthening -Pres-
ident \kerwoerd's racial segre-'
gation policies needs no explan-
ation here.
Whites in South Africa num-
ber three and one half million
out of a population of 18 mil-
lion. More than two-thirds of
the population is of native
Bantu stock, nine per cent are
classified as "coloreds" which
means of mixed white and black
blood, and three per cent are
Asians, mostly Indians.
The Nationalist party, dom-
inated by Dutch -Speaking Afrik-
kaners but also supported by
most English-speaking South
Africans, has been in power
since 1948. '
The present generation of
white Soiith Africans regard
that nation as their home, just:
as' Canadians regard this coun-
try las our own native land, de-
spite the fact Indians and Eski-
mos were here first.
The Bantus migrated mainly
from Central Africa, to)robtain
employment in the 'mines and
factories of White areas. In
doing so, they made possible
the development of a consider-
able industrial economy, to the
exclusive benefit of all the
whites. -
Perhaps the worst continuing
indignity is that male Bantus
who work in white areas can-
not have their wives or chiI-
dren with them. They must
stay behind on the reserves.
Some day, of course, the Ban-
tus will , rise with knife and
gun, and the streets of Cape-
town will run thick with blood.
But no South African will ever
believe. this until he feels the
slice. of •the blade across his
jugular vein.
Honor
am
cLean
A pleasant evening was .spent
at the home of Mrs. John- Hoth-
, Wilson Street, on Saturday
e ening, when Mrs. Donald Mil -
la _d, of Brantford, and. Miss
Pau : Anderson, of Goderich,
ent- tain-d at a miscellaneous
show- or Miss Pearn McLean,
whose forthcoming marriage to
Mr. Arnold Laithwaite, of Gode-
rich,•takes place on Saturday,
June 26th. -
Many ,useful and beautiful
gifts Were received. Miss Mc-
Lean thanked her friends. She
was assisted in the opening of
her gifts by little Miss Barbara
Cooper, of Hensall.
MRS. ACHIBAI,D L 1MONT
Funeral services for the lata
Mrs. Archibald Lamont, the for-
mer Margaret Henderson, who
died in Clinton Community Hos-
pital on June 7th, in her 76th
year, were held from the G. A.
Whitney funeral home on
Thursday, at 2 p.m., with Rev.
J. C. Britton, of Northside Unit-
ed Church, officiating. -
Pallbearers were Oliver
Wright, Arnold Scott, Orval
Storey, James Keys, Harold Con-''
nell and Bedford Dungey.
Flowerbearers were • Gordon
Wright, Clarence Malone, Geo.
Henderson and James McClure.
Interittent was in Maitlandbank
cemetery.
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