Zurich Herald, 1953-02-05, Page 6i
"Dear :'kine Hirst: My wi
wants r divorce, to marry a ma
she met three months ago .
We've been married ten year
and have two children. I we
to see the man, and he told m
he would marry her if she wan
free.
fe ! * humiliation through your in-
n 't temperate drinking and your
* infidelities. True, you reformed.
s, ; * But wouldn't a little humility
wet
* be more becoming now? it
e 4 * might even sway the balance
,e I * in your favor. '
to nhea it.c'd all(rnee
The house we live in is her:;; sh
has a car, and a nitre income. Sh
says she will give me all thins i
I will let her go. The man make
a small salary, and support; hi
motI'ler and sister, with whom he
lives, My wife still claims she
will be happier with him,
IIAD HIS FUN
"The first several years we
were harried. I drank and ran
around Then I gave it all up.
and ever since I've been trying to
make up for it. I love my wife
dearly. I've told her if she will
stay with me I would try to for-
give her. I can't believe she
really loxes him after such short
a quaimance.
"Will you advise ale:'
SAD HUSBAND"
Any woman would be fool-
ish indeed to marry a man she
* has known • only three months
o —particularly when she must
break up her home to do it.
e I hope your wife will stop see-
" ing the man immediately, and
devote herself to being a loyal
* wife and a good mother.
' A man 'and woman can fall
" in love at first sight. But it
* takes months and months be-
* fore they can really know each
* other, or be certain that they
will be happy for the rest of
* their lives.
*Has either of you consider-
* ed your children? Their wel-
e fare should come first in any
e such decision. They are so
* young that it is probable the
* court would give them to their
* mother to raise, unless it. could
* be proven she is unfit. Could
this plan take your place in
" their hearts? Could the young-
* sters be happy in a strange en-
" vironment?
e In discussing all this with
* your wife, I hdpe you will not
" take the supercilious tone which
e your phase, "try to forgive,"
* indicates. You, of all people,
t'• should understand. You made
* your wife suffer heartache and
i'. a, *
I "Cling only to him so long as
e i you both shall live," is a promise
e lightly held these days. But par-
r tieulaarly when children are in-
s 1volved, marriage should be a
s I sacred trust ... Anne Hirst will
I try to help you stay married, if
1 you tell her the difficulties that
stand in the way. Address her at •
I Box 1, 123 Eighteenth hteenth St., New
i Toronto, Ont.
I _
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Most film celebrities have
un?hoose nunlbere, but
visitors to Hollywood, not know-
ing this, look in the phone book
—and some seventy-five people
constantly get calls which are
not intended for then,
Bob Hope is listed in the book
as a doctor. But that doesn't pre-
vent phone calls telling him how
bad or how good he was in such -
and -such a picture. A request
usually follows for Jane Russell's
number. Dr. Hope replies that he
is a medical man and not a come-
dian.
The Wiliam Holden in the book
happens to be a Los Angeles po-
liceman. The William Holden of
film fame has never met the man
with the police badge,. "But if I
do," he says. "I hope it will be
.pu"sly a social meeting."
A contractor name John Payne
has met his actor namesake. For
several years contractor Payne
has been forwarding fan mail to
actor Payne, and by way of ap-
preciation the star invited the
contractor to be his guest on a.
film set. The "nonentity" took
one look at the `celebrity," who
was wearing heavy pirate make-
up on this sunny clay, and com-
mented; " I'll stick to building
houses."
Listed in the directory are the
names of Ann Sheridan, Bette
Davis, Doris Day, Esther Willi-
ams, Marie Wilson, George San-
ders, James Mason, and many
more. None of these people work
befure the cameras, and all of
them get calls meant for the
stars.
One actress in Hollywood who
ventured to have her name in
the book was a character act-
ress named Giselle Werbeserk
Pini. For years no one ever called
her except her friends or busi-
ness associates, Then one day a
practical joker phoned and said;
"Is this Giselle Werbeserk PifT1?"
"Yes," replied the actress. "This
is Joe Glutz," said the joker,
"Didn't we meet at a party in
New York??" "I've never been
in New York," replied the act-
ress coldly. "Beg pardon," said
the man, "it must have been
ANOTHER Giselle Werbeserk
Piffl "
But a man named Chips is still.
getting calls after all these years
from practical jokers. "Is that
Mr. Chips?" they ask. He says
that he is, "Good-bye, Mr. Chips,"
they reply, and ring off.
HIS TRIBUTE
He was a Hollywood executive,
and a very unpopular man. In
fact, they used to say that he
would keep an actor or a writer
on the jobs two weeks longer
than necessary in order to be
able to fire him on Christmas
Eve.
When he died, the few peo-
ple who showed up at the funeral
tried their best to say something
nice about the deceased. They
could think of nothing. Back at
the studio, after the funeral, they
wound up in ,the barber's shop,
where all important. Hollywood
post-mortems are held. They
were still trying to say some-
thing nice.
Finally the head barber came
to their assistance. "You know,"
he was not a hard man to shave."
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"What in the world,{.
doing?"e you
That was Partner's ques-
tion when he came into the kit-
chen a little while ago. The
reason? I had our big kitchen
table literally covered with lit-
tle piles of newsprint. By my
side was a big carton filled with
paper — the overflow was strewn
all around my chair. And at the
end of the table there were, by
actual count, seventy-one brown
paper envelopes, In case` you
haven't already guessed, this was
the completion of my clipping
orgy. I had been clipping steadi-
ly for the last two days and now
the clippings were ready to go
into the envelopes. Of course I
soon found there were more
headings than envelopes, so mare
envelopes had to be htuited. It
has been quite a job but I and
well satisfied now it is done, And,
because I had everything so well
sorted, I was able to give away
all kinds of good reading mater-
ial. With the stuff that was un-
suitable to pass along I had one
glorious bonfire.
My sorting took me through a •
big pile of farm papers and maga-
zines and I found all kinds of
interesting little articles that .I
don't remember having seen be-
fore at all. In my reading, two
facts I noticed particularly in
thumbing over the pages — the
number of things that happen on
farms to upset and worry the
farmer; and the vonderfst1 hob-.
bies and handicraft that farm
folk take up in their spare time,
Among the worries the first
thing I read about was the out-
break of Newcastle disease among
poultry. Theta cane the , Red
River flood and the loss and suf-
fering of the Manitoba farmers,
stories of hardship and courage
reminiscent of pioneer days. In
Ontario Dutch elm disease and
the spruce bud worm causing
considerable concern, But all
these troubles — except the Red
River flood -- paled into insig-
nificance with the advent of foot
and mouth disease. It was heart-
breaking to read once again of
the terrible slaughter and of the
embargo that affected fanners
right across Canada --- and still
does. Anthrax was next in the
limelight and then the decline
and fall of the hog market, Syn-
thetic dairy products and the
possible adverse influence of the
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Perhaps you may think I found
all this reading somewhat de-
pressing. On the contrary .—
getting it like that, all in one
dose, as it were, I just sort of
sat back and said to myself ---
"My goodness, farming must be
all right after all. Fanners have
met with all those set -backs and
disasters and yet most of us are
still .here pitching," It ties in so
well with a little piece I jotted
down after hearing it over the
radio — "I am not afraid of to-
morrow, for I have seen yester-
day, and I know today."
Then I turned to hobbies,
handicraft and new ways of do-
ing things, all the way from feed-
ing hens to oil painting. Suddenly
I thought — maybe this is the
answer — farm people are so
busy experimenting to save time
and labour, and then using the
time they save to take up other
interests, that they don't have a
chance to worry too much about
problems that they, personally,
End impossible to solve. Or it
may be that the farmer is filled
with optimism after attending
various annual farm meetings
such as we mentioned in this
coluun e last week. •As for hobbies
and handicraft — among farm
women their number is legion
. and a better type of occupa-
tional -therapy couldn't be found.
But from what I read I think
the top honours should go to a
woman in British Columbia who
had no less than seventeen hob-
bies, most of which she had
learned by sending for material
and a book of instructions.
If you wonder how she had
so much time on her hands listen
listen to her own explanation.
"It passes the winter months
after I have given our two chil-
dren, 11 aiid 8, their' sehepl.les-
sons. They cannot go to school--
during
choo -during the rainy months because
we are practically surrounded
by water. We put our cash into
this farm when my husband
came out of the army but the
real estate agent forgot to tell
him the place would be under
water during the winter. My hus-
band works at Port Alberni and
Modern Etiquette
Q. What should a woman do ij
a man offers his hand being in-
troduced to her?
A. Accept it, of course, and
without hesitation -- even
though it is her place to offer
her hand if she wishes. She
would show ill -breeding if she
were to ignore any spontaneous
act of friendliness.
Q. When are plates removed
from the dinner table for ensu-
ing course?
A. The plates for each course
should not be removed until the
slowest eater has finished that
particular course and laid down
his fork,
Q. How far in advance of the
wedding 'inay gifts be sent to the
bride?
A. Usually ten days or two
weeks prior to the day of the !
wedding. This gives the bride
annple time to acknowledge them.
Q. I see more and more women
smoking on the streets, Is this
considered proper tow?
A. Maybe sometime this will
be accepted by good society, but
at present it still is in the "im-
proper" category, Also, a man
walking along with a woman
on city streets does not smoke.
Q. When the person behind
you at the theatre persists in
talking, is it permissible to ass;
them to stop?
A. Yes, but do this as quietly
and pleasantly as possible. If
they seem to resent your request
and ignore it, then speak to an
usher.
Q. Is it permissible to use both
the knife and fort: when eating
full?
A. Usually the fork is the only
implement necessary.
Q. Is it all right for a girl to
give her fiance an engagement
gift.?
A. Although it is not custom-
ary or obligatory. there certain-
ly is nothing wrong with it. Her
gift might be cuff links, key
chain, or cigarette lighter or
case,
Q. When one is a guest at a
dinner served in a Motet dining
room, or restaurant, should one
leave a tip for the waiter in ad-
dition to that Left by the host?
A. No; this is only the obliga-
tion of the host.
Q. Is it all right to cut hot bis-
cuits at the table with the knife?
A. Never; break them apart
with the fingers.
wades through the creek every
day to get to the road where he
leaves his car. Learning how to
do new things takes my mind off
our worries,"
Well . . under those condi-
tions I am sure you will agree it
would take • at least seventeen
hobbies to keep one completely
on an even keel. But how many
of us would have the courage to
start even one?
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