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Zurich Herald, 1951-11-22, Page 2When a wife forgives her hus- band's unfaitlifunt:ss, what does she really mean by it? Usually, s h e intends to forget it too. Yet how many hurt wives make their hus- bands suffer for years after, be- lieving that the then desire (at least) to be un- ^" 'S faithful again. One dictionary explains the word forgive this way: "It not only lifts punishment . , . from the offender, but restors to an uttresentful place in the affections of the offended one." HOW UNFAIR! "Ever since my husband had an affair with another woman," writes one distracted wife. "He has been a model husband, trying in every way to make up the heartache he caused ane. "Yet after all these years, 1 still can't get over the hurt. 'When we go out, I ant in utter misery, feeling he is looking at every pretty girl in the place. I can't seem to get back the self- confidence I once had. Truthfully, I feel like the most lowly little mouse that ever crept across the floor! "He is very patient, He tries to make me see that I am imagining all these things -and I know I arn, But I just can't seem to fight it. "I'm not unattractive, even at 35, men still look at me twice. I. don't ady Ont ticmce 51E 4899 WAIST. 24°-34" SEW THE ONE - YARD SKIRT! Yes, this requires only one yard of 54 -inch fabric for any of its sizes -waist 24, 25, 26, 28, 30. Look at the smart button trim and front flaps; the back -closing which makes this the best -fitting skirt you ever had! Look at the diagram above, two big pieces, three little ones! Fashion, thrift and easy sewing in Pattern 4899. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions, Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35c) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth St., New Toronto, Ont, want other sten wanting me! I only want my own man, and to feel safe and secure again. "I did forgive hint, but 1 cannot forget. 1 am in despair." 4 * 4: * It will help a wife in this * state to think of her husband * instead of herself. * How must he feel when, after * five long years of devotion, he * still realizes that his wife is afraid * every day may be their last day * together? 'She watches him -like * a hawk, expecting to see again * that gleam in his eye for some other girl. She still sits in judg- ment ori his one departure from the right, and waits, expectantly, for the next. Suppose this husband had never ended his one affair? The thought should destroy all her doubts of him now. She may * think she has lost her self -con- * fidence. The truth is ,she. has * lost her faith in her husband. * Can she be good 'to Iive with * these days? How can he feel at * home with her? And how long * will any man be content to live * with a woman with whom he * cannot relax? * To "THE LITTLE MOUSE": * If you want to keep your husband, * ponder the possibility of losing * him again. He has done every- * thing he could to. prove his in- tegrity. Don't try him too far. * Robert Browning. knew what * he was talking about when he * wrote: "Good, to forgive; Best, to * forget." r• * s: When a man has made one. mis- take, is he to be condemned to lifelong punishment? Keep your husband so sure of your faith in his goodness that he would rather be with you than any woman in the world . Anne Hirst can help you keep faith, if you write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Modern Etiquette Q. Is it necessary to give a din- ner, or any other form of entertain- ment, for the purpose of announc- ing an engagement? A. This is a popular way of an- nouncing an engagement, but it is not absolutely necessary. The news of an engagement can very well be conveyed by a newspaper an- nouncement, or just by word of mouth. * 4- * Q. When a married woman is travelling alone, should she sign. the hotel register as Mrs, Henry L. Hudson, or as Mary Lou Hud- son? A. She should sign as Mrs. Hen- ry L. Hudson. o' * * Q. May men's formal evening trousers be cuffed? A. No. * * Q. What is the proper fee to give the clergyman for a baptism? A. Baptism is a sacrament of the church, for which no fee is ever Arequired. A donation to the church, however, may be given -whatever amount you wish. * * * Q. How can 1 remove spots and stains from silk without injuring the color? A. Take five parts of water and six parts of alum, well pounded. Boil a short time, and then pour into a vessel to cool. Previous to using, the mixture .must be made warm. Then wash the stained parts and allow to dry, * 4 Q. It is all right to write invi- tations to tea on one's visiting card? A. Yes, this is perfectly proper, CROSSWORD,o, Cti:a.Tua sib. AC,T;OSS 1 Matron 6. Crackle 9. Strike gently 12. Short jerks/ 13, Speed 15, Thaw 1t;. Teiephone girl 17. American • red man 10, hfnhammedan priest 20. Salad mart 23 Cut off 25Flower 26. Body joint 30. Chomtrnl combining form 37. ,1rmr•d ronlli,:t 32. Precious stone 14. rolf mound 35. irnie 35, Witnessed 27. Vigilant 39. F mpty in A. mans 41. Location 48. Afternoon functions 46. Yeast 49. Motherly 12. Terrible 53. Genvs e,f wild orchids 54. Otlt>rwis* 15Noree god 66. Mind 17. Organnine 7. Half (profit 2. metola.r disk 3. Fashion 4, f.ure 5. Sc"tr•h cake 6. Catnip 7. Malt beverage R. f. *rsian fairy 9. Salt of titanic acid 10. Spray 29, Tranryntility 11. combining 33. Opening torn ma with 33. Guide 14. Male sheep 40. ?ortioa 18. Taliestr;c 41, Iteliave 21, Sleeveless 44, Bistriet in v, rap London 22. Talce a seat ' 46, Degrading 24. lard 47. ('ache 24. Impressed 46..F eeluire with wonder 40. Floor covering 26. stealthy 60. Knot 27, Verse of three 51. Deer Cent's. feet mother Answer Else ;she; e on This Fage Doubly Dangerous -Peering from behind their Bren gun in for- ward entrenchment somewhere in a hot sector of the battlef,ont, two lads of the Royal Canadian Regiment in Koreakeel. their eyes sharply open for Communist. troops, These fighting lads, spelling trouble for the enemy, are Pvt. Richard DeMontfort, left, and Harold DeMontford, •22 -year-old twins from •south Hamilton, Ontario. Toast Of the Town Lugging o loaf 'of bread almost as big as herself, Mavis Hughes. 7, "Pearly Princess of Acton," arrives at the Costers' Harvest Thanksgiving service in the Church c" St. Mary Magdalene. on the Old Kent Road: London. 0 `�-w-Qti% Fls HRONICLLS cfaL, INGE .F. r Ginn D Ci'trke Much to• our regret we did not see Princess Elizabeth and the Duke of Edinburgh, But we fol- lower' them by radio -until we got too annoyed to listen. Not with the Royal visitors, bless their tired, • patient and forgiving hearts -but with the officialdom for its flagrant disregard of the •expressed wjshes of the young couple for a visit "with es little formality as possible" Think for a minute, Here is a young girl who, twice during the last few years, 'has become a moth- er, Add to. that the strain of the King's illness- and possibly the unspoken fear that all too soon she might be called upon to take over t1.1 responsibilities of a sovereign state. Then comes this tour of th Dominion -incongruously des- cribe ' as "a holiday in Canada"! Our daughter said Elizabeth look- ed very tired on Saturday. But I venture to say it woutd not be the thousands of cheering children who tired her, nor meeting the patients at Sunnybrook Hospital, but rather the State functions with their nu- merous guests and the constant barrage of photographer's bulbs, Even on Sunday there was no let- up -no privacy, even at church. I don't this any of es are so curious that we need quite '-o many intimate details. Prince Philip has certainly won great popularity for himself. We were glad to hear his splendid ad- dress to the Hoard of Trade and to know the care he is takine of his princess wife, And now to change the subject. T have always wanted to go to the International Ploughing Match and last Friday I did just that. I enjoyed the atmosphere of the event. Everyone was friendly, there was not too much noise, no mid- way, no clutter, and you didn't feel pushed around. There was plenty of commercial advertising, but it was the real thing -not just smite - thing to catch the eye, T?rxhibits were constructive attempts to keep farmers up-to-date with modern tna- ehinery. As a contrast there was an old threshing machine driven by a steam engine --and both Were do- ing a good job, As the sheaves were fed into the machine it was one man's job to cut the bands. For regular field threshing it would take sixteen men to keep the machine going. '1 was wishing Partner had 'been there to see it but he has been to. the ploughing match other years and. it makes less rush if one of us stays at home. A number of trucks and tractor - trailers were taking people on a tour of inspection of the entire grounds. I got aboard one of them and had my rough ride along with the rest. All the ploughing looked so nice I was glad I didn't have to decide which was the best. The farm pond was interesting . , . 7/ feet deep and, by means of a force pump, was the main supply for an extensive irrigation system. The fiire-fighting demonstration was splendid. Firemen poured ker- osene on to a shallow pond and then set fire to it. Isnnnediately there was a huge volume 'of smoke with an- gry flames licking their way sky- ward. Two firemen stood by, hose in 'hand. Just as you begin to feel spared in case the fire might really get away the men went to work with their hose. fn a little while the fire. was completely extinguished. I imagine it wasn't more than three minutes. Of course I found the "Tented City" quite an attraction. I left my coat for the Family Herald to look after but I was disappointed none of the editors were on hand to meet the public. In the W.I. tent Mrs. Thomas Myers, Zurich, and Mrs. J. H. McCulloch, Bramp- ton, were kept busy talking to inter- ested visitors and serving tea. Inci- dentally there were several attrac- tive rest rooms serving tea free of charge, For years I have heard of the wonderful job of catering done by two separate church organizations n t very fat' from here, So I set out to investigate, Wonderful is an understatement -I would call it a stupendous undertaking. In one tent 1 knew quite a few of the men and women in charge -and more of them knew me through this col- umn. Many of them looked tired - quite a few were far from young -- but they were all in good spirits. Imagine taking truck loads of ne- cessary equipment over 80 miles -- tables, stoves, benches, cots and bedding -to say nothing of the food and baking necessary to feed a con- stant stream of hungry diners, Imagine the work at home prepar- ing far the event, And then leav- ing home; being on your feet for four days; working without accus- tomed conveniences; sleeping away from your own bed and taking a chance on the weather. 13ut I amt glad to say it wasn't alt left to the women. '1'`11e men were helping too --in fact one man ---a six -footer -- looked really cute, waiting on the tables with a pretty little red and white apron tied around his waist! Young Coup Make Pottexy. G By Novel Use Of Chemicals California abounds in c-" annist$, some nationally known, many amateurs and hobbyists, but it is safe to say that Jane and Jack Brinker of San Francisco are the only newcomers in the field whose pottery is so different that it actually is made ",backwards." The Brinkers, young and attrac. five ex-Hollywoodians (they work- ed behind, not before. the cameras), left the cinema world for the cera. mics world only two and one-half years ago. They are now turning out unusually glazed vases, lamp bases, plant folder's, decorative platters, tiles, and magnesite table tops which do not require kiln -fir- ing. Their heatless pottery is hard- ened and glazed by a chemical pro- cess which has never been patented and is known to only a few stu- dents of the artist who taught the San Francisco couple. Their tutor was the late Henry Albright of Glenmont, New York, a friend of Jack's father. Mr. Al- bright's portrait of Grover Cleve- land is in the White House. he made the bronze plagues on the "Freedom Train," and his work is in other national institutions. Chemical Hardened Clay At his eastern studio, he devel- oped the chemical process of hard- ening clay and glaze, but never did anything with it commercially because it takes more time than fired pottery. Each piece must be fashioned by hand, not thrown on a wheel or cast as slip in a mold, In the baseiuciit of their home, Jane and Jack have worked every hour not needed for sleep and meals to perfect their product and develop new marketing possibilities for it, Until recent months when an agent took over their business contracts, they preferred home and work, rather around to buyers. Consequently they've had a ra- ther lean time of it financially, for they started with no capital, But now they know what they can do, and it's beginning to make buyers look twice. . In comprehending how this fire- less pottery is made, one must reverse every step in the usual ceramics manufacture,: First the Brinkers scour all types of printing and paint suppliers for their dry pigment with which they mix glazes. They use simple tools such as a the size of a lamp or vase sides, or in irregular pieces to curve over a shallow bowl; and the' glaze is crackled by hand. The glaze strips are placed next to the mold, the color facing. the mold. Then the chemicalized clay is modeled onto the glaze, and the entire piece is sealed with clay along the seams. They use simple tool such as a flat baby spoon on a long handle or flexible ten -cent -store knives. to stay than go Little Boy Blew -Rehearsing for a sidewalk Symphony Concert to be staged by youngsters at t h e Williamsburg Settlement House, is nine-year-old Charles Liotta. The event for which the youngster is getting in some heavy lung exercise is the launching of a drive for music school funds. aze A typical cel'amic piece is hard enough to remove from the mold in eight to fifteen hours, but must set for two weeks before the cheat- lcalization bas knit together and completely hardened the clay and glaze. "Our things are as durable m normal usage as fired pottery," they explain, "but over a long period - say 100 years of being buried in the earth -ours would not hold together as perfectly as vitrified china, Our dishes can't be used for cooking, and because of the joined pieces of glaze they are not practical for dinner ware, either. Our platters are for hors d'oeuvres and buffet uses," The Brinkers are primarily inter- ested in the decorative values of their ware, and they have made several designs for coffee table tops, In such large objects, they apply ,the glaze in hundreds of•separate piece, like a ,jigsaw puzzle. The pieces may be fitted closely in an intricate, jewel-like pattern, or they may be outlined bodly its the Florentine "intarsia" method. Pieces done in tl.is manner have the effect of mosaic. Also in the decorative lune, they look forward to making fireplace tiles or an entire wail in ceramie, , design. Jack is working out a war of painting on the glaze with i: brush. so that a tile mural may be achieved almost as directly as mural painting. His first experi- ment, a gaily -colored clown por- trait which looks at first glance like a tempera painting, hangs over the fireplace. ,RELIEVED 114 P JIFF And the RELIEF IS LASTING For fast, prolonged relief from headache get INSTANTINE. This prescription -like tablet contains not just one, but three proven medical ingredients that ease the pain fast. And the relief is, in most cases, lasting, Try INSTANTINE just once for pain relief and you'll say as thousands do that there's one thing, for headache ...it's INSTANTINEI And try INSTANTINE for other aches, too ... for neuritic or neuralgic pain ... or for the pains and aches that accompany a cold. A single tablet usually brings prompt relief. 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Toast Of the Town Lugging o loaf 'of bread almost as big as herself, Mavis Hughes. 7, "Pearly Princess of Acton," arrives at the Costers' Harvest Thanksgiving service in the Church c" St. Mary Magdalene. on the Old Kent Road: London. 0 `�-w-Qti% Fls HRONICLLS cfaL, INGE .F. r Ginn D Ci'trke Much to• our regret we did not see Princess Elizabeth and the Duke of Edinburgh, But we fol- lower' them by radio -until we got too annoyed to listen. Not with the Royal visitors, bless their tired, • patient and forgiving hearts -but with the officialdom for its flagrant disregard of the •expressed wjshes of the young couple for a visit "with es little formality as possible" Think for a minute, Here is a young girl who, twice during the last few years, 'has become a moth- er, Add to. that the strain of the King's illness- and possibly the unspoken fear that all too soon she might be called upon to take over t1.1 responsibilities of a sovereign state. Then comes this tour of th Dominion -incongruously des- cribe ' as "a holiday in Canada"! Our daughter said Elizabeth look- ed very tired on Saturday. But I venture to say it woutd not be the thousands of cheering children who tired her, nor meeting the patients at Sunnybrook Hospital, but rather the State functions with their nu- merous guests and the constant barrage of photographer's bulbs, Even on Sunday there was no let- up -no privacy, even at church. I don't this any of es are so curious that we need quite '-o many intimate details. Prince Philip has certainly won great popularity for himself. We were glad to hear his splendid ad- dress to the Hoard of Trade and to know the care he is takine of his princess wife, And now to change the subject. T have always wanted to go to the International Ploughing Match and last Friday I did just that. I enjoyed the atmosphere of the event. Everyone was friendly, there was not too much noise, no mid- way, no clutter, and you didn't feel pushed around. There was plenty of commercial advertising, but it was the real thing -not just smite - thing to catch the eye, T?rxhibits were constructive attempts to keep farmers up-to-date with modern tna- ehinery. As a contrast there was an old threshing machine driven by a steam engine --and both Were do- ing a good job, As the sheaves were fed into the machine it was one man's job to cut the bands. For regular field threshing it would take sixteen men to keep the machine going. '1 was wishing Partner had 'been there to see it but he has been to. the ploughing match other years and. it makes less rush if one of us stays at home. A number of trucks and tractor - trailers were taking people on a tour of inspection of the entire grounds. I got aboard one of them and had my rough ride along with the rest. All the ploughing looked so nice I was glad I didn't have to decide which was the best. The farm pond was interesting . , . 7/ feet deep and, by means of a force pump, was the main supply for an extensive irrigation system. The fiire-fighting demonstration was splendid. Firemen poured ker- osene on to a shallow pond and then set fire to it. Isnnnediately there was a huge volume 'of smoke with an- gry flames licking their way sky- ward. Two firemen stood by, hose in 'hand. Just as you begin to feel spared in case the fire might really get away the men went to work with their hose. fn a little while the fire. was completely extinguished. I imagine it wasn't more than three minutes. Of course I found the "Tented City" quite an attraction. I left my coat for the Family Herald to look after but I was disappointed none of the editors were on hand to meet the public. In the W.I. tent Mrs. Thomas Myers, Zurich, and Mrs. J. H. McCulloch, Bramp- ton, were kept busy talking to inter- ested visitors and serving tea. Inci- dentally there were several attrac- tive rest rooms serving tea free of charge, For years I have heard of the wonderful job of catering done by two separate church organizations n t very fat' from here, So I set out to investigate, Wonderful is an understatement -I would call it a stupendous undertaking. In one tent 1 knew quite a few of the men and women in charge -and more of them knew me through this col- umn. Many of them looked tired - quite a few were far from young -- but they were all in good spirits. Imagine taking truck loads of ne- cessary equipment over 80 miles -- tables, stoves, benches, cots and bedding -to say nothing of the food and baking necessary to feed a con- stant stream of hungry diners, Imagine the work at home prepar- ing far the event, And then leav- ing home; being on your feet for four days; working without accus- tomed conveniences; sleeping away from your own bed and taking a chance on the weather. 13ut I amt glad to say it wasn't alt left to the women. '1'`11e men were helping too --in fact one man ---a six -footer -- looked really cute, waiting on the tables with a pretty little red and white apron tied around his waist! Young Coup Make Pottexy. G By Novel Use Of Chemicals California abounds in c-" annist$, some nationally known, many amateurs and hobbyists, but it is safe to say that Jane and Jack Brinker of San Francisco are the only newcomers in the field whose pottery is so different that it actually is made ",backwards." The Brinkers, young and attrac. five ex-Hollywoodians (they work- ed behind, not before. the cameras), left the cinema world for the cera. mics world only two and one-half years ago. They are now turning out unusually glazed vases, lamp bases, plant folder's, decorative platters, tiles, and magnesite table tops which do not require kiln -fir- ing. Their heatless pottery is hard- ened and glazed by a chemical pro- cess which has never been patented and is known to only a few stu- dents of the artist who taught the San Francisco couple. Their tutor was the late Henry Albright of Glenmont, New York, a friend of Jack's father. Mr. Al- bright's portrait of Grover Cleve- land is in the White House. he made the bronze plagues on the "Freedom Train," and his work is in other national institutions. Chemical Hardened Clay At his eastern studio, he devel- oped the chemical process of hard- ening clay and glaze, but never did anything with it commercially because it takes more time than fired pottery. Each piece must be fashioned by hand, not thrown on a wheel or cast as slip in a mold, In the baseiuciit of their home, Jane and Jack have worked every hour not needed for sleep and meals to perfect their product and develop new marketing possibilities for it, Until recent months when an agent took over their business contracts, they preferred home and work, rather around to buyers. Consequently they've had a ra- ther lean time of it financially, for they started with no capital, But now they know what they can do, and it's beginning to make buyers look twice. . In comprehending how this fire- less pottery is made, one must reverse every step in the usual ceramics manufacture,: First the Brinkers scour all types of printing and paint suppliers for their dry pigment with which they mix glazes. They use simple tools such as a the size of a lamp or vase sides, or in irregular pieces to curve over a shallow bowl; and the' glaze is crackled by hand. The glaze strips are placed next to the mold, the color facing. the mold. Then the chemicalized clay is modeled onto the glaze, and the entire piece is sealed with clay along the seams. They use simple tool such as a flat baby spoon on a long handle or flexible ten -cent -store knives. to stay than go Little Boy Blew -Rehearsing for a sidewalk Symphony Concert to be staged by youngsters at t h e Williamsburg Settlement House, is nine-year-old Charles Liotta. The event for which the youngster is getting in some heavy lung exercise is the launching of a drive for music school funds. aze A typical cel'amic piece is hard enough to remove from the mold in eight to fifteen hours, but must set for two weeks before the cheat- lcalization bas knit together and completely hardened the clay and glaze. "Our things are as durable m normal usage as fired pottery," they explain, "but over a long period - say 100 years of being buried in the earth -ours would not hold together as perfectly as vitrified china, Our dishes can't be used for cooking, and because of the joined pieces of glaze they are not practical for dinner ware, either. Our platters are for hors d'oeuvres and buffet uses," The Brinkers are primarily inter- ested in the decorative values of their ware, and they have made several designs for coffee table tops, In such large objects, they apply ,the glaze in hundreds of•separate piece, like a ,jigsaw puzzle. The pieces may be fitted closely in an intricate, jewel-like pattern, or they may be outlined bodly its the Florentine "intarsia" method. Pieces done in tl.is manner have the effect of mosaic. Also in the decorative lune, they look forward to making fireplace tiles or an entire wail in ceramie, , design. Jack is working out a war of painting on the glaze with i: brush. so that a tile mural may be achieved almost as directly as mural painting. His first experi- ment, a gaily -colored clown por- trait which looks at first glance like a tempera painting, hangs over the fireplace. ,RELIEVED 114 P JIFF And the RELIEF IS LASTING For fast, prolonged relief from headache get INSTANTINE. This prescription -like tablet contains not just one, but three proven medical ingredients that ease the pain fast. And the relief is, in most cases, lasting, Try INSTANTINE just once for pain relief and you'll say as thousands do that there's one thing, for headache ...it's INSTANTINEI And try INSTANTINE for other aches, too ... for neuritic or neuralgic pain ... or for the pains and aches that accompany a cold. A single tablet usually brings prompt relief. Get Instantine today and always keep it handy ltistantlne 12 -Tablet Tin 25¢ Economical 48-lablet Bottle 7ltt • Upsidedown to Prevent Peeking a a 3 N O d a a a v 8 n N 0 3 El 21 3 '10a^ 30:,:,,1 'Z -1 3 .1. 7 9 N t✓ 3d0 Baa N d .l, ISSUE 44 -- 1951 New Souvenir Stamp