Zurich Herald, 1951-08-09, Page 2"Dear Anne .Hirst: I spear: to
those of your women readers who
are tempted to marry a younger
man. When I was 34, I married a
boy of 20 to get rid of ;f fiance
l3 , who was boring
me. I should
have k 11 o V. n
better!
"Now I am
65, he is 51.
We have two
children (neither
of whom 1
wanted) who
are married
now.
My husband was very affectionate,
I was cold. We found no happi-
ness together.
"Soon after our marriage, my
young husband started stepping
out. He has continued it through
the years.
"Now he is desperately in love
with a woman a dozen years
younger, From what I hear, she is
beautiful, and she worships him.
Thy are seen everywhere together.
I hardly ever see hint.
"She has married chi 1 d r e n,
whom, as a widow, site brought up
alone. They are her grandchildren,
and, 1 hear. •idolize her
"I "calf her navies, to make )tint
think I care. I really don't. It
would only be a satisfaction to me
to break then( ul>, es l i,rake up
my engagement!
"My husband gives me a good
home, takes care of me (as a duty)
as though I were his mother. There
is nothing more between us.
"What is ni_v life to be now?
S. M."
* 1 understand allow bitter you
* feel knowing that your husband
Good Skate - Sixteen -year-old
chosen Roller Skating Queen of
America at the opening of the
Roller Skating Championships.
She won the right to represent
her territory by defeating a
field of• 20 other girls in a
contest in Vancouver, B.C.
* is happier with sunlenile else.
* Yet whose fault is it?
* From the very first, you cheated
* him. To get rid of another man,
* you encouraged him falsely, led
'i' him to believe you loved hint--
* when even then you must have
* known you two were not cotnpurt-
* /bit spiritually, temperamentally,
* or physically. You used him, an
* unsuspecting youngster cruelly,
* for your own ends.
* When he found you out, he
* sought companionship' away
* from home. (I am not defending
his infidelities, 1 am trying to
explain t h e Floundering
about for so long, finally he has
found a good woman who seems
the answer to all he missed at
house.
Will you sink so loth as to deny
flim this?
You are no longer a young wo-
man -yet you have years of life
* ahead of you. Will you spend
* them clutching to your breast the
empty reward of revenge-
* Or will you offer' these two the
* happiness which you yourself
* (or your husband) never knew?
* It would help compensate for
'' alt the misery you both suffered
* in a marriage which should never
* have been.
* Believe rete, there is no deeper
* satisfaction than to retake other
* people happy. The instrument
* lies in your own hands. I£ you
* use it nobly what peace your
* soul will know through alt the
* years to come!
"Do unto others" is the best
(and sometimes the hardest) rule
to live by. If you have known dis-
appointment or tragedy, don't take
it out on. others. Let Anne Hirst
remind you how it pays to prac-
tice the Golden Rule. Write her at
Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New
Toronto, Ont,
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THE CHRISTIAN'S USE OF
MONEY AND GOODS.
Matt. 24:14-30; Acts 2:43-47:
19:23-41.
Memory Selection: Therefore all
things whatsoever ye would that
men should do to you, do ye even
so to them; for this is the law
and the prophets. -Matt. 7:12.
John 1,4Te ley said, "Make all you
can, save all you can, give all you
can." Iu a remarkable way he
fulfilled his own dictum. But
"make alt you can" trust be car-
ried out in• keeping with the New
Testament principles. Demetrius
opposed the gospel in Ephesus be-
cause he and his craftsmen who
were retaking silver images of Di-
ana, were losing prospective buy-
ers. Itis true today that the trans-
formation of men and women by
the saving power of the gospel of
Jesus Christ is hard on some busi-
nesses. But such businesses 'ought
to be closers and their sponsors
turn to that which will aid rather
then check the moral advancement
of the people. It is sad that so
many are retaking profit out of the
spiritual and moral deterioration of
their fellow -men. How can such
people be happy? Wealth does not
make happiness.
A storekeeper was opposed to a
revival effort in his town, How-
ever, soon sten were coming in and
paying accounts of years' stand-
ing. They had been changed and
were undertaking to pay their just
debts. The storekeeper no longer
opposed the effort but hoped other
lives would be changed also. -
We are responsible to God for
all that we are and have. To bury
our talent is to incur God's wrath.
We must ire what we have and
be used for the glory of God and
the good of otir fellow -men. Thus
we will fuifiii the golden retic. Life
is only worthwhile as we carry out
Croft's mission. That is tl.e nay
al hapjiine• ..
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Mother -"What did your father
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Son -"Shall 1. leave out the swear
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' CM2-TV3.01-tnR, P Ctecolke
Like the sundial, it will make
better reading for this column if
I only count the hours 'serene,
otherwise it plight read like a chap-
ter of woe, what with storms,
power and telephone interruptions,
wet weather, and our work and
worry trying to get the hay into
the barn, between the terrific
storms and the heavy rains which
carne along every other day last
week. It was with heart -felt relief
that we saw the last load of baled
hay go into the mow Saturday
night just as overhanging clouds
treated us to another deluge.
Now it is Monday morning -the
beginning of a new week, with all
last week's trouble behind us. Some
of our young friends have just left
for their various destinations after
spending the week -end with us.
Yesterday we had a lovely drive
and saw a few beauty 'spots that
I have always wanted to visit. We
never get very far from )some its
our own car as my limit for driv-
ing is within a 30 -mile radius. After
that it ceases to be a pleasure.
Our first stop was the Dundas
Look -Out. The view was certainly
worth the trip. From the Look -
Out one had almost an aerial view
of the valley below. Houses, cars
and people appeared, as it were, in
a miniature, scenic panorama. such
as one often sees at the Exhibition.
The day was marvellously clear so
we were able to see for miles and
miles and could .quite easily distin-
guish various buildings in the Ham-
ilton area.
Leaving' the Look -Out we con-
tinued on our way along a winding
road -on one side a jagged lime-
stone bank, on the other a ravine,
In early days this road must surely
have been an Indian trail - it had
more twists and turns than a snake -
rail fence.
Our next stop was MacMaster
University in Hamilton. The form-
al gardens were a striking contrast
to the wild, rugged beauty of Dun-
das. There was dignity and beauty
in the University gardens which
was entirely in keeping with the
stately architecture itself .. - it re-
minded me a little of some of the
colleges in Cambridge.
We paid a brief visit to the Rock
Gardens. It didn't take me long
to decide that the best time to visit
the Roc): Gardens is in late spring.
Of course it has its summer beauty
but there isn't as much colour now
as one finds in the spring. True,
flower -beds along the walks were
gay with colour, as were the lily -
pools, but there were very few
plants in bloom among the steep,
terraced rocks. In spring flowers
of every hue fill every crack and
crevice of the rocks.
Our next stop was Lowville
Park, This 1 was anxious to see
as it is a project for which the
Federation of Agriculture has been
responsible, with the idea of pro-
viding a recreation centre and pic-
nic grounds for local farm organi-
zations. It is a trcll-chosen site.
A tree -shaded stream of water as
clear as crystal insures safe pad-
dling and swimming for young-
sters. There are also wings and
slides, and a building specially con-
structed for convenience as a re-
freshment booth when required.
There is also plenty of parking
space and a flood -lighted baseball
diamond.
Apparently other countries have
also carried out experiments along
this line. It has been felt in some
cases that city folk have a wide
choice in amusement centres but
that very few parks are available
for country people in their own
communities, The question is, how
much use will the country folk
of the parks if, and when, they have
them? Country folk have a Way
ORSM 4 ()INE .
1 Horse On Congress -•-•Samuel Rosenberg, Washington, restani
rant owner, is angry because Congress failed to uphold pric
:ontrols on cattle. He expressed his displeasure by offering meat "filly mignons" to members of the "horsemeat Congre
of drifting towards the cities for
pleasure just as they do for jobs,
And that reminds ire of an edi-
torial which appeared last week in
the Globe and Mail. It was called.
"Warning from Australia." Briefly,
Australia's population is rising,•I-Ier
food production is not. Instead ofi` "
exporting food site may soon have
to import it. And the basic cause
is because people don't want to
work on the land - they prefer in-
dustry's high wages and short
hours. Farm labor, skilled or un-
skilled, can hardly be bad at any
price. The farmer there, as here,
reacts accordingly. He cannot, go
on a 40 -hour week , the cows
won't let him. His only way out
is low production, that is if he
cannot afford high priced machin-
ery. "And who. can blame hitni'
'Why should . people getting 1951
wages expect butter and cheese at
1939 prices? Why should people
working on a five-day level expect
farmers to produce on a seven-day
level?" Why, indeed? We, too,
would like the answer to that ques-
tion. Last year Canada imported.
butter from New Zealand . it
may have been the thin edge of
the wedge. Many thinking farmers
have already seen the writing on
the wall and realize that agricul••
ture is facing greater difficulties.
now than at any time in its his-
tory.
'We Wright well "take warning
from Australia,"
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