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"Dear Anne Hirst; I expect
;pity problem is not a o<fmmon.
One, but if the experience I had
helps other girls, then this letter
will be worth writing, . I'd
known this young man a 'long
time, but only last year did we
realize we loved each ether, He
asked me to go steady and I con
rented, but soon I braise up with
him. He was'hurt. . It was
goon afterward that I realized
haw dearly I loved him, and I
still do.
"I think he still cares for me;
every time I go to a party or a
dance he is there, and watohes
me constantly, I think he's afraid
of being hurt again, and I believe
he would wait quite a while be-
fore dating me, if ever.
"How can I make him under-
stand that I would never, never
hurt him again? I do so want him
back! EVEI,YN"
]HONEST CONFESSION
" When one has done some-
* thing she regrets, there is no
* balm like confessing it; if she
* does not, she harbors a son-
• tinuous feeling of guilt that
* is destructive. Where the heart
* is concerned, the need be-
* comes imperative. I hope you
* will not allow pride to delay
* admitting how wrong you
* were.
▪ Don't, however, believe that
* the boy's watching you during
* an evening means he is still
* interested; he may be con-
* gratulating himself that he
* escaped from a girl who did
*, not keep her word. No matter
* how he responds, though, your
* mind should be relieved. You
* have made the gracious gesture
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LOVELY — Miss America, Mary
Ann Mobley, models a cotton
satin short evening dress. Bows
are of the same material. Gown
has a scoop neckline, three-
quarter sleeves and a large
bow set vertically at the waist
• and given him the opportunity
* to be as generous. If he is not
* inclined to be, that is his re-
* aponsibility and you will have
* to accept it as final.
* One suggestion: You need not
* grovel in your letter, and cer-
tainly say nothing of your hope
* that he will want to date you
* steady again.
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A DESERTER
"Dear Anne Hirst: Some time
ago my husband left me and our
two children, and I'm going to
have another baby. Then he came
back and said it was all a mis-
take and he still loved me—and
and disappeared again for four
weeks!
"He is 26 years old. Isn't it
time he settled down?
"We've been married seven
years, and got along well until
he met another girl where he
works. I went to her mother and
told her what was going on—and
she said her daughter was a
Christian and wouldn't stoop to
such a thing! ...
"Do you think he will come
back and behave himself? -I have
never done anything to justify
such cruelty, and I am nearly
beside myself. WORN OUT"
* This situation is a grave one,
* and your family should handle
* it for you. Your father (or
* some other male member),
* should try to bring this hus-
* band of yours to his senses,
* and also ascertain grounds you `
* may have for divorce if that
* must come. I hope you will he
* properly taken care of in the
* meantime.
a * *
If you have hurt someone, de-
liberately or not, lose no time in
apoligizing. That is a mark of
breeding which none of us can
afford to overlook. In any
time of indecision, ask Anne
Hirst's opinion. Address her at
Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New
Toronto, Ont.
How Britons
Rule The Waves
Passengers riding channel
steamers between Dover and
Calais endure many rough pas-
sages across the twenty storm -
tossed miles that separate Eng-
land and France. However, in-
stallation of a pneumatic break-
water in Dover Harbour, de-
signed to reduce wave heights
in rough weather, makes ship
handling easier and at least the
start and conclusion of a trip
more comfortable for both pas-
sengers and crew.
The pneumatic breakwater is '
°OOPS --Mrs. Richard Vander Veer displays her design for a
flog that incorporates a 49th star for Alaska. Unwittingly; she.
aslso anticipated statehood for Hawaii. Count the number
of stars,
a device which releases, coni -
pressed air et the bottom of the
sea from air distributors Mould-
ed from polythene. The cam
pressed air risesto the surface
intermittently in large bubbles,
creatinglocal turbulence in the
water,, This turbulence interrupts
normal wave action because the
air bubbles distort the 'harmonic
action of oncoming waves. Thus
regular wave motion is convert-
ed into random turbulence,'
It has taken forty yearsto
develop a satisfactory method of
controlling waves. First attempts
centred around creating a wall
of air bubbles; however,. the
large amount of power required
to generate a complete barrier
proved prohibitively expensive.
The breakwater consists of
polythene air distributors mount-
ed on strips of railroad track,
forty -five , feet long weighing
ninety pounds a yard, which are
stabilized on the sea-bed with
two railroad ties, There are
thirty-seven sections in •the
breakwater. Each air distributor
is connected to a small under-
water manifold on one of the
ties with 1/2" polythene pipe. The
small, underwater manifolds are
connected to a main manifold and
six 500 c.f.m. air compressors, on
shore, with 11/2" polythene pipe.
The system, installed on a
trial basis in September 1956,
aims to reduce wave height by
fifty percent, which corresponds
to a loss of three quarters of the
waves' original energy, This
fifty percent reduction permits
safe entry into the harbour in
rough weather and facilitates
ship handling at the jetties. The
installation has been under ob-
servation for two years and in
that time no adverse effects due
to submersion or weather have
been detected. The strength and
durability of the installation is
further attested to by the fact
that over 1,500 ships have steam=
ed over this installation at an
average of eight knots, with only
ten feet of clearance at low tide,
and no damage has resulted.—
From "Plastics Sphere."
Will The Duke
Ride An Elephant?
India is preparing a warm
welcome for the Duke of Edin-
burgh when he goes there next
year. He will arrive in New
Delhi in January to attend the
Indian science congress and will
be received with State honours.
Later the Duke will tour centres
of scientific and industrial in-
terest.
One of the most spectacular
of all royal visits to India was
that made by the late King
George V and Queen Mary. They
went to meet the Princes of
India at the Delhi Durbar of 1911.'
Queen Mary sat in a carriage
beneath a great gold fan and
gold and crimson umbrella held
by Indian attendants. King
George was on horseback, diess-
ed in the uniform of a Field
Marshal.
Many Indians expressed disap-
pointment that the King did not
ride on an elephant during the
State precession that followed
and hope that the Duke will
amend matters. When the
Princes came to pay homage to
the royal visitors, some bowed
over their swords, some threw
earth on their heads, some
spread out shawls over which
to make obeisance.
Drums crashed, guns were
fired, the National Anthem was
played ,and, wrote a reporter of
1911, "when the chief herald
proclaimed the King -Emperor's
greeting, the great assemblage
rose, swayed for a few moments
like a wide garden of multi-
coloured flowers, then stiffened
to attention.... The scene was
most moving ani megnificent."
Oraiv
Mothers! You could be re-
placed by a block of wood cover-
ed with sponge rubber and heat-
ed by a light bulb.
This revelation was made re-
cently to the American Pyscho-
logical Association by a psy-
chologist named Harlow, of the
University of Wisconsin
Dr. Harlow set up two' fake
mothers; one a: described, the
other being made only front
wire screen. Both were warmed,
both contained a gadget that
gave. milk. Subjects were a group
of baby monkeys.
One and all, the monkeys pre-
ferred the mother they could
cuddle up to, even when she
didn't give .milk and the wire
mother did. Dr. Harlow takes
this to indicate that a baby's
love for his mother does not de-
pend on the fact that she feeds
him — but rather because sbe
supplies comfort and security by
contact.
Johnny had been caught telling
a fib. "How do you expect to get
to Heaven?" asked his mother.
The boy thought for a moment
and then said: "Well, I'll just
run in and out and in and out
and keep slamming the door till
they say, 'For goodness sake,
come in or stay out: Then I'll
go in."
MEM 3 — 1959
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For you it is all over; for us
there are three more days to go.
To Christmas, I mean. And we
hope to the end of the deep
freeze. My, but it's been a long
cold spell. Ten below here for
four consecutive mornings—and
the furnace pumping oil all the
time. That didn't worry us too
much ... we would have been
more worried had it not been
pumping. Sunday morning we
saw a furnace repair truck at
one of our neighbours. It was
there quite a while and I hate
to think of what. that, or any'
other house would be like with
the furnace off for a couple of
hours. And it bothers us to think
of old friends and neighbours on
the various farms --at turkey -
picking bees and how cold the
pickers would be; of breaking
ice on the creels and drawing
water for stock; of having to go.
to town for supplies and finding
the car wouldn't start—and the
nearest garage two or three miles
away. And we remember other
friends too °Vvho have a child in
a hospital -school many miles away
and they must make the long
drive to get her all in one day
so that she may spend the
Christmas holidays with them.
So it just seems impossible to
sit back and be selfishly com-
fortable when we know others
have so many problems to con-
tend with—many of which we
know about from personal ex-
perience in years gone by.
But now would you like to
know something of our pre-holi,
day arrangements,which natur-
ally go back quite a. few weeks.
I was determined that somehow
I would avoid as fa. as possible
that hectic "so -much -to-do" sort
of feeling. So, early in Decem-
ber I made my Christmas pud-
dings—five of them, plus a small
extra for sampling. Then I. went
to work on our Christmas cards
and had most of them out of the ,
way by the end of the second
week, including a number of
letters. And do you know, for the
first time in years I enjoyed the
job. I had time to look over the
cards and pick out the ones I
thought most suitable for those
to whom they were sent. Daugh-
ter thought I was crazy sending
them so soon' but I still think
it was a good idea especially as
I put our new address on mast of
the cards. Not because I wanted
to make sure of getting cards
-back but to save those who
wished to send the trouble of. •
hunting or inquiring our exact
whereabouts. Christmas decora-
tions we left until a week before
Christmas. We decided not to
have a tree as we would be away
on "the, Big,Day.""Instead we
put a gay- wreath on the front
door and decorated the big liv-
ing -room .window, This we did
by using evergreens, Christmas
trimmings and lights.' For a table
centre -piece I used a fairly large
aluminum tray, spread withcot-
ton•batting, sprinkled with small
icicles, tiny coloured balls and
fir cones. A bit of green here
and there and a couple of rein-
deer 'nibbling at the shrubbery,
At one corner of the tiny I had
a small Christmas tree in a red
flowerpot trimmed with little
coloured glass balls. It was really
quite effective .and' being on a
tray could be easily removed
for table setting as it was too
big for meal -time occasions.
Even so, I was far from s.,' Bed
with our decorations, They were
pretty but a lot'or work and 100
much of a fire haxald. Etergreens:
dry out so quickly. Next year,
all being well, we have other,
plans.
This is the conclusion we have
come to. The Christmas tree is
a tradition, Children look for it
and we do too. But as our grand-
children mostly celebrate Christ-
mas in their own homes we feel
that all we now need is a sym-
bol. So—no more evergreens in
the house, dropping needles a
week before and for two weeks
afterwards, making a lot of un-
necessary work. Next Christmas
we'll have a Christmas tree out-
side, set into one of the planters
in the front ofthe house and
trimmed with twinkley on -and -
off lights. Indoors our decorations
will be restricted to a gay .centre-
piece and a display of Christmas
cards , those lovely, lovely
cards! The result, we hope, will
be just as effective but.less tir-
ing and far less hazardous. Or
do.I just think that because an
outside tree will be Partner's
job?! ! An inside tree, except
for putting it up, I look upon as
my job; just as -we naturally di-
vide our small chores in work-
ing.for our grandchildren. I do
the sewing and knitting but in
December Partner spent hours
and hours making a barn for.
Dave and Eddie to put their
"animals" in. There was a di-
vision down the centre to avoid
arguments and sliding doors on
each side to let the animal's in
and out. It was quite a barn. Put
many were the exclamations I
heard coming up from below
stairs as Partner's stiff fingers
worked with the tiny, headless,
half-inch finishing nails!
It was the firm's stag dance.
The new cashier had chosen a
very attractive partner.
"By the way," he said, as they '
danced. "I'm glad our manager
isn't here to -night He's about
the biggest ass I know."
"Young man," snapped his
partner angrily, "da you know
who I am?"
"Not the faintest idea.'
"Well, I'm the manager's
wife," she said.
"Do you know who I am?"
asked the young man.
"Thank goodness frog that," he
replied', as he hurried away.
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ACTING CATTY—Striking a menacing pose, :French ballerina
Collette Marchand puts feeling into her role as a ferocious
"leopard woman". She has returned to the Paris stage after a
long absence to appear in a ballet caller,.! "`"rust Island",