The Seaforth News, 1950-02-16, Page 6More
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°'DEAR ANNE. HIRST: Perhaps
any problem is an old one, but it is
heartbreakingly tragic just the same.
My husband drinks, and when he
does he is brutal
to- me, even
striking me be-
fore the children
and using un-
printable langu-
age.
'1 have tried
to he patient,
hoping he would
some day realize
how this is is affecting the girls.
When he comes honte drunk, the
oldest one cries, and begs me to
leave ihm ... I have petted him, and
humored him—when 1 felt like hav-
ing hint jailed. (He scoffs at Alco-
holics Anonymous).
"Ile has never taken the children
tan) where, even to school functions
. I have tried to bring them up
properly, but hots can I, when he
goes on like this? We've been mar-
ried 14 years; and I love him dearly,
and want us to stay together, especi-
ally because of our family, When he
is sober, he says he loves me too.
GO HOME?
"I would be welcome back home
with the children to live with my
parents,ebut I'm not sure enough. He
doesn't think 1 ever would leave
him.
"I don't feel I- can overlook all
this any longer, I'm at the end of my
patience, Help me!
"DESPERATE."
* No mater how you love your
* husband, how loath you are to
* leave him, the welfare of the child-
* ren should be your first consider-
* ation. Living day after day its
* in anxiety and fear, these girls are
* under a nervous strain which must
* inevitably affect their healthy de-
* veloptneut, as it must also give
* then a distorted picture of mar-
* riage. As their mother — really
* their only responsible parent—
* you cannot allow them to con-
* time to witness the recurring bru-
* tal scenes which their father eau-
* ses.
* Tell your husband that the
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* nest time he comes home intoxi-
* cated, you intend to take the child-
* ren and go home to your parents.
*- It is your last warning.
* He will not believe you, I ex-
* pect, and you may have to leave,
* physically, before he realizes that
* lie has driven you all away. (Pre-
* pare your parents for your coin-
* lag.) Not all your pleas and ar-
* guments have fazed hint, He must
* it seems, he met with the fact
* that he is alone.
* He will undoubtedly try to per-
* suade you to return, making all
* kinds of promises. Be firm, and
* convince hint that he must prove,
* and for a reasonable length of
* time, that helms stopped drinking
* at all, before you will consider
* consider coming house again.
* This really may make him for-
* swear alcohol entirely, So before
* you start divorce proceedings, give
* him this last chance,
When divorce must be consi-
dered, it is the children's welfare
that should come first. If you
are threatened with this decision,
let Anne Hirst's wisdom help
you make it, Address her at Box
1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor-
onto.
Modern Etiquette
By Roberta Lee
Q. Is it now considered proper
for one to light one's own cigar-
ette before that of a companion,
so as to avoid the taste of sulphur
In that person's cigarette?
A. No; this taste is in evidence
only during the first flaring of the
match. Light your match, and if
you wish, wait just a second before
applying it to your friend's cigar-
ette—then light your own. ... ...
Q, If a woman is wearing a cor-
sage pinned on her coat when
entering a restaurant, what does
she do with it?
A, She takes it off and pine it
on her dress where it will show
off to much better advantage.
Q. Is it proper to have ushers,
when having no bridesmaids, at a
church wedding where about 100
guests are expected?
A. This is not only proper, but
necessary.
Q. How does a young married
woman introduce her mother to
another person?
A She must be sure to give her
mother's name, saying. "This is
my mother, Mrs. Jones," so that
the other person will know what
M call her in speaking to her.
Q. What refreshments should be
served at a reception that follows
the christening of a child?
A. The menu is the usual one
for an afternoon informal tea, with
refreshments served in buffet style.
Berlin Brightens Up A Bit—The Berlin man -in -tile -street, long
accustomed to Russians and rations, got an unexpected treat
when a fashion stoke its the British sector hired live models tb
advertise its new stock of nylon hosiery,
fIINDAY SCHOOL
Jssoy
By The Rev. R. Barclay Warren
THE FIGHT FOR CHRISTIAN
FREEDOM
Acts 15: 1-6, 22-29; Gal. 2: 16
Golden Text: Stand fast therefore
in the liberty wherewith Christ hath
made us free, and be not, entangled
again with the yoke of bondage--.
Gal. 5:1,
What we learn in childhood,
sticks. The customs of childhood
tend to gather a halo about them,
which in later life we come to re-
vere, So, with many of the Jews
who became Christians, it was diffi-
cult to turn aside from the ceremon-
ial laws of Moses. Paul was a
notable exception. He saw with per-
fect clearness the relation of the
law to the gospel of Christ. To the
Galatians who were beginning to
trust in their works to save then, he
wrote, "Before faith came, we were
kept under the law, shut up unto
the faith which should afterwards
be revealed, Wherefore the law was
our schoolmaster to bring us unto
Christ, that we night be justified
by faith. But after that faith is
come, we are no longer under the
schoolmaster," Gal. 3: 23-25,
Once Sadhu Sunder Singh enter-
ed into conversation with a Hindu
"holy -man" lying on a bed of
spikes. For eighteen months the
Hindu had been torturing his body
that he night crush the desires of
self. He admitted, "I have not yet
gained my Object, nor is it possible
to do so in so short a time. Malty
years, and indeed many births, will
be necessary to accomplish it." Sun-
der Singh reasoned -with hint and
testified as to how he had found
deliverance and peace in an instant,
but the other man replied, " I can
never admit that salvation can be
obtained as a gift, and in one short
life."
We can do nothing to merit salva-
tion. Joining the church, paying
money, trying to live a moral life;
none of these will bring God's peace
to the soul. We are saved by faith
and faith alone, It is not what we
can do but faith in what Jesus has
done.
"Jesus paid it all, All to Him I
owe—
Sin has left a crimson stain, He
washed it white as snow."
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RONTC4--LES
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We had a houseful again this
week -end and the fun and chatter
that went on was a welcome change
from a week of considering prob.
lens that were concerned only with
falling farm prices and the eccen-
tricities of the weather.
Daughter was home and in great
forum—quite well pleased with her
housing venture, but still wondering -
how sire can cope with the various
things that need to be done—all of
which cost money. But, as she says,
even if she doesn't make a fortune,
at least she has a comfortable home.
The young couple, friends of
Daughter's, who occupy the ground
floor rooms have been helping with
some of the decorating.
"Just wait until you see my
Babble Room," says Daughter, "It's
sw'ell."
"Rubble Room," 1 echoed in be-
wildered surprise.
"Yes, that's what we call it,"
laughed Daughter. "You see, we got
a bargain price on some real good
wallpaper but when it came to put-
ting it on, it was so heavy that it
woulcht't !told the paste properly.
So, because of the various places
where the paper didn't stick, the
called it 'The Bubble Roost„'
Electric wiring has been another
of her worries. The house, being
old, has insufficient circuits. "So,"
said Daughter, "until I discovered
the trouble, we spent most of our
time blowing fuses." Partner has
already nicknamed her "the Land-
lady" and before starting back on
her trip to Toronto yesterday,
Daughter proved tate title was well
deserved. It so happened the wind
had got up, and it was also getting
quite a bit colder, "Olm, the dicker^t"
says Daughter, as an extra hciy
gust hit our house, "I hope that
wind dies down—it's going to be
hard on my oil furnace!" What a
lot more interest a person takes in
the most ordinary everyday affairs
of life, if he, or she, has to foot the
-
bill!
Joy was also here and her big
worry was making out an annual
report to the Board regarding her
nursing activities—and anyone who
has dealt with annual reports knows
whal a hetultu'he they can be.
"Chen 'Johnny t.;,nip in for Sunday
dinner and. his hitt pruhlein was
whetha' of not to head for the West
again in time for storing seeding.
Partner and I have our problems
too --major and minor. '11* trouble
is one cannot always be stu'e which
are major and which are minor,
Minor problems very easily hemline
major, whereas it is possible that
major problems have Leconte major
only because we are all at little in -
01410 to make mountains out of
molehills. Now if the typesetter gets
all that straight, I hope you can
figure out what I mean,
I imagine quite a lot of mountains
and Molehills will be given an air-
ing at the annual meeting of the
Federation of Agriculture being -
held its Niagara Faalls this week.
Apropos of that gathering, I like the
headline to Lotta Dempsey's column
today—"You can't tell an editor
from a farmer at the Falls."
After all, what, does au editor',
or a farmer, look like?' I am not
going to stilt my neck out by giv-
ing you my idea of a typical editor,
but I do know that some folks' idea
of a typical farther is a man in
overalls, pant legs rolled over rub-
ber boots; wearing a smock or
windbreaker; cap pulled down over
his ears and a beard admittedly a
little ou the fuzzy side. Yes, and
you can find this- type in any small
town in an agricultural area, be-
cause naturally, each man must
dress according to his trade or pro-
fession. If the farmer had to shave
and change his clothes before going
to town. — and then change back
again before starting his chores or
going out to the field, then he would
sure lose a lot of time.
But when the farmer is through
WWI 104 Burk fol• ttu• day and iuV,
toads going out: or e':. , husittee*
or plc.:, sure takes him to the cityQ
then, as l.otfa 1Jclnpsev r'tys-•-r'1'Ott
can't tell 00 editor from 0 farntet"
--the editor also having sited hid
workday clothes, and [riven his ink
stained fingers a bit of extra scrub-
bing.
We ileed to be careful its our ase
of the word -"typical." I remember
getting into trouble once by saying
that ao unknown visitor had the ap-
pearance. of a "typical insurattee
agentl"
Many women are subject to weak,
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with the. liver, must filter out am,
purities from the bloodstream.
So if you feel tired, worn-out, head=
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