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The Seaforth News, 1954-06-10, Page 6/Van deeceiveil "ads! 47 TM 141RST /0/ au4011,40,0t Dear Anne Hirst: I've heard that only the perfect man is a woman's first husband, but I never dreamed it would happen to me. Six years ago, at 65, I married a widow 10 years younger. She is forever praising her deceased husband, hew won- derful he was and how much More he did for her than I do. It is getting me down. "She has reason to complain. I lost my health, and I cannot pro- vide for her as I hoped to do; I feel I'm a burden, and had bet- ter get out. I ani sure she doesn't Mere me at all, but though she is so unkind I still care a good deal for her. "Do you think we should divorce? Or what advice can you give? DISTRESSED " During the years when you want security and domestic " peace, you are depressed by ill * health and the knowledge that * you are inadequate as a pro- " vider. The victim of a nagging * woman who descends to a of Tamale — Spicy, vivacious Urine Monteil keeps the boys south of the border from dwell- litiq too much on the charms of American movie actresses, cheap trick to keep you under ° her thumb, you live in turmoil, * I do not wonder you feel like * walking out. • Divorce is naturally your * first thought; but that id not "` easy to obtain, and it is costly. * You could probably prove * mental cruelty but that alone * would not be sufficient. * Would your wife rather you " leave her, or stay? She is ells- " appointed in her rnariage; she * thought she was to be taken " care of for the rest of her life. a' Instead, she finds herself on '" the supporting end, more or * less, and she resents it. She " may be deliberately driving " you to desperation so you will * leave; on the other hand, she * may be one of those creatures * who finds her one satisfaction * in berating and belittling you, and would be even more un- * happy living alone. • When you feel up to it, sug- * gest that she might be more * contented without you, and * tell her that her continual taunting you with failure is * making you so miserable you c would be glad to go. I think "' she will not hesitate to speak the truth. From all you write, * it does seem that she has lost * what affection she once had; " yet one would think she could * find some tenderness for a sick * man who has done the best he "' could. • Wouldn't you be happier lie- " ing with a congenial family? * Since you still have a small * income, that might be arrang- * ed. Put her to the test, settle * the future, and end this wear- * ing uncertainty. $ 4: One marries for better or for worse. U you are disappointed In your husband, remember your vows and try to keep them. Then, whatever happens, you need not reproach yourself. , . In tune of indecision, write to Anne Hirst, at B a x 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. WHAT A GIFT! "I'rn afraid, doctor," said Mrs. Brown, "that my husband has some terrible mental affliction. Sometimes I talk to him for hours and then discover"'that he hasn't heard a word." "That isn't an affliction madam," was the weary reply "That's a gift." JR COFFEE CAKES seThese toothsome Flaky Coffee Cakes are a sample of the superb results you get with new Fleisciunann's Active Dry Yeast! No more anxiety about yeast cakes that stale and weaken! Pleisclunann's Active Dry Yeast keeps full-strength, fast -acting without refrigeration —. get a month's supply! FLAKY COFFEE CAKES it Scald s,3 c. cream, 2 tbs.granu- lated sugar, 1 is r. salt ane 34 c. shortening; coot to lukewarm, Meanwhile, measure into a large bowl 1/2 c, lukewarm water 1 tsp. Itranulatcd sugar; stir until sugar n dissolved. Sprinkle with 1 en- velope FIeisclnuann's Active Dry Yeast. Let stand 10 minutes, THEN stir well. Add cooled cream mixture and stir in 3 well -beaten eggs. Stir in 2 c, once -sifted bread flour; beat until smooth. Work in 23/2 c. (abont) once -sifted bread flour. Knead an lightly -floored board until smooth and elastic, place in greased bowl and arms: top of dough. Cover and set in a warns place, free from drangbi. Let rise until doubled in bulk. Mix ;q c. granulated sugar and 2 tsps, ground cinnamon; sprinkle hall of this mixture on baking hoard. Divide dough into 2 equal pen•. tions and turn out rine portion onto prepared hoard. Ro11 out into a 12" square; fold from hark to front and From one side to the other. Repeat rolling and folding 3 more times, flouting board lightly if it becomes melee seat edges of folded dough and place ina. greased 5" square cake pan and pat out to fit the pan; butter top lightly and press walnut halves well into the dough, Sprinkle remaining sugar and cinnamon mircttrce on board and treat second portion of dough same as first portion. Cover and let, rine until doubled in bulk. Bake in 0 modctate mien, 150s. 13 mine, while preparing the fol- lowing syrup; simmer togetfter for 5 mins., I r.. praenlated sugar, le tsps, grated orange rind, �w a. !urtrt or margarine and 1f C. Orange ,jaice, Qu,ckly peer tint syrup over the'e partially -baked cakes and bake cakes about 15 mitts, longer, Stand baked rakes on rake coolers for 20 minutes, then loosen edges and gently Shake from pans. Sommer Sweaters with a soft touch that moths won't touch be- cause they are knitted of "Orlon" acrylic fibre. Twin -set at right consists of cardigan with wide ribbed revere effect worn over o short sleeved pullover with a self -braid collar. Ribbed neckline of pullover at left is carried down to form decorative pockets. All sweaters dry to shape without coaxing. H.ICLw. wiS 40, ERM Last week I was telling you about the. Officers Conference at Guelph but I forgot to tell you that at these W,I, affairs I- so often meet readers of this col- umn -- different ones from time to time. One reader I was tent- ing with last week cane from near Ottawa and I was so amused at this little story she told me. One day last fall a neighbour phoned her and said -- "Well, it's come! "What's come?" was the obvious ques- tion. "The baby, of course. Haven't you read "Ginger Farm" yet?" So David's arrival seems to have been quite an event to others besides his immediate family, And then 1 always get this •- "Let's hear more about your grandson —• you don't say half enough." Well . . I never expected you folks to -be so in- terested. But you asked for it, so here goes -- sorry I couldn't work it in last week, 11 was Mother's Day and Part- ner and I were just going to sit down alone Bob and Joy, we knew, had gone to Niagara, and we didn't expect the Toronto folks. Then a car drove in. Out of it came Dee, Arthur, David and two friends, Bill and June — plus part of the baby's buggy, bottles, baby t o o d, diapers, nightie, shawls and blankets, Cigars for Partner, chocolates for me and cooked ham for sup- per. After the exeltereenl had died down and David had been fuss- ed over and admired then Daughter told Grandpa with great glee -- "Gook, Dacl - David's got something 3 o 0 haven't got!" "All right," ,. id Partner, "so what? fie may ht ve a couple of teeth but I've got more hair than he leas anyway!" David has also put on a few pounds -- twenty pounds at six and a half months ... and yet he isn't fat. The poor unite was tired and fretful for awhile — much to his mother's . disgust But, rusted and fed, 11e was ,soon laughing add cooing again chuckling with delight when- ever one of the doge came near hum. T1tes stayed until about eight o'clock se we saw David in all hie moods good, bad and indifferent. Daughter - also in- formed use that her troop of Brownie it r,crnptng out for a week -end in dol, They want her lA go with tbcmne so wuuld I like to have David for the week- end? Would I? 1 :shall be able to answer that question better later out 1t ie a long time since I lied ole charge of a baby but o t h e r f;raudrnOlhers c o m e theenge it all right so no doubt• I shall too. E;pt'cially as Arthtu' will he aloin as metal support. Well, the. weather pattern for last 'week was as per usual -- cold and wet - t'r.cs;pt the last two days of glorious sunshine. Noe at last we can hear the hem of t.rac•toro, and we know that on high land some fields have thus dy been sown That is fort made as we had really been wondering in how many bane fertilizer had been 511111ng around. slid how many bags of treated spring, grain was Wait- ing In by were, Fertilizer doestt't take kdail,y to a a long spell of damp weather and treated grain ie no use as feed for ehirkens i1 it should hap- pen that it can't be used for seeding. And yet ever since January, by press and radio, farmers have been urged to "or- der fertilizer now . . treat your grain early and be ready for the spring seeding rush." What rush — can you tell me? Now if the word 'rush" were used in cotmeciion with sub- division construction work we could understand, even though a rush job seems as inadvisable in building as it does on the land. Basements are scooped out. A heavy downpour of rain in- variably follows, and yet next thing we know cement is being pouried in. Didin't there used to be an idea that the earth had to 'settle" before 'cement was used? And isn't the term "solid brick house" a little misleading when the walls. are only two bricks thick? We just wonder how `solid" a modern solid brick house can be. Many of the older houses, some of them past the century nark, are from four to six bricks thick. Not that I would suggest modern houses should be four bricks thick. At the present level of construction costs that would mean even a five -room bungalow would run to about $40,000! And after all people seem to be quite happy with what they are getting --- convenient, compact dwelling units. And I don't think young couples need to worry too much. Times change so rapidly . people move around, so that a house very rarely becomes a permanent home. Something like the mad -hatter's teaparty and when the diners wanted a clean plate, they moved on. So it is with houses and home- owners. Speaking of moving around ... isn't it wonderful our Queen and h er family has arrived home safe and sound? I am sure we are all very much relieved, especially after the threat at Gibraltar. "Hot Dogs" Now On Sate in Spain American air power continues to grow. At the moment it occu- pies well over a thousand air bases. In Europe alone, GI. air- men strung out from East Anglia to Greece, muster a force 380,- 000 strong. In Saudi Arabia, bases lie strategically close to Russia's precious oilfields fringing Batum and Baku. The latest country to admit G.I, bomber crews and mainten- ance stalls in return for valu- able trading concessions, is Spain, Here G.I,'s are moving into four major bases and some subsidi- ary airfields. Spaniards view excitedly and w i t h commercial anticipations their new shirt -dangling, crew- cut guests. Palma's chief news- paper now runs a daily column in American speech. Shopkeepers are marketing their stocks in dol- lars. And American mineral wa- ter and rye whisky are already highly price d. Flashing -eyed senoritas know that the greeting "Hi-ya Bud" may be the pass- words to romance. On e Palma rale proprietor, anxious to cash in on this new "invasion," has posted a notice which says, "Welkum to our Amerikan Allies. Open till 5 0.153. 25 beautiful girls to choice. Beer and Stakes. Slot Dorgs too." U.S. air bases stretch to the farthest north. About the most inhospitable places lie in Alaska and the Aleutian .Islands, Maybe G!,1. language will be the • global tongue much sooner than Queen's English! This Mary Really Start t d`tr metii iii g There have been thousands of Mary Joneses in the world, but perhaps 111e most famous was the girl who, many yearsago, braved biting winds to tramp From her cottage home at Lien- flhangel, clamber over Ceder Idris's gaunt slopes, and on to Bala. There, with a few pennies in her pocket, saved through months of thrift, she sought out the Rev. Charles Thomas He, she'd heard, had copies of the Bible for sale. To buy one was her drab life's burning hope. He had none lefts- Her eftHer tears, flowing fest and un- checked, were his spur. As a result, this unknown Welsh pas- tor became instrumental in forming on March 7th, 160 years ago, the British and Foreign Bible Society, Since then, the Society has delivered hope and faith to millions in all contin- ents. To -day its agents distribute Bibles in 1,130 languages. And the world circulation of Bibles, a few hundreds a year in IVlary Jones's day, exceeds an annual figure now of twenty-three mil- lions, Grantee Of A Lifetime A small island off the coast of Mexico, San Benedicto, last year suffered a volcanic eruption that wiped out almost every vestige of life. But it has given botanists the chance of more than a life- time, In 1925 the University of Cali- fornia had made a full study of the vegetation on San Benedicto. Then there were eleven different species of plants covering the whole of the island including five-foot tall grasses. After the volcanic eruption, only two hun- dred plants in all were still liv- ing on the three -miles long island, and these represented only five of the eleven previous- ly thriving species. Now the natural process of re - vegetation can be studied. Will the shores be the first part of the island to grow green? 31 so, it will mean that seeds washed in by the sea are the main factor in bringing plant life to the island, But if higher land on hills and above the - cliffs become green again fust it will mean that wind and birds bring seeds more readily than the waves. After Billy's first day at se11004 his mother asked him how he got on. , "Fine," said Billy, "but tl don't think very mach of our teacher." "Why?" asked his mother. "Well, she asked me what one and one made and I had to tell her." Beginner«Easy! Protect a new chair—refresh a "tired" chair with this fan- shaped set! If you wish, use this pattern for a striking buffet set, Easy, jiffy to crochet! Chair -back, 12 x 18 inches; arm rest, 7 x 12 inches. Pattern 660: crochet directions, Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor - Onto, Ont. Print plainly PAT- TERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. Don't miss our Laura Wheeler 1954 Needlecraft Catalog! 79 em- broidery, crochet, color -transfer and embroidery patterns to send for — plus 4 complete patterns printed in book, Send 25 cents for your copy today! Ideas for gifts, bazaar sellers, fashions. S it R A 40'77 S E R 1 quart strawberries ief cup granulated sugar 4 tablespoons BENSON'S or CANADA Coni Starch 14 teaspoon salt • ti cup water 1 baked 9 -inch pie shell Whipped Cream WASH, drain and hull atrawb0rries2 cut In half. COMBINEsugar, BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch and salt M top of double boiler, ADD water slowly, mix until smoofir, ADD %a the sirewberrles, PLACE over boiling water and cook until thick (about d minutes), stir constantly. COVER, cook 10 minutes, stir occasionally, REMOVE from heat* cool. FOLD In remaining strawberries. POUR into pastry shell. CHILLI garnish with sweetened whipped cream) CANADA 'CORN !? . 'im_..tCH r" For free folder of other deltelous recipes, write tot Jane Ashley, Home Service Department, THE CANADA STARCH COMPANY ' LIMITED, P.O. Box 129, Montreal, P,Q. _a