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Clinton News Record, 1944-11-23, Page 7"'THli RS. NOV.>23rd 1944 FrOUSEH`OLD ECONOMICS THE :CLINTON NEWS -RECORD CARE c>F' C}TI)JY REN i'()iartil Nt : Fi ai:a'rH PACE 7 The Quality Tea LYING marry oc-a•irn4. T e te•c'''er h1r d to eorope'rate with the parents anti went to see tits Mother. After some coni ver .tion about the matter the Mother said, "That is 'strange, he does not lie to me, I ant very par- t:c eiax,about whst I say in front of hint. Then calling her little daughter she std.?, "Annie you go cut and tell John to •come in this minute. Annie went but in a few ininutes carne in without her brother, Baying "lie won't come.." Did you tell him whiz was here" said the mother. "No said Annie. "Well continued the Mother you go la k and tell hi grandma is' here and has some candy for him. 'That wi.l bring him in a hurry." Then we wonder that . children tell what is not tune. Then of course when a child finds that his father or mother tell what is not true it is not to ba wondered at that the boy or girl thinks it quite right to do the same thing. Then too, chil.Iren are frightened into malting untrue statements. There comes to mind an 'instance of my cltildhccol. I was sent on a mes- sage to a hoose a few doors down the 'street. I can still visualize that room. The table was partly set for the evening meal. The wood stove of the day was •buzniag merrily. The Mother was ,pre- a.ing the evening meal and behind the • stove on a bench sat the son of the hone, a boy Of some ' seven or eight years. He had done something which displeased' the Mother and I was informed that he was to sit there until his father came home' when he would receive a 'tinesaing and a good thr: skiing it would be. I have . never forgotten sorry orry I felt for that little boy. There was such a tragic look on his face, Was it any wonder that Iad grew up to tell one lie after another and was continually into trouble. The mother never seemed to be able to deal with Win herself, but had him continually sitt'ng waiting for i I I i I i i I 1 m Piz Mather .to coarse home to punish Him. In all probability he Many times ilea himself out of a whipping, There atchile:ren attending our schools who are afraid to take their work books home from szhool for they.' know that because they have al- 'leavednot e)tainei a high mark or have al - 'leaved .ome ether child to surpass ahem Gut they will receive a scold- ing or a punishment ' to same bink. They nuke the excuse that they have forgo.ten thea_ •Lacksand when asked how may mistakes they had in sreling they will. say "none" or 1 "one" where perhaps they have had !even seven cr ciglht. Mothers and 'fathers there are tines when you are practically fee ting, your son or daughter ,to lie. It is quite right to try to instill amb•tipn into your child's mind but not at the expense of teaching .them to be untruthful, 'and to learn a habitwhieb willper- liaps stick with them for the rest of 'their lives. Some of these cases are !indeed very pitiful. There are many instancea„of whetq ichildren' stave been brought back from a life of lying by a kind mother or a patient father.. So much more can be done to help chil;:ren by treating them kindly. What a tragic thing it is when a i � tt, By "PEG" t. What is a lie? -The Oxford I3ie- tionary tells us It -is -"an Intentional false statement'. If a.:child came to us and asked us what is a lie?, 1n -teary plain words viihat would we tell him. We could rightly say "A lie is making a statement which is not true." Then what is truth? It is a statement which will stand the r searching of God's word. Therefore a lie is some collection of words whiieh will go to pieces when measur- • ed by the word of God. It is below -the standard of what Christ taught " when on earth. Is there anything worse than a person, boy or girl, a man or a woman who tells lies? We may safely say that lying is at the back of all that is wrong. We, •• could go through. our penitentiaries and if given permis ion, alk each one of the inmates what they rem -1 •:ember as •the first thing which lad, them to go' down the broad road to •destruction. As they go back through i the years they wilt pass many things which they have done wrong until•at last they 'come to lying, This question of lying is a very' great problem in •any home where Children are being brought up, We at times hear parents say "Oh, I well, every child passes through the Ii stage of lying." Should we make the l statement that we have never told a lie. We might say that, 'but it would probably be the biggest lie the devil has ever prompted us to tell, for wet can everyone of us look back and find something we have said which was not true. Very often we hear, of children who in their tezi er years will lie. To whom can we attach the blame for that? In the majority of cases the rarents are to fault. Almost un- consciously parents themselves will in front of their children tell things, which are anything but the truth. For instance, a teacher found that ane of her ptipils was lying to her on 'tip. Cay . Bud . History tVay intoaBre Qlin! C-1 is ameek word that' C.72163 Ct multitude ofs f;.?ring only through profiting ht,.jpasf'tr1'i stulcr g...will we suffer lose! Remember how in the lost worffolks"hkew their money,. Needless spending i 'us .gid p 'ic s fs 05.3 ... so that by 1918,the CAU Lou Day today ov8rcost "'i. 5thp,ni while Ilubt�scost . p ' V"was51zon compared 'i'0 i3 similar a?' >mit at 8 r todeg. l ties was tnflot1oII on all too soon if was followed by fho hieVifable depression i r:,r r,,That: , why. q rour•goveznnllenf is dtilel'lllirerd to prevent inflation now— . wki titer e rtilro cal l'rn sandotheronti-inflo'iona'rq PreaSUP9S$ahal4thacas'iis'Flivin dawn and hop our:Ispat value high, And YOU help e<ovent sl lst'ure japvessfon anti iteeptpdY dollars high in value... every t•iine tpa rigs up : nzgtliess $ sort invest, your raoae wisely .gd avoid bla�l� '• '� '• .spending. Aetme idiGAL • / x,ry,,q� a Vii///.:�/',',.s;y/%�'/.`/�•'7%/ >, ,.. J .2r/^��.'�'d'� �; ;�/ >„fY�'�',��il�Yi'7'...`w iM. ;,,,.:, law I llnroticl?ic-'•ti uiVe o s r bt::pp ur. t to keeping tttre joss ofli4'rng. elc'wu, 1 will bay only what I` need. 1 % vyiili uiy'a,'ti e' the ceiling whether huyiieg ar' sell- ing gotcl?s Dr services. • 1 will par • off old: debt save' fcir' fl?in' fitn:utrr., it aveir. hr Victory Bonds' and War, Savings Certificates; And 11 will'stappall taaesiiJhzcic lcseijs lower the cost or thvit'c„+,'r�,,, 4 14 • 1'Fi'o tka. • v i`r. s,, t -. 1157ixy x stb�,.sti�,t' by T'.r.. BTtLVPIfQG� I>?.IhiJGLItSr (.Oi+:Tt'A-,lP@})r to help' reveat'the-elaneers that inflation, septVanins'file' ullitlh people• -of tac•rcatrotn 'bps? or glad grows to manhood or womanhood and the habit of lying st Il clings to the ti What a d eact- ful state it can bring into a home. It may he either parent wishes to seek ether company the is found in the home and the age old custom arises of having to go back to the office to work, or some such useless excuse.. 'The trusting wife believes her hus- band until doubt at last c-eeps into her mind ant she finds that he is telling her one lie after enathes and visa versa. •g Then there' is that everla=ting eternal triangle. How any self re- specting woman Can•"make or 'keep an appointment with a man who has give n his God wit. essed vows to care for his li"e Partner still .re mains •a mystery! Perhaps it is not a mystery for no self-respecting woman would come between husband and wife in such a way. She may think the stolen Ira band is very fond of her. It may be for the time being he is, but just as he has left his wife to seek other company, so he will leave the wog an, if su^h she may be oalled, who has broken up his hone. - Why will women be so foolish? This state of affairs no longer be -1 longs to young people alone but thsre have been many cases where halalhalal'years attar we have wondered a here our la sins , were that we ever believed it at all, but Inc thing' is certain we -ii 1 not believe that 1 er- ton again. At times' very clever people act- t a'lq live a li:'o of lies and psyche - tri is will tell us that people in their adult years who continue to tell What is not true have not their full brain power.. However that may be we do not care -to have their comrany, cny in as far as -we can help diem. Can one ever get over this habit of dying? Oh, yes, with God's help the devil '.can berovercome in this, but we must put the whole matter in His hands and ask Him to be with us and to lead us and guide us day by day. He will do that and it is the Only way that we can oyercoce a.;ife in which falsehoo•1 has a large part. "PEG" i a f ...- =?amu• ii THE MIXING f WL le Sy ANNE ALLAN Hydro Home Economil,r Hello, creme els. Hints for home nurses is aur thought for the I day. With the shortage of nurses 1 and hospital rooms, many .. -illnesses, 1 unless ctitical, might be treated ale those e. Tris, of course, will depend 1 on 'the advi-e of your doctor. Home nursing is no easy job, especially 'when the homemaker has to run the house and take care of the teat of the family, t:o. Recent'y,. many women have taken the eourse in home nursing and realize that defi- nite instructions should be carried out -with regard to sleep, food and medicines. .T..en, there's also the r:ro'blem of keeping the convalescent in a Contented f.ame of mind.It's easy enough to say, tut not so easy to do, Children are so lively when they're well, that it's 'almost• im- possible to heap them happy in a sick Led, especially when they are on the road to recovery. Things around home can be Med to advan- tage fol construction wok on a tray in front of them ... for in ttai:ee, a paper 1:g -saw puzzle, hail cooked eggs to decorate, ' paper to clip, ,colour, braid, fold and make into airplanes, ships or b'tildingu. Tack wax paper on a board and let them rise finger paints. Story hooks conte !people who have lived hapi'ily for in handy for anyone—even grown- twenty, thirty or mote years ,have 'taps like someone to•read to them. If ?had to break up their homes, •beeause � mother has tine, she can sit . and do a third party has stolen the affee• some mending in tite Convalescent's tions of either husband or . wife room. Shame be upon any wom-n who will) At first, patients ase rat rally take part in such a diagra tful • af- placed on liquid diet which usually !fair. Have the women of the world. includes milk, huttetmilk, eggnog, to -clay any conscience or any sym•• 1 malted milk, cocoa, cream soups, pathy with their own it•nd when they 1 clear • broth, who'e giatn cereal I will do the awful things which many gruels, strained fruit and vege- are doing t0 -day. tables, ices, sherbets and ice cream, The war time is Certainly not. They should have one quart of milk , doing anything' to help matters for a day, no more, as You do net want women ill their awful frenzy to get to "sicken" tlteem of it. Part of it mar -tied are not even taking time can be used as milk to drink, and to investigate the pa=t of the man tl:e test in s' ezb:tap •creamed soups ho oftimes asks l.Gs to be his un- and cereal gruels. Ginter ate, col - :fee wife, It is only after the .fee and tea ere sometimes .served fol marriage vows haVa been pledged, variety, rather .than food valuer and perhaps' they find there is to Soft diets may be recommended ke an addition to tlie'r it.rily that by the doctor, especially after the to called wife Inds her litisband liquid diets. For a soft diet, 'soft- has .been ordered overseas, He floss cooked or poached cggs, custards not answer her I: tt-r•s and then '' simple !earnest enquiries reveal the /act that andall smple cooked puddings, whole-;rain ce e•ls' gelatin he is not listed in the armed forces at, all and she, has' no idea whom she and sieve l vaaei ablest t has married, What terrible trage- On a light diet you add tender ' dies there are .in the world to -day meat such as chicken, . lamb chops, !just along that one line: baked fish, all cooked fruits and It 'begins with one lie and others raw citrus fruits. for ew, to protect the first one. They A full diet means all restrictions "lay love is blind and in many eases are removed except that f,ied foods it is stone blind. rich puddings, and pastries -aro. Where does anyone expect to get .oynitted or given to small amounts y tel what is not true? We until the patients, get •back to rogu- Irr•ow that children do not just lar routine. ' urderateni what w'.1 follow the roods with a strong flavour, such od but we cannot sero 1` fah 1 ito ling of aas ' onions, eauhflowei•, cabbage and weak our- wito Door s help pity the. pturnips should he used cautiously rn olderm years follow this irf ew .Fxcessivoly sweet foods each al Ira -:ties. Adults mutt ' re Al za that ,onions, cauliflower, cabbage and the Tie they have just told will grow turnips should be used cautiously. 'nd grow moil it reaches, such pro- Excessively sweet foods suoh as rosbicOsthat ,nothing they ecu tell jams, preserves and candies' should Levi11 cover it all / be given sparingly. Condiments and Sometimos the have .been told spices should be used al little as something which is unttne, and per-I1e,s;Lie; while <'coiehed fooc'1 p005 ly sieved foods or large - pieces of neat should be avoided. All 'foods should be cooked care- fully to preserve vitamins, minerals 'and ease of digestion. Dishes need colour, variety of flavour and at- , tractive servings. Serve meals on an attractive tray,' with pretty dish- es, perhaps a flower or gay cloth I—anything to perk up the patient. TAKE A TIP 1. Cook foods for invalids in small quantities and according to the hour of feeding. The most palatable food may bespoiled by allowing it to stand after being prepared. 2, Cover tray with a clean servi- ette or tray cloth. Avoid serving too many things or too Large por- tions. When the nature of the dish perlits it, add a piece of red cherry, or a small sprig of parsley. 8. If possible, taste all foods and drinks before serving, for -seasoning and temperature. Always use' a separate spoon for tasting. 4.` When liquid : foods are to be given, other receptacles should be used than those used for medieine or the association of ideas may be strong enough to destroy what little appetite the patient has. Fill cups apd glasses to within one inch of Ole top—not full. 5. Cover all foods and drinks left standing he the sickroom. The tray and all .traces of the meal should be removed immediately after eat- ing. Care should be taken, however, not to hurry the patient through a meal. G. The diet of a patient should be under the supervision, of a doctor and his directions followed impllc- • itly. 7. Store the food supplies in cov- ered containers in a cool .place, 1 preferably the refrigerator. The refrigerator or supboarcl should be ;kept scrupulously' clean. 8, All dishes or utensils used in the sickroom :should be washed in a separate bowl in hot, Soapy water !• and scalded with boiling water. In (case of infectious` diseases, dishes should be boiled in two quarts of baking soda for one-half hour. THE SUGGESTION BOX Miss J. T. says: You may have some good stockings which you can- not wear because they have no mates. Use a dye remover on them, Then tint to math. Mrs. S. M. says:. We beep a roll of narrow shelf paper on the .break- fast room table with a pen nearly and every time a memberof the family or a guest thinks of some- thing to tell the lad in uniform, he or she jots it down. About once a , week the letter is cut off and sent. Anne Allan invites you to write to'her 8'o News -Record. Send in your suggestions on homeinnaking prob- lems and watch this column for replies.. V BEING SPECIFIC Little Joan was paying her first visit to her unmarried aunt, who had strong views on how small girls should behave. As, a result, Joan was far from happy. "Well, my dear,” said auntie, "you look so sad, you must be home- sick.tZ ' "No, I'm not," said Joan frankly, "I'm here sick.' eSNAPSNOT GUILD BACKYARD VACATION 78 Let snapshots tell the story of MIME was when vacation meant a 1 trip to the mountains or the sea- shore or conte such place — far enough away from home so that it meant plenty of travel by train or ehtp or automobile—but not this year. For most folks this year, vaca- tion will mean delving into the mys- teriea of their own :back yards. And if you are once more in the throes of a Victory garden—as who isn't- that delving wtll. be done quite lit- erally, with spade or hoe or fork. And, or course,, the camera. True, your camera . wont dfg out* any weeds or annihilate any of the numerous pests shunt which the gar- den guides warn --best it win, if you let it, keep a faltltttd account of your vacation from star=t to finish. And that's fniport'atit. Not only to you, but to the men and womenin the 'Service who are interested • in what you at home are doing— whether at work or play—and, above all, in how you leek. They want— and need—:•pictpres antand.need-pictures from home-ptc- tui•ca that show the home folks busy about their workaday .affairs, When it's vacation tinie at your house, they want td know about that, too. So,let your camera do its cart, like t e titin little record it is. Get uu recorder h g a picture of your garden enthusiast tussling' with ',those obstreperous weeds among the tomato vines, or gathering a basketful of some or. the early vegetables. Or, for ,a• / change, show mother working among your 1944 "backyard vacation." her flowers. Flowers are important, too, in maintaining ,!that elusive quality which people call morale. Make sequence shots of some member of the ,family Father, for , example.' The first could show him starting out, fresh as a daisy, ready to conquer the whole garden in no time at all. Follow this with other shots in whieh'he-appears progr•es- siyely more bedraggled and weary. • And top the whole thing off with a snap of him—once more slick as a pin —lolling ,'comfortably on the veranda in the company of the after- noon paper. Nothing startling about . such a series, of course. But it does highlight the story of you and your garden—simply and effectively. And such shots are frequently more ap- pealing than those that strive too obviously to be speotacuias. Vacations aren't all work and no play, of course, So, how about a "hot" roast, by way of relaxation? Or a picnic on the lawn? Snell do- ings as these should bo good for a few interesting pictures. Always bearing in mind that film is still it precious article and should be used with 'due care and consideration. When you have your negatives developed, order enough prints to go book. around, plus cam for the too And oC course send prints to your folks in' the Service—so that they can en- joy your vacation, too , , , through . piotures. John van Guilder