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The Goderich Signal Star, 1976-03-11, Page 1• L1 ,C 1bietry., 5 2 Kaxe' r e .1" * A...r. Gorerckh, On t . NA 204. Doug McNeil; chairman of the Alexandra Marine .and General Hospital Board, presentsa. gift to Mrs. Marie Boyes of Goderich who wilt be retiring. after -25 years of. service. Mrs. Boyes,'who has nursed in Goderich for'25 years, was presented with gifts by the board and staff of the hospita1last Friday. (staff photo) Townships must be.satisfied -. awanos West- Waw:anosh Township Council held .", its regular March •.meeting on Tuesday afternoon, March :.2,; at the township garage. All. members were in attendance, Reeve Bob Lyons presiding. It was noted that a motion for the road. superintendent to submit the annual, petition for subsidy to. the Ministry of Transportation . and Com- munications, in the amount of $125,765..86,' has been omitted from the February minutes. Juergen Becker had been advised that, an appearance before _C.ouncil_-_.Would--=have been a good plan to air his coirnpl.aints,.. rather than letter's to the» editor in the local . paper. He therefore; appeared before Council. and, spoke to the members about the contents of his letter's. Becker heft the . meeting,,. adamant' in his opinion that Council's action in regard .to honoring ,retired employee was not in the best interests of 'the township`s ratepayers:"' None of the explanations Councillors offered was After a long discussion, Mr.. en There's little: doubt- that social workers have changed over the last few years, and Helen Allen, who was the special . guest speaker 'at the annual meetingof the Huron • County Children's Aid Society Thursday evening in Goderich, is perhaps one of the best • examples ' of this swing to social workers with a heart. "CAS workers used to be �-r .known as baby snatchers," Miss Allensaid in an informal meeting prior to the evening event. "And they used to look under the beds to see what kind of ` a housekeeper you were. But that's all gone now." .• • Miss Allen is the originator of . Today's Child, • a newspaper feature which has led to the. adoption of more than 7,000 Ontario children since 1964.'.She is also the key figure on the, television program "The _Family Finder" which was launched in late 1969 at Miss Allen's. suggestion. She •had no idea after her • graduation from the University, of Toronto. that she'd ever become a social worker.. She . joined The Telegram staff and launched, her career as a general reporter, movie •critic, women's editor, features editor and political writer. Her exciting work found her covering royal tours, inauguratiol~ts of US presidents, federal election campaigns. Due. to her • job, Miss Allen covered ina•ny"' welfare assignments. Her warmth and feeling for people showed through, and she acquired a wide knowledge of the field,, When the idea of Today's Child was., born at The Telegram, Miss Allen 'was a natural to persue the column. She has been dedicated to the column and to the adoption of. • 4 14 fl 1 29'YEAR-11....- THURSDAY, MARC:H•1 1, 1976, SECQNO 'SECTi( Huron County, has sent another delegate to the" Ontario Legislature When the';° House reconvened last Tuesday but unfortunately, there Is. little that person can do to, 'Cur e' .the county's `•' hospital ills. ; Anita. Shrier, daughter of Mr. and Mrs: R.G. ,,Shrier. was one -:of, several' young, persons. across the province. • selected to work as, a page in..:. the Ontario Legislature which,. rec.onyened earlier this week: . Last week, although she admitted to not -knowing too much of the workings of our Provincial Government, Anita was excited about the prospect and looking forward to it.as' a learning.experience. • Aside. from the learning experience that is afforded through the opportunity it ,is an honor to simply be selected •as a , page. Application was made as loltg. as two years- ago and basic requirements. had. to be met. Understandably the applicant must have exceptional academic standing and. a recommendation from - the'. school is -required. Allthe pages , are 12 or 13 years -'of age and must • maintain. an average .of . 80'.,: percent• studies: beco in• their Anita, , 13&: school: and R Grade '8 pupil• at Rolaertsb;..secanil: student - .fror i that, of being ` a` page in' the. Memorial Public Schopl,is tilts . 'school,to attain the distinction , •Legislature'; Lat year • J e'nnifer Harper of Goderich served in the House, Anita will stay, with friends LW' btle of,.ier my w is in the ToroSprnto ,afan,d wily. ride the subway to and from the • Legislature . each day: Two weeks ago ' she_ went to. Toronto to be fitted for her. uniform which she•described as plain black with; a white shirt. She added that she. "really didn't like it". Despite her dislike for the uniform, her enthusiasm for the job was refreshing. She had never been to Queen's Park before. and viewedher job, as an invaluable learning experience, But in the Words. of a 13 year old she applied to be a page because "she thought it would be neat". There was also work in- volved for the preparation of the job as certain procedures must be followed in • the House. She had to memorize a list of the members of the House' and their positions. The list included 125 names .. and positions and Anita ad- mitted that it would take some time •to familiarize (continued on page 3A)•. Anita Shrier studies the. list ofnaMet and positions: of the 125 members of the Ontario Legislature that she had to memorize in'preparation'for her duties as. page. Shebegan her dutie's on ,March 8 when the House 'reconvened but -was not sure of the duration sof her. work. (OA' photo) .park could beeome MV{A project in the futur _satisfactory to Mr.,_ Becker._ Alvin Sherwood was - in, attendance . to . speak to Council about a water problem that has arisen in Dungannon in the area.. where a new water supply system has been installed'. by him. Edward Gingerich • ap- proached • Council about a severance which has not yet been .approved by the Huron County • Land -Division Committee. • Council members discussed the possibility of Maitland Valley Conservation en hard -to -place children -ever. since. Today's Child now appears in 22 daily newspapers and. 155 weeklies. Helen Allen now s,an•,emploYee of the Ontario government's Ministry ,of Community and . • Social Services: and the picture- . story of a child needing adoption is also handled by that Ministry. _ "The column had been so successful in The Telegram, that when the paper folded in 1971, the government did Pot want to see the -column lost along with -the newspaper," Miss Allen commented. "And I went with the -column." The Family Finder is seen on :12 television . channels a"cross the province. When Today's Child began, only three Children's Aid Societies'out of 55 in the province Toronto,•Hamilton and Kendra - were,willing to haye ..their children pictured and written up in the newspaper. The • three-week pilot; project was very- suc- cessful. Out, of "23 children whose pictures .appeared in the- newspaper, 18 were adopted. . Then the requests. started pouring in and a further six -weeks Was planned: for the column. "That six weeks is still going on," Miss Allen smiled, At the start, pseudonyms were used for the children, Then an older child named Toinmy'-objected to having a name other than' his own used. He said. he'd told all the kids at schobl that his picture •wa's to be in Today's Child and. he thought it would look. silly to have some Other 'name attached to his picture. ',(Froin then on, all the Older children were asked whether they wanted to use their own names or, a pseudonym," Miss Allen said, showing &ice again her genuine concern for t Authority: taking over - the East-West WaWanosh: Park; This .pos.$ibility had been. - mentioned . someg ears ago, Y but at the time the Authority considered the area too sr'nall for their purposes. • , With the'acgixisition;of 401 acres of land beside the Park, the plaitwould now be 'feasible for the This meeting was ' very informative; .: with • the - Authority showing slides of the area under its jurisdic- tion, and discussing a=similar Park for.' which they , had assumed responsibility. The 3.3101°i -47y members. assured to ` vouncil members in at, tendance that the. "Park, if. taken over by them, would: be, Authority; if operated according to an agreement setting out the conditions which the town- ships wanted, ' . • The. Authority will not take over the Park anddictate how it should he ,operated. The the. Townships agree.. Both township councils and several Authority executivemem• - bers met tri Belgrave on February, 12 to discuss such a e new her young charges, "Most want to use :their own names." During the years of Today's Child,four sets of seven children from' one family have been adopted as units. One set went to a doctor and his wife; one group to a minister anti. his wife;- one to an •' average middle class • family;- and the final one to a childless couple in the armed forces. "I've often wondered just what kind of change.occurred in.that home where they went from 'no children toseven children. in one day," said Miss Allen. More black and native families . are adopting childrenthese days, Miss. Allen" noted. Consequently, more effort is being made by the Children's Aid Societies to place • Indian,, Eskimo and blackhilndr.en inAhomes of their An race: , • And there ' is ' a growing acceptance of . problem children. ~ youngsters with learning disabilities, emotional problems;;physical . limitations • and ,.,medical difficulties. all are being: adopted into good homes where they are -accepted and loved. There are fewer infants for adoption these days because of the improved birth control Methods and the accessibility of abortions. As well, fewer older children are available for adoption through CAS because of the trend toward keeping children in their natural families whenever possible. • "The CAS will take children. into care • temporarily while mother straightens out her emotional problems or fal"liver. sorts "' out his liquor problerns,y Miss . Allen commented. "They will put - housekeepers into homes and cin ,'v ' ,ti ...'`.. ,•hahi.bnit.r.' a family so that -kids "can either stay at liotn.e. or;retui n, • to the home after a while. While single parents who, want"to adopt .children 'are discouraged' because of the belief thatthe ideal situation is where both a mother and a father are in the home, in some • exceptional cir- cumstances, adoption, by single, parents is permitted.' Miss Allen noted an increase rri'the nuFmb:er t?f stogie -ire who are applying for childrOn to adopt. "There have been ' some really successful sing -le parent adoptions," she said. Today's Child is a, more effective means of finding adopting families than The. Family Finder on television, "That's, probably because ,the 'television program is -more easily forgotten after it is over," Miss Allen - a.d- mitted. "The• .newspaper - stays' in•the home and. makes a greater and longer . im- pression .on families. But 1 , suppose you could say that one complements the other: A child who appears; on television may turn up in the newspaper - or vice versa." She also believes that Today's Child has been so' successful~ because it provides prospective parents with some say about the child they select. Often times the picture :of, a. particular child' will appeal to a family.fot'. whatever•reason, and a good home is found where it •dtherwis•e could not hal- townships. must be satisfied,. it was. pointed out •' .. .. Coirrmittee . 'delegates for the year 1976 were set out by'' 'Council. The Recreation Committee will remain as in •'1-975: Walter . Arnold, :Chairman: (1975); •-Janice Rutherford, Secretary (1975) ; : John Rutherford, Ross Errington, Susan Cook, Allan :•- $ Webster, Bill MacPhers.on, Cecil and M,ery_belle Cranston, and Joe. -Hickey. Named to other committees: were: Joe Hickey, Farm SafetyCouncil,' taking the child ."It must be a mutual feeling - the parents for the child, the child for the parents, Miss Allen pointed' . out. . . .While Miss Allen has nothing to do with placing the children she puts before the public, she is keenly in- -.M,., terested in her children, and keeps -•track of many of them. She has some .warm and ,wonderful stories to" relate -en—about—th•e--a-dopt"iens•- with_ Arnold Stothers_ and Bob Lyons, Fire ' Protection. Committee; " Marybelle. Cranston, Arena Board; and Bob Lyons, Medical . Centre Committee. A -'motion. by 'Councillors Stotters- - and "Hickey 'that West . Wawanosh Township. Council ,;approve tw payments of the Huron County levy in,1976, on June 30 and December 15, -was approved. • Waterloo and the Town ; of Chesley, were tabled. By -Law No. 5, 1976, was given third reading ,and • finally passed on., motion of. Councillors. Cranston and' Hickey. This by-law • authorizes the township- to • o" enter into an agreement with .- " e-V(11a'ge orLlicknow for the • acquisition of.a fire hall to be shared by four municipalities Resolutions from the Regional Municipality of • • • and fire protectionby the Lucknow Volunteer fire brigade: of sociai-wor •been. • What's more, children have a great deal to say about the homes into which they will go. The child is given plenty of time to . assess the home. through weekendvisits and. holidays: He must feel comfortable there and want to go there. No dhild is forced into a situation anymore than a family is pressured into. which she has been involved. She has- mixed feelings about present government investigation into allowing adoptedchildren, when they become of age, to know about their natural parents.. She tells about -'a Toronto mother.. of four who -is totaljy distraught -.,by .. recent legislation in 'Nova Scotia which permits an 18 year old �Yry�?_.. " . �...• ¢. to know ;his °or her parental background and the , last known address of his or her parents. This women has never told her husband or her family about the child born to \her in Nova Scotia. and isnow .terrified that the child will turn tip', one day in Toronto ancf destroy her relationship with her. present family., ' But there are some cases, Miss Allen says, where putting children and parents together . even after many long years of separation can be a beautitu1 thing. She feels that if should he possible to. untie where it is desirable, and to protect parents and children where this is hest, • But where adoption is concerned, ,,tMiss Allen has a positive outlook. She believes ` in adoption With all her .heart, and' would like "to find homes for thall children. who=require em. . . - She muy be moving closer to her goal. This week, in fact; n 's Child (cenfre) was the `nest speaker of hist week's Children's Aid the dailTod, 's Child will. Helen Allen. of rod y y Society annual meeting, With Miss Alien is Bruce Heath, director' of the Huron County appear only three' ree or four n Elsie Westc'6t; resiidenf`of CAS here. (staff photo)- CA5 and Mrs, p .... '( cumin ucd onpu rr 3A ) • •