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Many external forces, including events
and people, have a hand in shaping our lives
and personalities.
While our personalities are ostensibly
established in the first few years, even
months, of life, it I I: s not preclude the fact
that lives- take ,1. teful twists and per-
sonalities can be reshaped withtime: - - - -- ___.
I had mentioned in this space that it was
frightening to submit to the realization that
my offspring would siphon much of their
worldly knowledge from my brain. Perhaps,
they will carry with them my hopes, fears,
illusions and shortcomings.
I speak in the plural sense because, even
as I write this paltry piece, Mrs. Sykes is
great with child as they say in the medical
profession. To be more precise,, she is
protruding noticebly about the midsection
and the family doctor assures us she is scant
weeks away from giving birth to a child, we
suspect.
We have exhausted all other alternatives
and pregnancy appears to be our only
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reasonable option at the moment. Rat least
serves to eapiain away my wif4 pint
condition,
While we had,suspidons concerning the
process of conception, thesecondpprree
has done much.io-advance our knowleddgge
and confirm earlier suspicions. We may
forego seeking a Second and learnedopinion -
on the matter this tittle.
The announcement seemed appropriate
subsequent to the global celebration of
Father's Day this past Sunday. This
dedicated dad, in a scenario that was un-
doubtedly repeated.thousands of times, was
presented with a deserving card and gifts
that reflected impeccable taste.
The prospect of having another child is
exciting, to be sure, but it just isn't the same
as with the first one. I can safely admit that
I was nervous during the entire nine months
of the pregnancy and the speculation on the
sex, character, disposition and looks of the
childconsumed our waking hours.
This time its different and I now fully
ondaratand
$nonchalance of
pareneapeetin theiralmost third,fourth or 6,t�b.
, child. While :here ala a definite,- sensg o f
anticiplationl, both of mare acting a bit more
like professionals rather than rank
amateurs. _..--
_That- is except for two-year Bradley. Re
can't contain his excitement although lam
certain he is -still somewhat skeptical Of the
facts involved in this whole ordeal,
Everytime we talk to the kid about the
child inside his mother's uterus, he gives us
a "you expect me to believe that jive" look.
Other times, he abandons his skepticism
and reacts in a charmingly childish way.
"I want to hold 'em," he said after being
informed his mother was growing a baby.'
"Sorry, kid. You can't hold it yet. You
have to wait untill it's born," I offer in my
impeccable father-lmows-best style.
"I want to play with 'em," the kid shoots
back right away knowing he is driving his
father crazy with questions.
"You can't play with the baby yet. After
1t'$ b0m71 Y011 -CM! pia, withit. Wait willtake
a while before tbe babyis capable of playing
withyau," the fetherof the child replies.
--
"The baby wu1..t nre a diaPer on. I want to
toueh.the diaper," the kid with a marked
predilection for disposable, diapers informs
his father. . --
"The baby will not be born with a diaper
on, we have to buy those at the store. And
don't you dare touch the diaper, it could be
messy," the father offers by way of ,,ex-
planation. -
"I wanna take the baby for a wa'ik.
Bradley has baby in his tummy too," he
says lifting his shirt to give the father a
.better look
It's obvious my best explanatory efforts -
have failed miserably and the kid wanders
over to his mother, and insists on giving the
unborn child its third bone -crushing hug of
the day.
I think the wee one is going to come out
swinging.
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Open meetings
A front page story in the May 25th edition of the Signal -
Star outlined much of the contents of a letter. submitted by
an area woman to the Goderich Police Commission.
In that letter, the author suggested to the commission
that she was harassed on The Square early one Saturday
morning and was prevented from leaving The Square by
cars darting alongside her. She wrote that the vehicles
were filled with young people who repeatedly yelled and
made faces through their open windows. A policeman
later escorted the woman off The Square and eventually,
to her Meneset Park home.
The matter was discussed at length at a subsequent
Police Commission meeting and in dealing with the
woman's complaint, the talk drifted to policing The
Square and the attitude of the town's force.
The Commission dealt with the matter, wrote a letter to
the complainant outlining the events of the evening, the
action taken by police officers and their involvement in
other duties. The author was invited to attend a meeting if
she so desired.
The story, or rather some comments attributed to
commission members, drew comments from members of
the local police association. They, naturally, resented
general inferences about attitude problems and claimed
that accounts of the incident failed to adequately reflect
the police side of the story.
The integrity or ability of the complainant was never
questioned and rightly so. Chief King outlined the ac-
tivities of the police force during the time in question,
suggesting it was a rather busy period.
The complaint was heard at an open Police Commission
meeting and the commission, in keeping with council's
enviable record of openness, maintains that policy.
However, the degree of openness is reduced considerably
if commission members keep cautioning. the press to
either use personal discretion on certain items or instruct
the press to completely ignore other statements. Osten-
sibly, it is a form of censorship.
The Ontario Police Commission recommends, but does
not insist, that commission meetings remain open to the
public. If those meetings are open, then the proceedings
are in the public domain. If the commission wishes to
discuss items of a personnel or sensitive nature, it has
every right to conduct that business in private.
However, in open session, commission members or
appointed or elected representatives on all committees,
boards and councils must either have the conviction and
personal integrity to stand behind their statements or
refrain from making comments that are sensitive in
nature.
Complete openness and honesty would at least clearly
establish the positions of all parties involved.D.S.
Itemize the tax bill
By now, most landowners in the area have grudgingly
paid all or part of their 1983 tax bill. And while you may
not have agreed with the numbers posted on the 1983 tax.
bill, there is a good chance members of your town, village
or township council have concerns about your bill.
Those concerns centre around the fact that all councils
are required to collect the education levy along with the
municipal requirements. Over the past few years, town of
Goderich officials have expressed a genuine concern over
the increasing cost of education and the fact that it now
comprises nearly 50 per cent of the total tax bill for a
Goderich resident.
When Goderich taxpayers receive their bills there is a
natural tendency to blame the local council for all costs,
even though municipal and education requirements are
clearly identified on the bill.
Also, in recent years, many local councils have kept
their portion of the increase to an acceptable level only to
have the board of education requisition boost the overall
requirement. As long as people can understand and
separate the costs on the tax bill, then the . cause for
healthy increases can easily be identified.
If councils and boards are to be truly accountable, then
perhaps the board of education should be responsible for
issuing its own bills. Goderich town council has main-
tained a rather enviable record of limiting tax increases
to respectable levels while the board of education has
passed on larger increases.
There are times when I feel with sadness
that it may be easier to open a red light
district in Goderich than to get official sanc-
tion for establishing a supervised group
home for a small number of mentally han-
dicapped fellow citizens.
I am not talking about the two locations
proposed earlier in the year or the specific
controversy of that period; these properties
are no longer available or considered.
I am referring to the general response and
attitudes and in particular to the drawn-out
methods used by the local authorities in
dealing with the application by the Associa-
tion for the Mentally Retarded, for general
re -zoning. The Association has asked that
the existing Zone By-law be amended by ad-
ding group homes as a permitted use in
residential areas, in accordance with the
policies stated in our Official Plan, duly and
unanimously passed by the previous town
council and signed by the Minister.
When the request was made in March, it
was clearly council's choice to take a stand.
Sunrise
•Byllave Sykes
DEAR READERS
SHIRLEY KELLER
I think there has been more written about Joe
Clark since he lost the leadership of the Tory
party in Canada than about Brian Mulroney who
won the post from Joe.
I suppose that's understandable. Joe was a
much talked about politician for a good many
years - and the talk wasn't usually good. It still
isn't.
I've read a few accounts here and there that
say some interesting things about Joe. For in-
stance,. one writer claimed that Clark failed to
move over to John Crosbie's camp during the
Conservative convention because his wife
Maureen McTeer begged him to hang in there.
Just how the writer knew that bit of in-
formation wasn't really explained to my
satisfaction, but let's assume for the purpose of
this column it was true. One begins to wonder
then how much more Ms. McTeer contributed to
her husband's demise in politics.
Did she, perhaps advise him to throw open the
leadership of the Conservative party in the first
place? Or did she suggest he should force his 1979
minority Conservative government into a non-
confidence vote on the Crosbie budget even
though it wasn't entirely necessary?
Did she^maybe give Joe the impression it was
politically expedient to relocate the Canadian
embassy in Israel because Tel Aviv was not as
beneficial to the Canadian cause as was
Jerusalem?
Was it Maureen who then advised Joe to back
off on that plan when the smelly stuff hit the fan
across the nation? Was it Maureen who helped
Joe look indecisive?
Was it Mrs. Clark - whoops Ms. McTeer - who
urged Joe to wait a whole summer after his
election before summoning Parliament and
presenting any kind of legislation? Was it also
Maureen who was the brains behind the Clark
legislation, some of it quite remarkably good?
It's pretty hard to believe as far as I'm con-
cerned, for I'm fully convinced Joe is quite able
to make his own misjudgments. And have his
own momentsof brilliance.
What's more, I would hope that Joe's lack of
authority as a politician hasn't carried over into
his personal life. If it has, no wonder he told
reporters before the convention his greatest fear
for the future was making a new life after his
career in parliament was ended.
Sinclair Stevens is reported, to have said
Clas biggest error was calling for a leadership
convention at all. But Joe didn't agree.
Said Joe, "I did not have the authority to lead
the party with the kind of firmness that it needs.
It was the right decision."
Ifo Cape Breton at a riding association meeting
he said it more forcefully: "It's my way or the
doorway," announced Joe.
I still think Joe's biggest problem was his own
inability to believe he didn't have what it takes to
be a political party leader in Canada. He talked
tough but he wasn't perceived 'as tough. The
"wimp" image stuck like glue for some reason
or another.
Soon after becoming leader of the party, for
instance, Clark was forced to cede the party
nomination in his own home town! Not a healthy
sign of a strong leader. That's precisely how he
ended up in the Yellowhead.riding of Alberta,
north of his High River home.
Despite all Brian Mulroney's talk about
Clark's "dignity, honour and courage" it ap-
pears Mulroney doesn't have much faith in Joe's
The members appeared strangely
uninterested in obtaining their solicitor's
opinion for their own direct information and
purposes; they preferred to refer the matter
to planning board where it is still meander-
ing on its laborious journey through a maze
of impressively thorough discussions of
minute details and remote possibilities. The
planners have presented, amended and
presented drafts of bylaws; the solicitor has
been consulted on three occasions.
The actual event can be followed through
reports and minutes; it is not my intention
to line them up here. I am not even knocking
planning board. The members simply found
the matter landed on their lap. Contrary to a
lot of things said elsewhere, the planning
board had no local precedent, procedure or
even suitable application forms for an
amendment of this nature. In many ways it
had to find a footing before it was able to go
forward:
What I really set out to do is to take my hat
off to the councils of Clinton; Exeter and
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Wingham. They did not hesitate, delay, pro-
long or pass it around; they hada decision to
make and they made it. In similar cir-
cumstances those councils said - yes, we see
that there is a need for a group home and we
encourage and back it, not only because of
the social advantages for the handicapped,
but also for the economic benefits to our
community.
Clinton council, for instance, agreed that
the guidelines set in the Official Plan are
well stated and offer adequate protection
and control of a provincially licensed home
under supervision. The section on group
homes in the Clinton Official Plan is iden-
tical to the one in Goderich Plan. Among
other things both plans also state that "a
public meeting will be held prior to the
establishment of a group home."
It is a pity that Goderich town council
missed out on leadership, particularly in a
field where even smaller communities do
not fear or hesitate to take enlightened and
constructive steps.
I am never able to really understand what
causes some of the hesitation and reluc-
tance to welcome another group home, par-
ticularly as the earlier established one is
working out so well by all accounts. It will
accommodate only those who are capable of
benefitting from community living. Why
should we want to make it so difficult for
them?
We are a community richly blessed with
churches. Do the people who attend_these
churches bring their religious commitment,
brotherly love and compassion out with
them when they leave the service? Should
not thenumber of our group homes equal
the number of our churches? Should there
not be support where there is opposition?
Even now the Goderich Town Council
could drop all other arguments and say - we
are talking about real homes for real people
- we shall allow and encourage them, sub-
ject to the same conditions applying to all
homes. I could see a lovely gift of leadership
in that - and I am hoping.
judgment either.
Joe has advised Mulroney not to be in a hurry
to go after a seat in the. Commons. Clark says
Mulroney --has more pressing business at hand -
to organize the party in a strong, cohesive
worldng unit, to mend broken fences, to develop
strategy.
Mulroney has already selected a seat he will
contest. It's in Nova Scotia and Mulroney says he
wants to be elected and in the Commons by the
opening of Parliament in the fall.
While Prime Minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau
has the, power to delay Mulroney's bid for a seat
(the Prime Minister of Canada has the control
over when all federal elections or by-elections
are called) it is unlikely he will.
Last Monday when Mulroney appeared in the
gallery of the House of Commons, Trudeau made
a warm speech of welcome; saying he hoped
Mulroney would occupy the leader of the
Opposition's official seat at the earliest possible
date.
Incidentally, some people think Trudeau will
tear the politically inexperienced Mulroney to
shreds in the House ... it's likely those people saw
Trudeau's invitation to Mulroney like the one the
spider gave to the fly.
But even more interesting than the type of
sparring match that will develop between
Mulroney and Trudeau, is speculation on where
Joe Clark will wind up in a Mulroney cabinet. Or
is that "if" Clark is part of a Mulroney cabinet?
But there was a time when Canadians willingly
handed him the reins of government. And you
can bet that's what Joe and Maureen will
remember in their final days in Stornoway.
Bea
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