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The Goderich Signal-Star, 1982-09-15, Page 28PAGE 10A—GODERICH SIGNAL -STAR, WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 15,1982 Eleanor Davis to speak Toughlove will be topic at Maitland Toughlove, a support group for parents of adolescents with behavior problems, will be the subject at the Maitland Country Club - here on Wednesday, Sep- tember 22 at 8 p.m. when the ladies' curling group sponsors guest speaker Eleanor Davis of Toughlove (London). Some young people do not respond to tender loving care from parents, teachers, guidance counsellors or other concerned adults. Aware of this from events in their own home, Penn- sylvania counsellors Phyllis and David York a few years ago formed a group which 'calls upon parents of adolescents engaging in unacceptable behavior to draw- a hard,' firm line, saying, "Beyond this point your conduct is not ac- ceptable to me or to society. I will no longer tolerate your misbehaviour nor protect you from its ..consequences. You must bear responsibility for the actions you choose. I love you, but if you want my affection, you must earn it." This is hard medecine for parents to take and give. Their emotions -guilt, fear, shame, disappointment, hurt, dislike, hope -are likely to be powerful and confused. The Yorks realized that parents wishing to make a constructive change .in their teenagers' behaviour need support from other parents to do what they know is necessary. The name chosen for this support network is apt: Toughlove. The organization now has about 50,000 people on its mailing list. The appearence of Jeri and Tom Elliott on Wayne McLean's radio talk show last fall led to the setting up of a Toughlove group in London. Respectively a professor of social work and a high school counsellor, the Elliotts established Toughlove in Canada. Their description of the program on CFPL Radio led Londoner Eleanor Davis to appeal to Lord Roberts School for a room for an organizational meeting in December. Seventy to 80 people showed up, a demonstration of need which "shocked" Davis. Shortly after, the Elliotts visited the city to explain Toughlove. Parents belonging to Toughlove (London) now meet Tuesday evenings under the leadership of Davis and Diane Smith. A self-help manual by the Yorks showsa parent how to identify the nature and extent of a young person's behaviour crisis -and the quite separate crisis this creates in a parent. A parent is directed how to take a stand on the limits of ac- ceptable behaviour while a youngster lives at home -in short, how to exercise good old-fashioned discipline. The evening with Davis on the topic of Toughlove'at the Maitland Country Club here on the 22nd will cost you $2. Proceeds from the event will be used by the ladies' curling group to help provide equipment for junior curlers. For tickets or further information, please call Lynn Todgham at 524-96 Shelagh Sully at 524-9059 or Phyl Lawrence at 524-2378. Deer hunt applications available Applications for participa- tion in the controlled deer hunt in Huron County and Minto Township of Well- ington County are now available at ,the Wingham District Office of the Ministry of Natural Resources. ALL persons wishing to participate in the hunt must complete an ap- plication and submit by September 25, 1982. Anyone who wants an application may request one by phoning the Wingham office. The four day season will be held from November 1 to November 4, 1982. Shotguns and muzzleloaders are the only weapons which may be used. Successful applicants are entitled to hunt antlered or antlerless deer. A maximum of 720 hunters will be permitted to par- ticipate in the hunt in Zone 85 (220 in Zone 85A; 300 in Zone 85B; 200 in Zone 85C). Should the number of applicants ex- ceed this limit, a com- puterized draw willbe held in early October. Successful applicants will be notified by mail shortly thereafter. 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Every volume covers several letters of the alphabet, and when the set is complete, your children will have a first dictionary, a fine collection of storybooks. and a vocabulary builder There s no better way to prepare your children for the school years ahead than • with Brg Bird's Sesame Street Dictionary, So when you visit one of our stores this week, pick up Volume 1 VOLUME 1 VOLUMES 2 8 1' ONLY 2EACH ON SALE NOW Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Empey , (Photo by Frank Phillips) Wed in Seaforth Northside United Church in Seaforth was the scene Saturday, September 4 for the wedding of Brenda Finlayson and Kenneth Empey. The bride is the ` daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Finlayson, 31 Church Street, Seaforth. The groom's parents are Mrs. Christena Empey, RR 2 Auburn, and the late William Empey. The Rev. J.Van Slyke officiated for the single -ring ceremony. Mrs. Margaret Whitmore was organist and Tom Burke was the soloist. Maid of honor was Miss Jean Dow, Cromarty, friend of the bride. Other bridal attendants were Miss Margie Eckert, friend of the bride, and Diane Gilliland, sister of the bride. The groom was attended by Glen Naylor, a friend of the groom, Winnipeg, Manitoba; Bill Empey, brother of the groom; and Jim Finlayson, brother of the bride. The reception was in Seaforth Legion Hall. Following a wedding trip to Northern Ontario, the couple is residing at RR 4 Walton. couple residing in Goderich Candelabras with gladioli of assorted colors decorated North Street United Church, Goderich on August 21 at 7 p.m. for the wedding ceremony of Christine Marie Riehl and Nick E. Lit- tlechild, both of Goderich. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Reginald C; Riehl of Goderich and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William E. Littlechild, also of Goderich. The Reverend John D.M. Wood officiated at the double -ring ceremony, Organist Robert Blackwell played Trumpet. Tune during the processional, and The Wedding Song during the signing of the register. The bride was given in marriage by her parents. She wore a Victorian -style dress with lace bodice, high stand-up collar, long lace sleeves and full skirt falling into a cathedral train. Her headpiece was a crown of lily of the valley, baby's breath and pink roses with wine colored ribbon and she carried a white satin and lace parasol with pink roses, white baby's breath and wine colored ribbon. Maid of honor was Virginia Riehl of Goderich, sister of the bride. She wore a wine colored chiffon overlayed dress tvith matching elbow length . shoulder cape and carried a white parasol with pink roses and wine colored miniature carnations. Bridesmaids were Deb Hodges of Goderich, friend of the bride and groom and Bev Littlechild of Goderich, sister of the groom. They PICK :YOUR OWN FRES MacINTO APPLES Bring Your Own Containers ALSO SEE US FOR: FRESH CIDER GRAPE JUICE APPLE BUTTER FRESH FRUIT wore.,wine colored full length dresses with spaghetti straps and matching long sleeved jackets and carried flowers the same as the maid of honor's. Groomsman was Don Henry of Goderich, friend of the bride and groom. He also made all the flowers for the wedding. Guests were ushered into the church by Bill and Adam Littlechild, both of Goderich, brothers of the groom. The groom and his at- tendants wore full dress grey silver satin tails and wine colored boutonnieres of miniature grey carnations and lily of the valley. The bride, groom, best man and maid of honor were all escorted from the church after the ceremony by a horse drawn wagon 'driven by Sandy Brown and William J. Leeming. A reception followed at Goderich Township Com- munity Centre, Holmesville which was decorated with pink and white streamers, the church candelabras and a three -tiered wedding cake with flowers matching the bride's bouquet decorated by Don Henry at the head table. The bride's mother greeted guests wearing a pink long sleeved street - length dress of polyester crepe with an orchid colored corsage of roses. The groom's mother assisted wearing a navy blue street -length dress anda . corsage of red ---mea and white miniature carnations. For a wedding trip to Toronto, the bride chap d to a wine colored street - length long sleeved dress with a pink rose wrist cor- sage. Mr. and Mrs. Viick E. Littlechild are residing on West Street in Goderich. 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