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Clinton News-Record, 1986-08-06, Page 6f`wQuality Brand -Names at DISCOUNT PRICES! Flex 300 ml. Shampoo si 99 Only on�� • • Listermint 1000 ml. Mouthwash Only 89 • Efferdent 48's, Denture Cleaning Page 6—CLINTON NEWS -RECORD, WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 6, 1966 Local women BY SUSAN HUNDERTMARK Tears of joy stream down Jeanette Har- ris's cheeks when she recalls the home birth of her second child rive years at her o. During a family birthday party home just north of Blyth that December, she started to labor. After calling her mid- wife in Kitchener, she prepared for the birth as she'd been taught at monthly classes by her midwife. As the labor progressed, it. started to storm outside so she gathered her birthing book, her husband and the birthing equip- ment and retreated to. the bedroom. After a short labor, their baby was born. "She was just beautiful; she was all covered in vernix. I grabbed her and put her to my breast immediately and she sucked. Then, the midwives arrived and told me what a wonderful job I had done," she says. During the birth, her mother and sister had continued to prepare the turkey dinner planned for the party and so afterwards, the whole family sat down to dinner. "It truly was a birth day dinner. It was just great," says Jeanette. Because she believes all women should have the option to experience similar natural births, Jeanette is a strong ad- vocate of midwifery. She and a group of 30 other Huron and Bruce County women are preparing a brief to present to the mid- wifery task force on Oct. 16 in support of midwifery as an autonomous, self- regulating profession,. Her home birth experience contrasted greatly with the birth of her first child a year before in hospital. Because she wanted a.nat'ural birth, she did extensive research about birth and of local doctors and their attitudes about birth. When she explained the birthing ex- perience she wanted to one doctor, he leapt to his feet asking her if she was crazy. When she finally found a doctor in a city hospital who would agree with her desire for a natural birth, she was disappointed by the few times she saw him at monthly check-ups. Though she received con- tinuous care, she saw so many different health care professionals that she did not develop a relationshipwith any of them and therefore had less confidence going in- to the birth. Fearing unnecessary medical interven- tion, she stayed away from.the hospital un- til she was almost ready to have the baby and during an eps iotomy whi bhrtshh she ev s beliedwas unnecessary. She also battled with hospital staff over several points of hospital policy including policy which said mothers must stay in hospital for 12 hours after the birt ►�;,, After much negotiating with her doctor, he agreed to let her go right home with the baby if nothing went wrong . but failed to pass the message on to the rest of the staff. Immediately after the birth, the baby was taken to the nursery. When Jeanette followed them to the nursery, the nurses told her she couldn't have her baby. After l3Iyth Standard are advocates for midwifery. • • • Strong advocates of the formation of midwifery as a self regulating, autonomous pro- fession, Jeanette Harris, of Blyth and Lois Marjin, of Teeswater are members of a midwifery support group which is in the process of writing a brief for the Ontario Task Force travelling the province this fall for public input about midwifery. Roth women a lot of demanding and bargaining, she col- lected o -lected her baby and went home determin- ed to have a home birth the next time. "I have nothing against doctors and hospitals. They're doing what they think is best but what they're doing is not what's best for me and my normal births: Childbirth is not a disease. I respect nature very. much and I think nature should be allowed to run its course," she says. By hiring a midwife, Jeanette says she was able to learn much more about the normal birthing experience and non- interventionist techniques of coping with labor pains as well as gain confidence in her own strength and ability to give birth. We sell government inspected chicken 4;1104 Ma IHI .OU,t111 K.CI -Open: Wednesday Thursday Friday For more Information call NICK DEN BOER 482-3236 Race FARM FRESH CHICKEN ROASTING CHICKENS 1'19 Ib. No Bock Attached ' .19 Ib, CHICKEN LEGS No Tips 1.25 Ib. CHICKEN WINGS CHICKEN CUTLETS 2.95ib. Boneless 4.29 Ib. CHICKEN BREASTS CORDON BLEUZ rj each )with ham and cheese) CHICKEN SCHNITZEL 4.29 Ib. Marinated 2.19 Ib. CHICKEN CHOPS Marinated 1.95 b. DRUMSTICKS Marinated - 4.53 I6. CHICKEN BREASTS Mostpre-natal .classes teach you how to behave for the doctor and the hospital They don't teach you how to birth your baby. Midwives give you that knowledge along with continuous care that is so im- portant for you to be able to trust her and yourself and be able to relax," she says. "Midwives form a relationship with know ou and your whole family. Theft get you as a pergen "alid what's important to you." When Jeanette became pregnant for a third time, she continued to see the same midwife because of the special relation- ship she felt between them. She phoned her midwife and told her to hurry as soon as she began her labor and because of the confidence she'd built up from the first two births, she decided she would give birth to her third child standing or squatting. quickly this The labor progressed very q Y time and very soon, her husband could see the baby's head crowning. When he notic- ed the cord around the baby's neck, he panicked. "I told him to relax and to put his finger gently under the cord and wait for the baby to come and everything turned out fine. I put him to my bredst right away and the dog started to bark. The midwife arrived and we joked that I'd beat her again," says Jeanette. "If I could have the same sort of ex- perience at a hospital or birthing centre, I would go. Being able to give birth at home is important but what's more important is having the care of a midwife." "The bonding that goes on between a family is incredible with a natural birth. You can't explain it unless you've done it. have hired midwives to support them through home births. Jeanette is pictured with her children Teague, 3, Capucine, 5 and Zoellyne, 6 and Lois with her sons Darryl, 5 and Glen, 3. (photo by Susan Hundertmark) It's incredible to be able to reach down and take that baby right out from inside you," she says. Lois Marjin, of Teeswater is another woman who hired a midwife after an un- satisfactory birth at a hospital. "The place I gave birth was immaterial; I just wanted to do it naturally. But, once I had a. home birth,' I didn't want to do it anywhere else," she says. During her first pregnancy five years ago, Lois's doctor left the country at her eighth month so she had to rehash all her feelings about having a natural birth with her new doctor whom she felt was less than receptive to the idea. "She told me, 'Let's not get silly. Don't ask me not to do an episiotomy!'" says Lois. Because she was nervous about chang- ing doctors, Lois says her blood pressure kept going up. Her new doctor put her in the hospital for a week but she was out again in two days because the blood pressure had. returned to normal. But, after that, Lois feels she was labelled as "high risk." The doctor was scheduled to go on holidays on Lois's due date and told Lois that she felt the baby was very large and would have to be induced four days before the due date. "She gave me the ultimatum so I hoped and prayed the baby would come by itself early. And, he was a week early," she says. Lois says she felt the process of being shaved, given an enema and an in- travenous tube in preparation for birth very dehumanizing. She was also frustrated by being told to change beds from the labor room to the delivery room when she felt ready to give birth. And, once she was flat on her back on the delivery table she lost the urge to push. "The doctor and the nurses were en- couraging me to push and I felt like I was bursting capilliaries in my eyeballs I was, pushing so hard but the urge had gone away. And, I was afraid to push because1. thought the baby would fall off the end of the delivery table," she says. When the baby came, the doctor did a fourth degree episiotomy before the baby's head had crowned. "The blood was incredible. I was shak- ing with pain while she was stitching me up and I couldn't sit down for a week. The episiotomy looked like a terrible gaping wound," she says. With her son born, Lois put the child to her breast only to have him whisked away to the nursery. "I specifically got a private room so I could have the baby with me but I still didn't get him. I got bitter about the ex- perience after I learned what birth could • be like," she says. Two years later, Lois discovered mid- wives and decided to have a home birth. 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