Clinton News-Record, 1985-6-26, Page 17The ribbon -cutting ceremony officially opened the Survival through -Friendship
House for battered wonri n and their children in Goderich last week. Mayor Eileen
Palmer cut the ribbon assisted by the Rt. Rev. Morse Robinson and Rev. Robert Ball.
CLIN I ON NEWS -RECORD, WEDNESDAY, JUNE 26, 1985—Page 15
House officially .
Friendshipopened
Gifts taken to House
CLINTON-Twenty six ladies met at Bess
Fingland's home for their June meeting.
Edna Stewart presided and epressed thanks
to Bess for sharing her home.
The business was ' discussed. The .
September meeting will be in charge of Bess
Fingland, Olive Ball, Helen Pearson, Rose
Armstrong and Helen Davies. •
The gifts for Survial Through Friendship
House were taken to Gqderich, by Katherine
McKnight. Several shut-ins were
®remembered in June by Marg Cole and
Aileen Craig.
Daisy Holland's group were in charge of
program. Daisy's study was a Meditation of
Paul's letter to Timothy. Prayer by Cleta
McGregor and a reading by Marg Thorndike
were given.
Each lady answered the roll call telling of
her birthplace and her Maiden name. The
ladies were urged to record their family
history for their children and grandchildren.
The ladies were treated to solos by Edna
Baker and Mary Hearn played several
numbers on her harp. 'Elaine Bechtel
reported on the Westminster. Weekend
retreat. Five from Wesley Willis and
Holmesville attended in May.
Credit Union honors Red Caron
CLINTON-Antoine -Red" Garon was
honored at a dinner with the officers and
staff of Clinton Conununity Credit Union
Limited in attendance at the White Carna-
tion.
.-Red" as he is better known had been
director of the Credit Union since its•incep-
• tion in July 1952 until last November. He
now spends the winter months in California
and has resigned as an active director. The
board has appointed him as honorary direc-
tor.'•
Ernest Willimas. also a past president and
currently vice-president and secretary of
the board, presented Red with a grass cutter
and *Oke nf'•the many ;,cars and hours of
service"R3ed had spent on the Board of Direc-
tors. Ile told the gathering that Red had
been president for 1956 until 1967. His
wisdom and knowledge had been a great
asset especially when the new office was
built in Clinton.
Cliff Parker, a long time officer of the
Credit Union now on the •Credit Conuiuttee,
presented Red with a commemorative pla-
que for his service. John Lavis, current
president, remarked about the many
organizations Red had been involved with
through the years most particularly the
Clinton Lions Club: Red also served terms
on Clinton Town Council and the PUC. •
In accepting these tokens of recognition
Red told the gathering that nothing gave
huh more satisfaction that serving on the
Board of Directors of Clinton Corrununity
Credit UnionLimited, 'Fo , pronuite a
business from its inception in July 1952 when
25 members invested .25 cents to its'present
status of 8;000 members with $34 -million in
assets attests to the quality of the officers
serving for the Board at Clinton ('uirununity
Credit Union Limited a very rewarding
group with whom to work. Ile started that
these officers served without remuneration
and their reward had been the chance to
help so many people over the years.
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• A dream of two years was realized when
the ribbon was cut to officially open the Sur-
vival Through Friendship House at 134
McDonald Street Thursday afternoon.
"We've come a long way from the time I
saw a need in the community. It's been a
long road but it's been worth it. And, there
are still so many women who need help and
we aren't reaching them all," said director
June Taylor.
When Taylor identified several battered
women in the Goderich area two years ago,
she began meetings twice weekly at St.
George's Anglican Church Parish Hall for
the women acid their children.
A network of 24 safe homes was set up in
July of 1984 after Taylor learned of a similar
program in Manitoba. Six months after the
homes were set up, 63 women and 90
children used the temporary shelter of the
safe homes whose locations are known only
to one person.
Because the safe homes system was set up
before the transition house was acquired,
guidelines from the Ministry of C mmunity
and Social Services had to be adapted to the
situation in Goderich.
"We were the first group in Ontario with
safe `comes so the new guidelines muddied
our first presentations about the house. It
seemed we were walking through a mine
field at first when setting up the program,"
said Rev. Gord Simmons, a board. member
of the Survival Through Friendship
Organization.
The house on McDonald Street was bought
with financial assistance from the Anglican
Church Diocese of Huron. Despite the strong
representation of Anglican Church
members on the board of directors for the
house, all groups in the area regardless of
•
denomination have greatly con-
tributed.
"It's particularly, exciting that people on
the board don't seem to know each other's
backgrounds and no one cares. We have a
common purpose and come from a
background that teaches us to care," said
Rev. Robert Ball, representative off the
Ministerial Association.
"Support throughout the county par-
ticularly from the churches has been
tremendous. The house is here (in
Goderich) but the network spreads outward
and that is important," said Rev. Simmons.
Warden Paul Steckle told the group that
Huron County has a strong commitment to
the house.
"We'd rather believe we do not need a
facility like this one but we must recognize
that we do need it. None of us are immune to
this problem. We trust there aren't many
who require this service; if that's the case,
this house will be a success," he said.
Rev. Simmons agreed saying if enough
people learn about family violence and how
to prevent it, houses like the Survival
Through Friendship House could be dissolv-
ed.
In the meantime, the programming at the
house will encourage a rebirth of self-
esteem, self-motivation and education for
the women who use the facility, said Judy
Cieslar, program officer.
"We reassure the women of their choices
but we don't counsel. And, we've witnessed
the changes from tearful depression to hear-
ty laughter. This is truly a ,Christian ven-
ture," she said.
After meeting twice a week at St.
George's Parish Hall, the women will have
the opportunity to meet four times a week at
the house. Also, there wi i be two . evenang
meetings per month.
The house will now be used after the open-
ing ceremonies and the arrival of the licence
to operate from the Town of Goderich.
While volunteers operating safe homes,
helping at the house, providing food,
clothing, toys and donations were thanked,
Rev. Simmons said more volunteer help is
always welcome.
More than 40 people present at the open-
ing ceremonies toured the house. Many
stopped to read the following poem which
hangs in a frame on a wall of the house.
"Neighbors come
Neighbors go
They don't really care
But, God they know
They hear it all the time
Listening every night
To the yelling and screaming
They can feel the fright
She screams, he yells
Accusations are heard
There's a smack and a crash
No more words
Her neighbor sees her
The very next day
Bruises tell all
Nothing to say
What goes on?
She needs help
She must get away
With this beast
She cannot stay
But it doesn't last long
He just gets mad
He always says `sorry'
It isn't so bad
The battered wife, It's a sad, sad tale
Women falling victim
To the enraged male."
Dutch immigrant dies at age 79
Arie Jacobes Verhoef
A Dutch native, and longtime Canadian
citizen, Arie Jacobes Verhoef of RR2
Seaforth, died on June 18 at Clinton Public
Hospital. He was 79. •
Mr. Verhoef was born in Meerkerk,
Holland on November 30, 1905. He was the
son of Arie and Eva Verhoef.
He emigrated to Canada with his wife and
family in 1949 and farmed for 24 years in the
Clinton area. During that time he lived in
Blyth for four years, then .fanned at RR5
Clinton. and later retired to RR2 Seaforth.
He was a member of the Clinton Christian
Reformed Church.
Mr. Verhoef is survived by his wife and•his
children : four daughters - Corrie (Mrs.
Ralph Nixon) of Wingham, Eva (Mrs. Dick
Roorda) of Clinton, Nellie (Mrs. Rollie
Steep) of Mississauga, Dianne (M'rs. Don
Budnark) of Goderich, and two sons - Arie
Jr. and Tony, both of Clinton.
Also surviving are 16 grandchildren and
two great-grandchildren.
He was predeceased ' by two
grandchildren, three sisters. Aantie.
Jannette and Elizabeth, and one brother,
Nicholas.
Funeral services were held at the Beattie
Funeral Fiome, Clinton on June 20. James
Visser from the Christian Reformed Church
officiated. Interment was held at the Clinton
Cemetery.
Pallbearers' were •Andrew Veenstra,
Wiebbe Postma, Albert Postma, Anton
Blok, Arie Peters. and •Angus Hummell.
Flower bearers were Michael and Steve i
Verhoef and David Roorda.
Goderich Township man dies at age 86
THOMAS SOWERBY
Thomas Sowerby, 86, of Goderich
Township died Tuesday, June 18, 1985 at the
Alexandra' Marine and General Hospital.
Son of the late Thomas Sowerby and the
former Sarah Johnston, he was born in
Goderich Township on Aug. 4, 1898. A
farmer in Goderich'. Township, he was a
member of St. George's Anglican Church, a
member of the Maitland Lodge 33 A.F and
A.M. where he received his 50 year jewel in
1979 and a member of the Blue Water
Chapter 284 O.E.S,
Surviving are his wife, the former Helen
Davidson, one son Grant and his wife Lynda,
of Cambridge 'and two sisters Ella, Mrs.
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