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ItInt Latideti
She wants to hilts
Dear Ann Lander s:\ I am
Writing not for help., but to help
iomeone else who might be
-
caught in the same web that
entangled me for several years'.
While_ in college I married a
divinity, student. Within three
months I knew I had mad At
mistake. Twelve, years (and.three
children) later I found myself
still going through the usual
that. Becattse of my work, I am
often called on to speak to civic
groups, appear on -panels, and
• :address organizations. My
. problem: I become so nervous
and frightened, I nearly black-
out, (Onktutally di4:.ittint.4
„. I • have tried all sorts of -
tranquilizers to calm my nerves,
but nothing works. I cannot
• understanal.why I become so
routine a smile here, a word of • panic, striken lieforean audience.
i',•`;''''''""'"'•grieonrag'oftWire'41trertit44rat't•the-"7161YeopeoWigalt&44p&W,Wit':
Nyhile suffering with -rny. own and comfortably in social
problems with no one to turn to. coMpany. •I know ry subject
. My husband could well and should have Complete'
L'Iontmunfcate with everyone but • confidence. Can you ,suggest4a
. me.. He rarely came home for way to overcome this agonizing
• supper. Nearly every weekend he problem? - Douglas, Arizona.
had a "project" with teenagers Dear Doug: If you are a
(often overnight hikes). I was 40 -year-old teacher, ' and still
not included. His own children blacking out in front of
•seldom saw him and kept asking audiences, you need more help
why. "Dad is busy;'I Would tell „ than Ann Landers can provide.
them. "He belongs to his A forgOtten experience
congregation."' After a white I, the past is triggering this panic.
knew I wasn't fooling them.. (I You need professional help to
.wasn't fooling -myself, either.) find out what it is. Get going.
When I asked for a divorce • You've wasted too many years
my Itusband was surprised but already: •
not unhappy. That was three * * *
• years -ago -and -1 -am tiew-tnarried--
to a man who treates me like a • Dear Ann Landers: What
queen. My children adore him started out .to be a nice,
---arrd-he7-feels-Ittelty•---to-ha---respeetable---famibytrliii
ready-rnade family.h•Thank God I wife' g family and rnine) turned
„ finally found the courage to face into a. real brawl..'i never heard
my problem and do something such name -Calling in all my life.
about it. Maybe this letter will •Pleaseliye me the answer to•the
'help sac -le -One -else. PerfiaPairT question that started the fight.
had seen one like it, I would ,not Everyone has agreed to accept .,
., have waited twelve years, your decision. Here is the
Woman. • 'question: If, the mother is Irish
Dear Woman: Your letter is a and the father is English, ,wb,at
good example Of the radical nationality are , the /children?
changes taking place in our -Union Jack Versus The Potato
society.Nottoo many years ago, Diggers, •.
divorce among the clergy would Dear Jack: Nationality means
• :have -been- unthinkable. Today belbriging to a particular nation
most people are ready to accept by reason of origin, birth or
the fact that the clergy are naturalization. If the children
• Ifumanci and like other, humans, were born in the .United States
they•can do make mistakes. ;they are Americans -of- -English
Dear Ann Landers: I am a and Irish descent. P.S. That must
teacher, a 40 -year-old one at have been some evening!
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TODAY'S CHILD
BY HELEN ALLEN
totiontocrelegram Syndicate
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HIS CONSCIENCE
• "CAUSES CONFLICT 4'
One of the most annoying ,
dualities with whish • man
has been afflicted is the con -
,science, How Much more
, simple and plvsant- life
f(u--
'41-11'4(t.
that cannot be drowned Out
no matter how loudly one's
other voices shout.
Constantly shouting , are
the voices ,of our sensual,
voice. which nevtr shots,,
t!ut always comes through
loud and clear. It takes half
Hie-fun:Out of life, -
May is a terrible month
for a man with a vonscience.
All the voices seem to. be
shouting at once, I'm .not•
much; for astrcllogy, but
May.
Every May 1 gothrough4
terrible inner conflict that
would psychologiCally dev-,
'astate the average man.
nature, iilizing us on to ve- 7 . 'Opening :vveekend of the
nial L(11(.1)s.ahea'dtrouseason, in this ight-
, have another ell climate, inevitably .coin-
• , ' •• t ben,
pieee. of chocolate cake with ciilts with ' the final dis,ap-
whipped cream. It Won't pearanee of the last iceberg
hurt to get off the diet foT • on the property. •
'one da. Life isn't worth " , There you are. All those'
tovely fish ,Waiting to maCch'
Wits With you, And all that
accumulated, filthy muck
lying around waiting to he
raked up.
thi torture, And swear
those scales are wrongA",
And the little voice !nutters,
Liaf'." And you hear it.
"Come , on, one inolre
drink won't hurt you.
f
•
You've always been able to . The' re lies the . • golf
jljur booze. So --ootirSe•,-•gfeening-,--het. kotling,
you'll have a little hangover shouting that your game is
in the inorning„,,, So what?" • going to improve imnieasur-
• And the little voice whisp- 'ably this year, if you'd just
intnti"-Ftruwitear"---'—giFtma-ii" ea r y s ar , n
it. there, even closer, smack in
Then there is the vice of the - middle of - your wife's
rationalization, not S.) • favourite flowerbed, lies the
noisy, but resonant and in- .....neighlxlurs.'-fe_ilee., felled, by ...
sidious. We'e all heard it.
Woman to woman
checked; and they may have •
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• their teeth brushed with the
• hear. She. is a very vital person
who unfortunately, was in a
kind of a rush because she was
motoring back to ,Ottawa that
evening and didn't Want to- be
'too -.late- ieaviiie-,Goderich. I
know the. Senat'or cut her
Message'short .... and was likely
not at her very best for the rest
her talk because she was
hurrying along so,
Marl Dunlop sang .a.couple. of
beautiful solos, the first of
which was unknown to me: But
the Second' number, The Kerry
Dancers, was a pure joy to hear.
It hag been a long, long time
"since I have heard that song sung
at all .... and Marfs_gyling was
just perfeet as , far. as I Was
• coneerned.,
I remember when I was in
• high school (a long, lopg time
ago, children) our -el -tisk teacher
attempted to draw a passable
rendition of The Kerry Dancers
out of our girls' chOir. It was
always a near disaster never
• quite Tight. But it was .one of
• those songs you enjoyed to
practice because it has, such a
lilting. tune .... and one which is
• very difficult to master without -
some special talent. I guess too
few of our choir members had
the finesse the song demands.
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I do want to remind the
mothers of children enrolling in
kindergarten ' this • fall tO
remember the special
• pre-schoolers- clinic 'in Clinton
tomorrow, May 28 in the
building opposite the, Glinton
The youngsters will receive
any immunization they require;
they will be tested for anemia;
their eyes and , hearing will be
special fluoride compound
which is shown to -have reduced
cavities in children for up to.one
year.
• It is •a marvellous, program
••which is being undertaken, this
year by the Huron •,•eounty
Health Unit. And it is . all
• pre -paid by you, through your
• taxes .... so please, please, please,
take advantage of -it if you have
•-any-way at -all- to--gel--,your-
youngster(s) to Clinton.
Incidentally, my pre-schooler
will be attending barring • any
serious accidents ,or illness prior
to that time ..... even though I've
been on •the ball for once in My
life and had him to the dentist
• for his pre-school check-up and
to the doctor for his mediCal.' I
• really believe this clinic will be
of value to him. '
- And in case you were
wondering, the doctor who
examined my child for school
was the man who delivered my
baby and cared for him up until
-the moment we moved to
Goderich almost two years ago. I
felt that this doctor' would be in
betterposition to really know
--'my son.
1 found that the examination
consisted of a weight check, a
thorough examination of the
stomach, chest, back, • ears and
throat, a few questions and a
perusal of my son's medical
record to date. It took about 15
,to 20 minutes in ail .... and was
• satisfactory as ' far • as I was
•,) concerned.
I would suggest that if you'
are planning to have your
pre-schooler examined by a
• doctor before _next September,
that you arrange to have it done
soon .... lust to avoid the rush.
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Danny has been here before, but •you may not
He used t be
recognize him really chubby and his, hair...
was fairer. He was very appealing as a younger chil# and
he is still appealing perhaps even more so noW at age
10.
Danny is still waiting for a honfe,.of his own and for
the very •special -parents .who will want him and_love him.
Anglo-Saxon in descent, this engaging- yoithgster has ,
laughing blue eyeS, blonde hair and fair skin. He has been
diagnosed as a dwarf and has the characteristics of that
condition legs and arms shorter than average. ,
Danny knows he is a dwarf and likes the attention
he gets': He Ts- ali -aCtive-, Cheerful boy with an itripighM
--il -
to match his outgoing personality. He is no scholar but he
' thoroughly enjoys school, mainly because of the fun that's ''
• available there. He is opulat with his classmates.
Danny, has been ceifSfi'iffiarro- going to a cottage
• withliis foster family ad he loVeS the casual. easy life.
SWittiming is his favorite,sport.
Danny will be a happy addition, for 'a family who
will 'appreciate his Winning disposition and not expect
• academic excellence. To inquire about adopting. Danny. '•
. please write to Toda:‘'s Child, Department of Social and
Family Services, Parliament itlildings. Toronto .182. For
• general adoption information; -41Z-T6iiieliildren's Aid ,
• Society. • •
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hag, with its broken and rot-
, • ting tirribers, 'She's pointing •
at the peony bed, which
looks like a hog waliow.•
• I ani. proud and happy to
• state that once again, 1 have,
;come through theconflict ."
. of May unscathed anl pyre
of heart, The trick? Mit i'n,a
yptir conscieriCe, and. a pair
of physical • tar -plugs for
your wife.
The property 10010' ex-
actly as it 'did on ,May 1st
the winds of winter, whin -
Mother ,has. "I'd feel far ing to he propped 'up for the
more like gettMg a, good tenth annual season.
dinner. ready if 1, just lay * •As the month Progresses.,
, do n and watched that . the conflict deepens. There
*afternoon movie."' lies an invitation ,for a .fish-
ing -and -poker weekend up
, Father has. "1 don't, get north with the 'boys, on the
enough eXeft:i,Se, • It would
do'rne'a:.lot nate good, and • 11,001elirdeayi'r.1, • -And
bush; .as is. her
wont,. lies your Wife, 'wird-
, at things.
Women '• have a .certain
obsession with thingsn':"&cer-
• . blindness. about the
-true essence of life.
fn this Case st•iespointing
,at a cedar lawnchair, lying
on its hack, hopelessly crip-
-: pled after twelve feet.of
snow. She's pointing at the.
. wooden hack stoop, which
resembles a snaggle-toothed
• I'd probably,- be a better
Christian if .1 got out golfing
in God's w-onderful world,
instead of sitting around in
,) old. church with a
bunch of stuffy people."
Student has. "ICI study
" all evening for my earn,only 'tire my Mind, and get
,ill up -tight • arid probably
stlidN 'the' wrong things. I'd
be far better off to go to a
• move and' :have a •fresh,
open mindM
toorrow."
Kid has. 'Well, if all the
• other kids are saying that
' word, •there can't be much
.• wrong with it. '', Why
1?" •
But lurking in every one "
'• them is that nasty little •
Huronview Aux.
notes Senior James Richardson & Sons Ltd
Citizens Week
Mrs. W. Colclotigh,.. 'the
president • of the Huronview
Auxiliary, open the recent
meeting with the Lord's Prayer."
Mrs. G. Peck read the minutes
of the last ;meeting. In the
absence of Mrs. M:Robihson the
treasurer's report was .given ,by
• Mrs. W. Colclough.
Mrs. A, McGregor gave a
report 'of the work in the craft
room. A report on the regional '
conference at Dundas was given
by Mrs. W. Colclough. The r
Senior' Citizens Week will be held
June 20-26.
The next meeting will be
June 14 at 2 p.m. Members
tpilmeaes,e note chane of day and
K'. Webster convened the
lunch.
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