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Make your list and check it twice
D
ecember marks the true begin-
ning of the Christmas season. Some
people may complain that the celebra-
tion marking the birth of Christ has de-
generated_into an exhausting round of
:too much drinking and eating, too •
much spending, and -too little joy_and
wonder. Bah, humbug!. -
They are partly right, of course Same
people_focus So completely on the
wrapping that they forgetabout the gift
inside.
In. truth, the wrapping is pretty appeal-
ing - lovely decorations, bright lights
and special music. We have a jolly
mascot in red velvet who laughs and
gives children_presents. The air is filled
with the scent of spruceboughs, roast.
turkey and cinnamon sticks.
But there is so much more to Christ- -
mass and most of it has to do with giv-
ing gifts not necessarily the sort that-_
come in expensive boxes with fluffy
red bows and pretty paper.
There are the. anonymous, gifts of
money dropped in the kettles at the
street corners, and tinned food for the
food bank dropped off with area mer- -.
chants. These mean so much -to families
strugglingforsurvi v -al -in -the -Midst -of �--
plenty. No one ever knows where that
large tinned ham ends up, but it is a
true joy to imagine someone,perhaps
an elderly couple or a. young family;
sitting down at•a table decorated with
paper snowflakes, and savoring every
morsel.
There are gifts money cannot buy -
one is the gift of. life. The combination
of snow and ice on the roads, and a lot
more people travelling, means blood
supplies will surely be low during the
holidays. Take an hour to visit a blood
donor clinic. Forget stories about the
so-called tainted blood scandal and
•
keep two things`in mind - it is impossi-
ble to get a disease by donating blood,
- and people still desperately need -
it. Some gifts take only a bit of one's
.time. Simple acts ofkindness can mean
.so. -much, especially at this time of year.
Someone with a car can take a neighbor
. or friend who is without transportation. -
to the stores for a bit of Christmas shop-
ping: A person with young children nev-
er finds it easy to get out_of the house
and buy gifts for the little ones - an offer
- to babysit for an afternoon or evening
would be appreciated.This, too, is a gift.
Consider those wonderful souls who
give not only their time but also their
hands and -feet: Service club members
who look after hampersfor the -needy-_
spend=untold hours sorting, packing and
delivering parcels to make sure Christ-
mas is enjoyed by everyone. The lights
might not make it up at their own
homes, and the holiday baking never
gets,done, they are so busy, but while
the cookie jar is empty. their hearts are
filled with the true happiness of Christ -
as. - -
rims.
What would Christmas be without
the concerts and pageants? So many
---people-give-their talents -and -skills -to
make these successful.
Caring can be a gift, especially if the
recipient is a person or family trying to
cope with a loved one's illness. A:card,
a prayer, a few'dollars tucked into an en-
velope to help cover. travel expenses, are
all gifts that show this community cares.
Caring, time, talent; thoughtfulness
these are gifts which don't break like
carelessly handled ornaments, they don't
have to be exchange_ d for a different cel -
or or size, and best -of all, they won't
leave giver or_ receiverwondering what
was under all the pretty paper.
Reprinted from Suuieen City News
Your Views .0.
Lights in the park
"The spirit of giving is very evident
in Exeter..."
Dear Editor:
On behalf of the Exeter Lioness Club. 1 would like
to.thank everyone whoyattended the first official .
"Lighting of the Park". It was a great success. I want
to thank the carollers Julie Godbolt and the Girl. • •
Guides.. the Lions Club. the Exeter Recreation
Department. Tim Horton's Becker Farm Equipment.
Donuts Delight. Pioneer Gas Bar. and the Times
Advocate for their assistance. -
.The spirit pf giving is very evident in Exeter and
thesurrounding communities. This is one way we..
can thank you for your continuing support of our
fundraising activities to help those Tess fortunate
than ourselves. It -was a.pleasure for the Exeter
Lioness Club to organize the "Lighting of the Park."
Liz Stephens.
Exeter Lioness Club
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A View from Queen's Park
By Eric. Dowd
TORONTO -- Can anything good be said
about a senator who shows up only 2 per cent
of the time, but continues collecting $80,000
salaryand benefits and has been -drummed out
of the federal Liberal caucus?
Andrew Thompson, .whose absences, suppos-
edly through illness, have been judged unac-
ceptable by Prime Minister Jean Chatien, was
leader of the Ontario Liberal party from 1964
to 1966 and is remembered a little l"fferently at
Queen's Park. .
Thompson, Irish-born, a former social worker
and special assistant to Lester Pearson before
he became prime minister, had been an MPP
only five years when an unusual combination
thrust him into leadership.
Former leader John Wintermeyer had lost an
election and his seat and Thompson, earnest
and modest, initially had no aspiration to
lead. Bui he made a passionate speech con-
demning Progressive Conservative premier
John Robans's notorious "police state bill,"
Which guve police tough powers to deal with
organized crime. including the ability to hold
Kate's takes
By Kate Monk
The camera incident
Life has it -s ups and downs
and sometimes you can.pack a.
load of ups and downs into one
day. - .
Life is Tike that for all df Us at
slime point intime. I'm
reminded of "the camera
incident."
A friend (Corinne) was getting
married and she asked Doug to
take a few wedding'pictures for.
her - some spontaneous shots to
complement the work of the •
official wedding photographer.
When we arrived at the church
' .in Guelph. we discovered.that
although Doug had his camera
bag, his camera wasn't in the
bag! Alas. it was in Exeter on
. his kitchen table. Too late to go
back.to Exeter to get the -
camera. maybe•o, her guests
could help put.
During the ceremony. I had
the bright ideathat since. my -
niece was attending the
University of Guelph. perhaps
we could borrow her camera.
• So. between the wedding and
the dinner. we rushed over to
the university and called her.
She was at home and yes. we
could hon; ow her camera! We
would meet at a spot on campus.
What luck!
So. we got Lisa's'camera (film
included) and headed off to the
reception. Alas. the camera had
a fixed focal length and you had
to be very close to people to till
the view finder. So much for
spontaneous pictures. It's
difficult to get people to act
naturally when you re two feet
from their faces.
But. Doug managed to take a
few photos of happy people and
some excellent overall shots for
Corinne's album.
• We were going to return the
camera to Lisa that night. but
she and her room mate had gone
.out with some friends. it was • -
tine with her if I took the
camera- back to Exeter and I'd ,
-see her in a'few weeks anyway. •
Things had worked'out well.
When we returned to my
house. I picked up an armload
• of stuff from the back seat of
Doug's car - my coat, the.
camera. my purse. magazines
etc.. - -
As Doug backed out of my -
driveway, his tire bumped over
something — the camera! Yes. I.
had dropped the camera. It was.
a tough little camera bui the
comer of it was crushed.
Yet. all was not lost; We
extracted the - film which was not
damaged. Lisa got a new
camera courtesy of Aunt Kate
and I have a camera with duct
tape around the end.
suspects. for questioning without laying charges
and' allowing them to call a lawyer.
News media suddenly talked of Thompson as
having the gift of the gab and.even being a new
Mitch Hepburn; the crowd -pleasing, last elected
Liberal premier of the 1930s and ' 1940s.
Thompson quickly had the support of influential
federal Liberals, including finance•minister Wal-
ter Gordon and party organizer Keith Davey,
who also saw it as a chance to control the pro-
vincial party.
He also had most of the provincial party estab-
lishment, who wanted to keep out interloper, ex -
evangelist and newspaper editor Charles Tem-
pleton, who had no background in the party but
support in grassroots seeking a messiah.
Thompson quickly showed that he lacked the
ego needed to command. Self-effacing, he
stressed even while running for leader that he
sought "democratic leadership that works coop-
eratively," and teams, not leaders, win elections.
Despite having made his reputation with one
speech, Thompson made few thereafter in the
legislature, attending often, but explaining he
Remembered differently
was not qualified to speak on all the complex
areas of government.
He was not dominating or skilled ,enough in
negotiating to bind together warring groups and
personalities in the Liberal caucus, who includ-
ed city reformers and rural members more con-
servative than most Tories.
Thompson never got Templeton fully on -side
and when the .latter said drunkenness was not
uncommon at the legislature, Thompson retort-
ed that Templeton would not know because he
had visited it only once in two years. But
Thompson had backbone to stand up against the
federal Liberals who helped make him and
complained loudly when they postponed na-
tional medicare.
Thompson also took the federal Liberals'
commitment to nationalism seriously and pro-
-tested that they allowed U.S. multinationals to
take too much money from Canada, and federal
Liberals called him confused and exaggerating.
Thompson was hurt -when he was convicted
of dangerous driving after an accident caused
ironically by his driving too long and too late to
meetings. which prompted the legislature to as-
sign every party leader a car and driver.
While there were claims that he was not an
effective leader, there was no suggestion at that
time he did not put effort in his work.
Thompson also pushed earlier than some others
for human rights protection for women, laws
against pollution including mandatory controls
on car exhausts. safeguards on notoriously un-
der -supervised nursing homes, jobs -oriented
community colleges asalternatives to universi-
ty, comprehensive, compulsory, national meth- .
care and broadcasting the legislature on TV.
When Thompson stepped down, saying he
had a heart condition, there were snickers that
he had invented his illness, but his sudden
change from fresh -faced and strapping to gaunt
and bony was easy to see.
None of this excuses his taking taxpayers'
money while not working, but it is worth recall-
ing that the missing senator once contributed
something of value.