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MR, AND MRS. JOHN BLACKWELL
Laujie Catherine Christina, youngest daughter of New
Brunswick's Lieutenant -Governor, the Honourable
George F.G. Stanley, and Mrs. Stanley, became the
bride of John David Blackwell, son of Mr. David
Blackwell and the late Lillie K. Blackwell, Hensall,
December 17, 1983. Arrangements of fir boughs, red
carnations and white chrysanthemums lent a festive at-
mosphere to the wedding solemnized in Christ Church
Cathedral, Fredericton. Fresh Scottish heather mark-
ed the guest pews and fir swags decorated the stone
columns of the church. The double ring ceremony was
performed by Canor, George Lemmon of Sackville, New
Brunswick, who was assisted in the communion service
by the Very Reverend Dean D.W. Noseworthy. The
organist was David Davis and the piper was Master -
Corporal David McIntyre. Captain Boyd Ring (1 RNBR)
served as aide-de-camp to the Lieutenant -Governor.
The bride wore an Edwardian style full-length white
chiffon gown trimmed with lace and seed pearls. Her
waist length veil was held by a Juliet cap of lace and
pearls. She carried a bouquet of white freesias. The
bride was attended by her sister, Dr. Della Stanley
Cromwell, Halifax and by Mrs. Joyce Sowby, Kingston,
and Mrs. Helen Belsheim, sister of the groom, London.
The attendantsworefloor-length red tartan skirts, red
vests and white blouses and carried bouquets of white,
yellow and rust freesia. Dr. Franklin Foster, Kingston,
was the best man. The bride's brother-in-law, Professor
Thomas Cromwell, of Halifax, and the groom's brother-
in-law, Dr. M.R. Belsheim, London, served as ushers.
After the ceremony a reception was held at Govern-
ment House. Colonel Donald G. MacLauchlan of Ottawa
proposed the toast to the bride. Professor Marietta
Stanley McAtamney of Calgary, sister of the bride, cir-
culated the guest book. Following a honeymoon in
Halifax, the couple will reside in Kingston, where both
are completing doctoral studies in Canadian History at
Queen's University.
Clandeboye
The annual vestry meeting
of St. James Anglican Church
was held Wednesday evening
with Clarence Carter elected
as warden and Mrs. Allan
Cunningham as secretary.
Other offices remain the
same.
The euchre party at St.
James Church, Tuesday
evening was well attended
with 11 tables in play. High
scores went to Marilyn Dixon
and Harry Noels. Lone hands
to Margaret Carter and Earl
Morgan, Low scores Hazel
Williams and Perry
Cunningham.
The next.party will be held.
January 31.
Several ladies in the com-
munity were quilting at the
home of Jean Hodgins this
past week.
DONNA ZWAAN
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The Hair Flair
Unisex Shop
(Formerly The Back Room)
January 23, 1984
423 Main Street, Exeter
Hours:
Mon., Tues., Thurs 9 - 5
Wed. CLOSED
Fri. 9 - 8 Sat. 9 - 4
No appointment necessary
PERM SPECIAL '20., 525. & $30
Majority of children do survive most parental ,mistakes
When I was a young parent,
I was always torn between
urging the children to ac-
complishment for their sakes,
and manipulating them to ex-
cel for mine. Because, you
see, when they did excel, I felt
good and was sure I was mak-
ing it as a parent. When they
didn't achieve, or got into
trouble, I suffered from a
great sense of failure.
Of course, there's nothing
wrong with your child
heading his or her class or
winning trophies, but when
parents push their children
beyond their depth, and for
the wrong reason, you can be
sure problems will result.
When our children were
young, a well-meaning person
cautioned me, "If you don't
expect a lot from your
children, you won't get
anything...they must know
you demand much of them
before they will produce."
Well, yes, I suppose I could
believe that, but what if I
demanded more of them than
The readers write
Dear Editor:
Town and Country
Homemakers would like to
thank all those who supported
our fund-raising campaigns in
1983. We especially thank
Murray and Pat Gaunt of
Wingham for acting as
honorary chairpersons during
the course of the mail out
campaign. We appreciate the
support of your newspaper
through your enthusiasm and
cooperation in publishing
feature articles on homemak-
ing last fall.
We are, of course, especial-
ly indebted to the donors who
supported us with their
generous donations. The
dollars are put in a contingen-
cy fund and used to help
private citizens in Huron
County who need homemak-
ing services but cannot pay
the full cost of the service and
do not qualify for assistance
from any -other source.
We designed the campaign
to run until Christmas. We
are still receiving donations.
The need is ongoing. Dona-
tions are appreciated at any
time.
We also want to
acknowledge the support
given by the community to
the successful amaryllis bulb
campaign during the
Christmas season.
We thank the community
for the continuous and grow-
ing support that Town and
Country Homemakers has
received over the last six
years.
Yours very truly,
Thea Trick
Acting Chairman
of the Board
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they could produce? What
then? Did not my too high ex-
pectations become an im-
possible burden for them? It
was always a quandry for me.
Of course, most kids need
some prodding, for a variety
of reasons...lack of self con-
fidence, shyness, laziness, or
whatever, and they do make
mistakes, especially when
while the children were out at
night? I never shut an eye un-
til I heard the purr of the
motorbike turn into the
driveway, or caught the soft
click of the back door closing.
Parents would be remiss by
not trying to steer their off-
spring toward the right road,
but they must be very careful,
because the road is different
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It seems
to me...
they're in their teens and
beginning to test their pro-
wess. Because we love them
so much we are naturally con-
cerned, and sometimes even
terrified by their actions.
What parent has not lain in
bed, stiff as a ramrod, fearing
the worst and imagining all
sorts of dreadful happenings
by Gwyn Whilsmith
for each child. Some are
capable of, and seem to enjoy
a tough course. For others,
the right trail may be a slop-
ing one, with many curves
and detours.
Sometimes parents try to
fulfill their own unrealized
dreams through the lives of
their children. Others may
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decide that because Dad is a
lawyer, Sonny must follow in
his footsteps, even though
Sonny may want to be a horse
trainer.
Although parents need to
give a little push there, and a
bit of guidance there, they
cannot arbitrarily choose the
road for their children. Each
youngster must find, for
himself or herself, where that
road is, and in which direction
he or she will travel.
Parenting is the hardest
work we may ever do. We so
desperately want what is best
for our children that we often
over react to our offspring's
mistakes and struggles by
showing anger and disap-
pointment which only builds
up walls between us.
At a time when I was very
upset with the actions of one
of my children, a very wise
person took me aside and ad-
vised, "Don't be so hard on
him. Treat him very gently,
because you know, young peo-
ple are so tender they bruise
easily and heal slowly." That
remark gave me some light
then; perhaps it may help so-
meone else now.
The great news is that
despite all the worrying of
their parents, and their own
foolish mistakes, most young
people grow up to be good,
honest, decent people. Life
has a wonderful way of
smoothing out the bumps and
getting people around detours
and back on the right track.
That's how it seems to me,
anyway.
SECOND HONEYMOON - Ron and Patti Hodgins, Parkhill, have won a weekend
of Ben Miller Inn which includes dinner for two, an overnight stay and a continen-
tal breakfast. All Country Flowers 1983 brides' names were put in a hat, and Joanne
D;.iney drew the winner.
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