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Big Brothers/Sisters celebrates 20 years in South Huron
Jim and Dorothy Chapman will be honoured for their
service to South Huron Big Brothers/Big Sisters at a
20th anniversary celebration Sept. 17 at the Ranch
House inn.
By Scott Nixon
TIMES -ADVOCATE STAFF
EXETER — While they're happy it has survived
for 20 years, the Exeter couple who helped found
the South Huron Big Brothers/Big Sisters are hum-
ble about what they've done for the community..
Jim and Dorothy Chapman of Riverside Drive are
quick to credit the many volunteers who have
helped. the organization grow and live to see its
20th anniversary, which will be celebrated on
Sept. 17 at the Ranch House Inn. Jim and Dorothy
will receive honorary lifetime membership presen-
a • et oe Barton from #3016 RCAC Corps in
\irdrie Alberta (left) gives the thumbs up with cadet
'atrick Foster from #2923 RCAC Corps in Huron
'ark Ontario. Both have just successfully competed a
)arachute jump at Canadian Forces Base Trenton
Dntario as part of their parachutist qualification
_ourse.The Cadet Parachutist Course is based at
2onnaught Army Cadet National Summer Training
enter outside Ottawa this past summer
tations.
September is also Big Brother's month and vol-
unteers are needed.
According to Jim, South Huron Big Brothers
began in the late '70s when a local woman wanted
help for her son. Jim then realized having a. Big
Brothers service in Exeter was a real need. Once a
steering committee was formed, Big Brothers of
Canada granted South Huron a charter to start
a local branch. In the mid -'80s, the Big
Sisters part of the branch was added.
Jim says things started out slowly
for South Huron Big Brothers, with
only about five or six matches in the
first year. Since then, the numbers of
matches between "bigs" and "littles"
has fluctuated and executive director
Dianne Beach says there are now about al%
30 matches including the in -school
mentoring program, which sees adult vol -et,
unteers visit students duringschool hours.
Jim said even in the most successful years,
there have always been littles on a waiting list. He
added that, as principal of Exeter Public School
from 1972-1987, he saw many young boys who
needed a male influence in their lives.
During South Huron Big Brothers' initial years,
there were no funds available, so case workers
from -Children's Aid were screening all potential
bigs for matches with littles. Also, the Chapmans
ran the organization out of their home.
Eventually, enough funds were raised so Big
Brothers could afford their own office downtown.
in Exeter.
While Jiro was always $ board member with the -.
Big Brothers and never a big brother himself, he
said on occasion he acted as a stand in when a big
brother was needed.
Dorothy, on the other hand, was responsible for
screening possible big brothers- and matching
them with their little. brothers. That position even-
tually led to the paid position of executive' director.
As executive director, Dorothy saw first hand the
effect a big can have on a little. She said the
matching process is important and not all matches
are successful. In a potential big brother; Dorothy
looked for a pattern of commitment in the person's
life, a wide variety of interests and a solid back-
ground. Also, "sense of humour is a necessity,"
Dorothy said.
In .fact, she used to tell matches who were having
a hard time getting along to just go out and have
fun and laugh.
Being with a big brother makes a child feel good
about himself, Dorothy says. After time, the little
will feel "unique, needed and loved." When these
feelings are missing from a child's life, problems
can develop, she explains.
. "A big brother just says, 'I care.'.
And while the littles get their rewards
relatively soon in the relationship,
Dorothy says the bigs often get their:.
rewards when their partner grows up-
and then tells the big how much they
benefitted from the relationship. And
not only do the little and big ben-
efit from the relationship,
Ai Dorothy says she sees a change
:lc" for the better in the mothers of the
littles.
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Dorothy remembers the story of one
match who, after years of separation,
reunited. When the little had no home and, it
seemed, no future, the big agreed to take the little
into his home and help him - out. He's now putting
that person through law school andtheir friend-
ship has developed into a father -son --relationship,
says Dorothy. - - -
According -to Dorothy and Jiro, many matches
keep in touch for many years, even after the little
has grown and the match has ended: -
Of their time involved with South Huron Big
Brothers/Big Sisters, Jim says he would do it all•
over again the same way. .
Dorothy, who also served on Exeter council for
nine years, says her 12- years with Big Brothers
was "the most heart-warming and, rewarding twig
I've ever done. ;. s r
She adds there'a nothing more exciting than
watching a child grow and blossom and she
encourages people to get involved with South..
Huron Big Brothers/Big Sisters.
If you want to bring some meaning and joy into
your life, reach out to a child who really needs
you.*
And right now, according to Beach, many chil-
dren need . a big brother or big sister. There are 14
children on the waiting list and Beach said most of
those are young boys. Beach encourages those
interested in Big Brothers/Sisters to call 235-3307.
Cadetstrained at National Centre
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Connaught Army Cadet
National Sumer Training
Center (Connaught ACNSTC) was
created in 1989 to centralize
and standardize largebore tar-
get rifle training.
The first stage of the six week
Army Cadet Leader (ACL)
Marksman' course -has a national
loading of 99 candidates. They
are instructed on 5.56 mm C11
target rifle along with an
emphasis on leadership train-
ing. Placing in the top 40 of the
course gains an invitation to the
second phase, the Army Cadet
Leader Instructor (ACLI)
Marksman. The ACLI course
uses the 7.62 mm C12 target
rifle and candidates receive
extensive competition exposure.
They participate in the Province
of Quebec Rifle Association -
matches at St. Bruno, The
Ontario Rifle Association match-
es at Canadian Forces Base
Borden, The Army Cadet
National Fulibore Matches
(ACNFM) and the Dominion of
Cannda Rifle Association (DCRA)
annual prize meet at Connaught
Ranges.
Those finishing in the top 18 of
the ACLI course receive an invi-
.tation to join the three best
competitors from the previous
year's National Shooting Team
(NST) for the third stage. The
NST practices at Connaught
Ranges, travels over to the UK
to compete in Cadet Matches,
the National Rifle Association
matches at Risley, then returns
to Canada to compete in the
ACNFM and DCRA matches and
assist coaching the ACL
Marksman course. lOn addition
to these activities, Connaught
also hosts 15 members of the UK
Army Cadet Force who join with
the ACLI Marksman course and
18 members of the UK
Combined Cadet Force.
Connaught ACNSTC is also the
focus for overseas exchanges for
both to and from Canada.
Cadets from across Canada
gather at Connaught to prepare
for their training overseas. The
exchanges are a combination of
cultural visits and physically
demandiu training. This year
cadets willg o to En land on
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Maple Leaf Exchange, Outward
Bound Wales, Outward Bound
Scotland, the Federal Republic
of Germany and
Sweden/Norway. Connaught is
also the base for the Army Cadet
Parachutist Course. This year
candidates are at the Canadian
Parachute Center at Canadian
'Forces Base Trenton working
towards earning their -Basic
Parachutist Qualification. Y=- '+
Further, Connaught acts as the.
reception center for Sea Cadet
'exchanges coming from across
Canada before departing
abroad. .
This year Connaught ACNSTC
is gaining a Pipes & Drums
advanced training band. The
band will be 20 members
strong. Along with their training
to level five musicians they will
participate in parades, festivals
and displays throughout the
Ottawa Capital Region.
Summer activities at
Connaught ACNSTC conclude
with graduation parades on
Friday, August 6 for the
Parachutist Course and
Saturday, August 14 for
Exchange, ACL Marksman, ACLI
Marksman and the NST Cadets.
A highlight of this period is the
announcement of the selections
for the Royal Canadian Army
Cadet NST, 2000.