Times Advocate, 1991-05-15, Page 13Pape 12
Times -Advocate, May 15, 1991
FAMILY
Gates - Gilmour
Janet Gilmour and Alan Gates
exchanged marriage vows on
may 4, 1991 in Ho& Trinity Angli-
can Church, Lucan with Rev.
Bruce Pocock officiating. Matron
of honour was Mrs. Carol Dim-
mers (sister of the bride) and
Mrs. Catharine Jones (friend of
the bride) was bridesmaid. Ash-
ley and Amberly, Dickey (cousins
of the bride) and Sarah Proud
(niece of the groom) were flower -
girls. Best man was John Fara
er (friend of the ). Guests
were ushered by Denis Flanagan
(friend of the groom) , Doug
Gates and Robert Gates, (broth-
ers of the groom). Janet is the
daughter of Jack and Ann Gil-
mour, RR2 Lucan and Alan is
the son of Mac and Ruth Gates,
RR3 Lakeside. After a honey-
moon
oneymoon to the United States, the
newlyweds are residing at 111
Willow Ave. Lucan.
Tree planting - In keeping with the Rebekah's campaign to "plant a tree" this year, two trees were plant-
ed in MacNaughton Park by the Lodge this week. From left are warden Katherine Ens, vlcegrand Joyce
Morgan, noble grand Helen Coates, Exeter mayor Bruce Shaw, and Bill Hirtzel.
Mercer - Baker
Becky Baker and Brian Mercer
exchanged marriage vows May
11, 1991 at Hensall Presbyteri-
an Church with Rev. Mark Ga-
skin performing the ceremony.
Ronalee Bogart, a friend of the
bride was maid of honour.
Bridesmaids were Kelly Boltz-
mann, friend of the bride and
Valerie Pratt, : cousin of the
bride. Jenalyn Baker, niece of
the bride was the flowerglrl.
Dave Bogart, a friend of the
groom was best man. Guests
were ushered by Guy Deitz and
Dave Robinson, friends of the
groom. Soloist was Ansberth
Willert and organist was Joym
Pepper. Becky is the daughter
of John and Janice Baker of
Hensall and Brian Is the son of
Ann Mercer of London and 8111
Mercer of Aylmer. We would like
to thank bur family, and friends
for sharing our day.
Photo by Frank Phillips
Exeter United
Church women
EXETER - Laura Dickey, presi-
dent of the afternoon unit wel-
comed everyone to the meeting,
read a poem and gave a prayer. The
minutes were read as was the treas-
urer's report, roll call taken and col-
lection.
Alma Langford reported that one
room at the manse needed work
done. She reported that help was
needed to entertain the migrant
workers. She also reported the eve-
ning unit is sponsoring a bus to
Stratford to see the musical Carou-
sel.
Barb Harrison reported the
Friendship Tea held on June 13 and
the one -day event will be held in
Siloam Church on July 20. She also
gave a reminder to bring in cash
register tapes by June 6. The next
meeting will be an auction sale
with, everyone bringing something
as well as a guest.
Muriel Marshall convened the
program assisted by Chris Philips,
Anna Ballantyne, and Ruth Ell-
wood. Each lady read a passage of
scripture. Wilma Davis favoured
with several piano numbers.
Muriel introduced Audrey
McFalls who spoke on the environ-
ment. She reminded everyone to do
composting and told us how to use
things we ordinarily would throw
in the garbage. She also told us sev-
eral ways to remove stains.
Muriel thanked Audrey and gave
her a gift.
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F is for families
Robert Fulghum gave to his first book the tide All 1 Ever Needed To
Know I Learned in Kindergarten. He talks about playing fair, washing
before meals, and picking up after yourself.
For sure, these are important rules to follow - no matter what age you
may
We happenave also learned the fundamental values of liivkg by being part
of a family. What everyone of us have in common is that we were all
born of a mother.
And so it is that once a year, we take a Sunday and celebrate all the
mothers, grandmothers, foster mothers, adoptive mallets, next-door
mothers, nurturing -women mothers... and we say Thank You' for all of
their love.
In recent years our -Churches have decided that motherhood means
baby -bearing. Since not all women have gone that route, it might be in-
sulting to single out only mothers to celebrate and laugh with.
$o. vice loi on 'Family Day'. The shift comms _ iii that 10;1'tlallet,
what our vole orplace in the family - we ire special! •'
Now, not everyone feels special just becausey're part of some
family. Many children live with parents who are sOp that
they don't have time for the kids.
Many of our children live in abusive homes where parental guidance
means having the tar whipped out of them.
Many families - Moms and Dads, as well as kids - are so emotionally
strained that being part of a family becomes more of a handicap than a
And there are many people in our world who are all alone.
suNlgtt.we all have in common - no matter what our circumstances are
today - is that we are all God's children. Our very existence comes to us
because of the love of God.
I want you to know that you are the crowning glory of God's creative
imagination. Each one of us is the apple of God's eye! So what then
does it mean to be a part of the Family of God?
F M for fun - We don't always think of Church as a place of fun.
Time was that Churches insisted that people speak in hushed tones.
Things have changed significantly - thank God!
Jesus enjoyed family gatherings, banquets, wedding parties and
games. In fact, He said something about coming so that we might enjoy
life abundantly. Our fun in life comes more when we are sharing.
I once asked an elderly lady is she wanted her name removed from
the Church kitchen roster. She insisted that the most fun she ever had
was when the Church ladies got together in the kitchen to work.
Enjoy life to the fullest and get involved in the work of your Church.
F is for funds - A fund is a supply of something that can be given
out when needed. Most of us think of money. And if your only involve-
ment in a Church is through money donations - that's O.K. Its a good
start.
But, as God's famil , we realize that we have a fund of talents too.
Real love comes in he ping people find and develop their potential.
It is the church family that makes an effort to see our- strengths and
allows us to offer our abilities. True, Churches need preachers, readers,
organizers, fundraisers and financial wizards. But they also need so
much more.
Can you drive a car, mow a lawn, coach a ball team, paint a wall, un-
lock a door? Can you sit and listen to another pour out their pain? Can
you make a phone call to say "I'm thinking of you?' Can you pray for
others?
I met a woman in Saskatchewan who was crippled with arthritis. Her
greatest contribution to her Church was to accept the concerns and re-
quests of others and offer them to God in prayer.
Though limited in many ways, she was still able to serve others
through many hours of prayer each day.
We are all the family of God. As we take time to appreciate all of the
goodness that comes to us through mothers and families... take time to
thank God for His many blessings to each of us.
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Crediton 4-H
CRED1TON - At meeting four
of the junior 4-H club, we talked
about communication and ways to
travel. We talked about Ayes, ears,
mouth, nose, and hands. (Those
are our five senses).
We also planted some beans.
The beans were planted for our
last meeting. We put the beans in a
cup with some water and napkins.
If they don't grow that way we are
supposed tb plant them in soil.
Press reporter Lisa Clarke
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Historical
society workshop
PARKHILL - Organizing any
group, from the founding meeting
to your first successful event, is an
ambitious undertaking. For a sound
step-by-step approach to forming
and organizing an historical socie-
ty, come to the workshop "Every-
}, thing you wanted to know about an
historical society but were afraid to
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Parkhill LACAC (Local Architec-
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gramme fiom 10:00 a.m. to 4:00
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The workshop will be led by Dor-
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The registration fee is $10.00 for
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Exeter Senior Cltlzens
By Marlon Porter
EXETER - Mother's Day and
appreciation of our environment
were the themes for the May
meeting of Exeter Senior Citizuts
held at the Exeter Legion Hall.
Olga Davis, president, opened the
meeting with the poems, I is a
Beautiful World, and The Intrud-
ers (robins) and reading the histo-
ry of Mothers Day.
The wing anniversary of
Charles and llene Rollings and
birthdays of Doris Denham, Anna
Eberhardt and Peter Snell were
honoured.
Bingo at the Villa will be
looked after by Humphrey and
RuthArthurand Eldon and Alva
Heywood.
The Gatbl Follies trip on June
201eaves at 8:20 a.m. and returns
about ? p.m. at a cost of $48. and
at other plans are being made for
a three day trip in the fall.
"I'm Not Old Just Mature", was
playing hide and seek together.
Peter Snell shared many current
songs which he is teaching his pu-
pils, as well as others, closing with,
One Day at a rime", and promis-
ing to return soon.
Wilma Davis "dated -the -ley -
board" playing an instrumental
melody of lively dance tunes.
A report on the spring rally held
at Dungannon was given by Pat
Skinne.
An hour and a half of cards at the
beginning and lunch at the closing
was enjoyed.
Next month, a pot luck supper
followed by a program will be held
Tuesday June 4 at the Exeter Le-
gion Hall and all seniors are wel-
come.
a poem read by Alice Bowen and
Mary Neil read the nostalgic poem
which were memorized in second
class, "One, Two, Three" about an
old, old grandmother and the crip-
pled boy who was half -past three
Gingerichs
to return
from Ethiopia
ADDIS ABABA, ETHIOPIA -
Cryil and Carol Gingerich, who
have been serving as country repre-
sentatives in Ethiopia for over sev-
en years, are handing over their re-
sponsibilities to a German national.
They will be returning to their
home in Canada in June.
In the course of their work in
Ethiopia, they were responsible to
relate to more than a dozen partners
who operate over forty projects
throughout the country. These in-
volve educational, medical and re-
- habilitation facilities hoc 1_�ind,.
tate -deaf aiothawise disabled
people.
Mr. Gingerich was also involved
in establishing protocols with the
various government departments in
order that CBM's work in Ethiopia
could be carried on.
Mrs. Gingerich in addition to her
role as CBM co -representative, was
involved in special services to
maty greatly needy disabled people
-- children and adults.
The couple's home is in Zurich. "
BILL HASKETT'
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There has been a trend recently toward private funerals. We don't think
that's healthy, and we want to tell you why.
A private funeral typically consists of a graveside service without
mourner, or a private viewing followed by burial or cremation. There of-
ten is no religious service, no eulogy, no provision for mourners other
than the deceased's immediate family.
Those who would choose such a funeral do not want to meet their
friends, business associates or neighbors while they are mourning.
They may feel embarrassed by expressions of sympathy, or they may
believe grief is a private matter, not to be shared.
But they are depriving themselves, as well as other people who knew
the decreased, of the acknowledgement of death. The private funeral,
if it does not provide for viewing of the body, may put off the final ac-
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A traditional funeral service also allows friends and acquaintances to
share their sorrow, providing the mutual support that helps each to re-
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