Times Advocate, 1989-06-21, Page 4Page 4 Times -Advocate, June 21, 1989
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Thumb addiction
"Why arc you so sad, Stepha-
nie?" I asked the little girlin the
rocking chair sucking her thumb.
"Because some people in
school call me Suckie?".
"Well, you could stop .the
name-calling by stopping to suck
your thumb".
"I try, Daddy, but I can't stop
it."
The trouble with Stephanie is
that she has an addiction: her
thumb. It just keeps slipping into
her mouth. We've tried incen-
tives, and they don't work. Actu-.
ally, we've played it down quite
a bit because apparently the cure
can be worm than the affliction.
However, there is the tooth sit-
uation to consider. At the mo-
ment she has 'only one incisor.
All others have been collected by
a' very busy tooth fairy. But
when her new teeth come in,
they should be given a chance to
grow straight. Our friendly
neighbourhood orthodontist
doesn't work for nothing.
Alexander has the same addic-
tion.
ddiction. He no longer sucks his
thumb in public, only when no
one is looking. He was fitted
with an "appliance" last winter.
The first one (which cost consid-
crably more than my first car)
ended up in the McNab Town-
ship dump via the bowels of the
McNab Public School garbage
disposal system. The second one
is slightly more difficult to re-
move from the mouth, but has
already come close to being lost
twice. -
We might have to do without
such luxuries as. food, shelter
and clothing just to keep these
two kids supplied with, braces.
And it's all because of thumb
sucking.
How do you make your kids
break the habit? I'm open. to
PETER'S
POINT
•
by Peter Hesse'
suggestions. Don't tell me to
bribe them: I've already spent
$400 on an electronic keyboard
that was supposed to end Alex-
ander's thumb sucking once and
for all. Alexander even signed a
contract, duly witnessed and all.
We now have a broken contract
in my office, and a confiscated
keyboard in Elizabeth's. When-
ever one of us has to pay yet an-
, other orthodontal bill,we can
console ourselves by playing the
Broken Promise Blues.
• An don't tell me to wrap the
thumb in a mustard plaster pr in
tar. Unless you supply the pat-
ent lock that keeps the plaster on
By Ross Haugh
the thumb. We'vetried every-
thing but hypnosis, child batter-
ing and deportation.
Here's the deal. Anyone who
suggests a cure that works will
receive a glossy photograph of
Stephanis and/or Alexander
without thumb in the mouth, au-
tographed by them, by Dr. Glo-
ver, and by myself.
Not only that, but I will also
mention the cure in my column,
so that other parents of thumb -
addicted children (POTACs) can
benefit from the advice.
Why is it that some kids suck
and others don't? Duncan, for
exam le, doesn't know what all
the ft ss is about. He was never a
thumb sucker, not even as a
baby. And yet all our children
.have had the same parents, the
same environment, the same at-
tention. Duncan and Stephanie
arc twins, for heaven's sake. Is
there a genetic factor involved?
Do only some babies suck their
thumbs in the womb? Too many
questions, not enough answers.
Maybe you've read .. good arti-
cle or book on the subject. Don't
tell me to read it. Give me the sa-
lient points, all neatly pre-
packaged, pre-digested and
ready for application. I would be
much obliged. We POTACs
have to stick together. Besides, I
really do resent it when other
kids call my daughter a Suckle.
Letters to the Editor
Dear Sir:
A lot of people are complaining
about the new group postal delivery
-boxes, among other things. ,
If anybody has a complaint about
these boxes, or Mr. Wilson's bud-
get, or anything else, instead of
complaining to ybur neighbours
and friends, pick up the telephone
and call Murray Cardiff's consti-
tuency office at ZE 31020 - toll
free. .
The telephone operator will ask
for your phqnc number but you
will not be charged for the call.
It's your duty as a Canadian citi-
zen to speak up and voice your
opinion.
M.J. Connor
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Dear Sir:
Qn behalf of the Huron County
Community Child Abuse Coordi-
nating Committee (CCACC), I
would like to thank the business
community and many individuals of
Exeter who contributed to the suc-
cess of our Teddy Be& Dream Auc-
tion and Raffle on May 13.
The evening raised a total of
$9,300.00, all of which will go to-
ward the work of the community
Child Abuse Coordinating Com-
mittee, a 23 -member voluntary
group composed of professionals
and community members concerned
about child abuse.
The committee is the sponsor of
the Kids on the Block child -abuse
prevention program, presented at
public and separate schools across
Huron County. The money raised
will go toward this and other pre-
vention projects, including a library
resource bank which will make vid-
eos and children's books on street -
proofing available to parents and
professionals in Huron County.
The Community Child Abuse
Coordinating Committee is com-
mitted to developing a community
response to child abuse. The partici-
pation of the people of -Exeter and
arca in this fundraising event is a
step toward that goal. Thank you
to everyone who donated raffle and
auction items and to those'of you
who came to dinner, had fun, and
raised money toward the prevention
of child abuse.
Sincerely,
Betty Bedard -Bidwell
Chairperson,
Fundraising and Public Relations
Committee
Dear Sir:
I would like to thank you and
your staff for your coverage of 'the
Grand Bend Beavers and Cabs
throughout the year.
The boys all got a kick out of
seeing their pictures in the paper
and families reading about the dif-
ferent activities that took place.
Thanks again.
Sincerely yours,
Marlene Lane.
Dear Sir:
Our family would like to thank
two caring and tompassionatc •men
in your community.
Oo May 18, our family was trav-
elling from Petrolia to Lindsay
when our transmission "blew" out-
side of Exeter.
At Thruway Muffler System, Al-
bert spent much time arranging for
our car to be towed to London as
well as trying to rent us a,car.
Leon Coolman of Leon's Buy &
Sell, loaned us a car for the week-
end, so our plans to attend our'
school's 100th anniversary were a
reality. Albert stayed overtime to
fix up this car and getting if in run-
ning order for us.
The community of Exeter should
be proud of these men, who extend-
ed a hand of friendship and caring to
our family.
Whenever we travel through Exet-
er, the warmth and kindness of your
community will always be remem-
bcied.
Sincerely,
Jim and Elaine Willis and family,
Petrolia.
THE PEOPLE
suppou
ME.
Water pulls
We had the opportunity and the
pleasure to be a part of a recent
bus trip of the northern portion of
the Ausable Bayfield Conserva-
tion Authority watershed along
with some directors and staff
members.
Before we started out on the
trip, communications manager
for the Authority Kathy Monk
said, " We manage water, but a
lot of the time water manages us"
and we saw one very dramatic
demonstration of that.
One of the last stops on the trip
was in to Poplar Beach in Hay
township. We remember stop-
pingat this point on a similar trip
three years ago and standing be-
side a tree on the bank overlook-
ing the lake.
On last week's trip to this spot,
to and behold that tree is now
well down the bank towardsthe
lake.
Kathy Monk told us that the
amount of bank lost from June of
1973 to January of 1988 amount-
ed to 20.6 metres. at this loca-
tion. In old fashioned terms
that's a bit more than 60 feet.
About half of that total was lost
during a span of one year from
August, 1986 to August, 1987.
In the last couple of years the
Level .of Lake Huron has gone
down about three feet, so. that
probably will slow erosion down
a little bit, but Poplar Beach
seems to be the most dramatic
erosion spot along the shoreline.
From the
editor's disk
by
Ross Haugh
The Lake Huron shoreline is a
good example of the changing of
human nature. When the levels
were high, most owners along
the lake were trying to devise all
kinds of methods to protect their
shoreline and banks.
Now that the levels arc down a
bit, . instead of continuing with
protection, some arc thinking of
putting docks out into the lake.
Quitc a change instrategy.
Monk said the quality of water
at Morrison Dam is the best in
the watershed as most of the sed-
imenti settles before the water
gets to this location. The source
of the Ausable River is near Staf-
fa.
Our newspaper was mentioned in
the May 29 issue of the Publish-
ers' Auxiliary. Printed in Wash-
ington, DC. it is the newspaper
industry's oldest newspaper.
Edmund C. Arnold is a profes-
sor emeritus of mass communica-
tions at Virginia Commonwealth
University and has a Page of the
Week in this publication.
Ainolyl• was a critic at the Onta-
rio Weekly Newspaper conven-
tion in Toronto early in March
and in the recent Publishers'
Auxiliary we received he showed
two of our front pages. The one
that won the best front page com-
petition and the one of the week
of the convention.
In his concluding his comments
Arnold said, " Thc T -A is a dam
good paper in areas other than
front-page layout. But then, so
are most Canadian papers.
He has Arnold's Ancient Axi-
om each, week. The two recent
ones are, " Journalism is boom-
ing north of the border" and
"Readers and staffers should
have fun from special issues."
Pun of the Week - Courage at.
the critical time is half the,victo-
ry•
A fine and decent place
The school year is nearly over.
Students will soon be set free
upon an unsuspecting world.
Some will inevitably make their
way to that ultimate summer
character -builder. camp.
With no children of my own
yet, I don't have to decide wheth-
er to send anyone to camp. I'd
probably be more inclined tobar-
ricade them in the basement until
September.
You sec, I was at camp once.
Not as a camper, but better - a
counsellor - my first real summer
job.
The camp (which shall remain
nameless to protect those already
signed up) is not very far from
here: a decent, Christian, camp.
This was some time ago, but I
doubt any detail has changed. .
There is a certain timelessness
to summer camp, reinforced by
messages pencilled on rough
wood walls in the cabins: "Joe
Smith was here, 1962", written
the year the camp opened like it
was yesterday. Written before
Kennedy was shot, before man
walked on the moon, before
many of us were born. Natural-
ly, we added our own names to
the walls, feeling very high-tech
about kicking off a new decade
with "Adrian Hartc, 1980".
Thc rules to camp seemed very
simple. Counsellors were the
ones with the biggest, most pow-
crful flashlights. They also were
the ones allowed the most fun.
To anyone else, camp can be a
traumatic experience. Every so
often a newly -arrived camper
would take exception to his
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Hold that
' d thought...
by
Adrian Harte
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bunkmates, the rules, the food,
and -would hightail it through the
woods and across the fields. We
used to dispatch Mike, who had
thc fastest and longest legs, to
chase down these runaways and
convince them there was no way
they could reach home in a rea-
sonable time, assuming they
even knew where they were. It
never took them long to realize
camp could be fun after all. Of
course, we'd have to keep re-
minding them.
Take for e7tamplc tho time 1
wore a gorilla suit for an evening
stroll around the camp courtyard.
It took an amazingly long time
for anyone to notice mc, but
when they did thc reaction was
swift and terrible. Small chil-
dren werc•screaming and scatter-
ing in all directions. If kids "
don't go to camp to have the liv-
ing daylights scared out of them,
then why do they go?
It took only a few more sec-
onds before thc campers discov-
ered this monster was only a cos-
tume, something like an
oversized teddy bcar. Almost
immediately, I found myself be-
ing pursued. I headed for the
swimming pool where our life-
guard was c1eanilhg up.
He later told me this was one of
the more surreal experiences of
his life - watching, almost in
slow motion, a hoard of yelling
kids scrambling through the
woods toward his pont, lcd by a
gorilla.
To this day I still don't know
how 1 escaped.
• As counsellors, we had to
show leadership. While the kids
were spending their days collect-
ing flora, singing songs and
playing games, we were spend-
ing our nights pondering the
more pressing questions of life.
We 'disco•iered the uses of a
package of food colouring at four
o'clock in the morning. We ex-
plored the possibilities of a ven-
triloquist's dummy with a flash-
light in a cabin window. We
made ghost stories very, very
real.
So would I send my own kids
off to camp? Not a chance, I
want to go back first.