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Times-Advocate, 1988-08-24, Page 2..Page 2 4 Times -Advocate, August 24, 1988 Disease forces career change Refuses to be defeated by multiple sclerosis Ity 1 ► unne Reynolds . 11 hen 32 -year-old Jim • \ionto get, up in the morning, he's r,l,t 'sure hich parts of his_body. tun -lion that (1:ty. hlc may be ..1 ork on his latest stained t or he may nOt be able I , 1. u;• hi, (:up of breakfast cof- , J1111 ha, niuluple sclerosis. ,1. ..ribs,.; having MS as."like '.1,.p...do‘.‘n the barrel of a gun, 1.r1. .:;:; .:enntall� someone -will pull Ili,.tri •f.. "file nar►e trilns- Lit, a, -man) sears"; damage to tli • ;;, r:: coat in !y distOtts and dis- nal, lroni the brain to the ul, of tl►e body. "17te only TRANSOM The transom betweer the living and dining rooms -in the house across the street was Jim Morris' gift to his friends the -Coop- Prs. - - • P:irt J can rely on is his- arm. is aria. ;reit years • ago this hard -to - insidious, cruel disease Olt 'short the Orillia'native's burge- i'qiiig career as head:chef and admin- i:trcrtor in the prestigious kitchens of l►lacc- like the I til::hwayman Inn i.i 1 nr;;ii.t. and the Geneva Park Conference Centre. It did not stop lm his plan toarry his fiancee a reg- istered nurs a originally from south York -hire, England. Jim and Ann began married life in a London apa•ttnent in August, 1985. Jim first began working with glass when an estimate on replacing the leaded glass panes in. an old hutch was so. prohibitive he deter-_ mined to do the job himself: HZ- enjoyed eenjoyed the experience. After a -par- ticularly bad attack from -the capri- cious warden that holds him prison- er, he decided to learn More about the ancient art of creating with stained glass. -"1 had to find something to do or go out of my mind", he said. A check of the • yellow pages turned up the name of Jim Gratton in -Lambeth. The random choice - it was the closest - was an excellent one. Gratton answered .all the be- ginhcr's questions, ordered design books especially for Jim, and con- tinues to supply materials, assis- tance and encouragement. Lambeth Glassis now located at RR8 Park- hill, even -handier forthis enthusias- tic and grateful' customer as the Morrises moved from London to - Exeter 18 months ago. _ • Worry over what to do if Jim needed help while Ann was away • workipg a 12 -hour shift at a Lon- -. don Hospital spurred a decision -to look for a house in a small town• outside -.the city. The Morrises rhymed oft about l0 .places they considered, but -none had "felt right". Then they, carate to 1'xcter. They .sensed sotncthinf; "different and good" about -this fawn, and -- soon bought their home on An- drew St. South. The longer they live here, the happier they arc with their deci- sion. Jim reports the townfolk arc very friendly and ready to engage in conversation; it often takes him two hours to get the mail. The best part, the couple emphasize, -is THE BEGINNING - Stained glass artist Jim Morris points to the hutch doors that started him working _with glass. 4-H workshop -( 1 IN 10N - 1 ightcr and leaner r,:, alp. k-rrilie tacos, .hcavcnly.}am- hl,r savory stews•- these arc t a l% v of the reasons why 4-11 1.s iitakrng . 'Much ...Ado About • i ill's new 4-1 ',project offers youth cep 1 2 : pd 21 years of age, the c ;Tt,r1unij.-y to learn how to buy, ; ar,i1'cook beef, veal, pork and '.alit or your fainily and friends. Trough recipe preparation, trips and other fun'ac- tr.iti. titenrhers will also learn bow ni;atcan play an important •.h:crt in retaking your life healthy. \\'orkshops for leaders arc being held on Thursday, September 15 - t nue -day time workshop and one 'e‘ ;limo, 111 the Clinton arca. 1=ctr more information on 'Much \•;o► About .1cats', contact Jane \;u;gee, Rural Organization Spc- i.' ia. Ontario Ministry of Agri - Mur; and Food, Box 159, Clin-- . t;': i ( mtario, NOM ILO or phone 1- \ ` 5'170 or 482-3428. Moonlight Madness 1LL FALL & \\ i`TFR ARRIVALS 10% OFF 15°'° OFF 20' OFF 9:(111 to 6:00 p.m. (,:00 p.m. . to 9:00 p.ni. 9:00 p.ni. to I2.mid. Ilollrly Specials ,Startitlg 6:00 p.m. Come to ,Seaforth and ,Save i de St<,It..t rh 2- `1.'11 their caring, helpful neighbours; they do not interfere unnecessarily, but the Morrises know they will be there if needed. Ann can leave for work confident that someone will drop in to see how Jim is that day. "The neighbours are wonderful. 1'11 have to be dragged away from WOODWORK, TOO - Jim Morris made a cane stand from the solid oak of an -old Bell Telephone booth. this housz. kicking and screaming", Ann remarked. The two laugh about the time Jim skimmed around .the lawn as Ann chased him with a garden hose. He hit a rut, spun.out, and was thrown unceremoniously from his wheelchair. As he lay 'igno- miniously on the ground, one of the neighbours called over and -asked if his chair needed a body job. "No, but I do," Jim called back:, A sardonic sense of humour is a• r 1ajo weapon in Morris' arsenal. "Being married to a nurse is cheap- er than hiring -one" is a favourite line, the straight-faced delivery be- trayed by a loving glance at his wife. The bite was sharper -the day the couple went -shopping in a London plaza on a snowy winter's day, and Ann had to push husband and wheelchair through heavy slush be- cause an unauthorized car was in the handicapped parking spot. An overweight .middle-aged woman was unlocking the offend- ing car as the Morrises trekked back through the snow to their .. own vehicle. Jim informed her that being fat and illiterate did- not constitute legal handicapped status: The woman directed a stream of curses his way, got into her car and drove off. - MS has created a strong bond be- tween husband and'wifc. Though thetwocan no longer go skiing or swimming together, they are part- ners in making Tiffany lamps,' windows, door panels, transoms, mirrors, sun catchers and other lovely articles from stained glass. Ann cuts the -glass, and holds heav- ier items while Jim. applies copper foil and solder: (On days when his body systems are "down", Jim turns to designing on his IBM clone computer.) The Morrises arc also becoming increasingly vocal. advocates for making public and governments aware of the need of the,physically . disabled for both an information and support system, and financial assistance. Jim notes that the cost • of keeping him in a hospital would be about S 1,000 a day, yci his small federal disability pension is based solely on the amount he con- tributed to the Canada Pension while he was still a member of the work force. The degree of disabili- ty is not a factor. - He is limited in the amount of money he can earn; anything over a set sutra is deducted from the pen- sion he dares not relinquish, as he doe.s not know when or if he will - become completely disabled. • One specialist had good news and bad news for him recently. fie was as- sured the frequency. of his MS at- tacks will decrease as he ages. That is because eventually mosi. of his organs will have been destroyed! The Morrises heard accidentally of a provincial government pilot project. to lend 515,000 to each of -10 Ontario residents, the money to be used to pay -for the home renova- tions necessary to accommodate the disabled. They applied; and became one of 'the fortunate recipients: "Next to cancer, MS is the larg- est graveyard lir mistaken treat - (penis. .And initial diagnosis is dif- ficult. Once l found the cause of my mood swing:, 1 could control them," Jim said. 'N.lany people are going through what 1 went throw' h, and they may not_ be as. strong. Jim admitted admitted to one positive ef- fect of NIS. The price.was high, but tie has discovered the joy and satisfaction of stain, -.1 glass artis- try. - WINDOW - A Morris window is the highlight of a neighbour's bathroom decor. - Some of -the money will he dcsig- 'nated as a forgivcablc loan. (There is a string attached - if Jim dies or has to be permanently institutional- ized within the next live years, Ann must repay every'cent.) Jim wonders why such informa- tion is not sent out to all eligible persons by means of a notice with their monthly disability cheques. - "We would like treatment accord- ing to our needs", Jim remarked. He would also like to plug into a network to save others some of the grief he has experienced in the past four years, coping with a disease that claims over- 30 'percent of its victims by suicide within the first five ycirs of diagnosis. ARTISANS - Jim Morris and his wife Ann display crafted in stained plass. the first article ',key Anstett Jewellers - Goderich ANNUAL ESTATE JEWELLERY SHOW & SALE The collection is magnificent. A few examples are listed below,;. 1EXTRAORDINARY PIECES Replacement Estate . Value Sale N883 14 kt river of diamonds necklace 7.25 et total 7.90.0. 5,290. 11930 18 kt dinner ring with -3.90 ct yellow sapphire and 2.35 et of diamonds 6.000. 4,020. B710 14 kt tennis bracelet 3.55 ct total diamonds4.700. • 3,150. H642. 18 kt art deco brooch combination locket and P\14I ring set; with pearls. turquoise and rose cut. diamonds set 3.800. 3016 Sapphire and diamond drop earrings 2.900 N401 8 strand twisted coral with 14 kt clasp set with turquoise 1.0 1,200. N1388 14 kt lavaliere necklace with oval sapphires 575. 385. R298 18 kt white -gold ring 1.60 ct centre diamond 6 diamonds .08 ct total 4.000. 2,680, 8980 14 kt white gold ring .50 ct emerald cut dia- . mond 4 emerald cut diamonds .40 ct total2.650. 1,775. DIAMONDS c Replacement value 8521 Magnificent diamond cluster) .27 ct oval cen- tre diamond 36 diamonds .70 ct total. . 8643 14-18 kt ring marquise shape swirl 36 diamonds .60 ct total 14772 18 kt ring with 3 marquise diamonds 1 00 et tot9l 2 x .05 et diamonds 2.950 2,550. 1{511 18 kt trinity ring 3 diamonds tight canary 3.15 1,945. et l total 5.950. 8341 18 kt gent's solitaire ring 2.05 et diamond4.70o 8610 18 kt -coil ring14 diamonds .88 et total 1.5.111 R731 18 kt designer ring 2 emerald cuj diamonds .35 ct total 20 diamonds .60 ct total G106 10 kt gent's solitaire ring 1.03 ct diamond. 4087'3 10 kt ring .65 ct total diamond pave set 6923 Unusual engagement ring .20 ct centre stone .23 ct total diamonds 440 18 kt white -gold cluster ring -17 ct total diamonds 11841 Gorgeous 18 ktbow style ring 34 diamonds .90 ct total 11922 18 kt diamond shape ring bezel set .10 cl dia- mond leaf design set 24 diamonds .70 ct total 11624 1-1 kt ring .80 ct marquise diamond 4 marquise diamonds .55. ct total Estate Sale • ;`COLOURFUL GEMS• - 1{812 18 kt sapphire and diamond ring 4 sapphires 7.041 5.025. •3i, (•t diamonds • 1 102E 18 kt sapphire and diamond ring tit, tet 0% al 1.500 1,000. . sapphire 12 c•t diamonds 11i;n1 18 kI cluster stile ring .itr emerald ;I 1.975. diamotds 714 c•t total I(..:42 14 kt x hite-gold ring 95 c1 square -apphrr e 1 3.995. Baguette diamonds 41; cl Inuit 3,150. 1{1:,8.; Lapis and diamond pave et ra.,l 1.040. -,...,--,1.% 1%onderful braided style ring :;41,' total sa11, phires 42 rt total diamonds 1,1 ,' hotel 1.8(041 1,200. gm-ralds . 1.454 972. R8;1 18kt rtng sapphire 70 et diamond, 4,P1 t i''.,i 1.104 740. IPI baguettes and rounds , • 1{641► 18 kt rung oral turquoise 24 than. in 1- «. (1 1.170 784. total , 1{: ;1,o. 18 kt wonderhllldesigned sapphire tin, rhe 11:51) 435 mind ring • I{.i'' Ittkt ring tan shill . :, rtihres i; dr►noindk l'i et - total LD JEWELLERY 1 Replacement Value 13923 18 kt handmade slave hracelet'56.grams.... 2.000 13604 18 kt bangle 24 grams 1.100 8962 18 kt handmade gent's ring 32 grams 950 B1364 Gold rose brooch 230 TJ25 • 14 kt gold collar 1.109 T.159.14 kt yellow and, white gold collar.. 2.295. Matching bracelet.TJ28................ . _. 1.595. Estate Sale 1,350. 740. 640. 154. 665. 1,797. 957. 1,190. .•h! I•:state ., ., . Sale 1;101 ' 110 2 11„ 1.770 1,190. WATCHES - ,► 2.35o 1,575. NoT1•.: *All sales final - • •Anstett Jewellers AGS Gent Laboratory will issue • appraisals on sales for insurance purposes at no extra charge. FINAL DAYS ....Our Estate Jewellery Show & Sale ends Wednesday, August 31st, 1988.- • **Cam G(x SOL veToe•sr,p •s awa,ded only 40 se,e0•4 1ewN,e,i woo pre sess WOW^ 9e•ro,og•ca,.,104.4age and ire n.9rest !theta! su'.da•es 0 rs Mu, assv,ance o fled rehab•,, and capaD•,•ty or Pros tram Do you own a piece of Estate Jewellery? Bring it mto•Ansteu's, (I(xleric•h location during our Estate Shoo We would like to display 1t and yours may be judged the most unique and beautiful So'join m. a prize will ix awarded at the end of n'mr show ANSTETT JE/./ELLERS LIMITED ED 890. 895. 1.375. 1,675. 402. 1,475. 1,240. 1,610. 585. 575. Estate - .. . Sale 11284 -i8 kI ()mega I let We ladit•. c itch 1 1:,11 770. 14 kt and stainless ladies Concord Match 2.1941 1.095. . 14 kt and stainless ladies La 1 o,:ta ('ois ord Aatch with diamond dial' 1 «1 795. 14 r.1 ladies' Concord vintc•h 1 ;4i 2.395. 14 kl :adieu Concord catch with leather strap, 1.1 575. 14 Cera(s ('oncord with leathetrap 2 ' ,ort 1,. (lentkt . "enc, rd La ('ossa 'catchr t 395195. Estate Shooand Sal(': 2 The Square Goderich phone 524-4195 Branches 10 (11ton:.'eal1►rth. EN'eter. .St .liar (:'s :Mil ttalAerton