Times-Advocate, 1983-04-13, Page 6Tlmes•Advocote, April 13, 1983
JUDGING THE SCIENCE FAIR - Judges. Ian McAllister and Lauretta Seigner listen
as Shelley Erb, Grade six, Zurich Public School, explains her entry in the South Huron
district science fair at the rec centre.
Are you listening?
Many people feel uncomfor-
table looking another person
straight in the eye. During a
conversation, direct eye con-
tact may be made briefly,
then shifted by one or both
parties.
Someone told me watching
,a person's eyes while that
ship and listening this way:
"Friendship is the comfort,
the inexpressible comfort of
feeling safe with a person,
having ' neither to weight
thoughts nor measure words,
but p6uring all right out just
as they are, chaff and grain
together, certain that a
Odds 'n ends
By Elaine Townshend
person is talking is a sign of
forcefulness on the part of the
listener.
Strangely, I always thought
it meant interest. If someone
stares out the window while
I'm talking to them, I get the
distinct impression they're
bored.
Is anything more
frustrating than trying to
have a three -sided conversa-
tion between yourself. a se-
cond person and the television
set?
How many times have we
been tempted to grab a
newspaper from in front of so-
meone's face and scream.
"Please' listen to me"?
How often have we tried to
talk to someone, received no
response,walked into another
room, said something about
the person and had him or her
yell, "I heard that?"
Even if we gain a person's
undivided attention, does he
or she really listen to us? And,
when the tables are turned. do
we listen to them?
Listening is an art - a vital
part of communication. Some
people listen, but theydon't
hear what the other person is
saying. Few people have the
ability to listen and
understand.
Someone described friend-
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rest away."
Carolyn Herrmann wrote
about A Listener:
"It`s nice to have someone to
talk to
When you have a secret to
share
Or when you feel troubled or
worried
To know that somebody will
care.
It's wonderful having a
listener
Because you can learn a
whole lot
By hearing yourself as you
ramble
On some special problem
you've got.
But one thing 'that's just as
rewarding •
REGISTERED NURSE
Jane Sullivan, daughter of
Patrick and Marion
Sullivan, RR 3 Dashwood,
graduated from the Con-
estoga College Diploma
Nursing Program. Jane
has accepted a position as
Nurse Intern at The
Hospital for Sick Children
in Toronto. She is a
graduate ort South Huron
District High School.
As someone to care about you
Is having the love and the
patience
To be someone's 'listener',
• too."
Seniors see
travel pies
About 100 members
answered the roll call of
senior citizens at the April
meeting.
The spring rally of zone 8
will be held in the Exeter
Legion Hall,. Wednesday,
April 27. Registration from
9:30 a.m. to 10 a.m. The fee is
$1.50.
Senior Citizens week will be
June 19 to 25 and members
were urged to observe the
same, by some special
events.
The convention for U.S.C.O.
will be held in Windsor at the
University of. Windsor.
August 9 and with registration
on August 8.
Members were reminded of
the invitation to Dashwood on
April 18. Those wishing to go
to be at the legion by 7:15 p.m.
Those who are driving' and
picking up a load will please
notify 'the president of. the
names of those they are
taking.
The program for the even-
ing, prepared by Mr. and
Mrs. Walter Davis and Mr.
and Mrs. Walter McBride was
chaired by Mrs. Walter
Davis, who conducted two
contests:
Following this, there were
several numbers rendered by
a quartet of Douglas Gill. Bob
Blair, Sam Skinner and Bob
Heywood and followed by
selections by Bob, accompa-
nying himself on the
accordion.
The quartet was accom-
panied by Mrs. D. Gill on the
piano. A short devotional talk
was given by Mrs.. Davis.
Each of these numbers were
enjoyed and deeply ap-
preciated by the audience.
A few pictures showing
scenes from Ellison Travel
Tours were enjoyed by all, as
were a commentary on same.
The program committee
for May will be Leila F'ink-
b einer Blanche Dougall,Mar-
jorie Adams and Joe Boland.
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Huron County Women are
asking doctors and hospitals
where they stand on policies
and procedures surrounding
the birth of babies. This week,
a birthing, committee
associated with Women To-
day has sent questionnaires to
all Huron County doctors and
all hospitals in and surroun-
ding the county.
"We are exploring the op-
portunit. es and options for
birthing available to expec-
tant parents" said Valerie
Bolton, coordinator ofithe self-
help and advocacy group for
Huron County women. "Our
goal is to increase the oppor-
tunity for women to have the
most positive and safe birth
possible. We feel this is best
facilitated by a well informed
expectant mother who Is en-
couraged to take part in the
decisions about the birth."
It wasn't long ago that
women were routinely
sedated through childbirth,
given gas before delivery and
fathers were exiled to smoky
wailing rooms. Breastfeeding
was discouraged and the
newborn was whisked away,
from both mother and father
for hours after the birth.
A lot has been changing in
our hospitals that tend toward
more family centred materni-
ty care. Fathers are routine-
ly present at births and even
in a few cases have been pre-
sent at caesarean deliveries.
Mothers are handed their
child on the delivery table and
many breastfeed their infant
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"We applaud the changes that
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"but some of us are frustrated
with the slow pace of the
change and also with the lack
of opportunity women have to
communicate what it is they
want."
Most doctors expect that
women will talk to them in the
privacy of their office about
concerns and disappoint-
ments about the birth of their
child. But all too often women
are intimidated by their doc-
tors, either by shyness, lack
of the proper technical terms
or time constraints. She may
imagine her doctor is too busy
or will be offended by what
she has to say. Quite often
there is fear or anger about
the birth experience a woman
may never properly deal
with.
"A woman doesn't want to
create waves with a doctor or
hospital she will be returning
to in a couple of years' time"
explained Bolton, "'That is
why we have chosen to form
a committee and talk to doc-
tors and hospitals as a group
We want to diffuse the emo-
tionality that flairs up when
you talk about the issue on a
personal basis. "We certain
ly don't want to get peoples'
back's up, we just want the
opportunity to discuss the
issues and relay our concerns
in a non -threatening way."
This is certainly not just a
local issue. The College of
Physicians and Surgeons in
birthing policies
Ontario have issued
guidelines to Ontario doctors
discouraging them from par-
ticipating in homebirths:
Safety is the main factor
arguing against birthing at
home but several local
womeh have decided for a
variety of reasons to deliver
their babies at home, usually
with a midwife present. "Doc-
tors insist the homebirths are
trot safe" stated a practicing
midwife "But there are risks
associated with a hospital
birth that are not present at a
home birth".
"Our committee is certain-
ly not advocating women
abandon the hospitals for
homebirths" emphasized
Bolton "We are concerned
that women have the oppor-
tunity to have the security of
a safe environment for the
birth without having un-
wanted technical procedures
or drugs forced on her."
"A central issue in birthing
is who should be in control"
stated Kathi Wilson, a
childbirth educator frotn the
Kirkton area. "We feel the
women should direct the birth
with the support of her part•
ner and the professionals at
hand". Too often she is ex-
pected to hand over her
responsibility and participa-
tion when she walks through
the hospital's front doors."
"We must keep in mind that
birthing is not an illness, it is
natural process, that in most
cases needs no interference
whatsoever."
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