The Huron Expositor, 1995-03-22, Page 11
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MUNICIPAL
The Seaforth
Fire Area
gets a
new fire
truck,
delivered
on Monday.
see page seven.
Briefly
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Parr Line wins
silver medal in
Ontario event
Parr Line Ladies' Broomball
Team competed at the Provincial
Championships in Armprior on
the weekend and finished
second.
The team had a tough start to
the tournament and was beaten
by Chesterville 3-2 in overtime.
That loss meant the girls would
face elimination in the second
game against the defending
Champions Barrie Satellites who
had also lost their first game.
In that second game although
the score was close (1-0) the
girls outplayed Barrie from start
to finish to eliminate them from
further play.
Parr Line's next opponent was
Chesterville, the team who had
beaten them earlier in the
weekend but this time the
outcome was different as the
local team dominated in
overtime for a 2-0 score to gain
a berth in the final.
In .ap excellent game on
Sunday Parr Line was defeated
by a very strong team from the
Eastern Region, MacMillian's 1-
0.
At closing ceremonies Parr
Line placed four players on the
All-Star Teams, Heidi Elliott and
Tanya Eckert on defense, Cheryl
Kruse at Centre and Sandra
Wilson who had an amazing
weekend and was the talk of the
elite division in net. Theses
players and the rest of the team
are some of the best in the
province and time and time show
their skills at these events and
Seaforth should be very proud to
have such a team.
Stanley says 'No'
to farm proposal
Stanley Township said 'No' to
a proposal for a recreational
development involving residen-
tial construction and a communal
farm for horses.
Council made the decision at a
meeting on March 14 despite
four people who spoke in favour
of the development. A group
opposing the Stone Lea Holdings
proposal also attended the meet-
ing.
All five councillors voted not
to recommend an Official Plan
amendment to permit the pro-
posed development. The propo-
sal will now be considered by
Huron County Council.
If the proposal is approved or
rejected then proponents or
opponents of the plan can appeal
to the Ontario Municipal Board
(OMB).
Developer Tim Beard said the
investors have not made a deci-
sion whether to appeal to the
OMB if the county rejects the
plan.
He did say, however, that the
township had made a "rash"
decision.
"It's a puzzle to us," said
Beard. "The council has really
not indicated to us what's wrong
with jltjs proposal."
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GREGOR CAMPBELL PHOTO
WARMING UP THE ELBOW GREASE - The Seaforth Youth Drop in Centre may become a reality if local youths work for it, as they plan
to do this Saturday when they are holding a car was at Godfather Pizza to raise funds for premises on Seaforth's Main Street.
Group raises funds for youth centre
BY GREGOR CAMPBELL
Expositor Staff
every second Monday at the
Optimist Building at the Optimist
Park. They have been investigating
possible Drop In locations on the
_Local youths won't be hanging Main Street, and the old Expositor
around the Seaforth's Main Street building and former VN video store '
Saturday afternoon. next door are high on their list.
They will be near the come: of Other fundraisers in the works for
Main and George Street East coming months include teen dances,
hoping to see lots of dirty cars or summer activities and a bake sale.
trucks, as the first fundraiser of the They are also working as a group
Seaforth Youth Drop -In Centre for the town's upcoming
Board is all set to go. Homecoming celebrations, helping
It is a car wash. to move tables and chairs, and that
The youths have a number of sort of thing.
fundraising activities up their Williams says the Centre already
sleeves in coming months. They has a pool table and accessories,
hope the money will eventually go donated by Neil Govenlock who no
towards a Drop -In Centre. longer has room for it.
"Everybody is still eager to go," Chris Dalton, Chair of the youth
says Monica Williams, who acts as wing of the board, says the whole
liaison between the adult and youth gang still hasn't come up with an
boards for the proposed Drop In official name but for now Seaforth
Centre. "Actually they're in a hurry. Youth Drop In Centre Group will
They want everything today." have to do.
The group is holding its meetings Saturday afternoon's car wash is
slated for 1 to 4 p.m. at the parking
lot of Godfather Pizza. It will cost
$3 per car, but $5 will get you a
wash and interior vacuum too.
The owner of the pia&ria, John
Hunt, has pledged $50 and is
challenging every business in town
to do likewise. He will also be
offering free coffee for car wash
customers, and a discount on pizza.
The Youth Centre boards met for
the fifth time Monday night. The
group sprung forth early this winter
from community concerns about
young people hanging around the
Post Office building and elsewhere
on the Main Street. Youths
expressed a desire for a building of
their own at the well -attended
inaugural meeting at the Women's
Resource Centre.
There are 14 on the youth and
adult branches of the board.
Although the board is set for now,
Dalton says the group still is
seeking any bright ideas and
welcomes any idle hands that wish
to help. He can be reached at 527-
2881, or Williams at 527-1092. The
Youth Drop -In Centre Board is
made up of the following
individuals:
Adult
Const. Dave Dale, Chair,
Kathy Ferguson, Co-chair/
treasurer;
Val Millson, secretary;
Kathleen Scott, media;
Monica Williams, liaison.
Youth
Chris Dalton, Lair;
Jen Kaufman, Co-chair;
Michelle Cook, secretary;
Kevin Gridzak, Jason Wood,
treasurers;
Dean Pryce, Jeff Webster
Stephanie Dale, activities;
Natalie Dale, April Dalton, Theresa
Boniface, fundraising;
Rod MacDonald, Cathy Jessome,
Robb Williams, advertising.
AGRICULTURE
A former
Canadian
agriculture
minister
blasts the
agriculture
cuts.
see page eight.
Seaforth police
report Sea-doo
Stolen from local
business
The Seaforth Police
Department reports a
Bombardier Sea -Doo was stolen
sometime Monday night from
Leo's Auto Sales at 54 Goderich
St. E. in Seaforth. It is valued at
approximately $6,500.
Police say the machine would
require at least two people to lift
it off the ground, and they are
anxious to talk to anyone who
may have witnessed any unusual
activity at the car lot after 9 p.m.
on March 20.
A number of stores in town
have also informed the Seaforth
Police Department of an increase
in thefts.
A Police press release says "one
store owner stated that a number
of items have gone missing just
after a group of young people
had been in their store."
Shop owners and staff have
been urged by police not to let
people congregate inside the
store, and recommend limiting
the number of people in the
store at any one time.
"During the spring break
teenagers have been gathering in
groups on Main Street," the
police press release continues.
"Parents should know where
their children are and what they
are up to. Peer pressure and
boredom have a tendency ' for
young people to commit minor
offenses, such as theft and
damage to property.
"A theft of a candy bar can
lead to more expensive items.
All of us should remember that
it is very easy to be labelled a
criminal or troublemaker in a
small town. Chances of finding a
summer or part-time job
becomes very difficult when a
person is perceived to be
irresponsible."
People discuss dealing with HIV at event
BY AMY NEILANDS
Even though these three stories
arc very different they all share
the common bond of living with
AIDS.
Since his youth, Russell Carson
has lived with the spectre of
death. From the age of 13 he was
living under the care of his older
relatives and he said that there
was always a generation gap
between them. His family started
passing away, but Carson said he
knew their time would come.
Carson is the last in his family of
his age and he has HIV.
Through HIV, "death has once
again become a companion," he
said. In the past 10 years, he has
lost 120 friends to AIDS.
"Multiple loss is a difficult thing
to deal with...I remember the
friends who have passed away and
make peace with their passing,"
he said. Carson, of Clinton, was
one of many guest speakers at the
Huron County H1V/AIDS Net-
work Conference held in Clinton
on Saturday.
Carson, who has been infected
for 11 years, has been very in-
volved with the network because
he said he has something to say.
"People don't have to die. I
don't want young people to live
with the kind of loss I have lived
with. No one wants to outlive
their friends and family. I know
the feeling of that. I cry, I get
mad, I get upset."
Carson told the group that he
has two close friends from Toron-
to left. "They are going to die.
They weren't HIV (positive) when
I mei them. They arc now sicker
than I am. I don't want to lose
them but I'm going to."
lie stressed once again that
today's generation docs not have
to go through the same thing.
With each loss comes the
feeling of guilt; the guilt of sur-
viving.
"I feel guilty at times about
being alive; they're gone and I'm
here." But he said he has no
control over that and added that
he tries to continue on but finds it
really hard to stay on that positive
road.
"You can't do it alone."
Poem by person with HIV
1 am the last. No one comes after me.
1 am like one who has lived a thousand years
and has nothing but his memories
When did I become the last? years ago.
painfully aware of this fact,
1 have always carried on. yet.
I am unable to reminisce, there is no one to remember along with me.
For those things I remember are simply stories of my past, ----to other
people.
One hundred years! I have not lived so long, but there are days!
As if over the last ten years, 1've lived ten times that.
1 am thirty two, but 1 could be one hundred and twenty-two just as
easily.
No longer is there family, they are all dead.
Friends, OLD friends are also all gone. I am like the old man who has
new friends,
but no one to share old memories.
1. live in a world of strangers - this is true loneliness.
/ find myself caught up in memories - memories of family and friends
who lived,
it seems only yesterday, and the feeling of
being alone/mourning/anger/fear/sad/happiness is upon me.
Death follows me, reminds me that it is never far away, it plays a cruel
gams.
1 carry a virus that could kill me - but 1 am not taken.
Death shows itself, not by brushing me, but by taking one after another
of my family and friends, until I am left standing naked in the world.
Death has taken from me that which was close to my heart.
He/It has left me with strangers as companions.
1 wish to meet new people and make new friends, but I'm afraid.
Not that they won't like me, but because...
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By Russell Carson
OLYMPIC RUNNER
Kelly Duhaime's brother Greg
was the athlete of the family. He
was an Olympic Canadian runner
and the picture of health. That's
why it came as a great surprise to
Kelly when his brother suddenly
became very ill with pneumonia.
Kelly and his wife Cherie did not
know a lot about AIDS and felt
they didn't need to know. But
when he first became ill, Kelly
asked and his doctors confirmed
that Greg had AIDS.
Greg was living in Dallas, Tex.
at the time coaching runners. He
was in the hospital for seven
weeks with pneumonia before
recuperating. Kelly and Cherie,
who are from Port Elgin, started
researching this disease and found
that Greg could live for years.
He went back to work and
wanted no one to know he had
AIDS, said Cherie. "That is the
saddest thing I have heard in my
life," that he felt he couldn't share
with anyone that he had this
disease.
After about a year, Greg became
ill again. Kelly and Cherie, who
had decided to vacation in Dallas,
found him in really bad shape and
wanted him to come back to Port
Elgin. At this point he was going
blind.
An AIDS patient continually
loses, said Cherie. They lose their
independence, their job, financial
freedom, friends, family. No one
listened to what he wanted, she
said and this caused some family
problems.
"It all comes down to basic
human respect," said Cherie.
"Loving that person enough to let
them do what they have to do."
She said that the family is there
for support, back-up, love, care
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-and the human touch.
"We don't want to have to talk
about this but we feel compelled
to do this. It's all worthwhile
when we see attitudes change,"
said Cherie.
'WE FELT HELPLESS'
Mary Jackson's brother Chris
suffered from AIDS and was sick
in Vancouver when her and her
family had first been told.
"We felt helpless at the time and
were afraid that he would die and
we wouldn't know about it," she
said.
But when he came to visit his
family in Guelph in 1991, he
became sick again and walking
into the hospital was the last time
he walked, she said. He was
dying, she said. He was blind, he
couldn't walk and had uncontrol-
lable fevers.
He was soon transferred to St.
Joseph's Hospital in London
where he could be closer to both
Mary and her parents who lived in
London.
They didn't know if he would
survive the ambulance drive to
London. He did, but was only
given two weeks to live. Then a
sudden change came about him.
He was given morphine and "it
was like a miracle. He did a
complete turn -around." She said
that he started talking about the
future. But his health began to
deteriorate again until his suf-
fering came to an end.
A great deal of support was
given by both family and friends
but she said that a lack of support
came from the church. She
contributes that largely to the
ignorance of AIDS.
"Infected people aren't bad.
They need all the compassion we
can muster."
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