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No spam, thank you ma ’am
Just a few short years ago it was a non-
terribly chic luncheon meat. Or at best a
song from a Monty Python skit.
Today it is a global migraine. A mega-
gazillion-dollar ripoff scam and a mammoth
pain in the in-box for computer users
everywhere.
I speak, but of course, of spam.
In case you’ve been living under a laundry
hamper for the past dozen or so years, let me
explain: spam is junk e-mail. The black fly of
on-line activity. Mass blitzkrieg advertising of
crap that nobody asked for and nobody wants
but everybody finds in their YOU'VE GOT
MAIL slot virtually every time they fire up
their desktop or laptop.
Why does spam advertising work? For the
same reason that fishing with hand grenades
works. You lob enough explosives into
the lake and something will float to the
surface.
Similarly, if you blanket e-mail several
hundred thousand unsuspecting recipients, a
profitable few will be stupid enough to
respond no matter how moronic the pitch.
Just how dumb can people be? Hey. Who’s
president of the United States?
There are ways to combat spammers. The
internet abounds with anti-spam software -
much of it free - which will intercept the spam
spewing swine and deflect their unwanted
missives into deepest cyberspace.
But spammers alas, are endlessly creative.
Close one rathole and they gnaw themselves
another. I, for instance, am well protected
from on-line spammers.
But now the beggars are coming through my
fax machine.
Politicians often ignore rights
People protest against China’s abuse of
human rights outside its consulate a
couple of blocks from the legislature
every day, but Ontario governments find it too
far off to notice.
All three major parties have expressed
strong concern about the abuse when they
were in opposition, but after they got in
government ignored it.
The latest to do so are the Liberals under
Premier Dalton McGuinty. The premier had
lunch with President Hu Jintao when he
visited looking for trade and investment and
said nothing on human rights over the chow
mein and fortune cookies.
While abuse of human rights in China is not
in the news as much as it used to be, it has not
disappeared.
Around the same time United Nations’
rights commissioner Louise Arbour, a
Canadian, told officials in Beijing she is
concerned because racial minorities, labour
leaders and journalists are being jailed merely
for dissenting.
She said she also is worried by China’s
many executions and harsh prison conditions
and even that her visit may endanger some
activists.
Ontario Liberals for decades have criticized
China for “brutal use of force” against citizens
and expressed solidarity with them “in their
quest for greater freedom and democracy.”
But those concerns were quickly forgotten
in the interests of selling Ontario products and
securing investment, and the Liberals joined a
list of parties willing to forget them.
The New Democratic Party traditionally has
raised more concerns than others at abuse of
rights abroad, including saying it was
“shocked at the cruel cynicism of China’s
rulers.”
But after Bob Rae became premier he
travelled to China on a trade mission with
One in particular. It calls itself THE
TRAVEL CENTER and it offers me. at least
three times a week, FANTASTIC BARGAINS
on cruises to ORLANDO, FORT
LAUDERDALE and BAHAMAS.
1 do not wish to cruise to any of the above-
mentioned destinations. Even if 1 did. I
certainly would not do it through a company
that besieges me with unasked-for come-ons
and uses up my fax paper.
Happily there is a number at the bottom of
their advertisement that you can call to be
removed from their advertising list. I called
that number.
Ten times. The faxes kept coming.
So I phoned the main number (the one you
call to sign up for a cruise).
Five times. Each time an operator assured
me that I was off the list and the faxes would
cease.
They didn’t. I called a sixth time and told the
woman who answered that I would never book
with them because I had asked very politely 15
times to PLEASE STOP THE FAXES. She
hung up on me.
So I called the Canadian Radio and
Television Commission in Ottawa. They told
me that since it was an American travel
company, I should call the Federal
Liberal prime minister Jean Chretien to sell
nuclear and other technology and there is no
record he said a word about its abuse of rights.
When Rae returned. Progressive
Conservative leader Mike Harris criticized
him for going and failing to “take a clear stand
on China’s human rights record.”
Rae replied the best way Ontario could
advance human rights in China was to be
involved with it at many levels, including
trade and culture.
But Harris argued the need to increase trade
should not be an excuse for downplaying
human rights. He said Rae as Ontario premier
was a reasonably significant player
internationally and what he said on human
rights would be noticed.
Harris said Rae sent the world a message
Ontario was soft on abuse of human rights.
Harris insisted if it was to trade with China, it
had to make clear it disapproved its violations.
But then Harris was elected premier and
made several visits to China, while Amnesty
International warned its torture of political
prisoners was widespread and growing, and
never once criticized it for its abuse of rights.
The only noteworthy parts of his trips were
he managed to get golf, his favorite game for
which he missed many legislature sittings, in a
discussion of human rights.
Harris was asked by a reporter if he would
raise China’s record on human rights to help
Toronto win over Beijing as the site of the
Communications Commission in Washington.
The FCC operator told me my complaint
would be filed and the travel company would
be ‘dealt with’.
That was three weeks ago. While waiting for
the FCC to act I have received 11 faxes from
the travel company.
it’s too bad the Travel Center is located in
Florida and not Russia. They know how to
handle spammers in Russia - ask Vardan
Kushnir.
Oh, sorry, you can’t. Mister Kushnir is dead.
Bludgeoned to death in his Moscow apartment
by persons unknown.
Do the police have any suspects? Yes,
several million of them. Vardan Kushnir was
Russia’s most notorious spammer, believed to
have clogged the in-box of nearly every
Russian who had an e-mail account.
Kushnir was killed after someone posted his
home address on the web, and Russian
newspapers reacted with undisguised glee.
THE SPAMMER HAD IT COMING read one
headline. And another: AN ULTIMATE
SOLUTION TO THE SPAM PROBLEM.
I wouldn’t want to see anything that
gruesome happen to spammers in this part of
the world, but I wouldn’t object if our research
labs started using spammers in place of
laboratory rats.
It’s a natural when you think about it.
Research scientists sometimes get too attached
to laboratory rats. That wouldn't happen with
spammers. PETA would have no objections if
animal experimentation was conducted
exclusively on spammers.
Besides. There are certain things a rat just
won’t do.
2008 Olympic Games and replied “you don’t
run down your competitors - you don’t do that
in golf or in other sport or in life.”
Harris also stood out because, while
estranged from his second wife, he took along
an attractive blonde girlfriend, Sharon Dunn,
who appeared at dinner in a skirt slit almost to
her thigh and, as one observer put it, almost
gave China’s staid political and business elite
whiplash.
Harris also entertained two Chinese
presidents here, giving one a sweatshirt
bearing the name Ontario, but made no protest
on human rights.
Successive Ontario governments have
entertained many tyrants, including Suharto of
Indonesia, notorious for his mass murders in
East Timor, and Toure of Guinea, whose
purges killed many thousands.
The politicians usually have rated squeezing
bigger bucks from trade ahead of speaking up
for human rights. They would not want their
day disturbed by taking the route past the
demonstrators outside the consulate.
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The short of it
Sharing genes
It's always a surprise when it happens, yet it
inevitably does. Here you are, a wife and
mother, confident that you will not make
the same mistakes your own mother made
before.
Then shockingly you hear the words — her’s
— admonishments, hackneyed cliches, dire
predictions. But, surely there’s some mistake
because this time the remarks are coming from
you.
As every mom I’ve ever known 1 swore from
the time of approaching parenthood that I
would be different. I would be forever patient.
1 would offer undeniable wisdom in a manner
that was gentle, understood and accepted. I
would never react, always respond.
And then it happens. Stressing over finances
and schedules, a bad night’s sleep followed by
a vile day at work, is capped by returning home
to find the house a shambles. “Is it too much to
ask, after all I do for you, that this place be tidy
when I get home?”
It’s always a surprise when it’s happened,
but these parental moments have been
experienced by the majority. The legacy of “If
you don’t stop crying I’ll give you something
to cry about”, “Because I said so!” and
“Someday I’ll be gone and then you’ll be
sorry” seems to carry on despite each
generation’s best efforts.
Fortunately we use them less in middle-age.
Our parents no longer deliver ‘words of
wisdom’ with regularity so we really have no
touchstone to follow.
What I’ve noticed now instead is that when I
hear someone else’s words emanating from my
mouth they seem to be my sister’s. As well, I
see her mannerisms in mine and even some of
her habits.
My sister is almost of another generation
than me. Ten years younger I remember her
more as a second mother than a peer.
Obviously we didn’t share common interests
while living in the same house. She was at the
age where boys were her life and I wished they
weren’t even in life.
However, one of life’s sweet ironies is that
somehow as we got older we got closer in age.
We can find music in common, we are thrilled
by grandchildren and we both know all too
well that the words hot flash aren’t referring to
stolen camera equipment.
We talk about the trouble with men and how
much we like having them around. We still
worry about our kids, but now more out of
practice than need.
My big sis married and moved away when
she was 19. While I visited often and spent a
part of each summer with her, one would
assume she was not around enough to be a
huge influence on me.
And, geography continues to separate us; we
now live more than 160 kilometres away from
each other. Yet, like her, I rest my elbows on
the table, hands clasped while listening to
someone talk. I hear inflections in my speech
that mimic her’s. Watching myself on video, I
recognize my facial expressions as belonging
to someone else.
I once read a debate on how much heredity
has to do with our development and how much
is our environment. There was a strong
argument suggesting that adopted children will
often walk, talk or act like their parent simply
because that is the one they have spent the time
with. Physical traits it maintained, are inherited
from biological relatives, but couldn’t it be
possible that other traits might be acquired by
exposure?
It made sense then. Now I’m less sure.