The Citizen, 2003-05-21, Page 5THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, MAY 21, 2003. PAGE 5.
Other Views
Blunt truths made painfully evident
O, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the sky on laughter-silvered
wings...
-From "High Flight”
by John Gillespie Magee Jr.
om Cochrane was right: Life is a
highway. What he forgot to mention is
that it’s also a one-way street.
I have reached a stage of life in which a few
blunt truths have made themselves painfully
evident. There are certain things I’ve always
dreamed of doing which, due to advancing
decrepitude (mine) are simply Not Going to
Happen.
To wit:
Pat Quinn is not going to call me up to plug
that hole in the Maple Leafs defensive corps.
The only way I’ll ever see the summit of
Mount Everest is on a National Geographic
travelogue.
I can stop waiting for a late night phone call
from Jennifer Lopez complaining that she’s
lonely and would I like to go out dancing.
And now I realize that I might as well give
up on another long-nurtured dream.
I am never going to get to fly on the
Concorde.
The obituaries for the Concorde briefly
fluttered across the front pages of the national
press late last month. The delta-winged
supersonic luxury airliner is being mothballed
after barely a quarter-century of commercial
service.
Tory gaffes happen at wrong time
Ontario’s Progressive Conservative
government has fallen into a
dangerous habit of saying the wrong
thing at exactly the wrong time — just before
an election.
The Tories led by Premier Ernie Eves
through slips of the tongue and in one case the
hand, have got themselves in a succession of
mostly unnecessary controversies that make
them look insensitive and untruthful and is
unprecedented for a government about to call a
vote.
The gaffe voters will best remember,
because it was pictured on many newspaper
front pages, was backbench MPP John
O’Toole waving a finger at opponents who
objected to his party’s unveiling a budget on
TV in an auto-parts plant instead of the
legislature to reduce opposition parties’ forum
for criticizing.
Most people view this gesture as obscene
and manage to express disagreement without
using it.
The Tory MPP also was exposed as
untruthful when he claimed he had not made
the gesture and was merely shuffling
documents, but the cameras that broadcast the
legislature caught his action and he admitted it.
Another Tory backbencher, Joe Spina, was
accused of shouting the Italian equivalent of
#?@$ off at Liberal MPP Dominic Agostino,
who was heckling.
Spina tried to fob off reporters by claiming
he was not in the legislature long enough to say
anything, but Liberal Marie Bountrogianni,
who speaks Italian, said she heard him say it
clearly.
A third Tory backbencher, Ted Chudleigh,
commented “bullshit,” another word most
residents would not use in front of their
children, when Speaker Gary Carr ruled the
Tories showed contempt by staging their
budget outside.
Finance Minister Janet Ecker said at one
stage, when insisting her budget outside the
legislature was proper* she would do the same
again.
But as the heat built up, she denied saying it
Arthur
Black
The eulogies ranged from the rhapsodic:
“Never before has such a beautiful object been
designed and built by man”, to the less
charitable: “the largest, most expensive and
most dubious project ever undertaken in the
development of civil aircraft”.
Beautiful?
Well, I suppose so - although from some
angles the Concorde looked like an albino
praying mantis wearing a Batman cape - but
she was unquestionably expensive. Only a
handful of Concordes were ever built, but the
price tag for development costs alone crested
above $5 billion - and that’s in 1960’s dollars.
More like $25 billion in today’s currency.
And it’s not like the plane ever made back
its investment in passenger fares. It could
only carry 100 passengers per flight. By the
time Concorde’s owners pulled the plug,
flights were running at 20 per cent capacity.
Which is to say four out of every five seats
were empty.
Why? Pick your poison - ear-cracking sonic
booms; lingering air travel chill from 9/11;
Eric
Dowd
From
Queen’s Park
and a TV reporter dug up a tape showing she
had said she would hold it outside again, and
an aide explained she forgot.
Voters must now wonder if Tories regularly
fail to tell the truth unless forced by cameras.
Eves contributed when he was asked why he
was golfing in Arizona when the World Health
Organization issued a warning against
travelling to Toronto because of SARS.
He scoffed it would not have changed
anything if he had been “hunting for Easter
eggs on Easter Sunday in Toronto.”
Voters would not expect the premier to stay
looking for Easter eggs, but would expect him
to be in the province, helping co-ordinate the
response, reassure residents and encourage
healthcare workers in its worst health crisis in
memory.
Eves also told reporters he supported
precautions against SARS and wore a surgical
mask, but his face must have gone red when he
discovered the city of Toronto had already
advised wearing a mask was unnecessary and
could even raise fears.
Energy Minister John Baird joked he had
just enjoyed a trip to Asia at a time there were
fears of SARS originating there and could
Final Thought
Nothing in life just happens. You have to
have the stamina to meet the obstacles and
overcome them.
- Golda Meir
skyrocketing fuel prices; a spectacular crash
into a Paris hotel three years ago that killed
109 people on the plane and four people on the
ground...
And the relative scarcity of people willing
and able, to shell out roughly 15,000 loonies
for a three-and-a-half hour jaunt from New
York to Paris and back.
Truth is, the Concorde was an airborne white
elephant. It never did have a lot of fans - just a
few star-struck aviation Big Dreamers and a
handful of wallet-heavy thrill-seekers - but it
caught our attention for all that.
Sort of like Madonna. And The Osbournes
Still, the idea of the Concorde had its
alluring charms for earth-bound grunts like
me. The thought of breakfasting on the
Champs Elysee, hopping a cab to Charles de
Gaulle airport, sipping Champers and nodding
to Sting, Diana Ross and Linda Evangelista
over the finger foods at 35,000 feet, then
winding up at JFK just in time for lunch...
Yeah, that appeals to the unnourished
Sybarite in me.
But the truth is, I hate flying generally -
whether it’s a luxury airliner or a single
engine Beaver. Flying always makes my ears
pop.
A stewardess told me that chewing gum
would take care of that problem, so I bought a
package of Dentyne and tried it.
It sort of worked.
But it took me days to get it out of my ears.
have caused Ontario’s Asian community to
feel it was being further stigmatized. He later
acknowledged he was thoughtless and
insensitive.
Spina also belittled his Liberal opponent in
the election as a “that little girl,” a chauvinism
not heard in the legislature for years, and
acknowledged she is a woman after Liberals
objected.
The comments by Tories were mostly
gratuitous — they would not have helped their
party even if they had escaped without protest.
All parties make offensive remarks, but the
Tories including O’Toole and Chudleigh,
normally among the most polite and proper
MPPs, are running up a record number
because they are rattled with an election close
and the Liberals far ahead in polls and at this
stage showing no signs of collapsing.
The election also will be decided more on
policies than slips of the tongue, but the slips
hurt the overall image of the government and,
if the race is close, could make a difference.
Bonnie
Gropp
The short of it
For their protection
To call myself a nervous mother is as
much an understatement as calling
Niagara Falls impressive.
From the time 1 gave birth to my first child 1
have been in an almost perpetual state of
fretfulness. It was a condition that was
lukewarm in infancy, a phase when 1 was
confident in my parenting, helped by the fact
that at least at this time in my child’s life 1 had
some control.
The nervousness heated up when they
became toddlers, little angels suddenly
pushing the boundaries, experiencing and
experimenting. As they tested the limits and
my patience I kept a wary eye posted while
their clumsy gait carried them with
implausible speed into the unknown. I was
soon to learn that despite my watchfulness 1
couldn’t always keep them safe. They would
find the hole in my protectiveness and climb,
race and stumble through.
My edginess simmered as they reached (he
ages of pre-adolescence. Now too old for
mothering, and too young to not be, 1 was ever
concerned over their whereabouts. Five
minutes late and my imagination was whipped
to a frenzy.
Needless to say by their teens my fears were
at a rolling boil. The years had come to show
me that while my need and desire to keep them
safe was no less intense, my ability, as my
control, was limited.
Holly Jones’s parents were described as
involved and protective. Her father often
walked her to school. Her mother worked pan
time so that she could be home for her children
when they needed her.
And yet, 10-year-old Holly was abducted,
murdered and dismembered, portions of her
body discovered in Lake Ontario last week.
The Toronto girl had been just a few blocks
from her home. Today the loving care that a
mother once gave to a daughter, is given to
tending the flowers and gifts at a memorial
outside her home.
People are rivetted to the Holly Jones story,
not just to be there when the depraved animal
who did this is made to pay, but because most
of us are parents.
To give life to your child, to nurture them
then have them taken from you with a
viciousness that defies human logic, is the
ultimate terror for a parent. The question of
this child’s final hours, the horror the answers
offer, will be an ever-present torment for her
parents. There is no comfort, no solace.
And as one person was quoted as saying in
The Toronto Star, this could happen anywhere.
As of late last week police had not reported
whether Holly had been sexually assaulted.
However, they had said that 200 of the 1,000
names on Ontario’s sex offender registry live
within three kilometres of Holly’s home. Even
given the population density it’s an
overwhelming bit of information.
Worse yet is the fact that this doesn’t take
into consideration there may be sexual
predators from out of the province residing in
the area. The federal government has dragged
its feet in passing legislation which would see
the creation of a national sex offender registry
With the formidable number of sexual
deviants residing so close together in one area,
we have to question if the secluded, tranquility
of rural areas are any less represented. After
all, what better place to lose your past and
begin again. Not only should police know who
they are, but so should the public. Protection
from them is far more important than their
privacy.