The Citizen, 2003-02-19, Page 5THE CITIZEN, WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 19, 2003. PAGE 5.
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Just, put on a happy face
The year 2003 is still a babe in swaddling
clothes, but it already qualifies as an
annus horribilus for B.C.’s premier,
Gordon “One-for-the-road” Campbell. He’s
taken a lot of lumps for his high-octane bob
and weave down that Maui highway - but one
mistake he should be forgiven for is that goofy
smile he wore in a couple of his police
mugshots.
“I cannot bear it that our premier had been
arrested for drunk driving and he just stood
there, laughing at the camera,” sniped a
Vancouver writer in a letter to the editor.
C’mon, lady - that’s not a what-the-hell
smile on Campbell’s face. That’s a sickly leer.
A weak grimace. A hand-in-the-cookie-jar,
oops I stepped in the cowpoop smile.
Gordon Campbell may be an arrogant SOB
in the rest of his life, but that is not an arrogant
grin he’s wearing in the photographs. That is a
pathetic simper. A wheedling plea for mercy.
Having put myself through a few
ohmygawdwhatwaslthinking scenarios myself,
I’d recognize it anywhere.
Strange critter, your garden variety smile.
My dictionary defines it as “a change of facial
expression involving an upward curving of the
corners of the mouth” - but a smile is ‘way
more than that.
There’s the Mona Lisa smile, enigmatic,
inscrutable, almost not there; and there’s the
maniacal, thousand-megawatt leer that
transformed the face of Jack Nicholson in The
Witches of Eastwick.
There’s the earnest, needy, nervous grin of
sad sack salesman Willy Loman in A Death of
a Salesman (“He’s a man way out there in the
blue, riding on a smile and a shoeshine..”); and
A time for prognosticators to be wary
Everyone is predicting an Ontario
election within months, but no-one is
predicting the winner.
This unusual state of uncertainty exists
because issues keep popping up in rapid
succession that piake assessing the outcome
more difficult.
One is the Progressive Conservatives have a
premier, Ernie Eves, leading in an election for
the first time, which normally would not be a
worry.
The Tories have gone into elections three
times after they changed premiers in recent
decades and continued winning and their only
loss was when Frank Miller could obtain only
a minority government and was forced out.
But Eves’s ascension has raised many
unanswered questions. Eves could be hurt if he
is seen as too close to his predecessor, Mike
Harris, once worshipped by many for cutting
taxes, but less popular after services weakened
and he was seen as confrontational.
Eves has tried to look more moderate by
such acts as postponing tax cuts, increasing
spending on services, freezing hydro rates
instead of allowing them to rise with the
marketplace, cancelling a planned privatiza
tion of the hydro transmission network and
talking to unions.
These will endear him to some groups, but
still provide dangers. Everyone wants hydro
rates kept down, but common sense sees it as
only a stopgap solution, because new power
stations are needed desperately and no-one
will provide them while rates are held
artificially low.
Unionists will feel more accepted having a
premier who speaks politely to them, but want
more significant concessions, such as Eves
repealing some of Harris’s labour laws that
give employers the upper hand.
Eves at the same time has offended his own
Arthur
Black
there’s the wall-to-wall grin of toothy Carly
Simon, displaying more ivory than a Steinway
Grand.
There are a lot of portraits of George
Washington including the one on the U.S. $1
bill - but you’ll never see one that shows
Washington smiling.
Richard Nixon, on the other hand, was
captured in a famous photo that showed him
almost convulsing, mouth wide open, eyes
bulging, tongue hanging out. The Nixon grin
was so incongruous on the face of such a
normally sullen man that for years, the
magazine Esquire ran the photo once a year,
with the caption “Why Is This Man Laughing?”
There’s something about leaders and smiles
and the uneasy tension that lies between them.
Winston Churchill said that Russian prime
minister Molotov had “a smile like a Siberian
winter”.
French president Francois Mitterand
described Margaret Thatcher as having “the
eyes of Caligula and the lips of Marilyn
Monroe”.
The odd thing is, smiling for public
consumption is a relatively recent social
phenomenon. You don’t see statues of Julius
Caesar or Alexander the Great with big grins
plastered across their pusses. For centuries, oil
portraits of notable figures showed their
Eric
Dowd
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Queen’s Park
party’s right-wingers, who complain he is
reneging on Tory ideals. Will any feel alienated
enough to sit out an election?
Eves in his switches to moderation has led
more retreats than the Germans pulling back
from Normandy in World War II and any
premier in memory.
Some will see him as open-minded and
ready to listen. However others, will see him as
quick to bow to pressure, lacking principles he
will stand on and even weak and ready to
change anything to win an election.
The Tories have long boasted they are
prudent .wath taxpayers’ money, but have been
exposed as wasting hand-over-fist on programs
by the nonpartisan provincial auditor, as well
as living it up on hotels and dining which
prompted the unprecedented firing of a
minister. Surely some of this has to stick?
Eves’s government has seemed in disarray at
a time when voters will look for competence
and confidence.
Premiers also normally take their wives
campaigning to show good examples on
family values, but Eves has only a girlfriend
after his acrimonious marriage breakup. Will
anyone care?
The Liberals have been ahead in polls, but
not comfortably, because they led at the start of
the last three elections and lost, and they do not
communicate any confidence they will win.
Liberal leader Dalton McGuinty has
subjects with serious, solemn visages.
Right up until 1787, when a French artist by
the name of Louise Elizabeth Vigee-LeBrun
painted a self-portrait that showed her
pleasantly smiling back at the world.
The world was scandalized. One critic of the
time sniffed, “An affectation which artists, art
lovers and persons of taste have been united in
condemning...is that in smiling, Mme Vigee-
LeBrun shows her teeth. This affectation is
particularly out of place in a mother.”
And therein lies the reason our ancestors and
predecessors look so grim in those paintings
and photos - bad teeth.
Up until the 18th century Europeans had no
toothbrushes, no tooth powder or paste and no
concept whatsoever of dental care. Consequently,
most of them had mouths full of rotten teeth by
the time they were teenagers.
George Washington didn’t smile because he
had a gobful of carved, discoloured wooden
dentures.
Smiling would have made him look like a
beaver caught in mid-chew. And Mona Lisa,
even when she smiled, was careful to show no
teeth.
As a result of that one evening in Hawaii,
Gordon Campbell has a lot of ironies that he’ll
live with for the rest of his life. Like the fact
that he could have said to his hosts “You know
what? I’m hammered. Mind if I sleep on the
couch?”
Or the fact that calling out one four-letter
word - “Taxi!” - would have spared him a
world of grief.
Or the fact that, if he’d had a worse set of
teeth in his mouth, chances are he’d have
looked better in those mug shots.
announced policies at a more acceptable
earlier stage including freezing university
tuition for two years and increasing the long
overlooked minimum wage.
But he has become almost as noted as Eves
for changing his mind. He supported
privatizing hydro transmission, as one
example, but now opposes it.
McGuinty seemed to have a catchy issue in
the Tories’ excessive spending on booze, but
may find it watered down because he has been
caught spending hundreds of dollars on his
favourite orange juice.
There will be worry about how he will stand
up in the TV debate between leaders, because
in 1999 he was caught off guard when attacked
for hiring his brother briefly - one good
squelch could have been two Tory ministers
had relatives on the government payroll.
The Liberals also will be less able to attract
discouraged New Democrats by arguing the
polls show only they can beat the Tories,
because the NDP has mildly recovered.
Most reporters covering the legislature
normally would have picked a winner long
before now, but they have been given a lot of
issues to digest.
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Bonnie
Gropp
The short of it
Don’t be shy
When it comes to our kids there’s no
gauge for feeling proud. There’s no
guideline suggesting that this act or
this deed warrants this much pride, no meter
indicating a fair level of exaltation for specific
accomplishments.
When it comes to being proud of our kids
we are generally as proud as we can be.
Someone telling you that your son or daughter
is one of the nicest young people they’ve met
can puff out your chest as far as that of the
mom or dad who’ve heard their offspring just
copped the top award.
Yet, being proud, when one considers the
definition, doesn’t sound like a good thing.
The Oxford Dictionary defines it as “feeling
or showing pride or proper pride; haughty,
arrogant; feeling one’s self greatly honoured.”
Pride is a “feeling of elation or satisfaction at
one’s achievement or qualities or possessions;
high or overbearing opinion of one’s worth or
importance.”
The Bible admonishes “pride goeth before
destruction, and an haughty spirit before a
fall.”
No it sure doesn’t sound good. But it can’t
be all bad either. Being proud of someone else
isn’t the same as being proud of one’s self after
all. And when it comes to our kids if they
deserve it’ they have every right to know
they’ve made us proud and we have every
right to feel it.
Last week I spoke to a mother who was
justifiably as proud as she could be. It was
several years ago that I had interviewed her
daughter, a rabid women’s hockey fan, but
more importantly an outstanding goaltender/
for both local girls and boys teams in her own
right. In 1999 she was selected as the recipient
of the Brussels Minor Hockey’s Don Higgins
Memorial Award for most outstanding goalie.
Also, at that point in time, Brooklyn
Wheeler, a poised, intelligent young girl of 13
was considering attending high school at
Culver Girls Academy in Indiana, where she
had tried out for the hockey team and been
accepted.
Now, four years later, having been courted
by 30 universities and colleges in Canada and
the U.S, including the respected Harvard and
Princeton, Brooklyn has accepted a hockey
scholarship to the smaller, though no less
prestigious Colgate in Hamilton N.Y.
Knowing Brooke as a youngster, meant
knowing a kind, confident, mature child. I
doubt that her years away have changed that in
any way. Her parents should be quite proud of
her, not just for this newest achievement, but
for the lovely young woman she is.
What is also nice about seeing a young
person’s success, however, is that it serves as a
reminder to us of the inherent promise in so
many of our children. Unfortunately in this
business, it is too often the misdeeds of youth
that we hear. Official reports and forums help
us to make this information public, because
let’s be hones,t misdeeds are news.
However, it is equally important that we
learn the good stories. Yet, ironically, people
often seem reluctant to come forward with
them. It was a College Prospects of America
press release that informed us about Brooklyn
Wheeler. Her parents did not call to share the
good news with us.
Every day there are kids doing great things
and their stories are never told. But, take my
word for it - people want to hear the good news
and our kids deserve its telling.
After all, every parent will understand your
pride. Don’t be shy about it.