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The Citizen, 2019-09-19, Page 23THE CITIZEN, THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 19, 2019. PAGE 23. By Ernest Dow, Exec. Pastor, Huron Chapel EMC, Auburn ON “He really doesn’t drink that much.” “Paul drinks more than I do.” “Look honey, I have a tough job; I work hard. I need a few drinks to relax. It doesn’t mean that I have a problem.” Do any of these statements sound familiar to you? Chances are you may be dealing with someone who has an addiction. Consuming substances obsessively can be an attempt to cover over pain that needs to be dealt with, resorting in un- truths and cover-ups. Perhaps you encounter denial in areas other than substance abuse. What might that sound like? “Billy, if we don’t talk about it, it will go away.” “It really doesn’t hurt when he does that; I’m fine!” “I eat because you make me so mad!” “I’m not hurting anyone but myself.” Behavioral addictions may not involve drugs or alcohol, but can be equally life-damaging. Our mental health can be affected, potentially resulting in depression, chronic anger or even suicide. As Jesus Christ observed about the devil, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.” (John 10:10) Addictions drive us to consume or react in ways that we suppose will numb the pain – but that can have devastating effects. Consider the havoc wreaked just by substance abuse. AddictionCenter.com points out the following Canadian facts: • In 2012, it was estimated that 21.6 per cent of Canada’s population met the criteria for a substance use disorder. That’s close to 8 million people suffering from addiction in Canada. • Alcohol, by a wide margin, is the most abused substance in Canada. • More people were hospitalized in 2015 through 2016 for alcohol- related harm than heart attacks. (Think of it as hospital beds that were taken from 77,000 other people who may have needed them.) • According to the United Nations, Canada is the world’s largest producer of ecstasy and methamphetamines. There aren’t any prescription options to substitute for meth, and the side effects of the drug makes users trying to recover violent and unpredictable. “[Meth] eventually gets you, and when it takes you down, it takes you down and you lose absolutely everything.” • Approximately four people in Canada are killed each day in car crashes involving a driver under the influence of drugs, alcohol or both (1,451 in 2013). We can see that the addiction of substance abuse alone takes a considerable toll on the well-being of Canadian society. The cost of avoiding recovering is considerable! The Bible offers several instances warning that overconsumption of alcohol can become problematic. Noah survived a cataclysmic environmental disaster only to become inebriated and undress himself in embarrassing fashion. (Genesis 9:21ff) The daughters of Lot (Abraham’s nephew) employed alcohol in order to induce their father into a state where he was vulnerable to involuntary incest (Gen. 19:31). Later, King Belshazzar of Babylon was drinking wine when he praised gods of gold and silver and brought God’s indictment upon himself for his rebellion, idolatry and irreverence (Daniel 5:2,4,23) Addictions drive us into behaviours that are damaging in the long-term to ourselves and to others near us. So the Bible advises us to guard ourselves from the slavery of intoxication. “Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags.” (Prov. 23:20) And in the New Testament, the Apostle Paul warns, “The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: ... drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.” (Galatians 5:19ff) And – “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.” (Ephesians 5:18) There is a better alternative, as Paul says: being filled with God’s Spirit. Celebrate Recovery is a program beginning locally Sept. 24 which is based on Christian principles derived from Jesus’ teaching. For example, the first half of the eight principles are as follows: • Realize I’m not God; I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable. • Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him and that He has the power to help me recover. • Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control. • Openly examine and confess my faults to myself, to God, and to someone I trust. Recovery is not easy. It is seldom quick. There are often setbacks and re-starts. But those who stick with the program discover God’s help for their temptations – their hurts, habits, and hang-ups. Finding a supportive small group and accountability partner are key. Just opening up to admit one’s failings is a big start. There we learn to be humble, to walk alongside others who are also in the journey, and to discover God’s healing power for those who look to Him – before it’s too late. The scope of the design for the water and sewer systems for the Hutton Heights development raised some questions from North Huron Township Council members during a recent meeting. Hutton Heights, a municipally- owned development site, just south of Wingham in East Wawanosh, has been the focus of the current session of council, which hopes to encourage residential construction on the site through preparing it for developers. The next step in that process is to design water and sewer systems, extending service from Wingham. The design of the systems was expected to cost $94,000, but that was before council decided it wanted to try and offer water services to other residential properties in the area, adding more lines and complexity to the systems. “I want to make sure we design it so that existing development could be served,” Deputy-Reeve Trevor Seip said. Chief Administrative Officer Dwayne Evans said that could be accomplished, but it would change the scope of the work. He reminded council that the $94,000 job was just to get sewer and water to the edge of the development, so a similar arrangement could be made for existing residential developments. Council approved a motion to go ahead with the design of the system. After that is complete, the municipality will next take on environmental and archeological studies for the new infrastructure and development. Hutton Heights design approved huronchapel.com huronchapelkids.com huronchapelyouth.com 519-526-1131 ~ 119 John’s Ave., Auburn Evangelical Missionary Church Wednesdays 6:30 - 8 p.m. – YOUTH GROUP (Gr. 7-12) Tues. Sept. 24 7-9 p.m. CELEBRATE RECOVERY! 9:30 a.m. Sunday School, 10:30 a.m. Worship Pastor Phil Delsaut - “Following Jesus: Temptation” (Matt. 4:1-17) Sunday, September 22 Office Hours: Thursday ~ 9:30 am - 2:00 pm blythunited@tcc.on.ca Guest Speaker: David Kai Accessible Sunday, September 22 Worship Service at 9:30 am Blyth United Church Facebook: Blyth and Brussels United Churches OFFICE: 519-523-4224 MELVILLE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH BRUSSELS SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 22 Nursery care available 519-887-6687 Fridays 11:30 am - 1:00 pm ~ Soup & More 2 - a free community meal held in Melville’s basement, and made possible by the Brussels churches working together. Worship & Sunday School - 11:00 am Coffee & Snacks following the service We invite you to join our church family in: Youre Invited to come worship with us Sunday, September 22 at 10:30 a.m. & 6:00 p.m. 650 Alexander St. (former Brussels Public School) Sunday School for children 4 to 12 years of age at 9:30 a.m. Childcare provided for infants and preschoolers during the sermon. Coffee & cookies after the morning service. For additional details please contact Steve Klumpenhower 519.292.0965 Rick Packer 519.527.0173 The Regional Ministry of Hope BLYTH BRUSSELS Trinity St. John’s 9:15 am 11:15 am COME WORSHIP WITH US! Rev. JoAnn Todd, Rector 519-357-7781 email: revjoann@hurontel.on.ca The‐Regional‐Ministry‐of‐ Hope St. Paul’s Trinity WINGHAM 11:15 am These Anglican Churches Welcome You BRUSSELS United Church Sunday, September 22 Worship Service 11:00 am Worship Leader David Kai All are Welcome Hwy. 4, Blyth www.blythcrc.ca 519-523-4743 Minister: Pastor Gary van Leeuwen BLYTH CHRISTIAN REFORMED CHURCH SUNDAYS Morning Service 10:00 am Evening Service 7:30 pm You’re Invited To Join Us In Worship From the Minister’s Study The high cost of avoiding recovery: Dow By Denny Scott The Citizen BUY? SELL? TRY CLASSIFIED