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The Rural Voice, 1993-02, Page 8TNT EMUS FLIGHTLESS BIRD FARM 1 DON G. TRIEBNER Ratite Association Member 502 Main Street Exeter, Ontario Canada NOM 1S1 (519) 235-2364 Fax: (519) 235-1203 Farm: (519) 237.3641 Mobile: (519) 748-8413 17‘, BUY • SELL • TRADE NOW BOOKING '93 CHICKS Emu Farmers' Handbook Hardcover 167 pages Only $55.00 HORSE DAY at Carson's 1 February 27, 1993 Call for program details. Pennwood, Gallagher, Martin and Canada Agra company reps will be available. Canadian Distributor for Pennwood's Equine Supreme From Weaning Through Maturity A special blending of vitamins, minerals, amino acids and electrolytes formulated to bring out your horses' full potential. DEALER INQUIRES WELCOME Ask for Cec Horton pGFIER Fencing 11'10' • Sales • Installation • Free estimates Martin's Extruded Horse Feeds NOW AVAILABLE CANADA AGRA ALFALFA CUBES • Farm Gates - all sizes • Hay Feeders • Calf Hutches CARSON'S FEED AND FARM SUPPLY Hwy. 86 E, R. R. 3, Listowel Phone (519) 291-1094 Fax (519) 291-5065 4 THE RURAL VOICE Gisele Ireland Lie to me a little on February 14 For some reason, a lot of women, including myself, find hard to under- stand, the 14th of February makes a lot of men uncomfortable. Super Wrench is among that number. He finds it really silly that he is expected to make extravagant and passionate declarations of undying love that one day of the year, even though he has been passionate and loving during the rest of the year. During our discussion of what constitutes love and passion, especially when you've been married past a quarter of a century, he brought up things I'd never really thought of as loving. Evidently my daydreams of a mariachi band under the bedroom window or a diamond ring hidden in my cornflakes don't match up to his version of what loving is all about. Super Wrench claims being the first one up to get the house tempera- ture above fifty degrees is a gesture of love towards those still hidden under the covers. A bouquet of roses would be a poor substitute in his estimation. Furthermore, he stated, "what about all the times I sweep your car off and start it on the way to the barn so you can go to work in comfort?" Candies wouldn't cut it. Every time he takes me to a movie he claims he's making a passionate declaration of undying devotion because he strongly dislikes movies. He has to sit still too long and he'd sooner be snowmobiling or going to a hockey game. Shopping with me is another loving sacrifice he makes on various occasions during the year. Trailing after me to search for the right fabric for drapes is his idea of undying devotion stretched to the limit. In the same token, I guess I can stop buying him wildly romantic things on that day too. My abounding love is generously portrayed every time I peel his socks off the bathroom floor and check his pants pockets for tissues before washing them. My passionate side must come forth every time I cook liver and onions, which he loves and I'd sooner never taste again. It must be love when I uncom- plainingly tour every machinery yard between home and our destination that day. We spend more time there than we ever do shopping for drapery material. Delirious desire must overcome me every time I offer to go to the barn and help him ship or move hogs if he's too tired to do it alone. Un- fortunately the same emotions don't overcome him when I'm behind in the ironing or when the house looks as if the ancient Romans had an orgy. True love, Super Wrench claims, is buying me a new scraper in the barn, when the other has lost its edge, without being asked. I guess that's why I got him that new skill saw last week. He knew I needed it for him to make some closets so he went ahead without me having to ask him. What utter devotion! When you look at the big picture, I admit he's got a few valid points. It still baffles me though why February 14th should be such a tough day to get through. Generally women don't ask for public declarations in the newspaper or for his feelings to be broadcast via the radio. All I want is a nice bunch of roses, or anything else that's not normally exchanged, with a mushy card and a few stolen kisses. I'm to the age now where I appre- ciate any declarations, even a few white lies concerning my fantastic body, my sparkling personality or my exceptional sunny nature. At least, I hope he can make the effort to lie a little, with passion, and I might not pout over the non-appearance of posies.0 Gisele Ireland is from Bruce County. Her most recent book, Brace Your- self, is available for $7 from Bumps Books, Teeswater, Ontario. NOG 2S0.