The Lucknow Sentinel, 1988-08-03, Page 9Sympathy extended
Sympathy is extended to Mrs. Lillian
Garratt and family in the passing of the
late Reverend George Garratt, who passed -
away suddenly. He was a former minister
here. His brother Alex passed away 2
weeks ago.
Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Murray had the
Murray families at their home on Sunday
July 24th for a bridal shower for Miss
Helen Murray, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.
John Murray. After the shower, all en-
joyed a delicious potluck supper. Over 50
were there and later those who wanted to,
enjoyed a swim in the pool and a nice' visit.
Mr. and Mrs. Bill Burt of Kincardine
visited on Monday with Edna and May
Boyle.
Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Murray, Steven
Bradley and Justin spent the weekend at
K1-,byMgy-Boyle
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Peterborough and the boys played in the
hockey tournament. They belong to the
Triple A Summer Hockey League.
Pastor and Mrs. M. Christensen visited
Tuesday at Milton and were dinner guests
with Mr. and Mrs. Don Christensen.
Sympathy is extended to the family and
relatives of the late Mrs. (Ben) Catherine
Scott who passed away at Kincardine. She
was well known. in our community.
Mrs. Marilyn Brace and Travers of Lon-
don visited with her parents Mr. and.•Mrs.
Gerald Rhody.
Back from bus
trip to the west
John and Marina Park returned from a
three week bus trip to the ' Western
Provinces.
Get well wishes are extended to Anne
and Gilbert Millar.
Albert and Marilyn 1 Anderson) Guetr-
send from Port Alberni, B.C. are visiting
with Cora and Alvin Sherwood.
The Dungannon Senior Citizens held
their Wednesday night card party with 12
tables. High lady, Ila Pollock; low lady,
Isabel Kilpatrick; high man, Gordon
Pollock; low man "3 way tie", Glen J.
Jacklin, Harvey Sillib and Harvey
Richardson with the winner being Glen J.
Jacklin.
A special birthday cake was made and
UNGANNON
by Bonnie Hodges
decorated by Jim Finnigan for the follow-
ing senior birthdays: Carman - Pollock,
Helen Russell, Belle Mole, Louise
Brindley, Cliff Kilpatrick, George Cardiff,
Irene Markham, Anne Millar and Dorothy
Cuyler.
United Church Dungannon Union
Pastoral Charge church holiday schedule:
Trinity 19:45) and Nile (11:15) are open in
August and will be the' only two services in
the parish.
Helping the children
cope with divorce.
Although separation or divorce may
sometimes come as a welcome relief after
much tension and conflict, the period of ad-
justment is usually painful. Both parents
want to do what's best for their children, but
it's often difficult to set aside one's own per-
sonal loneliness. anger or hurt.
The Canadian Mental Health Association
makes some suggestions that may help you
arse the adjustment for a child:
• Be honest and truthful without burdening
him with details he can't understand. •
• Encourage him to ask questions, to talk
out his hurt and angry feelings.
. Help him to see that he will not lose your
love although mommy and daddy will be liv-
ing apart.
• It is very important to reassure him that
he is in no way to blame for the separation.
•* Try not to blame one parent. This is pain-
ful for the child and forces him to choose
sides. If possible present it as a mutual
problem.
Though you're no longer husband and wife,
try to work together as parents. Don't let
your child become a weapon in battles over
money, education, visits and holidays.
• It's not a good idea to ask a very young
child to choose which parents he wishes to
live with: One child may be closer to father,
another to Mother. The parents must
decide.
Sometimes a close friend, relative or
professionally -trained person carr help you
deal with the turbulent emotions of both you
and your child.
Fears Are Common
What do you tell a youngster? Most
children have built-in fears that they may
be left alone. Their questions — "What will
happen to me?" or "Who will take care of
me?" — are seldom spoken but deeply felt.
It's important to reassure your child that
care and love won't stop.
When you must explain a decision to
separate, do it with this general thought:
"Mommy and daddy have decided it's best
if they live in different houses. But we still
love you very much and we will still be your
mommy and daddy."
The response may be tears, silence, even
refusal to accept what you're saying. You
may have to repeat it at different times and
in different ways to help a young child
understand.
Children may blame themselves, they
need reassurance that they didn't cause the
problem.
Don't try to make up for your absence
with expensive gifts and treats. Instead,
show a real interest in your child and what
he is doing. Keep your visits frequent and as
natural as possible.. Above all, try not to
miss a regular visit. If you must cancel let
him know early and plan another date soon.
Phone calls, letters, cards and an occasional
gift will help your child to feel in close touch
with vou.
What if one parent remarries? Depending
upon the circumstances, this may or may
not be a major crisis. It's wise to avoid any
comparison of the new partner with the old.
Emphasize your love for the child. Explain
why you're marrying again and let the rela-
tionship build slowly between your child and
your new mate. Don't rush it and don't force
it.
Go Forward
Once the break-up has taken place, go for-
ward with as much confidence as possible.
Most children have a strong ability to over-
come tragic events. If you can continue to be
a real parent and offer love, guidance and
understanding, you can expect your child to
bounce back from the shock and confusion.
Lucknow Sentinel, Wednesday, August 3,1988—Page 9
COMBINED HOLIDAY
SCHEDULE OF SERVICES
Aug. 7,14: South Kinloss Church
Rev. Ramsay
Aug. 21, 28 Lucknow Presbyterian
and Sept. 4: Rev. Ramsay
ALL SERVICES AT 10 a.m.
Village of Lucknow
NOTICE
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standpipe on August 9, all
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Water Works are asked to
REFRAIN FROM OUTSIDE
WATERING and conserve
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Ralph's Barber Shop
Teeswater
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