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The Lucknow Sentinel, 1983-02-16, Page 7feature Inicknow Senthrell„ Wyedviesday, February, Yb, ll'9h3—Pagr 7 The Cop down the Street fa dicer% Note: The Mowing article, taken firma the RCMP Quarterly, was orightak pleb - fished in The Golden Star, Golden, B.C. It subsequently appeared iiia the newspaper on the Bedford area, Nova Scotia, k was submitted by Fred Ward of beciatow is be printed lin the Sentinel for the hiteirest of our readers. By Cpl. Dale Martel This is an open letter to all parents of all young people everywhere. I am wriiting in response to some of the questions you ask me daily. I am not just one police officer; I represent every officer in every city and town in Canada. You may know me only as the cop who gave you a ticket last summer, but I am also the guy who lives down the street from you. I am the parent of three children and 1 share with you the feeling of shame, guilt and disap- pointment when my boy or girl gets into trouble. 1 am also angry and sick at heart with trying to do my job and being tagged the had guy, when all I have ever wanted was to avert the kind of tragedy i have just witnessed. The scene was a long stretch of highway with a sharp curve at one end. It had been raining and roads were slick. A car travelling in excess of 80 mph missed the curve and plowed into an embarkment where it became airborne and struck a tree. At this point. two of the three young passengers were hurled from the vehicle, one into the tree, the other into the roadway, where the car landed on him. snuffing out his life like a discarded cigarette on the. asphalt. He was killed instantly. He was the lucky one. The girl thrown into the tree had her neck broken and although she was voted queen of the senior prom and most likely to succeed, she will now send the next 60 years in a wheel- chair. Unable to do anything else, she will live and relive that terrible moment over again many times. By the time I arrived, the car had come to rest on its top, the broken wheels had stopped spinning. Smoke and steam were pouring out of the engine, ripped from its mounting by a terrible force. An eerie calm had settled over the scene and it appeared deserted except for one lone traveller who had called it in. He had been sick to his stomach and was leaning against his car for support. , ),' The driver was conscious, but in shock, and was unable to free himself from under the bent and twisted steering column. His face will be forever scarred by deep cuts from broken glass and jagged metal. Those cuts will heal, but the ones inside cannot be touched by the skilled surgeon's scapel. Let Off With Warning The third passenger had, almost stopped bleeding. The seat and his clothing were covered in blood from an artery cut in his arm by .the broken bone end that protruded from is fore- arm just below the elbow. His breath came in gasps as he tried desperately to suck air past his blood-filled airway. He was unable to speak and his eyes, bulged and fixed on me pleadingly. were the only communication that he was terrified and wanted my help. 1 felt a pang of guilt and recognized him as a boy 1 let off with a warning the other night for an open container of alcohol in his car. Maybe if 1 had cited him then, he would still be alive now. Who knows? i don't. He died soundlessly in my arms, his pale blue eyes staring vacantly as if trying to see into the future he would never have. I remembered watching him playing basketball and wondered what would happen to the scholarship he would never use. Dully my mind focussed on loud screaming and 1 identified it as the girl who was thrown from the vehicle. 1 raced to her with a blanket but was afraid to move her. Her head was tilted at an exaggerated angle. She seemed unaware of my presence and whimpered like a little child for her mother. In the distance, 1 heard the mournful wail of the ambulance winding its wav through the rainy night. 1 was filled with incredible grief at the waste of so valuable a resource, our youth. The ambulance began the job of king up and removing the dead and njurved. 1 stood by, watching, as hot tears mingled with rain and dripping off my cheeks_ You ask me why did this happen? It happened because a young person, stoned out of his mind, thought he could handle two tons of hurtling death at 80 mph. It happened because an adult, trying to be a —good guy", bought for or sold to some minor, a case of beer. It hppened because you as parents weren'tconcerned enough about your child to know where he was and what he was doing, and you were unconcerned about minors and alcohol abuse and would rather blame me for harrassing them when I was only truing to prevent his kind of tragedy. h happened because. as people say, you believe this sort of thing only happens to someone else. I become sick with anger and frustration when 1 think of parents and leaders who believe a little bit of alochol won't hurt anything. I am filled with contempt for people who propose lowering the drinking age because they will get booze anyway, so why not make it legal. 1 am frustrated with laws, court rulings and other legal manoeuverings that re- strict my ability to do my job in preventing this kind of tragedy. Who Bought The Booze? 1 would give anything to know who furnished these young people with that booze. I spent several hours on reports and now will take several months trying to erase from my memory the details of that night. I will not be alone. The driver will recover and spend the rest of his life trying to forget. Yes, I am angry. and I pray to God that I might never have to face another parent in the middle of the night and say your daughter. Susan, or your son. Bill, has just. been killed in a car accident. For your sake, I hope it doesn't happen to you, but if you continue to regard alcohol abuse as part of growing up, then please keep your porch light on because some cold, rainy night you will find me at your doorstep, staring at my feet with a message of death for you. letters to the editor *from page 6 CRTC does not go far enough in recognizing its power to ensure that material such as the Playboy network offers in the United States is kept off licensed television in Canada. For years, the question of community standards has been a troublesome one in Canada. We are caught between respect for the individual's right to make his own decisions on matters of taste and morality, and a respect for the moral standards of our heritage and of the majority. My own view is that in the present case, there is no moral dilemma. Pay TV licenses are issued under the federal government's authority and thus clearly fall within the sphere of community decisions. To prohibit the airing of erotic or pornographic material is to assert a community standard. it is not to take away any individual right, for there is no individual right to decide how the public television band will be used. if any individual right could be said to exist in such a matter, it would be the right to remain free from exposure to public programming of a hurtful or offensive type. To me, it is clear that the CRTC has a mandate and a responsibility to protect individuals in just this way. it is not an easy responsibility, for whenever a public body has the power to make value judgements affecting the community. it has the capacity to make bad ones. Yet the CRTC exists to make just this kind of judgement, and one reason why this power was given to a commission was so that such decisions would not be subject to political pressures of a partisan nature. In the present instance. I would like to see the CRTC fulfil its responsibility to the community. if any individual right could be said to exist in respect to the kind of programming aired on television, it is a right of immunity, not a right of prerogative (hat is, the individual might nerd protection from prop• amniing which could harm him among his fellow citiiens. This is what immu•'it' v otild irvelvc. B t, if a right to he immune from some kinds of broadcasting exists. certainly no prerogative exists by tihich an individual or group may claim a right to view a certain kind of programming. Our rights as individuals are, in matters of this community nature, freedoms from, not freedoms for any particular course of action. As the controversy surrounding the question of erotic or pornographic Pay Television continues, i shall continue to argue for a prohibition of such material on any Canadian licensed television channel. My preference would be to see the CRTC act as its mandate dictates, to take a firm decision on this matter in line with views it has already expressed opposing pornography on television. if the CRTC will not take the decision itself, it may be that Parliament will have to act, and i shall push for Parliamentary action if it proves necessary . 1 hope that it does not. Thank you for forwarding your concerns to me on this subject. i appreciate the opportunity to express my own views on the matter. You may rest assured that i shall make both the Minister of Communications and the CRTC aware of the degree of support from our part of the country for a ban on pornographic programming. Yours sincerely, Murray Cardiff. M.P. Huron - Bruce. Enjoy Sentinel to the Editor: F ncloscd is my cheque rate for the Sentinel. It arrives reguharlv cac receiving it. Wishing you for $12.75, senior's subscription h week and we look forward to continued success. Yours truly, Gladys Moore, Hamilton. BOILER ROOM SERVICE P 0 KA, 7C 55bMc.r.S' 5 Seer'or oto 0r:• Nix ,wtc T'eu NS 5r' iD6ic Vele* �b9 55Tb� Your headquarters for residential, commercial iradullstrial gas. oil. 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