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The Brussels Post, 1976-12-22, Page 25Sugar and Spice by Bill Smiley Christmas time There is no time of the year that passes more quickly than the few weeks before Christmas. One day it's only about the first week in November. The Christmas gift catalogues are just out, and Bing Crosby has barely commenced singing "I'm Dreaming etc, and the Santa Claus parade is, a few weeks off and the town's Christmas lights have just gone up, so you know that the actual holiday is weeks, if not months, in the future. ' Then, suddenly, you have about six dicey days to go, and you haven't bought either tree or turkey, let alone gifts and cards, and you know you're going to be flyinglike a bat out of hell to get ready for the annual bacchanalia with which we celebrate the birth of Christ. And I guess maybe that's part of the fun - going slightly ape for a few days each year, running around like a cat on a hot tin roof, and spending money like a drunken sailor, to coin a, few brilliant, original similes and metaphors. Some peop le, and the rest of us detest them, go around smugly in. December telling anyone who will listen that they have all their. 'gifts bought and wrapped, their cards dispatched , their plum pudding made, and even their rotten tree up and decorated. They're like the people in Alden Nowlan's poem, who set the breakfast table, before going to bed, make the bed before going down to breakfast, have their names and birthdates' inscribed on their tombstones before they die, with nothing to add but the date of death. Perhaps they are admirable people, in a way, but I hate them. They are so busy getting ready for tomorrow that they haven't time to enjoy today. Like most slobs, I comfort myself by constantly reassuring myself that truly creative people are tardy, procrastinating and slovenly, that it takes a narrow mind to have a tidy desk, that life is only a preparation for death, which is anything but neat, and that I wouldn't want to be like those people for all the oil in Arabia. Remember when it used to be all the tea in China? It's partly true, though. E'very year, the Old Battleaxe and I plan to have a gracious Christmas. We plan it in June, and then forget all about 'it until Dec. 17th. ' The plan goes something like this. 'The cards will be purchased about September, and with' care. None of this, "Give me three dozen of those and threedozen of those red ones and .ab out twenty green ones." Our, tree will be large, stately and gorgeous, and will . be erected without confusion or blasphemy at .least a week' before Christmas. Every gift will be chosen with care, about October, wrapped exquisitely, and stored in the front hall closet. Christmas dinner will be planned carefully, so that there will be a, minimum of fuss. Turkey will be ordered ana delivered at precisely the right moment. Plum pudding will be baked and frozen, probably in November, ready to be popped in the oven. Records will be sorted and all set to go on hi-fi. There'll be carol singing, a fire in the fireplace, peace and goodwill in all our hearts, and joy to the world. House will be full of lovable children, and gentle Grandad, who will p lay with each other, while the old lady arid I sit around benignly and smile and smile, with our hearts overflowing. And we'll all go to church on Christmas Day to get away from the commercialism, and revel in the True Meaning of Christmas. Somewhere between the planning and the execution,, something goes awry. Maybe it's because life is too complicated to spend six months getting ready for a three-day orgy. Somehow, we'fe too "busy with Thanksgiving and Remembrance Day and the Grey Cup and sewing Kim's pants, and marking essays and bickering and making up, to make any preparations at all. Cards are last year's leftovers, plus a few cheap extras, sent out on Dec. 23rd. I go out on the 24th and beat the snow and ice off the third-last skeleton in the Christmas tree lot, and it is erected to 'the accompaniment of oaths when I try to nail my finger to the floor, and screams of rage and disgust when the dam' thing falls over for the fourth time. Gifts are purchased with all 'the careful selection of passengers on the Titanic grabbing for lifebelts. Only one string of the. Christmas tree lights works, and the stores are sold out of replacements. Somebody forgot to order the fresh- killed turkey, and we wind up with a beast that was frozen during the. last. Ice Age. We have to chop the 'guts- out. with a' chisel. Plum pudding? Forget it. We're all on a diet. . Nobody got around to sorting out the records, and on Christmas Eve, instead of We Three Kings of Orient, we get There'll Be a Hot Time in the Old Town tonight, with p ornographic verses by J akaloo Shuffler and His Shifflers. Somebody has lost the book of carols. There is no kindling and the firewood is wet. It smokes. The only peace in the house is when you lock yourself in the bathroom, and the lock doesn't work, and the infants wander in and say, "What are you doing, Grandad?" , Grandchildren are incorrigible, pulling over firescreen, floor lamp and Great- Grandad in a muddle of breaking and bawli ng, filling their diapers during dinner, and demanding to stay 'up until midnight to see S. Claus. We never make it to church because we're too busy celebrating the birth of Christ. Maybe next year. Santa may be .going modern; but one Christmas wiittat,for. you are 'still old-fashioned: good thootii full table; and warm hearth. with smiling facOS. T.6 you and yours' ue 'sincerely' send our Warmest holiday grootingto, Don Hornllton REAL ESTATE & INSURANCE LTD. IILISTOWEL# Ontario. HARRIS — WATSON Robert Harris of Toronto, son of Mr. and Mrs. Leslie Harris of Kitchener and Sandra Gail Watson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Watson of Blyth were married by Rev. Edward Baker in Duff's United Church, Walton on December 3. Their attendants were Doris Cuylle, London, Jalia Adams, London, Anne Watson, Blyth, sister of the bride, Gary Amos, Waterloo, Jim Harris, brother of the groom and David Watson, brother of the bride, both of London. Elva Wilbee was organist and Graeme Craig, Walton was soloist. Following a reception and buffet at Family Paradise the couple left on .a short honeymoon to Kitchener. They are living at 140 Carlton St., #1004, Toronto. 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