The Brussels Post, 1975-10-01, Page 2City scape
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 1, 1975,
• Serving Britssels and the surrounding community.'
Published each Wednesday afternoon at Brussels, Ontario
tov McLean Bros.Publishers, Limited.
Evelyn Kennedy --Editor Dave Robb - Advertising
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goommlook
This is nothing
For those of us who suspect that we've been hit
with winter about six months too early, what with
cold rainy weather setting. in in mid-August, there is
just one consolation.
It could be worse. In 1816 there was no summer at
all, according to the publication Summer 1973. You
think we have it, bad? Read on.
I
"The year 1816 is the year that is known as the
Summerless Summer.
Snow began to fall in the middle of June and by the
middle of August was a foot in depth. The earth
remained under her winter blanket until the.
following summer.
Absolutely nothing in the way of harvest was
garnered and everything in the way of crops rotted in
the ground.
People lived on meat and fish. There were no,
vegetables and there was no flour. It was venison
and fish today and fish and venison tomorrow. Cattle
were slaughtered when it was felt they should be so
used.
Hay had to be shipped from Ireland to save
starving cattle. It sold for $45 a ton. Flour sold at $17
a barrel and poatoes a penny a pound which were
previously unheard-of-prices.
The year was called "eighteen hundred and froze
to death". Thecause f of the cold was believed to have
been sun spots which were so large that for the
first time in history they could be seen without the
aid of a telescope.
The following spring corn was $2 a bushel, wheat
$2.50, rye $2, oats 90 cents and beans $3.
WINNING SCRAPBOOK Brussels Optimist
Stream, Who for the second year chaired the
president. Dori Bray, left, congratulates Frank
Optimist, Hockey tournament and put together a
scrap book on the event. The Wok placed first In the I
sports division for all ()Mark), in COmpetitiorL with
OtherOptimiSt Clubs. (Photo by Langlolsy
Amen
by Karl Schuessler
Helplessness -- and how to cope with it,"
announced Helen Hutchison on CTV's seven
to eight o'clock Canada AM show. "In the
next half hour we're going to interview a
psychoanalyst on the helpless feeling that
plagues so many of us."
Great, really great I thought. That's just for
me. I really don't have the'time. I've got to
finish getting dressed. Why do they have to
put on such good programs during the
rushiest hour of my day?
But I need this kind of help.This head
doctor's kind of help. And it's free.Ail free on
T.V. None of this $50.00 an hour kind of stuff.
No appointment desks. No waiting in the outer
office. No sweat. No embarrassment. No
couch. Just me. All stretched out on the bed.
With the TV eyeing me from the foot of my
bed. And my friendly psychiatrist looking in
on me. Talking with me. Imagine. Instant
psychiatry at the turn of the TV channel.
And sure enough, seven commercials later,
-- okay -- so I did have to sit in a waiting room
-- came in Dr. Silverman. He looked like
Sig mund Freud himself. A very small man
with a short cropped white beard. That's the
way every psyChiatrist should look. At least
that's the way they look in the movies.
"Can helplessness make you sick?" aasked
Helen Hutchinson.
"Yes, indeed," said the wise doctor, "You
can even die from helplessness," And then he
went on to give a few examples.
But I didn't need any examples. I was the
living example, all last week. It started out
early Monday morning.
"That will be a $3,00 deposit," the parking
lot attendant said.
I reached into my pocket and I found that
empty feeling. "I'm fresh out of dollars.
Could you wait 'tit the banks open and cash
a cheque ?"
"Dope. Rules are rules. if you want to park
you gotta pay."
"How about a' cheque then?"
"Nopel" •
"But . . but I'tn already late. Eighteen
civil service people are waiting for ine. All
ready to learn about publilc speaking."
"hope," he looked me straight in the eye.
And then an hour later the video tape
recording machine didn't work.
And when I opened up the package of
course outlines — my thirty page packet of
instructional material -- they Were all wrong.
A whole wrong package full..
I needed a cup of coffee. Something to
steady My own nevers to open the session on
how to overcome nervousness while speaking
in public.. It's very important to show
confidence myself while lecturing on
confidence.
My hand slipped. My cup fell. I spilled my
cup of coffee--for the first time that morning.
I say first time because the second time I
spilled the coffee over my clean white pants.
And the third time, well, after the third time, I
gave up coffee for drinking. It does an
excellent job of staining. Tinting pants and
rugs. It makes people hurry up for towels and
rags. It makes people feel sorry for you, It
makes people feel better than you. How can
one person be so stupid? and helpess?
Two people in class kept interrupting me
with good advice on better teaching methods.
And the one man' that did, remain quite
silent, finally admitted he was a psychiatrist.
He told us he didn't want to intimidate us with
that piece of news.
He did.
I lectured on. On how to remember people's
names. I demonstrated my methods worked
' very well. By remembering everyone's name
myself --except I kept calling Judith - Heather
and Heather I called Judith,
I didn't need all of Dr. Silverman is stories, I
could tell him a few myself.But what do I do?
What do I do, 'Dr. Silverman? It's not very
socially acceptable to stare Tight back at the
parking lot attendant and say, "I'm leaving
my car. Like it or not. I'm going to park now
and pay later."
I can't go on. Spilling my coffee. Going
through three tape machines before one
works. having Wrong Course material sent to
me. Forgetting nanies.What's going to
become of me, Doctor? Is there any hope?
I sat up on my bed. And waited. I need help.
I want help. Say something. Do something
that will change my life.
Helen Hutchinson was probing. She wag
trying to find an answer: Now that she had the
problem and illustrations all laid out.
And finally the Dr. said, "Just talking
about y our helplessness helps," he said.
That was it. I had the good word for the day.
My instant psychiatrist came through. I rose
up from my bed and walked.
And talked all day about my liesness
To everyone who will listen. My friends.iensY M
wife, My children. Pepper. Bveryone.
Anyone.
And you khOW what? I feel so much better
how that I've told you.