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The Brussels Post, 1961-12-14, Page 6S re- • .# :* • • 4, , 'Mir: Ai H RONvitIL 1NGERFARM GwendoLing, 0. Clarks Those 1,Q, Tests May Be Deceiving troubles — and the solution lies within ourselves, Well, there is one problem ahead common to us all — the problem of Christmas and, all that it implies. The solution of that problem too lies to some extent within ourselves. Do you know I am acquainted with two girls married women now with grow- ing families — who exchange gifts every Christmas for them- selves and all the children. And yet neither mother would know the other's children if she met them on the street. Why do they continue this farce — because each mother is afraid it looks mean to quit! How stupid can one get? Well, what should we do to help make the festive season a .little happier for those with whom we 'come in contact — children, adults and old people too, We may have to stop and think as it may not be possible to be as generous as we have been other years — times being what they are. But we can still be generous in our thoughts and maybe a little more generous with our time. Money isn't al- ways necessary. Homemade gifts are always welcome and a visit to a shut-in or one living in a home for the aged means more than an expensive gift. In fact a simple gift to anyone, young or old, that shows an interest in. that particular person is bound to be appreciated. It isn't hard to find something to please a child but for a person in a home or hospital it is sometimes a problem. Here are a few sug- gestions: A box of notepaper and envelopes with. a book of stamps; a special cake of toilet soap; a pipe and pouch of tobacco; sub- scription'to whatever local news- paper the person may be inter- ested in — those 'away from once familiar, surroundings love to read the local news. Those are just a few suggestions but don't forget nothing takes the place of a visit — or if that is impossible a friendly letter to prove our genuine interest. A better day may be dawning for many a school child whet makes average grades, lies an average I.Q. and is Inclined daydream or be bored. ISe ma have creative abilities .which, recognized and developed, coup be of great value to society, The big emphasis now is on,. intelligence tests. The student who rates high here usually geto top grades and is singled out for scholarships and special atten. tion, But his inattentive class- mate, who sometimes Incurs the displeasure of his teacher and; the ridicule fo other pupils with seemingly irrelevant questions and rebellion at the status quo, may be somewhat neglected. Dr. E, Paul Torrance, psychol- ogist at the University of Min- nesota, and his staff conducted creativity tests among 120 mid- die-class fifth graders—with as- tonishing results, The two high- est creativity scorers among the top ten had the lowest I.Q.s and their academic ratings were me- diocre, They probably would be kept out of most "good" colleges. But they should not be, if ten- tative conclusions based on these tests are substantiated, If crea- tive thinkers can be identified and given educational induce- ments, the rewards to the school. system and the country will bs abundant. For our very survival, We can ill afford to submerge creative thought, —Turlock (Calif,) Daily Journal. DRIVE WITH CARE! Give Hours of Play PRINTED PATTERN .2)ali WaidAoka 4905 FOR DOLL 14"-22" TALL I NEW MEDIUM — Successful as a novelist while still a teen- ager, Francoise Sagan is now trying her hand at the stage. Peering through scenery, she's shown here backstage in a Paris theatre where her first play, "Violins, Sometimes," is going in rehearsal. "ROCKING COCKPIT"—Rock n' roll without music is what takes place in this flight simulator moving cockpit mecha- nism displayed in Belfast, Northern Ireland. Any type flying condition can be tested in the mechanism which swings up and down, from side to side, Does everything but the Twist. Built The Room Around. The Table They Keep Twistin9 All Over The Map In a few brief months the twist has become more than a dance; it has turned into a national ex- cursion into no-mind's land, In The New York Times last month, a full-page, $6,000 ad. seized a slack-jawed, public by the lapel and proclaimed: "manu- facturers, attention: A new na- tionwide name to presell your product . , The Twist with Chubby Checker (the king of the twist) who created the greatest nationwide dance craze in years!! LICENSES AVAILABLE! . `BIG NAMES MEAN BIG BUS- INESS' " jt concluded, quoting no one in particular. Harold Bell, Checker's agent, reported that by the very next day he had received inquiries from makers of jewelry, hats, scarves, sweatshirts, and blue jeans. One lucky early bird was the firm of Thom. McAn, which won a license to make a line of Chubby Checker Twist shoes, Bell said he had turned down toy manufacturers, not because he was worried about the tender sensibilities of the kiddies, but because, "we have a symbol; it's an image, and _I think we would do harm to our image to get the pre-juveniles in on it." Bell said that he was hopeful this would do as well as the Presley boom, in which, at the height of the craze, 42 manufacturers sold $30 million worth of retail rubbish within a three-month period. But there were others getting into the sacroili-act. At New York's Metropolitan Museum of Art, recently, the fashion indus- try's $100-a-plate Party of the Year featured Joey Dee, Mr. Twister of the Peppermint Lounge. Dee and his gang played for $150 an hour while the lead- ers of fashion flung their forms into the hip-hip-swinging ritual. James J. Rorimer, the museum's director, shouted vainly: "I did Modern Etiquette- By Anne Ashley fallout Shelter Debate Still Rages. While President XennedY giving a good part of his atten- tion to the civilian shelter pro- gran), last month, private debate over the pros and cons of shel, teas seethed across the land. Unfazed by a searing blast of criticism, the Catholic priest- jeurnallet who stunned a good many people recently by up- holding the morality of defend- ing private bomb shelters at gun- point against intrusion last month stood by his guns. ,In a sequel to his explosive essay, "Ethics at the Shelter Door," the Rev, L, C, McHugh, S.J., of the Jesuit weekly Amer- ica, acknowledged that he "gen- erated much emotional revulsion, especially among rabbis, Protes- tant clergymen, and the gentle souls who make too simple ap- peals to the 'unequivocal ethic' of the Sermon on the Mount." But he wrote: "I do not apologize for the arti- cle . . Indeed, I am happy that sny controversial discussion, by evoking the unwelcome thought that some of us may be driven to liquidating our neighbor even before Mr. Khrushchev's bombs can incinerate him, helped to highlight the essentially moral aspects of the Great Shelter De- bate Rdached by Newsweek in re- treat in Evanston, Ill, the Jesuit editor said the only criticism of his stand from within his own church had been directed against "the psychological prudence of raising such a question in the public area at this time." The shelter debate also raged on in the world of science. Seven University of Iowa physicists, led by Dr. James A. Van Allen, the man whose studies gave his name to the radiation belts girdling earth, took. issue with Dr. Willard F. Libby, professor of chemistry at UCLA, for his recent syndi- cated series of articles which car- ried the title "You Can Survive Atomic Attack." "It is extremely dangerous," wrote the Van Allen group in a letter to The Iowa City Press- Citizen, "to give the impression to the public that the building of fallout shelters will enable the average citizen to survive a nu- clear war." Dr. Libby replied: "It is a mat- ter of judgment My message is: It is well to have insurance against fallout because it is a great potential killer in case of nuclear war." What is believed to be the world's largest one-piece table- top has just been hoisted into position on the twenty-fifth floor of a new building being erected in. Sydney, Australia, The table top, which weighs 2,800 lbs., is twenty-four feet long and nine feet wide, It was made from a giant Queensland walnut tree and is destined to be the centrepiece of the directors' board room of the Australian Mutual Provident So- ciety, an insurance company which is building a twenty-sev- en - storey skyscraper on the shores of Sydney Harbour, Being too big to go through the doors of the completed build- ing, the table top was hoisted up twenty-five floors while the sky- scraper was a shell, and the boardroom is now being built round it. The hoisting was a tricky af- fair, involving wind checks with the weather bureau, as a breeze of more than twenty miles an hour could have sent the mam- moth table hurtling to the ground. Small Girl Tells Tale Of Horror You folk who read this column — do you, ever feel sorry for yourselves? When trouble comes do you sometimes say — "Now why should all this happen to me?" I am •sure you have said it more than once — just as I have. But haven't •you also look- - ed around and considered how lucky you are compared with some, of your friends 'and neigh- bours? I hOpe so because that is the best way to cure onself of self-pity. And yet an interest in other people's worries Sometimes creates a problem for ,ourselves. If you become too_ sympathetic about the troubles of otherS you may become so involyed they be- come your troubles too! That is• generally what happens to me. A friend confides that she is having trouble with her 'teenage daughter and I lie awake at night wondering what I can say or do There was nothing about the taffy-haired little girl resting in in Miami's Mercy Hospital last month to hint that she had seen her eleven-year-old world come to an end in a welter of blood on a night of terror aboard the 60-foot ketch Bluebelle. She ate heartily — soup and scrambled eggs for lunch—and slept nor- mally. One day she wrote a let- ter to a classmate, 11-year-old Cathy Galloway, back home in Green Bay, Wis., and reminded her of a promised gift of a kitten. "I'd like to have it when I get home," she wrote. For a child who had drifted almost four days on a flimsy life raft. Terry Jo DuperrauIt was Gifts Of Luxury snapped in a squall and the yacht, under charter to • the Du- perraults, caught fire and sank, taking with it. Terry Jo's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Duperrault, her brother, 14-year-old Brian and Harvey's bride, Mary. Har- vey escaped in a dinghy with the drowned body, of Terry Jo's sis- ter, ri-year-old Renee. Not so, said Terry Jo; the mast did not fall nor was there any fire. She was awakened by "screaming and stamping," went on deck and saw her mother and brother lying in 'pools of blood. Harvey, she said, struck her and sent her below. When water rose to the levee of her bunk, Terry 4 went topside again to ask the Q. Should a letter of applica- tion for a position be written by hand or typewritten? A. Usually, a typewritten let- ter is preferred. However, there are some firms whidh stipulate handwritten letters of applica- tion, especially where the appli- cant's handwriting is a factor Q. Would it• be propel- for us to send a wedding gift of money to some newlyweds who live in a distant city? A, This would be quite all right, Q. Am I supposed to reply to letters and notes of condolence I have received? A. This is only good manners in return for such acts of thoughtfulness. Your notes may be brief, but they" should be sincere and'they should be hand- written. Q. Is it still considered neces- sary or proper that a woman speak first when meeting a man on the street? A. No. In fact,. it is more usual for the man to smile and give the woman an indication that he has recognized her so that she may then bow to him. This is parti- cularly true in business contacts where it may be hard fora wo- man to remember all the men she meets during a busy. week. The best gift 'of all costs so little — it's a wardrobe for daughter's new or favorite IneludeS dress, coat, hat, jumper, blouse, pajamas, petticoat and panties. *Easy, fun to sew. Printed Pattern 4905: For thine 14, 16,, 18, 20, 22 en.ches, Yardagee in pattern. gate size. ' Send FORTY .CENTS (stampq cannot be aecepted, use postal note for safety) for this pattern. Please print plainly S I Z E NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER, Send order to ANNE ADAMS, Box 1,,,,123 Eighteenth St., Nevis Toronto, One FALL'S 100 BEST FASHIONS —separates, dresses, suits, en- sembles, all sizes, all in •our new Pattern Catalog in color. Sew for yourself, family, 350. Ontario residents must include lc Sales Tax for each CATA- LOG ordered. There is no sales tax on the patterns. to help her. Or maybe a. young wife gets word that her mother living along across the sea, is seri- ously ill. She wonders should she fly .over to see what she can do to •help. Another couple may be having trouble with one of their children at school. Accord- ing .to the school nurse psychia- tric treatment may be necessary. Other friends maybe financially embarrassed. They have a house for sale on which they are pay- ing mortgage interest. But the present time is not a seller's mar- ket so the house stands empty — every day it remains unsold.• add- ing to their difficulties, Or again the problem of an aging farm couple. The work is too much for them but they can- not afford to 'employ help. Fi- nally the farmer ends up in hos- pital — probably for a lengthy session. His wife' wonders what she had better do — persuade him to sell out or try to carry on herself after getting rid of Most of the livestock. These are all very real prob- lems as are many others that have come to my attention. It seems that at some• time or other every one of us has some sort of problems to face — ill-health, "in-laws', financial and so on. So, if you or I are called upon for advice and assistance what shalt we do? That is quite a ' question. None of us is possessed of the wisdom of Solomon, so, in our desire to help we may quite possibly give the wrong advice simply because we are not always in full possession. of the facts. No matter what the trouble there are always two sides to every story. That we are inclined to forget so we should learn not to be hasty in judgment. I Oten wonder how any woman has the courage to run a correspondence column. I would never sleep at night for fear I had given the • wrong advice to someone. But one thing we can always do — in person or on paper — show sympathy and understand- ing.. We can also safely advise that the parties involved take more time to think things 'out thernseives,"or, if necessary ask advice from those best qualified to help—minister, doctor, school principal or lawyer. A little soul- searching never does any harm either. If' we are honest we may sometimes find that part of our 'rust whisper, Ste; remember, this is the still life ealleiat." SUPER VACUUM—Dirt, stones and other foreign objects which could damage the skins and engines. of planes are swept up by this big motorized \Queen"' cleaner at Hanscom Field. The nine-tan machine does its jOb While moving along to 40 kri,eeh. over the almost six Million square feet of rant `s runways and taxiways at the field. 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Send' :25(„, Otiterie reeidents must' ioolude le Sales Tit* for each CATA, LOt chimed There is no selei toe be the patterns. not Invite them. I was, not aware of this," while, at the same.moment, Mrs. Rorimer, off in a discreet corner, was learn- ing how to twist. The party raised $70,000 "toward a new wing for 'the Museum of Costume Art.. Meanwhile„ moralists debated the propriety of the danCe. in her coluinn, Elsa Maxwell con- fided that Princes§ Olga of Yugoslavia had agreed with 'her at the Polish Ball that • the twist shouldn't be danced in public places, but only at private par- ties. Then La Maxwell went on to confuse matters by making public a private party—Afdere Fonda's blow-out for her sister Lorien and brother-in-Taw Loki Gaetani. Describing the• doings,. Miss Maxwell. carefully 'listed who had and who hadn't twisted.. The derangement was hardly confined to New York. Like an epidemic, it had swept the re- public.. In the White House, at a dinner dance in honor of Mrs.. Kennedy's sister, Princess Racizi-, will, Lester Lenin's orchestra played the twist, to which Meg Cassini and Mrs. Philip Geyelin danced. Pierre Salinger denied seeing it, but this Was the green light for Washington society,. Fri- ' clgy night, Mrs. Herbert May (Marjorie IVierriweether Post, Pbst-Toasties heieess) gave a party for Diane Dow (Dede) BUchanan, debutante daughter of eformer U.S. Chief of Protocol Wiley Buchanan. Sidney of the Mayflower played the twist, which he said 18-year-old Dede "loves to do." (Mrs.Buchanan swears that she saw the Duke and Duchess of Windsor doing the twist in Paris.) In Atlanta, 7I-year-old former mayor William Hartsfield was twisting at a benefit Soirée Ball at the posh Piedmont Driving Club. In the San Francisco area, where the latest wrinkle is doing the twist with a highball glass balanced on one's head, there was a twist party at the fashionable Burlingame Country Club. fashionable Hillsborough. And iri L,A., where the Crescendo is the locus of the fracas, the current variations include the , Back Scratcher (the twister stands back to partner and pretend:4 to scratch his back against an imag- inary pillar), the Fight (boxer's motions, set to music), and the Oversway (the girl does a back twist, and the boy a forward twist, simultaneously), By the weekend there were re- ports from Los' Angeles of no less than three twist movies ("Hey Let's Twist," "Twist Around the. Clock," and "Dole' the Twiet")..- And there Was—naturelly—a re- Cord celled"IVIerry Twietrnas." —Erciert NEWSWEEit. SOLE SURVIVOR--Terry Jo Duperrault, i 1", the only sur- vivor among seven people who were aboard the ketch Blue- belle is shown with a doll sent to her by crew members of the Greek ship Captain Theo who rescued her. doing fine, Evert %hien the gold- captain if the ketch was sinking. braided men from the Coast Guard come to ask her about the sinking of 'the Bluebelle 125 Miles eortltwest of Miami, she told her hair-raising story with- out tears. Terry Jo could not know, of couree, that her account branded ae a cold-blooded lie every ma- jor detail of the story told by the Bluebell's Capt. Julian Harvey, a Much - married, much - decorated Air Force pilot and adventurer of 45. Nor did She know, as did the toaSti Guard, that Harvey had fatally.Slashed liis throat and wrests just• after 'eel:MI.1g that she too had survived. Captain Harvey Staid a mast "Yes," he replied, and boarded the drifting dinghy. Terry 30 said that she freed the raft and float.±d ewey in the night. Terry Jo apparently did not see either her father or Harvey's wife, but the Coast Guard seemed satisfied that Harvey had killed all three adults and two children, either in a niutderoue rage or pethepe to collect $40,000 in insurance on a policy he lied taken out on his new It wasret tieceetary to tell Terri JO the Coast theory Of What had haPperiedi what she herself. had seen On Utak mot would be elietigh of 1 herfa tot a histede,