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THE SAME, BUT DIFFERENT — Both photos are of the same scene
in the forthcoming movie, "Solomon and Sheba," but two of
the duelists are different. Top, it's the late Tyrone Power cross-
ing swords with George Sanders, Bottom, Yul Brynner goes
through the action with Sanders in a remake. it was during
the filming of this scene that Power suffered a heart attack
and died lost November.
"Dear Anne Hirst: A year ago
when. I was a widow with two
small children, I married a Man
‘r, thought was everything
that was good, Now we have n
Young baby and. I'M still in love,
but I am worried sick because
I don't see how that can lass
My husband has changed int
a jealous, vindictive creature.
and lie is so mean to us that
I fear the worst.
"When we were going to
gether he was always pleasan,
to my family and friends, but
since we got married be de-
clares they are all `no good,'
I am not allowed to see my
mother nor his, nor even my
friends; I can't go to card par-
ties or other little affairs. He
declares 'Rou don't need other
people, you have me! — And
what use is he ? He never takes
me anywhere, he won't pay a
baby-sitter, and I miss my
'people so much that some days
I have to restrain myself phy-
sically from going to see them.
"Our baby does not interest
him except to show oil; when
he cries his father loses his
temper. To my own children
(whom he promised to raise as
his own) he is impatient and
mean. he hollers and often slaps
them. I never had any trouble
with them before, but now they
cringe when he comes home
and run to me. That makes him
furious.
"He is a good provider, but
that isn't enough; we all must
have love and understanding.
and these he withholds, He
Rags me all the time; I can't
do anything to please him, and
he even calls me lazy ! With
t w a lively youngsters and a
baby I can't snap into it every
time he calls. I don't enjoy
Two pretty ways she can wear
this style! So cool and cute a
pinafore or a party dress with
the addition of the collar.
So versatile — sew-very-easy
for you. Pattern 801: sizes 2, 4, 6,
8 included. Pattern, embroidery
transfer, directions.
Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS
(stamps cannot be accepted; use
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pattern to LAURA WHEELER,
Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New
Toronto, Ont, Print plainly the
PATTERN NUMBER, and your
NAME and ADDRESS.
Send for a copy of 1959 Laura
Wheeler Needlecraft Book. It has
lovely designs to order: embroid-
ery, crochet, knitting, weaving,
quilting, toys. In the book, a spe-
cial surprise to make a little girl
happy—a cut-out doll, clothes to
'color, Send 25 cents for this
book,
anything any more; I'm sick and
tired of housework, and heaven
help Me, I'M tired of my chil-
dren, and they are so sweet
and good!
"I think I'm the loneliest wife
in the world. I don't know
which way to turn, I still love
my husband, but he is destroy-
ing that love . How can. I
restore peace between us and
between him and the children?
I don't want my marriage to
fail, but I just can't go on like
this. DEFEATED"
* I wish I could have printed
all your letter . „ It does
* seem that you married a man
you did not know. He used
to be loving and thoughtful,
kind to you and your chil-
dren; how could you foresee
that would not last? Perhaps,
it is only jealousy that causes
his selfish prohibitions, and.
he feels he must put you in
the wrong to justify himself.
Your life now has become
unbearable, and physically
and spiritually you are at the
end of your endurance. Since
he is getting more intolerant,
you had better announce your
ultimatum.
If your husband wants to
stay married to you, he must
be kind and fair to you all.
He has separated you from
your family and your friends;
these he must restore: He
must realize you are over-
worked, and without the in-
centive of appreciation or af-
fection you cannot go on. If
he will not (or cannot) accord
you the respect and affection
and freedom you deserve,
then he is not the man he
seemed to be. How can you
keep on living with a stran-
ger?
You have tried valiantly to
*live up (or down) to his auto-
* cratic demands, and you 'find
* it increasingly impossible. It
is your husband who can
* save your marriage if he will.
* Otherwise (and for the chil-
* dren's sake, too) you will
* have to take steps to end it.
* I am so sorry!
* +,
TRIALS AT 15
"Dear Anne Hirst: I am just
15, and have gone with one boy
since I was in the fourth grade,
Now he has grown so popular
that he doesn't ask me for a
date any more! I'm sure he
Minks I don't like him.
"But I do, more than ever
. I started going with an-
other boy, and now the one I
like hardly speaks to me ! What
cna I do to win him back ?
LONESOME"
* Instead of inventing excuses
* for this boy, why don't you
* admit the truth? He doesn't
* ask you for a date because
* just now he doesn't want one.
• Unflattering though that
4` sounds, don't despair. Boys
* his age flit from one girl to
* another, and often come back
* to the first one they liked.
* They are gaining experience
* (which is natural and right)
* and no one girl means much
* to them at the moment. You
* appealed to him once, and
* you may again.
* Meantime, though, amuse
*yourself with other nice boys
'1` arid give the impression
* you're having a fine time.
* This is one of the most suc
• cessful ways to attract an in-
* attentive lad, or even new
4' friends. 4; *
If you question Anne Hirst's
opniions, or want further assur-
ance of her whole-hearted in-
terest in her readers, write her
at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St.,
New Toronto, Ont. S h e pub-
lishes criticisms as well as bou-
quets, as she can find the
space.
In'Kenora, Ont., Ice Fisherman
Oscar Boivin had no luck with,
minnows, stuck a marshmallow
on his hook and pulled in a 14-
lb. lake trout,
Threw A Party
Inside An. Egg.
The ,beautiful young actress
who had been invited to a big
dinner party in a Paris night
club, triumphantly produced clur-
iing' the evening Easter egg.
Which she had received .as
present earlier in the day,
Attached to it was a card.
Which read: "From, .en anony-
mous but devoted admirer. Please
don't open the egg until this
.evening.". -
"Open it and let's all see what's
inside," urged the actress's
friends, They gathered round her
as she broke the egg.
Suddenly they were horrified to
see a scorpion jump from the
egg and with it poison-bearing
tail sting the actress's hand, She
collapsed, Several other scor-
Pions, each about five inches long,
came out of the gift egg and wo-
men in the cerimany screamed
as they fled from the table.
Luckily for he actress, the
scorpion's sting did not • prove
fatal, but she was in hospital for
several weeks suffering rrom its
effects. It was assumed that the
Easter egg was sent to her by one
of her stage rivals, who kneW
that most scorpions are more ac-
tive and more likely to sting at.
n ight.
A former Tsar of Russia was
once sent a Easter egg stuffed
with dynamite by some of his
political opponents. It was care-
fully timed to explode in his.,
PRIMA DONNA — The first
Soviet vocalist to visit since
World War IT, Zara Dolouk-
hanova will make a concert
tour of the U.S.
suite at midnight. But the
weight of the egg aroused sus-
picion and a tragedy was avert-
ed by the secret police ooening
the egg and discovering its con-
tents.
Imagine an Easter egg with a
"yolk" costing $50,000. When a
member of the court of Napoleon
III became infatuated by a pret-
ty young dancer he vowed to a
friend that he would give her
his entire fortune,
To prove his words, he ordered
an'ornate Easter egg and sent it
in a coach to the dancer's house.
Opening it, she gasped with
astonishment when she saw that
its "yolk" was composed of jew-
els worth $50,000.00
Nobody sends such fabulous
Easter eggs as gifts to-day, but
it was only a few years ago that
a wealthy Brazilian staying at
a London hotel ordered one
which because of the- precious
stones with which it was inlaid, '
cost $35,000. It was nine feet high
by eighteen feet at its greatest
circumference.
'Another rich man, a South
African, came to London to order
a giant Easter egg for his fiancee.
It was ten feet high and made
entirely of chocolate. Into it had
gone nearly half a ton of the
choicest confectionery. This giant
egg was •shipped off to South
Africa as a surprise for his bride-
to-be. With it went a costly
trousseau which the South Afri-
can, with the help of his sister,
had purchased for her in Britain.
The late Queen Mary used to
send pretty little eggs to all her
relatives and friends but she
never followed the example of
Queen Victoria who used to send
real hard-boiled eggs, tinted in
3 arious colours and inscribed
With various mottoes,
Easter egg parties and dinners
were once very popular, A Mrs.
Proul gave a Unique dinner to
her friends some years ago.
Guests eritereckhe ballroom to
see an enormous egg towering to
the ceiling, Around was a farm "
scene. • Chickens clucked, ducks
quecked and pigs grutted amid
green pastures and flowing
brooks..
The Maitinieth creamy egg was
built up of papier-macho, The
gueste filed Up a gravel path to
the` door of the eggi which was
six feet from the greutid, and
went inside.
There the table. Wet' decorated
With flowers t6 - represent the
yolk and white of an egg with
golden daffodils and jonquilS,
White lilies and candy tuft, The
Waiters Were clad as fat-nil-iamb'
coloured shirts arid smocks.
This is surely one for the rec-
ord. Sunday, March 22, was of-
ficially the second day of spring,
yet. at seven o'clock that morning
it was two below zero. The win-
dows here were all frosted over
and our first job was to mop up
the-water on the hardwood floors
as the sun quickly thawed the
ice on the wt.dlows. And yet on
the two preceding days ditches
' were running- and water here and
there flooding the highways, And
well we knew it. Friday seetn,ed
such a lovely day—bright sun,
crows flying,,,starlings chirping,
so we thought we would make
an early start and go to Milton
to see our new grandson, never
realising how bad the roads
were. Of course we had to take
Ross with us and so as not to up-
set his schedule we planned to
be back soon after mid-day. But
it turned out to be a case of "the
best laid planS . .." About fifteen
minutes walk from Bob's home
we had car trouble and were
stranded. One. of the fan blades
had pierced the radiator and the
anti-freeze was merrily boiling
out all over the place. It may
have picked something up in a
flooded section of the highway
and got it wedged in the fan. Be
that as it may the ,damage was
done. We called for a tow-truck
and the driver first drove us to
Bob's place before taking the car
away for repairs. We. were really
in a quandary. The car would
naturally take , some time to .fix
and we didn't want to stay at
Bob's too long for fear of upset-
ting Joy and the baby, home
from the hospital "just the day
before. So we came home by
taxicab.
Of course the whole business
upset our visit but at least we
saw the baby. He doesn't look a
bit like Ross did at. two weeks
old. An entirely different shaped
head .and. a chubby little face.
Ross was only mildly interested
A • GIRL'S CURLS. The aid,
fashioned Curling .irari, heated
on the 'kitchen. stove; ii still an'
niiting item to this 114116
Mrs. Northdry
up 9-yzer,ald daughter Sharcil's
their hortiS,
in "Mummy and the baby" and
came away from home with
never a backward glance: I be-
lieve the infant is to be called
"Cedric Davis." I like the name
bUt I hope no one calls him "See-
dric"! That pronounciation is so
hard and ugly;
Bob brought the car home for
me on Saturday and went back
by bus. Ross will be staying with
us until Good Friday. Fortunate-
ly for all ,concerned he is now
sleeping until nearly seven in
the morning. He is also feeling
more at home and getting into
more mischief. But we, survive,
Since he came I have been
wondering how . many rhymes
and games have come down to
present-day children through the
ages and when and where they
first originated. As a means of.
amusing Ross I sometimes jiggle
him up and down on 'my knees
while I recite an old, old nurs-
ery rhyme,
"Timothy Gay went out one
day, into a field all covered
with hay
A lamb and a hog, and a fine
speckled dog.
Frightened poor Timothy right ,
into a bog."
With the last lour words I spread
my knees, , keep hold of Ross's
hands and let him fall down
"into a bog." I played the Same
game with my children and I am
sure my parents played it .with
me, But how -much further back
does it go?' Does anyone know?
Another game I' remember is
"Ride A-Cock Horse." My Daddy
used to sit With crossed knees
and then jumped me up and
down astride his foot as . he re-
cited the old.nursery rhyme—
"Ride a-cock horse to Banbury
Cross
To see a fine lady' upon a white
horse ."
And then there was the story
of "The Conceited Chicken," pre-
sumably a rooster. I loved that.
It started this way:
"Good morning, my dear," said
a chicken one day to a motherly
hen who walked past her. "You
really are looking so horribly
scared, 'have you heard of some
dreadful disaster?" And then the
Motherly Hen eXplains that
company is expected. She had
heard the cook talking to her
mistress and, she concluded dole-
fully — "As likely 'ea not' you'll
be put in a pot and served up
for dinner tomorrow!" But the
Conceited Chicken "took her re-
Marks with some laughter --
"For you know very well that a
chick such as I knows very well
what she is after."
They were delightful stories,
those rhymes of yesterday. Are
they being remembered and re-
* told to ;present-day •-grandchil-
dren I wonder. If so Will they in
tnrn be told to our granclehil-
drents children' Or will the, Old
stories with their .homely but
fanciful philosophy ,be forgotten
in favour of stories of spate 'ships
and inen from Mara. Folklore
and many traditional , dances' are
being preserved. I would' to
see a colleetion of old nursery
rhymes saved for posterity' in
just, that same, way: Arid L be-
lieve children today would enjoy
theni just as much as they ever
LUCK WAS HARD •••` •
In Milwaukee', Robert D. Sul,
liVen lost a primary election lot'
a civil judgeship by 2,954 vOteS,
two days later ftilfilllect a pre
VietielY made commitment to lee
titre the West Allis KiWanis Club
on "The theft' of the Irish."
He Proposed To
The Wrong Girl
Sutddee n
sensi t ive,
shyness hadyoungiir aprevent-
ed h
haired. Swiss from proposing to
the girl of his choice, although
he had purposely taken her out
to a quiet little restaurant to
lunch in order to do so,
Certainly he had known, her
for only a couple of months, lie
reflected, as he strode back to
his office an hour later, but that
was •no excuse for his silly shy-
ness, He loved the girl. He sud-
denly realized just how foolish
he had been in not popping the
question as he had planned,
He entered a telephone box,
determined to propose to her
there and then over the line.
His firm was sending him off to
Geneva for a fortnight on the
following day and he wanted to
hear his Maria •say "Yes" be-
fore he left.
He got through quickly to the
big city office where the girl
he loved was a member of a
typists pool.
The operator at the switch-
board was busy, but a moment
later, after asking for Maria,
the young• man, still feeling very
shy, blurted out: "Darling, I
know I shouldn't ring you up
while you're working, but
there's something I've got to
say — something I should have
said earlier. I love you, Will you
marry me?"
"Yes . , , but . . ," said the
surprised girl at the other end of
the line.
"Say no more, sweetheart,"
he interrupted joyfully. "That's
all I wanted to hear. I know
how awkward it is for you to
talk with the other girls around
you listening. I'll write directly
I get to Geneva."
And he rang off — blissfully
unconscious that he had been
sneaking to the• wrong girl and
had proposed to a stranger.
Yes, the switchboard opera-
tor had plugged him through to
another department. The aston-
ished girl he'd proposed to was
already engaged and when she
had first heard his voice had
thought it was her own fiance.
You can imagine Maria's as-
tonishment when the young man
wrote her a passionate love let-
ter from Geneva, beginning:
"Darling little wife-to-be . . ."
and discussing their forthcom-
inf wedding.
The mix-up was soon sorted
out in later letters. When he re-
-turned, abashed and shyer than
ever, from Geneva, the young
man propoSed to Maria• person-
ally, blurting out his apologies
for the mistake. She smilingly
accepted him.
We all make mistakes, or be-
come involved in amusing mis-
understandings at times. Look
what happened to a New ,York
broadcasting official a few
weeks ago. He was very much in,
love with his , beautiful young
wife. and never failed to take
home a dozen Or so roses for
her each evening.
He caught a suburban train at
Grand Central Station at about
6 p.m' and, on this occasion,
absent-mindedly left the roses
on a platform bookstall while
buying newspapers. On the • fol-
lowing evening the bookstall
man insiste& •pn paying for the
roses. .$ "When ; It found •,them I .sud-
denly rea.W„that owing. to my
mistakini tWdate I' had over-
looked tha4...esterday was my
wedding "anniversary," he ex-
plained. "It was too late to 'buy
flowers for • my wife. 'She .was
delighted at my thoughfulness.
I was a hero in my own hothe."
Obey the traffic signs — they
are placed there .:for Y 0 U Re
'SAFETY.
111odern. ftiquetto
• by Itoberte ,L.Ce
Q. )10w does one Proeeri,e
signal the waiter in a hotel or
club dining roost that he is
ready to have his plate reniuv-
'cd from the table?
A. The knife and 'fork, placed
side by side on the plate, in-
dicates that one has finished
that. particular course,
Q, When the bride Is heine
married in a gravelling dress,
what should the bridegroom
wear?
A. An ordinary business suit,
or one that is appropriate for
travelling, with perhaps a little
white flower from the bride's
corsage in his lapel,
Q. Are desserts always eaten
with the fork?
A. This depends upon the
dessert, Some are just too soft to
be handled with the fork, A
good rule to follow is to use
your fork whenever possible—
but use good judgment, too,
Q. If a man and woman are
walking together during a rain,
and both have umbrellas, does
each one use his own umbrella?
A. This usually proves awk-
ward, It is much better if both
walk under the man's larger
umbrella.
Q. Is a bereaved person sup-
posed to return all callstof con-
dolence?
No; this is neither required
nom* expected.
Half-Size Playsuit
PRINTED PATTERN
4A0140 4/444
Modesty plus figure flattery in
a playsuit deftly designed for
you who are shorter, fuller. Note
bra-concealing straps, built-up
bodice. Easy-sew design.
Printed Pattern 4776: Half
Sizes 141/2 , 161/2 , 181/2 , 201/2 , 221/2 ,
241/2 . Size 161/2 requires 21/2 yards
'35-inch fabric.
Printed directions on each pat-
tern part. Easier, accurate.
Send FORTY CENTS (40e)
(stamps cannot be accepted; use
postal note for safety) for this
pattern.• Please print plainly the
SIZE, your NAME, ADDRESS,
and the STYLE NUMBER.
Send order to ANNE ADAMS,
Box 1, 123 Eighteenth • St., New
Toronto, Ont.
ISSUE 17 — 1959
SWEET BAIT
LOOK MA. NO WINGS I -- Pull-stale madel of a wingless air-
plait*II
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its . designer, Dr. Alexander LIppisch. The
'',AerOdyne"-Xorske ta off and land vertically and fly normally.
Two conercterthifingirpropellers force air through the fuselage
and out coAkollabl Veleta 1he belly:. Cockpit will 'be located
aft under a cali‘py in the Vertical stabilizer.