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a profeSsiondl harpist known in
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tivers, wants to be the first
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taid that she hod Written' to
De. James Jr., science`
adviser to the President, about
her space drnbitions, Far her
qualificatioris she said she was
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4SPACZNAN'V,IORMER -MARRIAGE REVEALED -- Mr. and Mrs.
Luraas of Troy, N.Y., look over a bank statement concerning
payments-made to. Mrs. Luraas for the support of her daughter,
Heidi. Mrs. Luraas was formerly married., to Donald Farrell,
the New York airman who recently spent seven, days ,in a
space cabin. Their marriage was annulled in April; 1954, al-
though Mrs. Farrell was pregnant, She. claims that Farrell •is
$2,000 behind in support payments for Heidi, but all she wants
from him is his consent for her present husband to adopt the
girl.
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* Your husbands attitude is
* one of the most trying to
* handle. When he is home, give
* him all the attention you can
* spare from your little girl.
* Employ all your tact, Don't,
* for instance, mention your sis-
* ter at all unless you must, and
* tell your mother you will call
* her daytimes . Remind your
* husband that you cannot ig-
* nose old friends and you do
* not intend to. You may even
* have to threaten to leave.
* He must understand that
* the strain of his jealousy is
* keeping you so unhappy that
*you cannot be an affectionate
* mate nor an adequate mother
* so long as he subjects you to it.
* Some husbands have been
* impressed by this reasoning,
* and overcome their jealous
* fears to a considerable degree,
* I hope yours will.
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CHANGE PARTNERS
"Dear Anne Hirst:
My best friend and I are both
17, and eight months ago we
met two boys and have been
dating them ever since. I think
I am in love, and my friend
thinks she is, too; we are very
close, and tell each other every-
thing.
"Last week the boys came to
us and said they wanted to
change girls! Is this awkward,
or isn't it? Shall we try it out,
or should we be insulted at the
idea?
"Would it be disloyal to our
special boy if we accepted this
crazy idea? We are awfully con-
fused.
* Neither of you is engaged
* to her boy friend, so there's
* no reason you shouldn't ac-
* cept the plan if yoU want to.
* It might be fun, at that. Of
* course, these boys talked it
* over before they spoke of
* changing dates:
k Should either of you regret
* it, that can be- handled when
* the crisis arrives. You girls are
* such good friends that I am
* sure you only wish happiness
* for each ether. Take it on, and
* see what happens.
* *
. A jealous 'husband is one of
the most miserable of men. Use
patience and tact and never
cease your attentions . . , Anne
Hirst's sympathy .and wisdom can
be of service, if 'you write her
at Box 1, 123 Eightenth Street,
New Toronto, Ontario.
Modern Etiquette
by Roberta Lee
Q. When a woman's husband
la,. a "junior," should she also use
tfi4 affix in her correspondence?
A. Yes, certainly.
Q. Should each guest scat him-
self at the dinner table as soon
as he arrives there?
A. No; until the hostess seats
herself, ,everyone should stand
quietly at his place.
When -the coffee or tea is
very bole, is it proper to use the
spoon to • sip it?
A, No; the spoon is for stir.
ring only; and wheti that is done,
tho spoon is placed in the sett-
ee]. alid .tefititisetlirre. One can
only wait 'until. the beverage is
sufficiehtly4 cool'161°46mfortable
drinking,
Q When someone' whom ;you
haVe just thee SaYS, am glad
to have niet yon," isn't a smile'
in reply sitflidient?
A. This would seem to have
• cOridesceficillig tir about it..
It is bench better to accompany
that smile with a pleasant
"thank you.'"
We, are still in the deep freeze
— definitely. At this moment it
is 10 below zero and there isn't
a window we can see out of
properly. That is -because storm
windows were not considered
necessary over the plate glass.
Which is quite true except in
very severe weather. There is
a part of each windolW that is not
conipleteiy frosted. Through it
we 'can. see' our neighbours' hav-
ing trouble starting. their cars.
The little. girl next door left
home a short while ago and then
stood for. ten minutes on a cold,
draughty corner waiting for the
school bus. The wind is howl-
ing around the house making
weird noises but inside the house
we are warm and comfortable.
It did occur to us this morning
to wonder how much oil the fur-
nace "got away with during the
night as we didn't set the ther-
mostat back at all. Partner -has a
fire roaring away on the hearth
right now and it looks and feels
very cheery. So long as the rough
weather doesn't outlast our food
`supplier we shall be all right.
Snow, so far, hasn't been any
problem. The white stuff from
our one, and only snowstorm is
still lying around but no more
has been added to it.
When I hear the wind I keep
remembering what it would be
like on the farin. No matter what
we did we could never keep the
old house warm in a windstorm
— partly because we were al-
ways afraid of fire, There were
22 lengths of straight smoke-
pipe and 4 elbows running from
the furnace to the chimney up-
stairs. Taking them down and
cleaning them was quite a job
but for safety's sake it had to be
done twice during the winter.
What a change there has been
in heating systems over the
years. In pioneer days wood was
the only fuel — pine stumps
butht on the open hearth after
tree had been felled. Then came
the pot-bellied parlor heaters
and the two-hole box-stoves that
could be used for cooking as
well as heating, split wood be-
ing used as fuel. From it we
progressed to cOokstoves -- to
soft coal and coke, and finally to
hard coal. And then there were
Oil stoves that would sometimes
flare up and smoke the honk
out. In most homes there was
also a one-burner "Fairy' latnp"
lit for a while to take the chill
out of tipstairs bedrooms but
taken away as soon as the chil-
dren were warm and cosy in their
beds `tinder layers of patchwork
quilts — aftei having undressed
it 'front of the kitChen fire. Eke-
the. heaters couldn't be used be-
tense in most homes there was
no electricity. 13y day children
Were dressed warmly with heavy
underwear, and' , Oversocks and
gum-rubbers on their feet, They
had to walk to school anyWhere
from half a Mild to two Miles.
But at least they were On the
move. AS I watched our little
neighbour-girl waiting' at the
hornet in the biting wind T won-
dered Which generation of chil-
homemade bread came frent
oven hooted by cow-chips in the
stove.
We wouldn't want to back to
old.time heating — or plumbing
— but I do hope stories of the
past will be handed down
through the ages lest modern tiv,
ing be taken too much for grant-
ed, I was going to spy "easy liv,
but is it?The more con-,
veniences we have the harder it
is to deal with adVerse conditions
unexpectedly_A ear stalls in a
_snowdrift; the driver gets out,
often hatless and without rub,
tiers. His wife or girl friend sits
ethivering in the car, scantily
clothed; and on her feet spike-
heeled pumps, Weatherwise we
.always hope for the best but we
,-rtever seem to—peepere for the
worst.
Tomorrow I'm supposed to at-
' tend a meeting. I shall not be
among those present, I'm a fair,
Weather traveller) •
Folding Up The
Featherbeds!
One big reason why houses
cost so much is -that the output
per man-hour of carpenters,
bricklayers, masons, painters, et
al. is skimpy in proportion to
the $2-to-$5-an-hour wages they
draw' Restrictions designed to
spread work and keep output
low are written into thousands
of building - trades contracts.
Most painters insist on using
brushes where sprayers would
do the job a lot faster. Carpen-
ters resist prefabricated panels,
end in some places panels fast-
ened together at the factory are
actually taken apart at the
building site and nailed togeth-
er again. Some locals lay down
a maximum daily quota of
bricks, studs or square feet of
surface for bricklayers, carpen-
ters, painters. Specialization is
carried to the point where a
contractor on a small job may
have to hire one, pipe fitter to
lay the pipe out and another to
join it,
Recently the A.F.L.-C.I.O.'s
19-union Building and Construc-
tion Trades Department took
what seemed a momentous step
toward eliminating such cost-
boosting practices. Announced at
the A.F.L.-C.I.O. executive coun-
cil meeting in Miami Beach was
a n anti-featherbedding code
quietly drawn up over the past
three years by the building-
trades union and spokesmen for
the National Constructors Asso-
ciation, whose members account
for 90% of the U.S.'s heavy con-
struction. The man behind the
code: old (70), Bricklayer Rich-
, are James Gray, the B.C.T.D.'s
unorthodox president, w h o
shocked his fellow labor leaders
"at the A,F.L.-C.I.O. convention
in Atlantic City, N.J., two
-months ago by ,urging a volun-
tary one-year wage freeze to
hold prices down. Gray's argu-
ment for wage restraint also ap-
plies to the anti-featherbedding
code: high .construction costs are
against the interests of building-
trades workers, because high
costs curb demand, and lower
demand means fewer jobs.
In its main provisions the code
calls for, an end to:
Union control over naming of
. foremen.
The widespread, practice of
,eystematicelly starting late and
stopPild
Limits on output, e.g.; daily
quotas of bricks per briclayer.
Restrictions on the full use of
proper tools _orequipment.
Sloviclowns, forcing of
spl'ead-wOrk -tactics, stand-
- by* crews 'and featherbedding
practices.
These provisipns will' have no
real effect unless and until they
are'written into Ideal contracts.
But in the building-trades' even
a start toward folding the tea- -
lherbeds. .is.,,, revolutionary. —
From TIME,
Dy TOM A. ,C111.41,,EN
NEA. Staff Correspondent.
Paris — Is French.
youth laNer in its. morals than
Its elders? Is there' more
morality in France today than
before the war?.
A recent survey of people,.
aged .10. to 3Q, came up with
this shocker; French youth today
is far more moral than its elders.
On the whole, the young pen,
ple interviewed were straight-
laced, some even puritanical, in
their attitudes towards tree, love,
marriage and fidelity.
Surprisingly, neerly half. (47
per cent) of those interviewed
have already settled down to
marriage, the majority of these
being occupied with raising
families.
The eight million persons be-
tween the ages of 18 and 30 in
France today are the vanguard
of a revolution that is as pro,
found in its implications as that
of g . 1879. They are rejuvenating.
France,
In 1970 France will be the
youngest nation in Europe, as
present rate of population
growth exceeding that of all its
neighbors. Before the war it was
known as a "dying nation"
where deaths actually exceeded
births.
What will be the impact of
this new generation on French
life? It is a generation to whom
Hitler is just a name, the Nazi
occupation and the resistance
merely dim memories.
Its idole are the doe-eyed
Brigitte Bardot and 22-year-old
novelist Franeoise Sagan, whose
proneness for fast cars and
IDOL SAGAN: Fast ,cars made
her a female James' Dean.
smash-ups ("It's exhiliratling to
miss death by inches") has made
her the female James Dean.
What does this new genera-
tion want? Where is it going?
Here are some of the answers
supplied to L'Express in'ite sur-
vey: '
Are you happy? .Eighty-five
per cent claim to_ be happy;, and
of these,. .24 per cent .to be very
happy. Women are happier than
men; married 'persons happier
than single.
Is love important? Forty.-eight
per cent declared it very irr).-
portant, while another 32 per
cent found it rather important,
Typical reply: "Love? Oh boy!
It's as important as life itself.
And then, it's the only luxury
we can afford these slays." Trial
marriage, however, is frowned
'upon, particularly by working
class and rural youth. "It sabo-
tages marriage," is a typical re-
sponse.
Does„ fidelity seem essential;'
Nine out of ten (91 per cent)
find, it essential. Says a resigned
husband: "With four kids, one
is no longer a teen-ager; the fire
dies; down."
What is France's No. 1 prob-
, lem? *Algeria, 28, per cent; to
find a stable government, 24
'per cent; -the stability, of the
franc, 15 per cent,
What is good in. Francei • what
bad? About all that youth can
'firfirto praise-Are the postal ser-
eqvke,7French railways, and, Ter-
sonal freedom, Rated as bad are
`politics (96 per cent), the goy.
erninent, economics arid housing.
"What's wrong?" echoes a
Shop-keepet. "Everythingr •
There is no authority, only an-
arehy, Wdzieerl*a strong niari ih
the goverterient."
Replies a school teacher:: "The
history of France gjpriot.th, its
countryside is beautiful, its fl ood
good and its Wine. EYthithirig
else gfiliks; .,starting at the top."
How about a Socialist society?
Nearly, half .don't know; 24 pee,
eent,fayor. 'socialism, 28 per cent
are against it.
Would they sacrifice their lives
f.OF something? kert,ye,two -per
tent7 titre a flat No, while I
per, cent, don't .,know. Of, tho.,re-
inalning 41 per tent, one
in font' IS Willing to risk his lite
for his country.
IIeroies out lietbee'
exist, they are Mord likely to
be firemen than solcliera," says
a worker, whale a cleric VA*
that,: "Heroes are these .who.
ter in silence the stupidity aY
ethers,"
Conclusions; French, youth. if
selfish, materialist-minded, atp$
concerned almost solely with than
ppreult of personal happiness
IDOL BARDOT; Infidelity is out,
but Brigitte is in.
but probably no more so that!'
American, Russian or British
youth.
Its politics, as well as its
morals, are conservative; but Et
is inclined to be pessimistic con-
cerning its influence on French
affairs (52 per cent of those
„polled feel themselves to be at
-1,1-k -mere'y of events, instead of
shaping : them). It is probably
no worse nor better than pre-
ceding generations.
TEDDY BEAR SAVES
OWNER'S LIFE
A large teddy bear which she
had juSt been given saved the
life of two-year-old Erika Muller
ineEssex. She dropped the bear
trtim a fourth floor window and
while looking down to see where
it had gone, Erika tumbled out
and landed — on the bear. She
suffered' a few bruises and
scratches.
'WINK CAUSED RETRIAL
Catching a juror Winking at a
woman witness at a trial in Syd-
ney, Australia, a District Judge
immediately apprehended the
culprit and ordered a new trial
The offending juror explained:
"I 'caught the lady's eye, and my
mother taught me it was polite to
acknowledge a. greeting."
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dren were the better taken care
of.
Coming back to heating again.
Wood for heating purposes is a
thing of !the past in most of cen-
tral ',Ontario — except for fire-
placee. etnetead, think of viide
choiceArej, now have in heating
our homes. With coal — soft,
hard or 'blower type. Heat can
then be distributed -through the
house by forced air, hot-water
pipes or radiant heat under the
floors. Instead of coal we can
have fuel oil or natural gas to
run the furnaces, controlling it
thermostatically by the turn of a
dial in the hall.
It is all very wonderful but
I doubt if we really appreciate
our modern heating systems —
except when the power gives up
the ghost. Then we feel hard
done by and cry to high heaven
and wonder , why the hydro com-
mission doesn't look after things
better! •
There used to be another type
of fuel in common use put west
when we lived there. I was re-
minded of this the other night
on TV when 'a man was told to
"get a good fire' going with buf-
falo chips". Partner and I won-
dered how many people would
know what he meant. We knew,
because where we lived there
was a good supply 'of "cow-piles".
Cow-chipS' 'I° would have you
know were sun-baked dung that
could be picked up from the pas-
ture. Many is the time I went
out after supper,. carrying a sack
and picked up our fuel supply
for the next day, It was bone-
dry, light in weight, and entirely
odorles. But what a fire it would
make! Many a fine batch of
The New French Youth —
A Straight-Laced Generation
l'',Dear Anne Hirst: the baby, I'd like nothing snore
need sane and .safe advice than to stay home with my
And I need it now, My husband family at night, I. Ora help it
is geed in almoSt every way, if there are men in my depart-
/Alt .he is insanely jealous and inent. I don't know 'half of
•.always. has been, He has no them and don't care to,.
reason for it; he is t h e first My husband's accusations are.
and only man I ever cared for, getting me down, I never cheat-
I ;still love him with all my heart. .ed oil him before we married.
He 'won't believe it.. even when he was in the war,
"My family have. always been My love for him and. the child-
closer than most, and if I call ress and, my religious faith, would
up Mamma or my sister he never permit me to be interest,
strides. up and down the room ed in another man if I wanted
like an angry child, to, whiCh I don't..
"We have been married eight „Icould not bear to leave him, years, and' have a dear little girl,. but neither can I bear his in- Last year we had expensive sinuations much longer, He Imedieal bills, and I've taken. a swears he loves me. If that is part time job evenings to help true, wouldn't he trust me? I'd US get out of debt, My husband do anything to have a quiet,
go, te., work to meet other happy family life, Help. if you men! That is nonsense. After can, please. Spending days cleaning a six- WROUGHT-UP WIFE,' room house and looking after
* there are husbands who feel
* so inferior to their wives that
* they are jealous of every other
* person she knows; they must
* have daily proof that they
* come first in her affections,
* her thoughts and her plans.
* Jealousy cannot always be en-
* tirely overcome, but it can be
* modified by a wife's increas-
* ed attentions, her subtle flat-
* tery, and by seeking the man's
* advice on even trivial matters.
* He has to be shown that his
* home is his castle where he
* reigns alone.