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The Brussels Post, 1956-08-15, Page 6581 6ti c444/Let Mt& Gave Up Smoking To Smell Roses FIRS Painity eicrt, • bott„*and it stays ,until the ilaicathe romanticist dies, It is asiiSeegoism which transcends * every Other emotion, PRY the girl this man mar- ries, She'lives a life of faith given and betrayed, hope re- newed only to be ravished, In every other way he may be honorable, but when this temptation comes, off he will go to the chase, leaving his wife exasperated, disgusted and heartbroken, The man is a contemptible, yet pathetic, figure. What intelligent wom- an would choose to share his ignoble fate? formal tea are not so elaborate and the refreshments are more simple, The hostess at an in formal tea mingles with her guests and does not remain at the door to greet each new- comer. Q. flow may one serve fruit at an inNtinal dinner? A, Just place a large 1304 of fruit on the table, and allow the guests to help themselves, Q. Should a woman keep her gloyes on during the church ser- vice? A. Yes, Q. When a host asks, "What will you have to drink," Is it correct to ask +, him, "What do yon have?" A. A good host will usually make suggestions, or will tell his guests what he has to of- fer. But if he doesn't, it cer- tainly is not well-bred to ask him what he has. Don't hesitate to state your preference, and if he is not stocked to fill yOur order, you can start over from there. Q. Would It be proper for the bridegroom and his best man to wear tuxedo suits at an af- ternoon wedding? A. No; tuxedo suits are cor- rectly worn only, after six o'clock in the evening. TEA TIME IN A TUB.— Three-Yedr"-old Connie June Falen holds a make-believe tea .party while sitting in tub of cool water in her back yard. No better place -for such a party, as the *, temperature soared to 102 degrees. Pretty Centerpiece "Dear Anne Hirst; My Sittta- tion frustratee me. I've been going with e young man regu- larly for two steers, and he treats, me like 4 slave. Yet there are wonderful hours when we seem to be close and which make up for all the heartache he causes me. I know I could not go on without his love, nor would he want to without mine. "Alone together, he is loving and kindness itself; but when we are with others, he makes such a fool of himself over girls that I am furiously embarrassed and hurt. Regularly, he vows he won't misbehave again and always he, does. "It is really tearing my heart out, and affecting my health. Can you suggest anything I can do with him? "NEARLY 20," "ALL IS VANITY" 4, The only way to end your s heartache is to stop dating * the man entirely. * He is an incurable roman- ticist, vain as a peacock. Such * men cannot resist feeding their vanity by flaunting their * charms before all females in sight. They vow fidelity to the * girl that loves them, but at * one smile from another, they * are off to conquest and certain * of victory, 4, This cruel trait seems in- ---C Its ; HRONICL L 1146ER AR -07 Gvemdsoline P. Cto,,rke. nearer and nearer to Vraneh but still Meilland worked on; but soon it became evident that France and the rose — was in grave danger, In the year 1940 a Wend Of Meilland's who was in the gm- ploy of the United States' Gen- eral Consulate in nearby Isy, ons, 'phoned to say that Vice- Consul George Whittinghill was, flying to. the U.S.A, and would take a parcel, weighing under a. pound, friendsttheere:the Burtestehegz'opwerVI was to reach the Lyons-Brun airfield no later than 5 p.m. Meilland at once, carefully packed 100 cuttings. They reached the airfield with sec- onds to spare. No sooner had the thunder of the airliner's engines faded away than the ominous boom of cannon could be hdhrd as the all-conquering German army approached. "That Arne afternoon, fifty yards away from our nurseries at Tessin," said pretty Louisette Meilland, wife of Francis, "the road began to echo with the machine-gun rattle as our sol- diers put up a delaying rear- guard action." You would never guess' that these roses were developed within hearing of the cannon, amid all the devastations, hor- rors, privations, and misery of war. Many lovely creations were derived from the single bed that a garrison of 175 Germans and forty horses left for two years to the Meillands out of ,all their extensive nurseries. Immediately after the war ended, the Meillands heard that the small parcel, which meant so much to them, had got through ack-ack fire and storms to' its destination in the U.S. The precious blooms were re- turned and Meilland called his rose' Peace" — On April 29th, 1945, the very 'day that Berlin fell. Instantly Peacecaught the fancy of the world: rose, standing in a class if its own could' not have come at a more proper time' to- symbolize the end' of the great 'conflict and the return .to,, the good and simple things of life. And the more fit- ting that it should originate from war-torn Europe. Unless down the coming years you want to be pitied by those who love you, and called a fool by those who don't, send this man on the Way he has chosen, Do not fear he will not exist with- out your love; he will man- * age to corral another trust- * ing worshipper to nourish his * ego as you have, and finally * insult her as he has been in- * suiting you, * You can live without his * love, too, once you see .him * as he is. * I hope this consuming emo- • tion he arouses in you will * one day be bestowed upon a * man who will honor it. * * * FIRST LOVE RETURNS "Dear Anne Hirst: For sever- al years I went with a high- school student whom I really loved. But things happened, and. I met an older man whom I married. We have been happy together, but I've often longed to know what became of my first beau. "Now I hear he is back in town. How I'd like to see him and get acquainted again, find out if he has a girl and so. on! Would it be all right to write him and ask him to drop in? "One time you wrote that first love is something really special, and. never really leaves a girl's heart again. So isn't my inter- est in him natural? WONDERING." Young Ensemble Modern Ei tquette,.. 0 0. Q. What is the best way to notify friends that a man has legally adopted his wife's daugh- ter by a previous marriage and that the daughter will hence- forth be, known by his name? A. Mail out engraved cards: "Mr. William P. Miller has the happiness to announce the legal adoption of his wife's daugh- ter, Mary Anne Jones who in the future will be known as Mary Anne Miller." Q. I have been told that it is poor taste to use artificial flow- ers around the home. Is this true? A. Certainly not, They are quite popular, and some people even use them for decoration on the dinner table. Be sure, how- ever, that they are bright and - clean looking. Q. Is it improper to blow on a spoonful of soup or coffee be- fore taking it into the mouth? A. Not if the blowing is done very gently and inconspicuous- ly. Q. What is the difference be- tween a formal and informal tea? ' • A. The decorations of the in- Elegant centrepiece for your dinin table!. A graceful swan crocheted in pineapple design— fill it with fruit or flowers. Pattern 581: Crochet direction! for swan centrepiece; body aboul 12 x Oa inches. Use heavy jiffy cotton — starch stiffly. Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted; use postal note for safety) for thin pattern to LAURA WIIEELER, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERT' NUMBER, your NAME and AD. DRESS. Our gift to you — two won- derful patterns for yourseslf, _your home — printed in our Laura Wheeler Needlecraft book for 1956! Dozens, of other new — designs to order crochet, knit- ting, embroidery, iron-ons, no- velties. Send 25 cents for your copy of this book NOW --- with gift patterns-printed in it! * I'm afraid you have been seeing too many romantic movies. If you and your hus- band are happily married, why shouldn't this lad spend an evening with you two? Don't write him, but when you see him on the street, ask him if he would like to meet your husband. A first love is special in that it is a girl's earliest emotion- al experience and she never entirely forgets it. But after she is married, it becomes part of her background — not an important part, at that, h. ty SIZES 4649 6-14 n4. -74-44y4 * Why waste your love on a man who will only repay you in more heartbreak? Life is too short to squander on an ingrate. Anne Hirst will help you re- gain your poise and confidence, if you write to her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toron- to, Ont., about your problem. SUMMERS TIME --- Neves for a moment does the diamond judiciary deviate from Ihe oath of Unequivocal righteousness.. Take Bill Sanuneta, for example The veteran, ump was operating behind the. plate in' 0 moire being filmed in Hollywood The hitcher delivered and Mil yellcd. -Shiite!" This made the director linhapp;i, "Hey. BBL" he snapped. "von're not following the script. Thai mo t, supposed to be 'a hall," "Tell the pitcher to follow the script !" roared fiuttiniers. "I ran 'ern as t see `ern.'` Conscience gets a lot of cred- it that should really belong to cold feet, She'll love the scooped-neck dress with its "grownup" Em- pire styling; add the little bolero to complete the smart ensemble! Perfect fashions for, a gay plaid cotton, crisp pique; or a fine linen for her "Sunday" outfit! Pattern 4649: Girls' Sizes 6, 8, 10, 12, 14. Size 10 dress and bo- lero take 3% yards 35-inch fab- ric; 1/2 yard contrast. This pattern easy to use, sim- pie to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (stamps cannot be accepted; use postal note for safety) for this pattern. Print plainly SIXE, NAME, ADDRESS and STYLE NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ontario. Biting, scratching, screaming and swooning, t lr e women fought, to get in. Not to see a famous film star, net to attend a department store sale,. They just wanted to see .se a. 30$4, It was the first public show- ing at Valenciennes, in. North France, of "Prelude," the rose with a difference, And it drew a record attendance of nearly 4,- 000,000 rose-lovers within four days, "Prelude" is a beautiful vio, let blue rose., It has a bluish- lilac bod, gracefully unrolling its twenty-five petals to a con- stant violet, touched with co- balt when fully open.. Set in a bowl, it is breathtakingly beau- tiful artificial light, It is the first milestone on the road• to a true blue rose, the perfection of which has been haunting the dreams of hy- bridists for the past l50 years, It is the crowning achievement in the already long career of Francis Meilland, the hybridiz- ing genius from Cap d'Antibes, France. Meilland has devoted a life- time to creating ever sturdier, finer, more pest-free roses. These: immensely popular crea- tions of his — Peace, Happi- ness, Sun King, Miami, Eden Rose, and now Prelude, and' no fewer than eighty-four other novelties — are giving the thrills of beauty and discovery to millions the world over. A man of a single idea, this one-time chainsmoker has given up tobacco altogether because, in the long run„ it weakens the smelling sense which must re- main keen in a rose grower. His installations at Cap s d'Antibes are the most up-to- date in the world. From the top "of, that airy, sun-drenched 500-foot hill, you have a grand bird's-eye view of eleven acres under glass' and 15;000 square feet of gleaming white build- , ings,. sloping gently in- succes- sive tiers to ,the -blue Mediter- ranean. Meilland's earliest recollec- tiefis go back to- that cold De- cember Morning' of 1916 when he was. shoVing in the rear a hand-cart heavily laden, with vegetables which his mother was courageously pulling all of three miles from his native Tas- sin to 'themarket of Montplai- sir, in Middle France. Small was the help of - that four-year-old lad, ,but so„ great his conviction that he ,stepped right into the botits of Antoine Meilland, his father, then one of those anonymous , French* sol- diers blocking the German on- slaught, Madame Meilland considered then the tasks of running sin- gle-handed the family., 'and de- veloping novel rose seedlings all in the day's work — an eigh- teen-hour working day, seven days a week, fifty-two weeks a year for the duration. It took dogged perserverance, outstanding abilities, a daring ,spirit and hard toil to get that poor country boy to dazzling success and international recog- nition. To-day, his frends are the Windsors, ex-King Umberto of Italy, the Queen Mother of Greece. 'the Aga Khan and Ali — and .almost anybody who is,. a somebody. When they ran France; ex- premiers Antoine Pinay and George Bidault took time off to journey 600 .miles from Paris to admire his• novelties. The beauty of Meilland's rose ,named Record literally stunned Georges 13idault. Drawing back a step or two to admire from a distance the profusion of ruby clusters on that climber, he banged his head against a per- gola pillar — and went down for the count of ten. Pests, viruses; weather and weeds were against Meilland — and also war. FolloWirig, .a trip to the. United States, where he Studied market openings and cultiva- tion methOdse Meilland return- ed to his ferns and set out to perfect the task of breeding a hardier growth and sturdier type of rose. "October 10th, 1938, wilt stand forever as the highlight in my whole life,"he tenfides. "As I was inspecting Our time, ' Series that morning; my heart skipped a beat or two When the loveliness dt one of my etcperis mental blooms Sprang before my clataled viSion." He tailed out' to his family and they could nester Weal's, drinking its, the beauty of these Very first lidadd 'roses tesplend- ent in their glory Of yellow, green, ivory and pale gold, tinged with a Stiff-Wien of, eat-, Mine, The vivid colours`, hugeness and truly regal bearing of these blooms convinced there et Mite that they had erected the Very queen of roses'.._ World War II, broke out just Whets Meilland, , lieVing elimin- eted sinallest flaws, had Started :Wilding tip enough stocks of the , rose for general releaSe,, The derinett gunfire Caine bour's fields! Haying is a dan- gerous and worrisome • time. When'the mower is out in the field ,you' just feel you have to be constantly` on the alert in case a dog, a cat or a child should come within reach of those mur- derous knives. When you are young you manage to take ev- erything in' your stride — the work, the risks and the weather. But as the years go by the dan- ger seems more imminent; the work harder and the weather more than ever "agin" you. That is when the older folk are glad if a son, or sons, are able and willing to carry on. As I look back I think sometimes I used to be looking for trouble because I know I was often almost petri- fied with fear when I used to drive the horses on the'hayfork. I was always expecting the rope would snap in two and maybe let the load down on Partner or Bob as they worked in the mow, Then when we started taking hay off in bales there was al- ways the chance that Partner, not being too steady on his legs, might take a header from the top of the load, Farming is cer- tainly a hazardous occupation 'at any time, with.either the new or the. old way of operating. Me— chanization eases the work but I would say it definitely in- creases the danger. And yet how nice it is to meet young folk with initiative and vision. One couple who were here yesterday — fortyish, I would say — got tired of city lisle: bought a piece of land north of Toronto about five years ago. Put up a small barn and a six-roomed bungelow, both of which they built themselves. Then they went into the chicken business. Now , they have things fixed tip in such a way that the poultry operate on the cafeteria system and both the man and his wife hold office jobs• in the city and commute back and foith. They raise broilers, ca- pons and laying hens. Whether they make money or not I don't know but at least they are pay- ing their way and have an inter- esting sideline to fall back on if their city jobs should peter out. At least they have solved the problem of What to do with their spate time during this period. of automation, That's all. for now—I've got Strawberries to put down. As for cherries; judging by our own, there will hardly be enough to feed the robins. tilt I haVe qUite a bit Of'fruit left over from last year so I didn't intend to do as Much as anyway.. Some habits are good, some are bad, but this habit the wea- therman has of always' staging, a storm over the week-end Isn't welcome at all. Especially as it comes just around • chore •and supper time. We had six extra for supper on Sunday and they *arrived just half an hour ahead of the storm. 'As I watched the threatening sky and noticed the thunder and lightning getting sharper every minute I plit the kettle on arid made the tea ahead of time—better tea on the cool side, I thought, than no tea at all. But, of course, as I had pre- pared for an emergency the power didn't go Off. That was just a stroke of luck—neigh- bours below us had no power at all and it was off, down town, including some of the telephones. But at least we didn't have it as bad as folks down in the London-Stratford area — poor dears, Well, among those who came yesterday were our two boys— our grandsons, I mean, Dave is getting to be more of a little boy all the time—and as mischie- vous, Arid the baby—wet' I sup- pose I am slightly partial—but I thought he' was just about per- fect. Well developed and taking notice of everything around him. Partner Wanted to know if there was anything wrong with him because lie was so good. But we assured him that when he was down at the barn Edward let us know be had a good healthy pair of lungs any- way. Dave is very proud of him and talks every now and, then about "my brucidele" He likes to help Mummy do things for him—runs after nappies and powder, helps put -the carriage on the verandah and raises an alarm if the baby cries. Better still, Daughter is a different person, even from what she was eighteen months ago. Last week she not only looked after her own two boys but took charge of a neighbour's little two-year- old girl as well—arid pot down a whole crate of berries in be* tween baby chores, Well,. it doesil't look as if there will be much haying done around here for a few days. With a heavy rain yesterday and humidity e hundred percent this mole-ling it can hardly be called good haying weather. And there are such a lot Of bales out through the country. It doesn't thole much difference to us' as' ar th dr has sold his standing hay to a neighbour—but he has- rifrt cone iii to cut it yet, because of the weather, I suppose. It will be the first time since We started farming that We haven't had to worry about haying, Arid What a relief it is 'going to be: Of course there is something very appealing about new-mown' 'heY—you really feel yoti are farming when the pungent smell Of cloVer fills the air. Right now We ere Content to borroW the aromatic OdOtteg Teeth` our neigh- FleiVering :CrabitItileS koptilat Because Of their great pro- fusion Of bloom in the spring, flowering crabapples May be used as dotninafit notes in the shrubbery border or as ePeais.1 Men sistalf frees or shatibg in the lawn. ,M951tAl MISSES— the ladies adopt'these 'new musical hand- hags designed by Rennani of Roaries Italy, "they shall haye MUSIC' WhereVer they go," A silent "guitar," left, n brown leather is eyecatching as Well at funttiOndl., Right; a Model 1:aloys" a tong' on her charilois=ledtlien.amcinglolih," with the handle' serving' Ore irishairtient'i necl STAR-STRUCK AT, AN-EARLY, AGE.4ittie A, Fit•Iney'S. bwm Pre. l'erente• for "Oars" is geared doter to. his tiWii age At a iti‘%40'pal airport, he prepares 'fa_ greet Arriellet Flynn with a last, Amelid ai+ived• with he? mother', movie stair Patricia Mares Who it also his, tool Flynn,