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The Brussels Post, 1955-01-19, Page 2Sens five Plants Men an Love Op The Craziest Thhig4, ANNE 141RST 1_44yotat, Feutay ang444e.e.44, DAD SHOULD HELP Dear Anne Hirst; My mother and father are separated, and she is sick most of the time, I don't go to school much because. I can't leave her by herself, (I am too young to get a job) If I could hire someone to stay with her, I could finish my education, "Don't you think my Dad should help? I don't want to re- mind him how he has misbe- hayed (and still does) but if you print this letter he may see it. It could mean such a lot to me! "I intend to see him soon, and if he will help me now it will be a happier meeting for us both, DAUGHTER MAY" * See your fathea as scion as * you can. * It is unlikely that he re- * alines hoiv often you are miss- * ing school. When he learns of a,* it he will want to engage * someone to stay with your * mother, I am sure, so you can * continue your education and * fit yourself properly for the * future. Be entirely frank in * describing the situation at * home. * Most fathers, no matter * what sort of men they per- * sonally are, want the best for * their children; it is likely * yours is no exception. You are * a fine -and loyal daughter, and * you deserve a better break * than you are getting. Good * luck! * * For a soldier to limit his sweetheart's social activities while he is gone is the ultimate selfishness; it only reveals his underlying distrust and his sense of, possession. . . Anne Hirst has helped many a youngster through painful dilemmas. Write to her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. "Dear Anne Hirst: Our daugh- ter, 16, has been permitted to .ave her fast boy friend; they've dated nearly siX months. Now he is going into the Kelly, and Is asking her to wait for him. Her father and I like him well enough, but, we don't approve of this idea at all, `We feel she is too young to know her own mind, for one thing. When we speak to the lad of this, lie seems to agree— but he tells her a different story. Her feeling is that she doesn't want him to have "heart- broken," "Also, he is extremely jealous; she doesn't dare mention any other boy she knows. He insists now that she sees only girl friendS during his absence, and he said if she dated anybody elsa, he'd feel sorry for him! (She loves to dance, and if she consents to his demands of course that is out.) "We know his family; they are fine people, and are delighted he is dating our girl. What is your advice? BF,WILDERED MOTHER" * I am on your side. To sen- * tense a 16-year-old girl to a * hermit's life during his ab- * sense is the natural gesture * of a young boy in love. If she * consents, though, I'm afraid * she would rebel in a few * months. * We cannot change human * nature. Young love thrives on * sweet words and constant at- • tention, Deprived of these re- * assurances, your girl would * find her restricted life too dull * to endure and kick over the * traces, which would be awk- * ward for everybody concerned. * If the lad were ten years * older, he would encourage her * having dates while lie is * away, Then on his return he * would find a normally devel- * oped young woman, more at- * tractive and interesting than * she is today. During their sep- * aration she might indeed fall * in love with someone else; he * would haVe to take that * chance. If she still prefers him * to all other boys she has, dated * in his absence, it would be a * real test of her love. * However, the boy is not ten * years older, and it is not likely * you and your husband can * persuade him to relax his ul- * timatum. (I especially deplore * his threat to any rival). You * must work on your daughter; * draw a true picture of her * coming loneliness and Mac- * tivity, and try to make her * realize its meaning. When 'a plant is injured it does not feel what you and I know of pain, for a plant has no brain and no. nervous system, Plants may be said to "feel," however, in the sense that they react, to things that are important tO them, A a tree is gashed with a knife, for example, it promptly begins to grow new tissue to heal the wound, All green groaying plants re- act to the light. Many flowers open their petals in response to the daylight and keep them clos- ed during the darkness of night. A young seedling kept in a dark cupboard will grow pale and -weak. Take it out and set it on a sunny window sill and it will turn a healthy green, As it gows it will bend and curve toward the light, stem, leaves and all. Some young trees bend so far toward the light' that they top- ple over, pulled down, by their heavy masses of leaves. One of the ,most important ways in which plants react to light is called photosynthesis, the pro- cess by which green leaves man, ufacture the plant's food. Air, water and the plant's green col. oring matter (chlorophyl) share in this wonderful process, but only in the presence of light. There are a great many things that make plants react and they react in many different wasys. Some plants, called "sensitive plants," will react if you touch or pinch them. They will fold up their feathery leaves and even draw their leaf stalks close to their stems as if to get away from you as far as possible. The tendrils that help to support many vines react to the' touch of a solid object such as a twig, strings, wire or even another tendril. The young. tendril weav- es about in the air, seeking for something to cling to. Then it curves around the object, even when that hapens to pe a part of its own vine. The roots of plants react in a most sensitive manner. Their great search is for Moisture. As their delicate rootlets and root hairs explore the soil they may encounter a rock or a pebble. Deftly, then, they • turn aside, sometimes traveling great dis- tances to find the water that the plant must have or perish. If the girl of your choice turn- ed you dawn when you proposed to her, would you advertise your love for her on hoardings in the streets in the hope that she would relent and accept yen? A Wisconsin lover has, been trying to woo his pretty girl friend Arlene in this way for months—without success, She still says "no", although when- ever she goes out she sees a hoarding which tells the world; "I Love Arlene", or "Please, „ Arlene, Marry Me," It's an ex- pensive way of courting. When a rejected lover is really in earnest he'll stop at nothing, however crazy, Not long ago, a twenty-four-year-old American hired a helicopter in which he hovered over the garden of his girl friend while she sat there sunning herself with her parents, As the girl had refused to marry him two days earlier, he showered photographs of him- self bearing the words "I love you to distraction" from the heli- copter into the, garden, and in- toned through a microphone continually, "Please, dearest, be 17Thwerifegi;1 was so impressed by, his insistence that she wrote him a note, accepting him. They spent part of their honeymoon flying in the same helicopter. After a young and pretty girl had turned him down, a sixty- year old South American sent her a thirty-eight-page love let- ter'in which he repeated his pro- posal of marriage twenty times. He followed this up by sending her. $1,000 to buy, "the finest engagement ring you can get for the money." Before She had time to reply, the elderly lover sent her 'anz other long letter 'offering her a divorce after-. one year , if she wasn't haPpy. By the next post he sent a handsome picture 'of himself in colour-20 in, by 18 in. long—with his thirteen- year-old son. The man explained that his white hair was' due to shock caused. by the death of his, first, wife. Just as the girl, bewildered and still uncertain, was consider- ing her reply; she received yet another letter which said: "By the way, I have had my house redecorated for you in your favourite colours, And I'd like to add that I'm a home bird and do not go wandering at night." That settled it. The young woman accepted him and later travelled more than 2,000 miles to marry him, and they are now very happy, homes, most of the .accidents being on the highweya, in feet fatalities have become so, nittch a part of the festive sefi$I4). 010 one breathes a sigh of relief when the Members of one's family come and go in safety, Before Christmas there is al- ways a nagging fear .at the back- of one's mind , what will the weather be like . snow, sleet or clear cold sunshine? Will driving conditions be good or hazardous? Actually no one really worries as to. whether it is a white or a green 'Christmas —just so long as it is a safe one, On the other hand the Christ- mas season brings aolng so many delightful surprises! For in- stance Partner got a letter from. a very close relative living in Australia.. We bad not heard from him for over twenty years. The letter was answered invited- lately. And. just imagine—that letter was mailed in Brisbane on the 16th of December and ar- rived here on the land! Pis• thrice- is relatively unimportant- in this modern world. For me there came another letter from a well-loved cousin in England—the first arrived sometime last year after a si- lence of at least twenty-five years, And from a nephew in England, whom I' have never even seen, came a letter and snapshots of his wife and two little girls. Desmond is the only surviving male - descendant of a branch of the Fitz-Gerald , fam- ily of which my sister and I are a part. And I might add we are. very particular about how that name is . spelt. There are Fitz- geralds and FitzGeralds, but we are of the clan:Fitz-Gerald with a hyphen, and we feel that ev- ery person who spells his name that way is in some way a dis- tant ..connection. 'Also in our mailbag were quite a number of cards and letters from readers- of this colunin, which, were much appreciated and for which we thank you most sincerely. From some of these good friends we hear reg- ularly, year after year, as sur-a ely as Chriatmas rolls around. It - wouldn't seem like Christmas without good wishes from. Mr.. and Mrs. B • . . and from Mrs. L . . . In addition, there are cards and nice little notes from new friends that are equally ap- preCiated. David got plenty of hugs "Glencoe" but it wasn't any trouble, to give him an extra one. for you—as requested. Our Davey is a lucky baby to have so many kind friends interested in his welfare. Once again many thanks and very best wishes for the New Year from. Partner and myself. How Can I ? FOOTNOTES—Latest foot fashions for teen-agers are shoes that carry messages. The messages are so incomprehensive that they sometimes baffle other teen-agers. Girl at left has "Kind of Not Too Goodish" on her right foot, and , "Many Many Funs" on her left. , By ROBERTA LEE The woodchuck has its ears located in front of its eyes. Art Irish Wolfhound On Col- umbus's ship is belived to have been the first dog of a recog- nized breed to set foot on Ame- rican soil. Tooth Brushes SPECIAL Standard, nylon filled, British made. TOOTH BRUSHES Assorted Colors Special offer send $1 for 6. Postpaid COLLINS-LOWE CO., 3417-A Bathurst St., Toronto If this ccaumn seems some, what out of date I hope • my readers will remember it is written three weeks ahead of publication. Which• means that those of you who read are well into the New. Year, but with us it is only the Monday after Christmas. We still have re- mains of the turkey and pluni pudding to eat up. As for Christmas cake we don't even want to look at it—at least, for the present. But it was a wond- erful Christmas . . . beautiful weather, even if it wasn't a White Christmas. The family were all here, plus two extras, and ;we had a very enjoyable time, Just to add to the occas- ion Dee and Art brought their television set along with them. Of course we haven't air aerial but we managed to bring in some of the programmes sur- prisingly well—especially that rip-roa'ring hockey game be- tween the Leafs and the Red- wings Christmas night. The inclusion of the television for the holiday was quite a sur- prise and Was brought along partly to settle an argument. Dee ,and Art ere very anxious that We should get a set our- selves but Partner and I have always claifned we have no de- sire for one at all. We are in- variably told . . . "If you had one you would like it," So they brought their set along 'just to convince us .. and partly suc- ceeded ... for we did efijey the hockey. Perhaps we would have liked some of the others equally, well had we been able 'to get them more elearly.. At any rate our ideas regarding televisibn have "been incidified to 'a great extent. But one problem re- mains unsolved .. . how would. ,we ever find, time te watch tele- vision suppoSing we did have a set? There. was just one thing wrong With' our Christmas— Dave wasn't too Well. He was completely off his feed—a hang over from a recent attack of stomach flu. At one time Dee even wondered whether he would be well enough for them to come at all. Christmas with- out Dave ... wouldn't that have been a disappointment? I would hate to have missed his ex- pression of delight as he looked at the Christmas tree with its glittering lights. He has one word he uses a lot to let us know when something really interests him. "See! See!" he repeats over and over again. So now Christmas is over . arid' perhaps one of 'the= facts we appreciate most ie that it Won't be here again for an- other twelve months! 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