The Brussels Post, 1979-12-12, Page 2IBRUSIELS
ONTARIO
WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 12, 1979
Serving Brussels and the surrounding comm unity
Published each Wednesday afternoon at Brussels, Ontario
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Behind the scenes
by Keith Roulston
Those bad old small towns
Brussels Post
We are different
The community, or weekly newspaper, such as your weekly
Times-Review is often jokingly the brunt of little jabs by some readers
who look at the news content as somewhat trivial in comparison to what
they read each night in the larger dailies.
How can you compare a news report on the church ladies social
group to the daily story covering the hijacking of a Dutch aircraft that -
was ordered flown to Iran? There is no comparison, there isn't meant
to be.
The weeklies report in depth for their community readers, not just
for anybody who wishes to put their money down and read stories
ranging from wordly affairs of state to what actress recently split from
her husband because of an alleged association•with her co-star in her
latest film. Dailies also report news of their own communities but can't
touch the depth of the weeklies in that respect.
The following is an excerpt from an article which recently appeared
in Canadian Business, written by Doug Fetherling. It illustrates that
the weeklies across Canada are fast becoming known less and less as
small and traditional businesses but are outstripping the dailies in
circulation and small magazines in revenues. It is the age of big
business for the weeklies.
"Few institutions in the land are so beloved-by readers and
non-readers alike-as the weekly newspaper. The weekly represents a
tradition of homespun wisdom, an idealized cornerstone of democracy
and enterprise. The weekly of our imaginations, often with a cutesy
name or one too overblown for its minute circulation, is owned and
operated by a lone crusader in a green eyeshade: He prints the full
names of everyone attending spaghetti suppers at the church. The
photograph on his front page is either of a fisherman holding his catch
or a hunter beside a dead deer strapped to the hood of his
car-depending on the season. His office is a sort of meeting place; he
sells stationery in the front and does job printing at the back.
"That image is still a fair representation of some small newspapers
across the country. But it's no longer an indication of the big business
that weeklies have become.
"Canada's 1,000 or so rural and suburban weeklies and consumer
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There's a favourite way that people
(particularly big city writers and media
people) like to portray small towns. They just
love to get one of those stories that show
small town people as small people, ready to
persecute those they don't understand,
delighting in rumours whether true or not.
I don't think' there is anything that can
make small town people more angry than
that kind of image of small towns. We prefer
to see small town people as willing to help
their neighbours, friendly and understand-
ing. And most small town people are) of
course. But then the city image isn't always
wrong. When they want to be, small town
people can be amongst the cruelest people
anywhere.
The truth of the situation of course is that
small town people are simply people. They
are subject to the same qualities of good and
bad as people in big cities, br E. isolated
ranches or the moon for that matter. What
makes small towns different is that they are
in effect a world in miniature. The small
town society has nearly everything a big city
society has except that it's all on a much
smaller scale. Whereas in The city people
tend to congregate in specialized groups and
deal only with their own kind of people)in
small towns people of all interests, all
professions, all classes exist side by side.
While in the cities people are isolated from
one another, people in small towns must
interact with each other as a fact of daily life.
This can have its good side. When there is
an emergency we see the best side of human
nature in small towns. Whatever normal
differences we may have with neighbours
and fellow citizens are set aside in order to
come to the aid of others. While in a large
city people may be able to,sit back and say a
problem doesn't concern thern,here we are
dealing on a one-to-one bais and the human
element is very real. You can't turn your
back on someone who needs help if you know
him as' an individuallnot just one of millions.
On'the other hand small towns can be very
cruel at the worst of times. The very isolation
of the individual in the big city can be a
blessing if a rumour campaign begins
against him. He knows so few people and
they are so split .up around him that the
rumour can't travel very far. But in a small
town, a vicious rumour can virtually affect
the whole world the person travels in. The
people he works with, the people he has for
neighbours allare likely to hear the rumour
and whether it is true or not, be affected by
it. There is not escape.
Discrimination can be so much worse in a
small town for the same reason that there is
nowhere for the individual to go for relief.
Class distinctions can be rigid in some
communities, though not all, for although
communities are made up of individuals
each somehow takes on a collective
personality.
Where city people make their mistake,
however, is in assigning either the best Of,
the worst of small towns to small town
people. We're either angels or devils.
The fact that these same qualities can
apply to much larger groups of people
though is evident by recent happenings in
the news. On the good side, take a look at
the historic evacation of nearly the entire
population of Mississauga, more than a
quarter of a *million people, People from
around the world were amazed at the
peaceful, orderly way the evacuation was
carried out and the way the whole
community responded. It's especially re--
markable when compared to the blackout
that hit New York a few years ago and ended
in large scale looting, rioting and murder. Or
the heavy looting that came out of the
crippling snow storms in the eastern U.S. a
couple of winters ago.
On the darker' side' however, one only has
to pick up the paper any day of the week to
see the horrible hatred that is brewing over
the Iranian situation. Our media has become
a Vicious rumour-spreader, making it hard
for us to know what is true and what is just
hate propaganda making Iran and th ,e
Ayatollah look like devils and madmen. On
the Iranian side the same thing is going on
making Americans, President Carter and
anybody who supports them appear evil. It's
the worst of smalltown intoL erance on a
huge scale.
And it's frightening. It's perhaps the most
frightening l, aspect of the whole horrible
Iranian hostage affair. Whole nations now
have the kind of unthinking hatred shown by
lynch mobs.
It's more frightening. than the kind of
intol erance sometimes exhibited in small
towns because there is no easy way out. In
a small town an outside authority can usually
restore order. But there is no outside
authority capable of restoring order.in this
situation. The United Nations and the World
Court can talk but that's all. It makes the
worst of smalltowns look like peanuts.
Sugar and spice
By Bill Smiley A family Christmas again
It looks as though the Smileys are going
to have a family Christmas this year, for
the first time in quite a few.
As I write, son Hugh is to arrive
tomorrow from Paraguay. There's no way
we're going to get rid of him inside a
month.
Daughter Kim and the grandboys are
going to get out of Moosonee for Christmas
if they have to hire a dog-sled.
We are a very close-knit family, and it
should be a grand occasion. Close-knit. As
in pulled together by needles.
Hugh, in his inimitable way, has
wandered from Paraguay by easy stages,
spending a few days here, a feW weeks
there. He seems to have friends, more
commonly known as "marks", all over
North and South America; who will put him
up for a feW days, and feed him, for the
sheer pleasure of his cornpanionship.
He started out from Paraguay in
September. In October we had a letter from
Florida, saying he was staying with friends
and taking a course in massage or
something from an ancient Japanese
gentleman. A month later he phones from
Toronto, collect, and announces his second
coming. Actually, it's about his fourth.
His mother was ready to welcome him .
With open arms and a half-open ,wallet. But
the more he dallied and dillied, the hotter
she grew.
By the time he phoned, collect, she had' a
full head of' steam on, and the conversation
went something like this:
"I suppose you have no money, as
usual."
"Right, Mom."
"I suppose you have a winter overcoat?"
"No, Mom."
"Well, I'm sick and tired of you kids
(he's 32) coming home without a penny and
expecting to be taken in and coddled."
And more of the same. Hugh hung up.
My wife, in an agony of guilt, promptly
phoned everyone who might know where
he'd called from. No luck. Then she called
her daughter, who retorted, "Do you want
-to hear another of your children hang up on
you?" And promptly did.
I was quietly watching the Grey Cup
game, and wondering why I should be
interested in a lot of burly young
Americans smashing each other around;
About 24 hours later, Hugh put through
another call; this time not collect He was
sticking somebody else for the phone call.
He knows his mother: She apologiied all to
hell. He said, typically, "Mom, you could
have bought me a Winter coat with all the
monet you spend on long-distance calls."
It made her mad again, but she couldn't
help laughing.
That's what I mean. We're a close-knit
family. With needles. All I do is hold the
wool and try to stay out of needle-range,
not always with success.
I remember when J used to tell the kids
stories about' what happened to me in the
war. They liked them better than the usual
bed-time stories and fairy tales. Most of
them were fairy tales, come to think of it.
I can see what will happen this
Christmas. Hugh will be regaling •us with
stories of swimming a barracuda-infested
river, struggling in the coils of an
anaconda, being shot at with poisoned
blow-pipes. My wife will be wide-eyed.
Kim will be regaling us with stories of
the tough Indian kids she's teaching, who
arrive spaced out, drunk 'or pregnant, and
the horrors of the unreliable taxi service
intn town. My wife will be absorbed,
terrified, fascinated.
The grandboys will be eating peanut-
butter and honey sandwiches all over our
brand-newly-recovered Chesterfield suite.
Teir grandmother will be just plain
furious.
And I'll be sitting in a corner, relegated
to getting some more wood for the
fireplace, taking squealing, furious Balind -
off to bed, and wondering when I can get in
a word about,the dreadful kids. I have in
Grade 9 this year, my battles with the
administration, and the shrinking of My
potential pension through inflation.
In the face of all that exoticism, I'll
probably be driven to the grave. If this
happens, the turkey won't be prepared,
'cause I always do it.
There'll be rivalry in the horror stories.
Both of our Children will plead extreme
poverty, demur the value of the presents
they 'got, and nip out to visit friends on
Christmas Eve, while the Old Battleaxe
and I make the gravy and whip the turnips.
And beat the grandboys, if we can catch
them.
Ah, but it'll be grand to have the family
together again; There's nothing that can
touch getting up on Chriitmas morning,
tihittinngo, on,and looking after the grandboys for
five hours while the "young people" sleep
On the other hand, there just might be. I
am investigating a return ticket to Hawaii,
single, for the holiday Season.
If I left quietly, without fuss, and nobody
knew where I was, I could come beck on
January 2, knowing full well that my wife
would have kicked the whole mob out.