The Exeter Times-Advocate, 1974-01-31, Page 4Phone 235.1331
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TODAY'S CHILD
BY HELEN ALLEN
THE TORONTOITA SYNDICATE
Fred, 4, is small for his age but healthy,'lively and actiVe.liel"
has dark hair, dancing brown eyes and olive skin.
Tiny at birth, Fred was diagnosed at three months as having
Pierre-Robin Syndrome. Children with this condition usually
have small mouths, cleft palates and very small chins.
Sometimes they are retarded.
Fred is not retarded. In fact he is considered an average child.
Though he had some early feeding difficulties, he did not need
an operation for his palate and he now eats whatever his foster
family is having. He will probably need orthodontic work later
because his jaws may riot be big enough for his second teeth,
though his baby teeth are fine as you can see in the picture. He
may also need speech therapy.
Fred is alert, quick to learn and well co-ordinated. He runs
and climbs with agility. He can turn somersaults and stand on
his head.
He is hyperactive and sometimes it is hard to slow him but he
will usually settle down if somebody will read him a story or
play records for him. He also likes drawing and coloring.
This young fellow will be a delight to parents who are young;
energetic and have lots of patience.
Since Fred is used to other children, he will probably do best
with brothers and sisters in his adoption home.
To inquire about adopting Fred, please write to Today's Child,
Ministry of Community and Social Services, Box 888, Station K,
Toronto M4P 2H2. For general adoption information, please
contact your local Children's Aid Society.
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Valuable exercise
Ted Wright's suggestion to have
members of Exeter council outline their in-
dividual priorities for 1974 turned out to be
a most valuable exercise,
While some of the projects cited were
expected, such as sewers, the discussion
did lead to many other suggestions which
council members would do well to follow-up
in the coming months,
The suggestion made by Ted prompted
members to see beyond some of the im-
mediate needs and this is a necessary part
of their administration. It tends to bring
into consideration some topics that can be
given consideration before they turn into
problems.
To an extent, the exercise resulted in a
bit of a review for members, such as
Deputy-Reeve Helen Jermyn's notation
that members had been procrastinating on
such matters as mobile or modular homes.
A look back to see what has been left
undone is of equal importance to looking
ahead to see what has to be done,
However,the whole matter will be of no
value if members fail to take action on the
suggestions presented. A periodic review of
action being taken in some of the priority
situations is necessary.
Homesick
On the right track
It's still too early to know whether any
positive action will come from the move by
Exeter recreation officials to get area
communities involved in forming a central
recreational committee.
Obviously it is not something which
can be organized in a short period and the
complexities of the project would appear to
dictate that it be moved forward at a
cautious pace.
There are naturally pitfalls as well as
benefits, but there is no question but what
some programs could be operated on a co-
operative basis while they would be im-
practical for any one community to under-
take alone from the standpoint of cost,
facilities or numbers of people involved.
Many activities in small communities
can not be considered because of the pop-
ulation limitations and where this can be
overcome by amalgamating services, the
residents of all communities involved are
the winners:
With the populace being given more
leisure time, recreation in its broadest con-
text must be given more emphasis by all
communities, regardless of size.
However, those involved would be well
advised to dismiss the idea that con-
siderable savings are involved, That just
won't be the case and any organization
founded on economies alone would appear
doomed.
The benefits to be derived in improved
programs and facilities, should be the ma-
jor consideration.
.. and this is our latest and most expensive line—it smells like gasoline."
Injuries prompt questions
Straight priorities
The problem of the shopping mall in
Chatham has simply pointed up the ques-
tion that has become acute during the past
few years, how to justify urban expansion
using farm land.
Prince Edward Island has followed the
example of Denmark in deciding that
agricultural land owned by people not using
it to produce food must be made available
after one year to persons who will produce
food on it.
We have watched the best farm land in
Ontario, around Toronto, Niagara Falls and
now in our own area, covered by asphalt
and concrete.
In our belated concern about ex-
hausting our oil and mineral resources we
should not forget that arable soil is also an
exhaustible resource. People who can af-
ford to buy farms should be forced to use
them for something more than a tax deduc-
tion, a summer retreat, or a site for winter
snowmobiling.
— Ridgetown Dominion
Should have filmed it for TV
You'd think the Smileys could
have one tiny grandchild with no
more than the usual anxiety and
expectancy.
Not a chance. They had to turn
it into a three-ring circus.
Just about the time the wee lad
was due to arrive, I provided the
first ring. I racked up my car.
Not seriously. Just enough so it
couldn't be driven. It was during
the holidays, and between these
and relentless storms, day after
day, the repairs took twice as
long as they would have nor-
mally.
No transport. But we had to be
there when his nibs arrived. It's a
hundred miles away. Result was
a nightmare of taxis and buses.
There's nothing more dismal
than riding a bus in mid-winter.
It's either a super-modern one,
with the heat turned up so that
you are gasping for breath and
sweating like a wrestler, or it's
an old-timer, with no heat and a
draft,that would freeze the brains
of a brass monkey, coming in
around the window.
There's nothing more
frustrating than waiting for a
cab. It's no problem down town in
the city. You can flag one down
on the street. But when you are in
a remote suburb, you'd be better
off with a dog team. We waited 55
minutes for a cab one night, after
five phone calls, on each of which
I was assured "He's on the way",
a pure and downright lie.
My daughter, true to family
form, provided ring two of the
circus. I'm only glad I wasn't
there, or you'd be reading my
Times Established 1873
obituary instead of a column this
week.
She began getting signs that the
little stranger was developing
claustrophobia and wanted to see
the light of day. Nothing violent,
but enough to send my wife into
action, with all guns.
"Hang on..We'll be right up."
Up meant up to the university
apartment where she and her
husband are living. It's right out
in the country and a brute to get
at, unless you have a car.
My wife commandeered my
'brother-in-law, and he drove her
there. Naturally, the young
couple doesn't have a car.'
Potential Granny dashed into
the building, and was just star-
ting up on the elevator, when she
heard a disembodied voice
asking, "Is there anyone there?"
She was more than a little
startled. It was the voice of her
son-in-law, and it seemed to be
coming out of the walls.
It was. He and my daughter,
the pregnant kid, were stuck in
the adjoining elevator, between
floors. They weren't stuck
because she was pregnant, but
because the elevator had ceased
to descend. They'd been on their
way down.
Well, how does that grab you,
as melodrama? It's like
something you'd see on one of
those medical series on TV.
If I'd been there, I'd have
fainted dead away and been
carted off. My wife is made of
sterner stuff. She can get
hysterical about a cat crapping
on a carpet. But when it comes
down to real trouble, she's right
on,
And my brother-in-law is a
great man in a crisis. He posted
my wife where she could talk to
the two kids trapped in the
elevator. Then he rounded up the
troops: security guards,
superintendents, and elec-
trician.
They tried everything. A half
hour passed. Nothing. An hour.
Nothing worked. They called the
elevator company. It was New
Year's Day. A recorded message.
Tension grew. It was like a wake.
Pregnant woman trapped in
stalled elevator.
After nearly an hour and a
half, my son-in-law, one of the
trappees, had an idea. There was
a small space at the bottom of
their elevator car, but Kim, with
her bulging belly, couldn't get
through it. There was a little
more room at the top.
If they could get through, from
one elevator car to the other,
maybe .. .
The rescuers found a panel
between the elevator cars. It was
removed. The electrician was
skinny. He was hoisted up and
crawled through the hole. A
ladder was hoisted and passed to
him. Silence,
After a few minutes of this, the
rescuers started pounding the
wall and shouting. No answer.
Panic. They were just about to
call the fire department when the
kids and the electrician walked
Recent events in hockey circles
must have some people con-
cerned about the dangers,
inherent in the sport.
Within the last couple of weeks,
we've read about two players
being killed in accidents on the
ice. A youth from Goderich died
after being hit by a puck and in
Western Canada a 14-year-old
died after being struck ac-
cidentally on the chest by a stick.
Just a short time ago, a young
man playing in the local arena
lost an eye and during Minor
Hockey Days in Exeter over the
past weekend, two young players
were injured and had to stay in
hospital over night.
The situation brings a few
questions to the fore.
First and foremost is quite
naturally whether the equipment
being worn is being improved to
keep pace with the skills and the
brawn being exhibited by today's,
hockey players.
When players start shooting
pucks at speeds of up to 120
m.p.h. it is evident that the;
average player may not have
adequate protection on parts .of
his body to prevent serious in-
jury.
Many players have little
control of the path to be followed
by the puck once it leaves their
stick and this adds to a problem
that may not have been evident
when hockey equipment was
developed.
New regulations are being put
into effect regarding helmets,
and while they're too late for
many players who have suffered
severe head injuries, it is
evidence that those in charge are
becoming aware of the dangers.
One has only to look at the new
head gear to realize just how
inadequate the present ones
really are. It's unfortunate for
some that they're so expensive,
but the new helmets are still
cheap hospitalization insurance.
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The second question that has to
be aired regarding some hockey
injuries is whether or not the
game is being played too roughly.
Some of the checks we saw
youngsters hand out over the
weekend made us shudder and in
minor hockey the danger is often
heightened because of the size
difference in players as well as
their abilities.
One of the questionable aspects
of hockey rules is the fact they
down the stairs, into the lobby.
Using the ladder, they had
climbed out of the elevator and
crawled through that just-big-
enough hole, on to the second
floor.
Needless to say, joy reigned
supreme. ,Laughing and hugging
and kissing.
Nobody had gone haywire in a
nasty situation. The kids had not
panicked. In fact, Kim sat on the
floor and almost went to sleep.
My wife'kept her head, through
an hour and a half of mental
anguish. My brother-in-law came
out feeling like Horatius at the
bridge.
Well, all turned out fine, But
the third ring of the circus was
supplied to my wife. First day the
baby was home, she was going up
to see him, and her own child.
A young woman had thrown
herself in front of a subway train,
and it took my wife three hours to
get there.
' Why can't we have a grand-
child without all this fooferaw?
Oh, well. At least, the first time
he crosses the border into the
StateS, when he's about sixteen,
and one of those Snarly U.S.
immigration officers says,
"Where were you born?", he
won't have to answer, "Duh, in
an elevator."
tend to penalize players who
hinder the progress of an op-
ponent and have little regard for
practices that can lead to in-
juries.
For instance, you can get a two-
minute penalty for grabbing an
opponent's stick to keep him from
taking a good shot, while many
referees will look the other way
when kids fly into the corners to
knock an opposing player into the
boards.
The writer is certainly not in
favor of removing all of the
"physical" aspect from the game
of hockey, but it's high time that
minor hockey officials started to
crack down on some of the rough
and tumble antics that lead to
serious injuries.
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The third major question
arising from the recent incidence
of serious injuries is whether
people involved' are in fact
qualified to handle emergency
situations.
You hockey fans know what,
happens when a youngster is
hurt? The referee skates over to
the fallen player and if the latter
does not get up immediately, the
referee will generally wave to the
bench and beckon help.
So, what type of help arrives?
In the case of the writer (a
minor hockey coach) the help
that arrives is useless, although
we do feel our team is adequately
50 Yers Ago
The S.M. Sanders Manufac-
turing Co. have made very
marked progress since taking
over the Jackson Manufacturing
Co. The output has been steadily
increasing and new equipment is
being installed to add to the ef-
ficiency of the factory. The latest
addition is a new cloth laying
machine.
A defective coal oil heater in
the north show window of J.A.
Stewart made a very bad mess of
the window and the articles on
display. The heater had been
placed in the window to melt the
frost from the glass. The heater
began to smoke making
everything one black mass.
An instructive and practical
demonstration on shearing,
slaughtering and dressing of
sheep was given in Exeter
Tuesday and Wednesday by W.S.
McMullen and W.J. Howard
representing the livestock branch
of the Dom. Dept. of Agriculture.
The demonstration was given in
connection with the short courses
in agriculture now being con-
ducted in town.
25 Years Ago
Fred Darling, Jack Doerr,
Norman Walper were initiated as
members of the Lions Club,
Friday evening.
Dr. Stuart Stanbury, a native of
Exeter, was named national
commissioner of the Canadian
Red Cross Society,
Mr. & Mrs. A.E. Wuerth left
Saturday for an extended trip to
California.
Miss Maude Horton, former
principal of Exeter Public
School, died suddenly at her
brother's home in Oshawa.
Ethelene and Eilene Johns who
have been employed with the
Times-Advocate were married in
a double ceremony at Elimville
United Church.
During the windstorm,
Tuesday, the tall flag-pole at the
school developed quite a slant. It
waS found that the bottom sup-
ports had rotted,
protected in that regard in that
two of our associates have passed
St. John Ambulance courses.
Other teams are equally
blessed, with personnel
possessing this valuable training,
but all are not as fortunate.
The conclusion we have
reached after some thought is
that the person in charge of the
arena should be qualified to some
degree and that his service be
enlisted when the need arises.
This requires training for only
three or four people in com-
parison to one or two from each
team playing at the arena.
It should be understood that
only a person qualified would
make decisions regarding an
injured player, a point that
becomes important in situations
where back injuries are involved.
The arena management's
responsibility should also include
the proper supplies to treat
emergency situations. •
In addition, we think hockey
leagues would do well to enlist the
services of a qualified person to
teach them a few basics about
first aid treatment as it is most
applicable for hockey players.
After all, prompt and proper
attention to an injured player is
the most important thing next to
preventing that injury in the first
place.
15 Years Ago
The new Hensall post office on
Wellington Street, opened
Thursday. Cecil Kipfer is the
postmaster.
Harry Strang, RR 1, Hensall,
president of Ontario Soil and
Crop Improvement Association is
presiding at the annual con-
vention of the organization iy
Toronto this week,
Wesley Callcott, Mooresville
general store owner, warded off
a wild fox with a shovel when the
animal attacked him. Earl
Greenlee came to his assistance
and shot the fox. It was shipped to
Hull for rabies tests.
This winter is breaking the
record nearly every day for
snowfall, according to RCAF
Station Centralia met. section.
Already, over 150 inches of snow
has been recorded. ,
Huron's new MPP C.S. Mac-
Naughton took his seat in the
Ontario Legislature Wednesday
after being introduced to the
speaker and members by
Premier Leslie Frost.
10 Years Ago
Rev. John Boyne told his
Presbyterian congregation
Sunday there is ample evidence
for the cynic to shout that public
morality 'is going to hell'. He
cited examples of political,
business and moral corruption
supported by the people.
Campbell Chapman has been
appointed chairman for the
Grand Bend Public Utilities
Commission,
R. G. Seldon, local 'motor
vehicle licence issuer, was
rescued by fireman Gary Mid-
Alleton from his burning house
just as he was overcome by
smoke.
J.A.D. McCurdy School at
RCAF Station Centralia has ap-
plied for approval to provide
French instruction for its
students.
David Robinson won the Horne
and School Assoc. prize for the
best designed crest for Exeter
Public School,
The other night we got a phone
call, from one of our children
living 1200 miles away, After
we'd exchanged the usual 'how
are you', what are you doing? and
how's the weather? we asked,
"Are you calling for any special
reason?"
Silence at the other end.
"Are you homesick? we
inquired further. "Yeah, a little",
came the somewhat faltering
reply,
Homesick! Have you ever been
homesick? I have. When I was
about 12 my family left me with
some relatives for a week and
although they showered me with
kindness I became so homesick I
thought I would die and even now
I cannot look back on that holiday
dispassionately.
One other time, when I was 17
and off at school in a strange city
I was almost flattened by waves
of homesickness that I could no
more control than a tidal wave.
Yes, I know about homesickness.
Wiser people than I, say it's not
all bad. It makes us stop short
and revalue the things and the
people we've always taken for
granted and it can bring from
within us deep feelings and
resources we didn't know were
there.
At any rate, H.V. Morton says
he came to write one of his best
stories out of the black depths of
this misery. "I gave way to such
a wave of home-sickness as
almost shames me now," he
says, "and I swore if I ever saw
my home again I would never
leave it." From out of his
memories of things dear to him
he set down a beautiful story.
Nansen, Norwegian polar
explorer, confessed that his party
to the Arctic 'conquered
everything.., except
homesickness'.
Homesickness, then, is not
something of which to be
ashamed. But it is something
most of us have to reckon
with young, old, poor and
rich.
We get a hint of this wistful
thing in First Kings in the Bible
when Hadad said to Pharaoh,
"Let me depart that I may go to
my own country". Pharaoh said,
"But what have you lacked with
me that you would want to go to •
your own country?" And Hadad
answered, "Nothing, never-
theless, let me go anyway."
It seems he can give no
reason ... admits he lacks
nothing, yet there must have
been an unquenchable yearning
for his own in a country where he
felt he didn't belong.
Someone has said when the
prodigal was in the far country, it
wasn't' a brilliant oration or A
powerful argument that caused
him to come to himself and turn
for home. It was an over-
whelming rush of memories. Man
may sink to the pig pen but he's
not at home there; he doesn't
belong.
On the other hand, we may
have everything we desire .
beauty, company, gay times,
food and possessions. We may
lack nothing yet our hearts tell us
we are not where we belong
we are not at home. We are
spiritually homesick.
St. Augustine said, "Thou hast
made me for Thyself, 0 God, and
my heart is restless until it finds
rest in Thee'.
In our restlessness, we need to
look into our hearts and listen to
them if we are to find the answer
to our spiritual homesickness . . .
God.
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