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Mr: and Mrs. William J. Tivnon,
Orillia, Ontario, are pleased to
announce the forthconting
marriage of their , daughter
Wendy LouiSe to Mr.* Joseph
Gerard Murray, son of Mr. and.
Mrs, Raymond J. Murray,
R.R.#5, Seaforth. 'The wedding
will take place June 10, 1978 in
guardian Angles Church, Orillia,
Ontario. 26-50-1
Mr., and MrS. Joe Gibson of
Seaforth: wish , to
announce. -.the fRrtheoMing
marriage of their daughter,
Barbara Joanne, to Mr. Kenneth
• Stanley Jewitt, son of Mrs. Jewitt
SeatTiffh an3 agate r. m.
Jewitt. The wedding,. will take
place Friday, June 9, 1978 at 7:00
p.m. in. Londesborough United
Church. 26-50-1
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I' UESTS — Special guests at the
Huron South -WI annual meeting in Hensall on „
Thursday included, from left; Grace Drummond,
Huron East president; Janet Hiepleh, London area
vice-president; Marjory' Humphries, Walton Huron
.-East vice-president;' Mrs. Harold Thiel, Perth South
presidervand Mu,----Graham McN.ee, bungannor, —
Huron Watrftrdent. (Expositor Ph6fo)
LOCAL LADIES" AT WI ANNUAL — Several
Seaforth and Kippen WI members were among the
.Participants in the Huron South, annual in Hensall
United Church, Susan White, editor of the Huron •
Classified
27 Births
HOLMAN — To Mr. and Mrs.
William Holman, Seaford' at
Seaforth Community Hospital,
May 19, a son. ' 27-50x1
B EUERMANN— To Mr. and
Mts. •Donald Beuerman, R.R.1,
.Dublin at Seaforth Community
:Hospital on_ May 22, a son. d
27-50x1
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ROCK — To Mr. and Mrs.
Ronald Rock, R.R.I#1, Bornholm,
at Seaforth Community Hospital
on May 21st a son. 27-50x1
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Obituary
1,1r. and Mrs. Clement Regier of
AR.: #2, -Zurich.
Funeral service in charge of R.
S. Box Funeral Home, SeafOrth
was held at St. Columban Roman
Catholic Church Saturday at 2
p.m. with Rev. P. A. Oostveen
officiatifig. Interment St.
Columban Cemetery.
As expressions of sympathy
donations to the Kitchener-
Waterloo Rotary Centre would be
appreciated.
OF'P investigate •
Car, mobile
home crash
The Goderich O.P.P arc con-
tinuing their investigation of a
freak accident last week. in the
driveway of Judy Harrison. who
lives West of egmondville on the
Vanastra Road.
Mrs. Harrison said a girlfriend
was spending the night at her
home and her car was parked in .
the Harrison driveway.
At about 2 a.m.. another car
pulled into the drive, smashed
into the rear of the friend's car
and sent it careening into the
mobile home where Mrs,.
Harrison and her Children were
sleeping:
Mrs. Harrison said the sound of
the crash was "just like an
explosion" and jolted the
sleepers out of their beds. The
force of impact knocked pictures
off the wall and damaged lamps
in the trailer.
She said the police estimated
there was between $600 and $800.
damage to the trailer. but this has,
Yet to be confirmed by an
insurance adjuster. '
The friend's car suffere'd about
$600 in damage.
Mrs. Harrison said the car hit
'the trailer right at her son's.
bedroom and had the point of
impack been any highter, a
window would have been
smashed and her son might have
been seriously injured.
. The Goderich 0.P.13, expect to
complete their investigation of
the accident in the next week.
Every week , more and more
people discover What Mighty jobs
are accomplished by low cost
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527-0240.
Expositor talked to the group about the current
controversy •over high sdhool English books. From
left are: Mildred Kerr, Frances Kinsman, Grace
.Pepper, Marion Gordon and Verda Sinclair.
in stages
hears I
from -the Wingham Mance Times
midst because death often makes
Institutions are.plaeed in our prior to. the acceptan ce stage. ,is
the stage of depression when the
The fourth stage. coming just
patient is preparing .himself "to people feel they are not adequate
lose everyting that has ever been to cope alone. This was the
important to him". He does ,not thought shared by 'Rev. Robert
need attempts to cheer him at this Ross, assistant chaplain at K-W
point. What arc needed are fewer. .Hosnital.; Kitchener.. He was
words., simple shared silence. 'He speaking to about 150 people
mnst.,be allowed to cry and.to say ' from this area of Western Ontario goodbye... • , vvho'attepded a seminar on death
If the four previous stages are and bereavement in St: Andrew's
allowed. Mr. ' Ross feels the Presbyterian Church on Wednes7
patient 'can •move into the final day of last week. The event was
stage of acceptance with "quiet ,sponsored jointly by the Wing-
ex-p-e•el-at i-o-n• ham and District MintsterraT—
anticipation". This is ,. a • stage AssoCiation and the Wingham
almOst' devoid •of feeling, when and Distriet 'Hospital. silence •and touch are important.-
Mr. Ross expressed regret that
"don't encourage the patient to death 'is removed from familiar
'hang or 'be Strong': surroundings.' When a patient
The mording session ended nears death; he is removed to an
with a film produced for Calvary institution, .placed between un-
Hospital. Bronx, New York, and familiar sheets stamped with the
followed one man's journey
through the diagnosis of .a institution's name, surrounded by
strangers. Because .of this, death terminal illness, through the
has become "awesome". • stages, until 'that final' stage of
-freighted down with anxieties : "It acceptance. Small group dis=
comes as •a stranger, not as Lussions about the film brought
something along the way," he many ideas and , impressions;
said, many felt that the major message
The speaker referred to the five of the film las' int he regret felt 'bv
stages many patients experience
before death. Speaking mainly to-
the people who must deal w ith.t he
patient during these” times, be
said the stage of denial is often
the hardest to cope with. He said
the patigh must not be deprived
of a need to talk about it and those
around him must be willing to
listen. "Do not play down the
seriousness of the disease." he
said. "and don't give false
hope."
The anger stage can also be
very difficult on others. The
patient's anger is often directed
toward people. "They are angry
at what you represent. you who
are full, of life." he said. Their ,
anger is offen caused by a feeling
of being cheated. They will never
see their grandchildren. they
won't see their sons graduate,
etc., and this regret is manifested
in anger. They are also angry at a
body that they have pampered all
these years, only to have it "do
them in". Though often difficult.
the speaker urged these people to
• be treated with respect. "Don't
take the anger personally." he
warned.
The third stage of bargaining
takes place when the patient tries
for one last chance at life and
thinks he may be rewarded for
good behavior. "We• must listen
to this bargainIng and not write it
off," he said, "as sometimes
thege people do get a reprieve".
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Grief gpes
)ivorkshop.
the patient who did not enjoy life
but spent all week working, all
weekend eleani,iis his mar-Intent,
ImAirig forward to 'living a little'
During the afternoon session
the speaker dealt %k ith those' who
suffer loss by death ofonteone
dose to them. He ' spoke of
bereavement, that experience
endured when someoneimport.
ant to our emotional life is no
longer present. This leads to a
feeling, of grief because ,'part of
us' lives in each' One - of these .
persons''. Pain occurs because
we know things can never be the
same again. It• is like "suffering
an emotional amputation". He
expressed regret that the Chris-
tian church often overstresses the
fact that people should not grieve.
He feels grief should never be
.hidden and one should never be
ashamed to grieve, for "gtief is
the flip side of the coin of love".
Grief. if dealt with realistically;
leads to the process of inourning.
a program of readjustment when
a person invests energy in new
directions and toward new per.
eons. He listed three emotion.il
needs, the need to face reality...0o
express one's feelings and to
accept help. The importance of
'getting out' out' feelings was
stressed though 'society ap-
plauds us for being tough and
DERRICK REGIKR
.Dertick Joseph Regier, 2, of
622 Webei• Street. Kitchener,
died at his, home Friday May 19,
1978.
Born in London, he was a son of
David Regier and the former
Joanne Cronin of Kitchener. Also
surviving are a brother. Dean and
a sister Jennifer and grand-
parents. Mr. and Mrs. Albert
Cmnin of R. R. #4, Seaforth and