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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Huron Expositor, 1964-11-05, Page 81 • Have a problem.? Write to Canadian social worker Doris Clark in care of this newspaper. HIS 'STARE' 'JUST CONCENTRATION DEAR DORIS—I have been a very unhappy married woman ever since I was married 18 years agd. I had a heart operation three years ago, and since then I canr not get my doctor out of my mind. Every time I saw him at his office he always stared at me (especially when he was about to check my heart!). I ain almost sure that he hypnotized me once ' (by talking to me). 'the last time I saw him was for my annual check-up last year. He still stared at me. It almost broke my heart to see him so tired and sad look- ing. There never was a word of love or gesture between us. (He is a married man.) Could he be very unhappy also? Should I see him next year for my annual check-up again? What would be your best solu- tion to this problem? HEART, BROKEN DEAR HEART — See him again. No! Your empty hands and heart have made you dream foolish dreams. Don't be mis- guided by the disturbing intim- acy of the man -doctor woman - patient relationship. When he stared he was concentrating! Forget him and seek help in handling your own unhappy marriage. • DEAR DORIS—We were iiv- BURNS CLEANER NO SMOKE, NO ODOUR HEATING OIL Walden & Broadfoot Phone 686 W — Seaforth ing "on'' the farm with my hus- band's parents up until a year ago, when we moved to the city. My mother-in-law and I did' not get along. Once she slap- ped my face in front of my lit- tle girl. A big fight followed. After that I packed my things and left with my two children. Both my husband and I do not like the city. My husband wants to go back to his par- ents' farm because he has a lot of money invested there, • but 3 would prefer to get a farm of our own. My own relatives tell me that a wife must do whatever her husband wants to do, whether she likes it or not. I would be miserable if I went back there, but what can I do? IN DESPAIR, DEAR IN DESPAIR — stand by your guns. Being where yorr husband is doesn't mean court- ing disaster by living with a domineering mother-in-law. If .the parents won't give him his percentage to get him start- ed on a farm of his own, he arid you will have to save up. . DEAR DORIS--I am 15, my boy friend is 19 and .. we love each other, Now I am going to have his baby and he wants to marry me. My stepfather says he is too old for me and wont let him' come to see me. How much right is your stepfather sup- posed to have? IN LOVE DEAR IN LOVE—Until you are of legal age to marry with- out parental consent, yourstep- father has the say, as well as the responsibility for taking care of you, just the same as if he was your real father. But you should be .seeing a social worker to discuss realis- tic plans for your future. Go to your nearest child care agency for help and understanding. DEAR DORIS — I'm not a drinking woman and. I'xn not used to beer 'around the house. My husband promised me he would do without his beer. He stopped for awhile 'but now it's in our house and every day he has his beer. I've given up my love of green onions because Are You One Of the People Who Read The Huron Expositor Occasionally? Just See What- You Are Missing! Why be an occasional reader? • Regu- lar readers know the complete news coverage The Expositor provides. They app're'ciate the money -saying ads, the interesting features, the news of churches and societies. They watch for The Expositor pictures. Read The Expositor every week. Call us collect or drop us a note and we'll start a subscription in your name. You may pay Iater. Or perhaps you would prefer to sub- scribe through the Seaforth District High School students who calls. ...FOR ALL HOME FIX -UP NEEDS... • FLANDERS FIELDS—In preparation of the CBC radio Flanders Fields, Gregory Clark recalls, to broadcaster Frank Willis, the days of the First World War. Clark was one of those who witnessed the period of .the war from the first enlistments in 1914 to the entry of the Canadians'into Mons on November 11, 1918, and he' is one of 600 interviewed in this first person narrative of the Canadians who fought in that war. FIanders Fields, a 17 -part series, begins on the CBC radio network November 11, marking the ,50th anni- versary of the outbreak of the Great War. CONSTANCE NEWS . OF THE WEEK born charge met in the school room of Constance United Church on' Sunday, with the president, Ken Scott, presiding. The meeting opened by a, sing- song, ,led by Ken Scott, with Barbara Snell at the piano. Doreen Riley read the scrip- ture lesson on the 129th Psalm. Beverley Jewitt led in Brayer. Hymn 441, "Guide Me, 0 Thou Great Jehovah," was sung. Ross Jewitt ,spoke on the topic, "Go- ing Steady." The young people divided up into four groups and discussed the questions on .the topic. This was followed by all taking part in a discussion on the answer- ed questions, Hymn 356, "Take My Life and Let,, It Be" 'was sung, which closed the devo- tional period. The business was 4,iscussed and plans made for the Youth London, with rs...JohnHolland. DUBLIN Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Schmidt, Mount Forest, with Mrs. Loret- ta Schmidt and Monica Roach. Mr. Robert 'Stapleton., Kitch- ener„with Mr. and Mrs. Fergus Stapleton. - Mrs. Peter. Eckert and Bill, Toronto, with Mr. and Mrs. George Coville and relatives. Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Dantzer of London, at their home here. Mrs. Jim Newcombe, Port Credit, with Mr. and "Mrs. Wm. Stapleton, • Mrs. Earl Nagle,. Stratford, with Mr. and Mrs. Michael Nagle. Mr. and Mrs. Bill Fawcett, he hates the smell. I hate the smell of beer. L. M. DEAR L. M.—It's time to bring your marriage up to date with tolerance of onions and beer. Love is worth it, isn't it? Fellpwship Rally, to be held in Clinton on Friday. •. Beverley Lee was in charge of the. re- creation period, and lunch was served by Group 1. Church service for the win- ter months will be held at 2:30 p.m. and Sunday School at 1:30 p.m. Mr. and Mrs. Jack ,Crozier, Brian and Paul,' of Listowel, vis- ited with Mr, and Mrs. George Mcllwain and Mary on Satur- day. Mr. and Mrs. George Hart, of Brussels,' spent Saturday eve- ning with Mr. and Mrs. Fred Buchanan and 'family. Mr. and Mrs. Ron Preszcator and Rhonda, of Auburn, spent Saturday evening with Mr. and Mrs. Ken Preszcator and family. Mr. and Mrs. Bert Haverkamp and family” spent Sunday with Mr. and Mrs. Dick Veenstra, of Strathroy. Miss Margaret MacGregor spent .the weekend with •her parents, Mr. and Mrs. -Ross. Mac- Gregor. Mr. and Mrs. Doug Riley, Kim and Gregory, of Scarborough, spent the weekend with Mr. and Mrs. Frank Riley. Mr. and Mrs. George Mclwain, Jr., spent Sunday with Mr. and Mrs. George Mcllwain and Mary. . Mr. and Mrs. Russell King and Mr. Herb. Beaver, of Exe- ter, spent Sunday evening with Mr. and Mrs. Ken Preszcator and family. Mr, and Mrs. Reg Lawson and John visited with Mrs. John Turner, of Tuckersmith, on Sunday. Mr. and Mrs. Fred Buchan- an and family visited with Mr. and Mrs. Jim Hart, of Brussels, on Sunday. Mrs. Lorne Lawson returned. home on Wednesday after at- tending the London Area WI Convention in St. Thomas the first part of the week. Mrs. William Jewitt and family and Mr. Charles Dexter visited with Mr. and Mrs. John Adams, of Londesboro, on Sun- day. ? 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