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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Huron Expositor, 1986-08-20, Page 71 WEDDINGS I CLEARY— WALLER Karen Marie Cleary and Andrew W alter were married Saturday, July 19,Re1986reat St. JPius us X Church in London by the G. Snyder. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and is the son of Mr. ars. Jack nd Mrs, Dalton , London and tWhea groom Toronto. Matron of honor was Kathryn Poole of Strathroy and bridesmaids were Sue Lane of London and Mary Pat Lyons of Toronto, all friends of the bride. Katie W alter of Toronto, niece of the groom was flowergirl. Best man was Garfield W alter of Toronto, brother of the groom and guests were ushered by Kevin Cleary of London, brother of the bride, and Norman King of Toronto, friend of the groom. Readers were Kathryn Maynlan of Lynch- burg, Virginia, cousin of the bride and Kevin Cleary. The Classique Quartet provided the wedding music.mmdiatelwas held followingaSuning- the ceremony a reception Sunning- dale Golf and Country Club followed by dinner and dancing. Christine Waller, niece of the groom was in charge of the guest book. Garfield Waller was Master of Ceremonies; Jim Jordan of Orillia, godfather of the bride proposed the toast to the bride; Bill Evans of Niagara Falls, uncle of the bride, asked the blessing. After a Carribean cruise the couple reside in Toronto where Andrew is employed by the Canadian imperial Bank of Commerce. Both Andrew and Karen are graduates of the University of Western Ontario. DALE& McMAHON Sharon Elizabeth Dale and John Patrick McMahon were married July 19, at St. Joseph's Roman Catholic Church in Clinton. The ceremony was officiated by Father Hardy. The bride is the daughter of Gordon and Margaret Dale, RR 4, Clinton and the groom is the son of Pat and Marjorie McMahon, Clinton. Matron f d onor was Glenda Bolger STROUI)— KIRUSE Esther Ann Stoud and Timothy William Kruse were married Saturday, June 14, 1986 at Mt. Vernon United Church, Mt. Vernon, Ontario by Reverend Gordon Hoult. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Stroud of Burford, Ontario and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. George Kruse of Egmondville. The maid of honor was Margaret Stroud, sister of the bride and bridesmaids were Lorraine Stroud and Mary Ann Henderson. both of Burford, Susan Newland of Simcoe, Louise Robbins of Burlington and Nadine Davie of Mississauga. The best man was Glen Haney of Seaforth and ushers were Steven and Jim Kruse of Stratford, flick Coombs of Egmondville and Mike and Mark Stroud of Burford. The ringbearer was Michael Henderson of Burford. Following a reception at the Burford Lions Pavilion and a wedding trip to Calgary, Alberta, the couple now reside in Seaforth, Ontario. FAMILY JOHN LINDSAY John Douglas Lindsay of Chiniquy Street, Bayfield, died at University Hospital, London on August 5. He was 72 years old. Mr. Lindsay was born on March 2Q, 1914 to the late George and Eliza (Switzer) Lindsay in Bayfield. On October 2, 1945 he married; Jeanne Dunn at the manse in Bayfield United Church. Following their marriage, Mr, Lindsay worked for theth Department 3 rt tookt of the Highways for Manyyea1's• position of road superintendent for the Village of Bayfield, a position he held for 17 years until retiring in 1980. Mr. Lindsay, a member of St. Andrew's United Church, Bayfield, was also a member of the Huron County Road Superintendents Association, a member of the Bayfield Lions Club and a member of the Bayfield Ever Young Club, Mr. Lindsay is survived by three children: George and his wife Clarkia of Ottawa, Ellen and her husband James Butcher of Clinton and Donald and his wife Barbara of Bayfield. He is also survived by five grandchildren Nathan, Sheila d Nikki Lindsay and THE HURON EXPOSITOR, AUGUST 20, 1988 -- A7 OBITUARIES ] GRACE ALICE PEPPER Grace Alice Pepper of Goderich Street East, Seaforth, died Monday, August 11, " 1986 at her home. She was 75, Meer and MaarryeTybuShter sheis survived bf the late y sisn ters, Gladys Furlong of Palmerston, Vera Jackson and Huronview, Mary Martin of Parry Sound ilsa of brothers, Allin of Seaforth, Seaforth, W ilfred of Egmondville and Wilber of Durham. Mrs. Pepper was predeceased by her husband Stewart in 1982, one brother John and one sister Laura Whitehouse. The family received friends at the Whit- ney-Ribey Funeral Home until Friday when a funeral service was held with Pastor Archie Robertson officiating. Interment' Hensall Union Cemetery. Pallbearers were Cecil Pepper, Ernie Whitehouse, Dave Tremeer, Don Tremeer, he a an Aubrey McNichol and Jim Collins. Matthew and Mark Butcher. Flower bearers were Elaine Kestte and He is survived by five sisters: Mrs. Charles Viclde Tremeer. (Jean) Bell, Mrs. William (Nora) Orr, Mrs, Robert (Jesse) Blair, Mrs. James (Pearl) MAItYJOSFPIIiNEDIILIAN Hutchings and Mrs, George (Phyllis) Heard, Saturday, Dillon atDDublin died Seaforth Catholic Church, Dublin, Interment St, Patrick's Cemetery. Parish prayers. were' held at the funeral home Monday evening Father Carrigan officiating. Pallbearers Were grandsons, Don Duffy, Victor Richardson, John Mark Nash, Jim Ryan, Tom Cyan and Rill Ryan, FLNL,AY RQSS Finlay Ross of Seaforth died August 14, 1986 at the Seaforth Health Care Facility (Manor). He,was 89. Mr. Ross is survived by daughters, Margaret McDougall of Edmonton, Marjorie Parker of Victoria and Susan Finlay of Arizona. He was predeceased by his wife, the former Bertha Connor, one sister Jean and two brothers, Earl and Bill. Friends visited the Whitney-Ribey Funeral Home until Saturday when funeral services were held. Interment Maitlandbank Ceme- tery, Seaforth. Pallbearers were Jud W alker, Frank Sills Art Bolton, Lenny Bloomfield, Lou Coyne and Morris( Hemingway. KEITH W AYNE BLANCH ARD Keith W ayne Blanchard died W ednesday, August 13, 1986 in Windsor. He was 54, Mr. Blanchard was an employee for ViA Rail. He is survived by his wife Mildred all of Bayfield, and two brothers Brown Lindsay of Goderich Township and George Community Hospital. She was 92. (Querengesser), son Bruce of Windsor and Lindsay of Paris. The daughter of the late Martin Curtin and daughters Catherine (Mrs. Michael Belling - A funeral service was held on August 8 at Mary McQuaid, she is survived by daugh- ham) of London and Janine (Mrs. Kenneth Ball and Falconer Funeral Home, Clinton, lets, Marie and husband Jim Kelly of Cowan) of W indsor. with Rev. John Hoekstra and Reb, Douglas Seaforth, Geraldine and husband W ilf Duffy Also surviving are grandchildren Andrew Pitts, both of Bayfield, officiating. , of Woodstock, Madelyn and husband Syl and Lindsay, brother Gordon of Seaforth and Soloist was Mr. Lindsay's brother-in-law, Ryan of Gads Hill and Dorothy at home; and sisters Helen (Mrs. Melvin • Nichol) of Ted Dunn who sang In The Garden. son Maurice, of his' wife Eva of St. Thomas. Stratford, Edith (Mrs. Ben Gibson) of Gorrie Flower bearers were Robert Butcher, Also surviving are 15 grandchildren and six and Berva (Mrs., Gerald Watson) of Blyth; d h'ldren niece Carole (Mrs. Aaron Schauber), as well B 1 er of Mitchell, an bridesmaid reef gran c was Jane Desch of Stratfod. Best man was Robert Dunn, Vincent Dunn, Wayne Dunn g, Mrs. Dillon was predeceased by her as many other nieces and nephews. • Steve O'Connell of Clinton, friend of the and Larry Heard. Honorary pallbearers were husband Louis Dillon, two sons in infancy and A funeral service was held in the W indsor groom and guests were ushered by Joe Arnold Maria Ken Farmer, Ruggles one sister Annie McCaughy. Chapel Funeral Home on Friday with McMahon was Clinton, brotheraofr the groom.oJenkins, Witarm Taylor and Grant Turner. Reverend Kees Vandermey officiating. Cre- Following of a dinner and reception at Active pallbearers were Donald Bell, George The family received friends 11 at the Whit- motion followed. Goderich Township Hall, Holmesville. The Bell, Joe Brandon, Ken Brandon, Jack Dunn ne -Bibey Funeral Home Mass nail the m. todayi ti n ers of sympathy donations may couple honeymooned in Calgary. They now and Richard Penhale. be made to the charity of one's choice. reside in Clinton. interment was in Bayfield Cemetery. Burial will be held at St. Patrick's Roman DORSSEIIS — DUFF Wendy Leona Dorssers and Robert Sheldon Duff were married at St. James Roman Catholic Church in Seaforth August 16, 1986 at 4 p.m. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Hank Dorssers of Seaforth and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mts. Don Duff of Wallaceburg. Maid of honor was Rosemarie Dineen of Toronto, friend of the bride. Bridesmaids were Elisabeth Somerset and Jane Shackelton of Toronto, friends of the bride and Sandra Dorssets of Seaforth, sister Of the bride. Best man was Randy Duff of WaltaGradyy C Flynn of Wallaceburg, m. Ushers reKevin Matson and John Catalano of Toronto all friends of the groom. A reception was held at the Hensall Community Centre. The couple Will reside in Geneva, Switz(Frank Phillips Photo) PEOPLE Mr. and Mrs. George Scofield of Clear- water. Florida spent the past two weeks with . Christine Souter. Mr. and Mrs. W m. G. Campbell attended a ; 4dth anniversary celebration for Mr, and Mrs. Cecil Moore of Prescott Mrs. Moore was tate former Maxine Lawrence of Seaforth. Hope for a dry night's sleep By John Tanasychuk Star Staff Reporter BY THE TIME Ted was six years old, the Johnsons real- ized their son had a problem. He was a bedwetter who would wake up in a dry bed Just two days a year. And after taking him to five doctors, after countless tests, prescriptions, hos- pital stays and even surgery, their son was still wetting the bed. "During his 15 years, we would be fortunate If two days out of a year the bed would be dry. One night would be the first night he'd go to visit someone. And he might have been staying awake because he was embarrassed," says the boy's father, a local man who asked ,,7;?ETM..., that their real vamps nptlptuJgfl; ib , i Nv . UN Lt VEHRUARY, their last attempt had been five years ago when Ted was put through two days of tests. And the conclusion from the so-called medical experts? "Too bad. He'll have to grow out of It" But earlier this year they heard of Dry Bed Training and its founder and director Vincent Fowler, who for 14 years has successfully treated more than 10,000 bedwetters, The Johnsons sent away for free lit- erature and saw their own story being played out. "You never stop to think that other people think like this," says the father. What hit them hardest was a news story that linked bedwetting to 'To offer .a child a reward to accomplish something when they're sleeping, they can't win. It sets them up for failure.' arson. "My son tried to burn down our shed. That's when I said, 'Who cares how much it costs. People spend $3,000 on braces.' " "Bedwetting causes a tiny bladder After 13 weeks on the program, Ted and so does waking or reducing liquids. was dry and they started to notice You actually encourage them to bed - other changes. "My son has always wet by waking them," he says. been very quiet, very withdrawn. He Some parents will reward their seldom talks to us. He was teased a lot children for a dry night or scold when when someone who'd let him stay at bedwetting occurs. But Fowler says. bis home let the cat out of the bag," he "To offer a child a reward to accompi- says. Isla something when they're sleeping, BUT TODAY, eight weeks without a they can't win. It sets them up for fail - wet bed, the Johnsons are seeing u g�pLDiNG ONLY makes the arab changes. Ted is now much calmer, reaching out for affection from his lem worse because the children end up family in a way they've never known. denying the problem to their parents. "1 would have liked to see a 100 per And while Fowler says it isn't as cent turn around in my son. There has prevalent as it once was, traditional ( 1 l t ention may worsen a to be more time. I have only begun to mad Ca n ery see a glimmer of hope that he may condition. The American Academy of pe change, that he may mature." Pediatrics says lets than one per cent types of rSonalites, Ted follows many of the patterns of of bedwetters have a medical problem The majority don't work to their full the estimated 22 million children and and both the US. Food and Drug Admi• potential," he says. Active during the adult bedwetters, or nocturnal enuret- nistration and the American Medical day, they are deep sleepers with a ics as the condition is medically known men af choice,. drugs are not the treat- short have die nlldn span. n. Fowler says they in North Amastias Unfoosenately, ears Quite simply, Fowler says drugs their parents because of the guilt asso- problem few's stillea closely closeted problem people are willing to seek don't work. Antidepressants, SOId dated with bedwetting. One study help for or even discuss with their fam• under such names as Tofranil, Presa- how >aue threefour os reneuor had been ily physicians or friends. mine and Elavil, are most often pre- juvenile But bedwetting, he explains, can scribed. But according to the FDA's bedwetters. Unfortunately, says Fowl - leave ire�erSul- and ad pa entsf the problem isn't treated of childnwho accidently. o dosed in children there is a higher o arebedisetters, quickly. And as a general rule, says on these drugs from 1971 to 1978 re- THE OCHER personality type is Fowler, children should be able to quired hospitalization compared to 4.6 over-a®hievOXFowlerwho osar y they tO krove e make it through the night within six per Cent with other drugs. months of being toilet trained during THE SAME STUDY Showed the themselves out to be successful. day time hours, death rate for these drugs is 33 times . WHILE THE MAJORITY of inquir.- greater than all other drugs Poison, ies come front parents of four-year- frig of children by, tricyclic antidepres- olds looking for atsolution prior to their sants is emerging as a significant children starting school, many parents public' health problem," says the FDA:. wait too long,Fowler yedical solutions have There are plenty of folk' and tradi- also included X-raying children's gena- tional remedies but Fowler says they tats, which tan lead to sterility in do more harm than good, mates. A surgical procedure where the Since bedwetting happens because urethra, or urinary passage, is the bladder isn't being controlled, wag- enlarged has also been popular but ing children during the night or reduc- Fowler says the healing and Scarring ing liquids doesn't work: Fowler says to process only causes the urethra lb be- think of the bladder as a muscle and come smaller. The Johnsons son Ted the only way to strengthen itis to hold underwent the operation and it didn't liquids. - All of this can cause parents to suffer guilt when family or friends start blaming them for their children's problem. And as a last straw, parents sometimes resort to rather cruel meth- ods of stopping their children from bedwetting. Fowler says one family admitted beating their child and making him sleep 1n a wet bed; admittedly the first time they'd been abusive and contrary to their love and desire for their son to stop wetting the bed. His method, now copyrighted as The Fowler Method, was first developed In. Australia at Adelaide Children's Hospi- tal. The difference Is that Fowler's method can be done outside at,the hos- pitali wlthtparents or adulhbedwetters working on their own. An initial report along with follow up reports every 10 days Oat' that Is needed. Another popular solution has been for parents to Walt until children out- soow the says a ys Fowler, can be the roblem. But this solution,led worst. Toilet training teaches children the difference between right and wrong. success and failure, clean and dirty. So bedwetting only reinforces nestive feelings and can lead to a poor self- image. 9D5 NOT THAT they outgrow it. it's that they stop talking about it. Most bedwetters hide the feeling that they gave in shame. They try to hide from the parents that it doesn't matter. So parents don't think it affects the child," he Says. Bedwetters often develop ono of two He first opened In Windsor and. be- cause of growing requests from the U.S., opened a clinic in Southfield, Mich., where he founded the American Enuresis Association. Fowler moved to Landon in 1981 and has been back in Windsor for a year. FOWLER HAS treated bedwetters across Canada and the US. as well as cases in Germany, Yugoslavia and Fill. There are several clinics in the US. using the Fowler Method and he Is cur - really working on a manual to gist professionals in treatment The literature says the method in- volves learning a few new skills ".combining modern equipment, modern conditioning and training techniques plus diet and nutrition." ViNCE FOWLER Reprint from the Windsor Star SENO PWlT1THE BED and HOW STN OP CHILDREN Maine.. .. Address City . .. Phone . Prov. Postal Code . Grind's Age . Mail to: 'DRY BEL) ]RAINING: 150 Park Street W.. Suite 3003, Windsor. Dot. NSA 7A2 Call 254-2511 m 1:800.265-5168 9; a ,a