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HomeMy WebLinkAboutThe Huron Expositor, 1938-08-05, Page 6teseihinSet ' nn' s ake You Like (3y Danand A. Laird, Ph.D., Sc.D.., in Your Life) '.••• tr, et' egint do to Make certain q,Pr4e IVA being- handicapped he an% threugh life by unwitting- , It# blneself desliked?,' flow can *itfilt.**eaver or net -he is disliked p11911t.•hgning to the embarraestnent kie* hie friends and asseclates? One do to control bis own Ontlant and attitudes so that he Will better liked? - These are all practical questionsof the greatest , .perstonal importance. „ And, until recently, no definite an - 's , ewers could be given to them. To find the answers to these clues- - tions and other similar ones, the Col- gate. Peyohological Laboratory under- took experimental work in which the relative significance of nearly ono hundred traits and babits, in their ef- fect on personal likes and dislikes, -was accurately measured. Only traite and habits which we van reasonably expect to be ab4e to alter for the bet- ' tee by an application of good old-fash- ioned will -power and self-developmeet were studiedt. This experimental work produced ,evidenee that some forty-six traits are of definite importance in determ- ining the emotional attitude of other people towels:1e us. About the same eumber of other traite, d11 spite of their apparently important nature, -were found to neve no appreciable in- fluence either favorable or unfavor- able. Watch These Traits Closely Censider the more important traits, the one's which definitely make most people like us. In order of their im- portance we have given these positive traits a weight that, yaries from one to three. The first nine in the.- list below all have a weight of three. Be depended upon to do w.hat you say you will. This trait alone may not make people like you, if you have others iu large numbers which offset it, but it is one which you can, gam- ble on. It affects not only your re- sponsibility to your superior, but your relations to practically every person with whom you come in even casual contact. No good executive can af- ford to overlook the lack of this one trait in his subordinate„ , • cuss4one 'individuals Who have contributed to the work that in ,gen- eral weedislikepeople for one of three mamma We may dislike them be- cause (1)- we, are atraid onthem. They are (2) saTeastic, or they are likely to make nut of us to our backs. We may dislike them because they (3) deflate our ego. e Th,ey- boss us, they are domineer- ing, they know more than we 'know, or in some way mane us feel smaller. I do not like, to say, as some persons do, that they irritate, our' inferiority, or give us an inferiority com,plex. I prefer the more simple direct state- ment that they deflate our ego. Again .we may dislike them because they do petty things of one kind or another that annoy us. The traits with a value of three and Iwo bear the closest relation to de- flating our ego or making us afraid. Conversely; the affirmative traits of equal values, are those which bring happiness and emotional exhilaration to those with whom their 'possessors come in -contact. The traits of minor importance, those with a v-alue of only one, have, more tone with annoyance. Here are the traits with a value of two. 'Keep your clothing neat and tidy. Cleanliness is still next to the great- est virtues. It -is liked almost as well as depen-dability and helpfulness. Do not be bold and nervy.. One s-hould have self-confidence, of course, but should not have too much "brass" or the reputation, for having it. The bous,e-tethouse salesman is not a pop- ular character. Unfortunately work as canvassers selling magazines, Vacuum cleaners, floor brushet, etc., is often recommended as good summertime ex- perience for college etndents. To my mind the experience such an occupa- tion gives in developing boldness is not a good thing for them, Do not laugh at the mistakes of others. Never laugh at a man because he comes to a social function in a queer costume, or uses tee wrong fork at table, or appears on the street with his shirt tail hanging out. Get your laugh from the movies, the vaud- eville act, or the :pages of Judge. Don't Jake ie out on other people in real life. Do not take a vulgar attitude to- ward the opposite sex. Although most people do not object to shady stories, they do object by and large to a gen- erally vulgar attitude toward the op- posite sex. Do not be inclined to find fault with everybody else. Like a good many of the other traits which promote dis- like, this one tends to increase a lit- tle with age, especially with extreme age. This accentuation of disagree- able traits with, a.dvancittg age ex- plains why young people thing old people are harder to get along with. Do not correct the mistakes of oth- ers. Don't tryto serve as a grammar or a book of etiquette for your friends. They don't Like to have someone else point out to them that they have said "don't" when they should have said "doesn't," or have shaken hands wheu they ehould, merely have bowed. If they want to get -criticism, they• are perfectly capable of asking for it or learning their errors from an auth- oritative book. It doesn't pay to give gratuitous. advice of that kind. Do not tell jokes at, the exPense of those listening. Very similar to but net the same as the trait of making fun of people behind their backs. The toastmaster is probably weakening friendships as he cracks jokes at the expense of the speakers whom he is introducing to his audience. Most experiencedspeakers dislike this hab- it and say it handicaps them in mak- ing their talk. It has put tee audi- ence in an unfaavorable mental atti- tude, for the speaker comes before them in a ridiculous light which he must first overcome before gaining their sympathetic attention. That may explarin why after-dinner speeohes are usually regarded as a necessary evil. Do not try to have your own way. This is not the same as domineering! If your superior tells you to 4o such and such a thing in a certain way, don't 'insist on going ahead doing it the same old. way you always did just out of obstinacy. Do not lose your temper. Do not take the initiative in argu- ment Smile pleasantly, although it is doubtful if smiling while you, are in- sisting on having your own way can entirely offset the effect of your ob- stinacy. Go cut of your nay to help others. Do not show off your knowledge. Yet, the poor college professor is hired To show off what he knows. The teacher or parent or executive is apt to be disliked from the eery nature of the tasks he is called upon to per- form. Those who want to be liked must try to gain favor by other trans. They must, for instance, possess the two just described above. Do not let yourself feel superior to your associates, and be careful lest they get the impression that you do. Ore of the most brilliant young men I know, although unconscious of his brilliance, is much disliked. He has no desire to eh,ow. off, to exhibit su- periority, but that is the impression Which others get, ' and it counts against him- It is probably difficult to be brilliant and atilt be liked. Do not reprimand people who ail, things that displease yew The wo- man in the small town who wants to boss everybody and manage every- thing !-. -!--st universally disliked. She is pee:ably doing more good for the town than anyone else, but that doesn't have any weight with the neighbors. She has to pay the pen- alty of being personally hated. Do not exaggerate in your state- ments: In spite of the commonness of the habit of telling tall stories, and its apparent innocuousness in most cases. this is one of the traits which was found to be most important as a ground for dislike. Do not make fun of others behincf their baeks. Here is a case in point. I know the general manager of a cer- tain: company, a man in some ways •very clever in social matters. His company dominates the small town in which it is located. 'When he came there they almost bad the brass band out to welconie ,him. Six months lat- er be could' 'hardly have found a townsman to give him a lift down the road without a scowl. , This man is tremendously capable. What got him into trouble was noth- ing that he did OTh the fel). It was what be did after office hours. Out on the local nine -bole golf course, in the post office while waiting for the evening mail, or to entertain guests in his own home, be would tell ember- raseingly funny things that bad bap- - pened to fellew townsmen, or would imitate in hilarious fashion a fellow golfers Manner of making a shot. Good entertainmenti--but it left ev- eryone feeling a little afraid that "to- morrow he may be making fun St Do not be sarcastic. This habit probably operates on the mental re- actions of others in very much the same way as the habit Of making fun of other people. Do not be domineerin,g, A tendency to do this may be one reason .for the unpopularity of *omen as bosses. This completes the list of the traits to which I have given a value of three. These alone give us already a pretty fair picture of human likes and , dislikes and their reasons. People in general dislike exaggeration, dislike undependabtlity, dislike the man who will net go out of hie way to help 'other* These broadeFrtraits they feel very strongly. The underlying moral code indleated by the =Mee of these dis- 1 finitely a good one. Need- teg sat it Is a code Which lies detnolt deeper than stleh eurface mani- as minor vnealatesees for litnnigr, for ganibling, for shady stories the .1tkd. in,themeelves those ne effect ou the eanotione of ' peebte;t6Ward UL Read** 'Ook*: Oke O:ft with the traits - a -vomit- ' 7titgifiationt of 410 * effit. AregfOlian 7 '4 • Do net be out of patienee%rith mod- ern ideas'. Do not be flattering. Do net talk about your Ponsonal troubles. "Yea can talk -about your health, but do -not discuss your ether troubles, such as your fmanclal re- verses, your family quarrels, or the isman things other people have done to you. Do not spread gossip. Gossips are not popular even among their own kind. Do not be dignified. Be cheerful. Be enthusiastic, not lethargic. Do not mispronounce words. James M. Barrie once used thiah characteristic in les play, "A Kiss for Cin,der- ella," as a clever trick to build up dislike for one of the characters, the policeman who continuallY made mis- takes, in pronueciation. Do not be sus-picious teat - people are trying to put something over on you. Do not be lazy., 130 not talk continuously. Mark Twain said to Helen Keller, "The rea- son I like you, Helen, is because You do not talk much." Mark himself pre - ferrel to do all the talking, It does not wetter whether your voice is high pitched or low-pitched. rasping or vehether you use pet phras- es, foreign phrases or slang. These habits are all neutral In effect, but continuous talking is not. This handi- cap seeths to be more ccnemon mong women as a sex than men, yet we have found in sense experiments that, contrary'toe general impressions, young men talk more than young wo- men. Moreover, the young women do not like this trait In !their masculine acquaintances. Do not pry into other people's Seise nese There are plenty of lawyers whose business is to do that They ,kpew a good deal about everybody's affairs. That is probably one reason why evenevlien they possess the Most plea,sin,g Personalities, Clawyers are generally feared: And the fear may be easily deeeloped into dislike. Other Important Traite You can be a high pressure worker or an easy going one i1lhout any vieible effect on your po ularity, but if you are lazy you will be disliked for it. The older gen- eration suffer on this count, for they have reached the stage in Which nhee- matiemt arteries, joints and muscles begin to call for a life of ease and retirement! Do not borrow things. Do eat tell people what their mortal duty in Do net correot the mistakes of °th- ese. Do not tell people wh,at is right and wrong: Do not give moral lectures. Do not 'trY to get people to believe as you believe. This habit is eimdlar to that of taking the initiative bi ae gunman DO not be a political radical. Do not talk rapidly, Talking eon- tinuouely has a value of two, talking rapidly, has a value of one. Do not laugh loudly. The following. traits value of one: „. DO not 'keep year end of the con- netention up by asking miestions. While people like to hear theMeelVea. talk, apparently' they de not like to . be egged on to talk by third degree _niethoda. The person who, after you !'have- finieted , remittable' aft- Wein- -eseet_or.tglittg a goo, gog, "What ileetr'.;:le not, increasing ilfitiVePtita*y. Pity by day in every geiting .tifore unpeoular. have a ',4.)Oggitot AO, lata of otifere. #07,0,t, w to beeloPilleintliaSte',•he a,..ceinolatnetPer „pet' Abrilria1144t W„04.47(iolsi,''04,0%"411v,v746a'witw4qis h,'s tor intellect, ,ipso faeto, buiidiu. dislike tor'. n& among all 9ne erlio are net like hinestelf. He de- flates the ego of the coMmon, people and la feared by them. , Yon east oetsreomeethe handiness of tneemenaiettneati only by extraordineret service o eMe kind, by deliberately. geging out of your way, to help 'others theetrnits we nave enumerated the aversigeeinan hold the key to the attitude toward 'him of leis fellow av- erage men, Give yourself a score of three for eaoh Of these questions you can. an- swer "Yes": pan you always be 'de- pended upon to d,'o What you say you will? ' Do you go out of your way cheerfullly to 'help others? Do you avant exaggerations in all your state- ments? 'Do you avoid being sarcas- tic? Do 'you, refrain from showing off how mut% you know? Do you feel infester to most of your associates? Do you refrain from bossing people not employed by you? Do you keep from reprimanding people who do things that dis,please you? Do you avoid making fun of others behind their backs? Do you keep from dom- ineering others? Give yourself a score of two for each of these questioes you can an- swer "yes": Do you keep your cloth- fiag'neat and tidy? Do you avoid be- ing bold and nervy? Do you avoid laughing at the mistakes of others? Is your attitude toward the opposite sex free froms vulgarity?' Do you a- mid finding fault with everyday things? Do you let the mistakes tif °theta pass without carreotin,g them? Do you loan' things to others readily? Are you careful not to tell jokes that wilth embatTas,s. those listening? Do you let others have their own way? Do you always control your temper? Do you keep out of arguments? Do you smile pleasantly? Do you avoid talking almost continuously? Do you keep your nose entirely out of other people's business? Give yourself a score of one for eaoh of these questions you can an- swer "Yes": Do you have patience with modern ideas? Do you avoid flattering others? Do you avoid gos- siping? Do you refrain from asking people to repeat w -hat they have just, said? Do yfauga-Void asking questions in keephig up a conversation Do you avoid asking favors of others? Do you keep your personal troubles to yourself?- Are you natural rather than dtignified? Are you usually cheerful? Are you conservative in politics? Are you enthusiastic rather than lethargic? DO you pronounce words correctly? Do you look upon others without suspicion? Do you avoid being 'lazy? Do you avoid bor- rowing things? Do you refrain from telling People their moral duty? Do you avoid trying to convert people to your beliefs?' Do you avoid talking rapidly? Do you avoid laugh -Mg loud- ly? Do you avoid making fun of peo- ple to their faces? ,The higher your score by this self- analysis the better liked you are in geneTat .Each "No" answer Should be changed through self -guidance into a "Yes" answer. The highest possible score is eighty-one. About 10 per cent of people have this score. The lowest score made by a person vb.° was gen- erally liked was fifty-six. The aver- age pereon has a score of sixty-four. The average score of a person' who Is generally disliked is thirty. The low- est score we found was, twelve. It is encouraging to note that the average young person has a score closer to that of the average petite= who is lik- ed than to that of the avenage person who is disliked. You Can Change Yourself • In one phase of our experiment ate asked the subjects to write down as fast as "they could the initials of all the people they could think of whom th,ey disliked intensely. At the end of a ,balf-minute we stopped them. In that half -minute some had been able to think of only one person for whom they felt intense dislike. Others thought of as many as fourteen. Some thought of those they disliked as rap- idly as they could write down This test showed that those who expressed their dislike for the largest number of pereons were the very in- dividuals who themselves possessed the lamest number of generally dis- liked traits. This makes us feel safe in stating in a general way that if you dislike many people you probably are, in turn, disliked by many people. And by the same token, if you like many people you are probably liked by many. It is plain from our investigation that one cast very redically modify these undesirable traits. Here is an actual illustration. A. certain. boy turned out by his own rating to 'have the worst seore in the collection. Now it happened' that this boy pees,essed, in spite of that, numerous advantages and talents which would seem to make it comparatively easy for him to be liked. He had wealth and so- cial accomplishments, dressed well, played the piano like a wizard, and was good as an amateur in several popular forms of athletics. Auto no avail. By ,the admission of all the other students in the group who knew him, as well as by his own descrip- tion of himself, he was shown to be the most disliked'. For sixteen months he had been in- close contact with a group of about fifteen boys of this own age. For six- teen months, in the manner of boys, they tad been telling him that he was "all wet," and that he was a "pain in the neck." He knew well enough that the was disliked, but he honestly did not know wby. The analyeis which he made for himself in ten minutes in the laboratory pointed out definite traits as the reasons why be was disliked. Titus, in place of a vague realization of his misfortune he secured a diagram of the weak points which were to blame and which he knew he must correct. Two weeks after this boy had made his self-analysis, one of the others of h is group was workteg foie me for a few hours. In the course ef conversa- tion, he remarked, "Say, what did you do to Smithers? We have razzed him and been after him continually for almost two years now, and here some- thing happened up in the laboratory -I, don't know what, -Whether it was a serum or an injection of horse sense but he is a changed fellow. We are begin,neng to like him immensely." One of the traits of this boy had been showing off his knowledge. He never spoke of salt except as sodium chloride, party in fun, but also with an underlying desire of displaying his learning. Another trait was the habit of trying to get others to do things for him. He had the reputation of buying one package Of cigarettes a month and sneaking two packages a. day. The arelysis had pointed out traits like these which even the boys who dislikedlnIm did not realize caus- ed their dislike. 4 Nearly all of the traits We have list- ed cen be changed quite readily' and simply. Such traits as physical a.wk- vvardnese, which May be caused by conditions not under the control of the will, were 'disc -eased ,but not in - eluded en oar tests. We hive studied just ,ettiman.on, traits that ,the average individual is very likely to take for granted, net realizing the important bearing -they have on relationships with ether people, - Theee :unite may keep a man out of a job, losettim op- portunities for promotion, er make brim very lonesome dining his idle hours, all lbecauee people are afraid of him, because he deflates their ,ego, • becauee they .find, him annoying. Lineoln saiii..":The Lord Mutt hone loved' the eom.mokr people, beeaute he mede sir many more of them then ...,tetestergesseetingenteseitinnWttaillf.;,, • to take MOP flegeettt hOgettlites to inente this r Ult. HIS 4igee1vo me» eonefOrte beesene More OW Mere in- tense, and: he took fleallY einnething °Yarn SOW to try and certintetetise CMS - (lintel. - What OaP,we d9 to eI hinS7 Thte, answer to this question requires that we go beck 'to fleet 'principles le the physiology and anatomy Of the diges- tive tract. Anatomically, the dtgestive system consists a a series •or organs called the Mouth, esophages or gullet, stom- ach, small intRstine, large intestine or &glee, and reetune. The esophagus carries the food from mouth to stom- ach, after 'the food has been chewed up and masted with saliva in the mouths he In the stomach, certain tiny glands torria water, aid and pepsdn and the stomach ,ohurns the food and mixes it thoraugitly with these fluids until the mixture, is liquid. Thee little by lit- tle this liquid is pushed through the lower end of the stomach into the small'intestine. It takes about five to six hours for the average meal to pass through the stomach. In the Meal! intestine the food is pushed slowly along -by peculiar squeezing motions of th,e intestinal walls. The listing membrane af the small intestine has millions a small "fingers" projecting into the cavity of the intestine. These fingers. are oov- ened by special cells which have the ability to absorb the liquid food ele- ments,and pass them into the bloted, which in turn carries them to the liver and the body generally. The small intestine neatly takes all tee nutriment from the food, and then pus.hes what is, left, the waste mater- ial, on into the colon. It takes from six to twelve bours for th,e food to pass through the s.m,all intestine. We now come to the colon or large in•testine which ie the important or- gan concernedwith elimination. It starts in the lower right side of the abdemen, passes up the right side to the ribs, turns across the middle of the, abdomen, turns up under the ribs on the left side, then goes down the ant side, and after one or two large twists becomes the rectum-. The waste material from the small intee• tine comes into it in the lower rtigh t side. This waste material jS still liquid, and is of no further value. to us as all the real food elements haveebeen absorbed in the small intestine. The colon now has for its job the reab- sorption of water from this residue! It moves the material slowly along, gradually absorbing the water, .and the residue becotnes less and less liq- uid until in the left or 'descending colon the actual formation of the ev- acuation begins to take place. When the waste material is finally passed from the bode it is a coeipact cylin- drical mass. The colon is, then, really a dehY- drating plant. It takes in at its up- per end a liquid mass, and passes out of itslower end a ss,olid mass. This proceSS takes normally twelve to twenty-four hours. It can, be seen that if the material is hurried through the colon, insUfficient time will be given for absorption of the water, and the, evacuation will be mixed with wa- ter and abnormally soft or loose. Throw Away Your Cathartics (By Dr. W. H. Glance in Your Lite) Mr, J es came in dejected and weary -I. g. tor, he said, "everything I eat t s to gas. I've tried all sorts of diets atete nothing seems to make any difference. My belt feels too tight most of the time, I'm bloated and sore through the abdomen., I'm afraid to eat, becatase I feel so filled up afterward. I haven't any appetite really -but I eat because I know I have to, to keep alive. "Every morning I wake up with, crampy pains in the abdomen, and my sleep is restless so I'm tired all the time. I've lost my pep, and don't oare sometimes whether I go on or not. I'm sure it's autointoxication, but I do everything to keep up my elimination. I take something every night because If I don't I never get any action and I have a headache, feel 'dopey' and can't do my work. I never get gt good clearing out -and my food just doesn't seem to digest at all." Poor devil! He's tb,e product of the great American habit of self-medica- tion for consttpation. If be had any heart symptoms he'd see the 'doctor. If his kidneys were giving any trou- ble he'd seek medical advice. If he had any real difficulties, with his skin be"d get medical care. But when it comes to "indigestion" he follows the lead of his mother and his grandmother, or some so-called "health" articles he's read, and, pro- ceeds to dose itimself up with cath- artics which he sees advertised on all sides wieh .promises of rehregueation" and "cure." Let's go back into his history. As a boy, if tlits ate a little indiscreetly, his mother gave him a dose of caster or perhaps, calomel. She didn't feel it necessary to ask the doctor about he needed was a good cleaning out." On other occasions, when. he (Jean the doctor for a bad told or the grippe, be was given cathartics of one kind of' other be "clear out his sys- tem." The faintly dootor-book reeom- mended various "herb teas" -"gentle aperients"-hblite matte," calomel "to tolloh up the liver," Or castor ail for V11'10118 "simple° digestive upsets. As he grew up and managed' his Men -little ills, it wan logical that all he needed for -hie occasional attacks of indigestion wee to "take a PhYnle -He was raised, on the idea that bowel* must Melte every•day, and he found' aiti tittle went On that he )ia s,Setennetht4 t• pretteet the- Ua1 infenchange e Of' nafiee AO the MOO and. with the aeennttlienten Of 'Otte, one Vette*, feele distended 40 IsItietted:glatt After, Ile UnCOMfentably 1uUfrOM the, Preftente o tkied Ine the attennob. againet Isits fienet.andnne - The lining, membrane of the Wien nonnally a Pretectine- MeellStetnet It acte.htte a beerier bettieen' the ins testittal eontente on else side and the bleod eream tnt the other. 'The -colon is simply a cavity of oUrr body an vv-hich waste eo.ateriel IS gathered =- tit- such time as it may be. eliminat- ed, , We get no polsoning or :taut:I-intoxi- cation" from this residue remaining ina colon whose lining is healthy. if, however, the colon wall is inflamed and congested from fiequent cath- arsis, it may abseil, through its un- healthy :surface "poisons" or "toelc substances." Our object must be, therefpre, not to keep on sweeping out these' food residuewith cathar- tics which keel)" the membran,ce un- healthy, but rather to allay the in- flammation and build up the normal barrier -like action of ehe celon wall, by healing measures. To institute these healing measures we ,meat understand the underlying Physiology of colon action. The nor- mal "push" to start nolonic contrac- tions is the pres,enne of residue in the right side of the colon. If a note amount:of residue is peesent the con- tractions will be more active than if a small amount only is present. The average (healthy person eats enough residue in his three meals to give the temper bulk and the colon passes 'it along at just the right rate to give A formed evacuation. Some people have a. "touiehy" or sensitive colon and with the average ainount of Eisele or residue, their celons net too fast and the evacuations are loose and unformed. Other people have slow-moving "lazy" colons and require large am- ounts of Tesidue to get the colon to act. It is necessary, 'therefore, to find for each individual the proper amount of residue for his particular colon. Tbis we determine by the consistency of the. evacuations': if they are too hard, more bulk is need- ed: if too soft, less bulk. , Among our foods 'we have a group called non -residue or "smooth" foods. Meate, fish, fowl, eggs, white starchy cereals and breads, milk, cream, fruit juioes, soups, tea, coffee, and various combinations of theee foods -all are "smooth" because they are so com- pletely absorbed in the small intes- tine that very little residue remains in the eolon. ' On the otber hand; 'the so-called roughage foode-coarse breads, coarse cereals, cooked and raw vegetables, cooked and Taw fruito all leave vary- in,g amounts of unabsorbable cellulose in the colon, material out of which we can get no nutriment and which is therefore cliseharged front the body as waste. This cellulose residue is nor- mally stimulating to colonic contrac- tions if the membrane lining the colon is healthy. If, however, the lining is congested and irritated this cellulose is so coarse and rough that it causes overactive contractions with result- ing cramps and loose evacuations. Now, lens take care of Mr. Jones. He's been taking cathartics for months or years. His colon lining is inflamed and congested, and his ev- acuations are loose and unformed. He's really suffering from artificial dtarrimea! We must therefore Start him on the smooth foodshecause the rough foods are too coarse for his tender, Rick colon. smooth foods, however, won't given him en- ough residue to give the proper urge to his colon, and our physiology de- mands bulk of some kind. So we add to bis food one of the "bulk produc- ers." By "bulk producers" we mean the green of substances that have the 'Property of absorbing water in the intestinal tract and swelling up to a gelatinous or mucilaginous state, and which are not absorbed in the small intestine. One is agar, which is de- rived from seaweed and which comes invarious forms from powder to coarse flakes. Another is PsylliuM seed, which in the intestinal tract ex- udes a slippery mucilage that lubri- cates and softens the content of the colon. Another is the gum of the Bessorin or Kabaya plant. These substances are put out by the drug -manufacturers in many"dif- ferent forms, and unless they are "spiked" by tbe addition of cascara, senna, frangula, magnesia, etc., are harmless to the 'intestinal wall and act purely because they produce bulk and not because they irritate. They can be used indefinitely without harm They all have the property, further- more, of reteining their moisture in the colon. So Mr. Jones now has a smooth diet and a smooth bulk in his sore colon and he -continues on, this regime for a few weeks until the colon has had time to recover. If his, evacuations are too compact, he needs more bulk producer; if too soft, leas. As his gee pains and abdominal soreness subside he, later gradually adds the cooked vegetables and fruits --still later, the raw foods, until his diet is a general one. As these rough- age foods,are added he may cut down his dose of bulki producer and In time dispense with it altogether. Some people with lazy colons can't take eeP When you'ure sleePless• nervous. - ,inlhable,11130 Pr. Cifers Nene Feed- • IVIost people =Merit a most effee- tive restorative for the nerves. , For new pep and energy use Dx.ChNERvic row) , acceunt of lack of sufacient moisture.. Supplies are equal to demand and the market is dem at $2.00 to the whole- sale dealer. The early crop will beg well cleared up In July. The acreage planted for midseason, marketing is equal te average. Th Crop is developing well but reqUires more moistuxe and flea. beetles 'are plentiful and quite active. This cross will commence moving to market a- bout the last week in July with th* yield depending largely on the supply of moisture during the next two weeks. , The planting of main crop potatoes are a.httle less than in 1937, but wereg generally planted earlier. Germina- tion, was good but growth to date has been uneven and wbile some fields are knotting for blossoms, the late plantings are just well above ground. It is too early as yet to estimate the - prospective yield. If, on the other hand, the progress through the colon is too slow, then too much water will be absorbed and the residue will be hard and ball -like. Thereat test of Whether the cones is acting normally, is the consistency of the evacuation. If the evacuation is herd and difficult to move, then the colon' is acting too slowly. If the ev- acuation is loose and unformed, the, colon is working too fast. The important thing is nee now of- ten the bowels Move, but rather what formation the movement has. Some people have a normal movement ev- ery other day, and are not constipat- ed, while others have ANVO OT three' hard movements a day, and are con- stipated. The average ,normal person has one or two softlo-rmed evacua- tions a day. The time element or the rhythm of the digestive tract is important. Feed eaten at breakfaat, lunch and dinner yesterday was passed down through the stomach and small intestine yes- lerday and last night, and its residue is gathered in the right side in the first portion of the colon this morn- ing. During today and tonight, it will ne moved along slowly through the Colon and will be eliminated tomor- row morning. Yesterday's food gives tomorrow's evacuation, It takes 36 to 48 'hours for food to cotaplete its trip through the alimentary canal. Let us see what happens to • this timing if we take a cathartic tonight when, we retire. It passes through the stomach, hurries things along in the small intestine during theinight and early tomorrow morning strikes t'he right side of the colon. Because it is an irritant, the colon pushes it along to get rid of the irritation, and when ,the bowela move tomorrow miorning, not only tomorrow's evacua- tion is passed, but also the evacuation that st,ould not be passed until day - after -tomorrow. When elay-aftertottiorrow comes, the bowel has dot had time to "catch up," no movement is paseed-and be- cause the bowels do not move all day, another laxative is taken. Why does Mr. Jones have his symp- toms? Becatne he is suffering from "cathartic colitis." His digestive or- gans, particularly the colon, are in- flamed and congested by repeated ex- posure to irritating substancee called cathartics. Ineluded in this category are man drugs as cascara, aloes, senna, mag- nesia, phenolphthalein, Epsom salts, Siedlitz ,poweler, castor oil, calomel, etc. All have the common property In greater or less degree of hurting the liming membranes of the digestive tract, and causing overattivity of' the prcrpulatee eotttractions of ,the intes- tinal Net:Many, these contractiorm of ehe y eolon wall are quiet, gentle and pain - les -we are entirely unconscious of them Gases are always present to Setae degree in the colon but 'are ab - stetted tete the blood reatficiently so that tno disconifert is felt by their presence. After repeated oaths -rale hovr,erver, the contraetiens beceme too strong unit vigorous, giving 8enant-101W of ciareping pain, and tumbling and gurgling threnghout' the abdomen; furtherntore the congestion and . lin- petted eirtulatiOn of the colon, lining: enough roughage foods to make their partientlar colons work properly. They need to continue the bulk producers indefinitely, and are not harming themselves be so doing. The colon will act if you will give It proper material 'to work with. It resents being driven and !whipped, and Willetna.ke you miserable if you continte irritating it with the drug or ealine cathartics. It is slow-mov- ing end likes to teke its time. It has a lining which protects, you from its contents If Met lining is Mama': Treat it With respect and it will serve •.•4. 4-s 4.tr T The Potato Crop Thetearly crop is melting in volume from Leamington, Harnow, Dundas end Ihnlingten. Some glower's in.the Gareille-Clitikeetts district are also marketing to alesser ,extent. The qUelite reverted eeecl with no rot lit evidence. fIglze, is not so large as lit 1931, but the No. I grade 10` being nia.intAtifted. Yielde are lower on Fall Fair Dates Tillson,burg Aug. 30, 31 -Sept. 1 Toronto • - Aug. 26 -Sept. le Fergus Aug. 25, 26, 27 Sept. 2 - 5 Elmira astock Sept. 9, le. Hepworth Sept. S. 9 Kinamount Sept. 7, Tavistock g Sept. 9, 10 ChBeffod sire4. y Sept. 13, 1 D Sept. 16, 17 Kincardine Comberrneeawr dri n e Sept. 15, 16 Sept. 16, 17 Sept. 15, 16 Lion's, Head • Sept. 14, 15 London (Western Fair) .Sept. 12-17 Midland , ' Sept. 15-17 Milverton Sept. 15, 16 New Hamburg Sept. 16, 17 Orangeville Sept. 16, 17 Sept. 15, 16 Wwiiiakretopnort Sept. ln Acton Sept. 20, 21 Ansa Craig Sept. 22, 23 Alliston Sept. 22, 23 Atwood Sept 23, 24 Dresden . 22 • Sept, 19, 20, 21 Exeter Sept. 20, 21.r Sept. 21, For Harrow Galt wch Sept. 22-24 Sept. 20, 21 Lambeth- Sept. 22-24 Meaford Sept.Sept. Sept.221, 222 322 Listowel Mildmay Sept. 20, 21 Merlin Sept. 21, 22 Mount Forest Neustadt Sept. 22, 23 Sept. 23, 24 Norwich Sept. 20, 21 Paris Saeaamfoiarth Sept. 22-24 Sept- 20, 21 Sept 22,.23 Shedden Sept. 21 Shelburne Sept. 22, 23 Springfield Sept.' 21, 22 StratfordorudeSept. 19-2 Tbie 1. AytonAATYirvtlhemur: on n t septSe2p2t; 2231 Sept. 26-28 Sept. 29, 3fe Sept. 29, 30 BBayfloeindt Sept. 28, 29 Belmont Sept. Brussels ur ford. Sept. 32: B Sept. 27, 22 Caledonia Sept. 20, 343, Oct. 1 e DDruramyton Sept. 27, 28 ' bo Sept. Florence Sept. 28, 29' Fordwiah Sept. 30, Oct. 1 Glencoe Sept. 277, 8 ,228 Grand,Valley Sept. 30, Oct. 1 Harriston Sept 29, 36, Holstein Sept. 29, 30- Ilderton Sept. 22 Ingersoll Sept. 29, 30 Jarvis Sept. 28, 28 Kilsyth Sept. 28, 29 Kirkton Sept. 29, 3* LaLeanmgt°inngton' Sept. 26 -0°cctt. '11. Lmuiteeknolwl Sege. 29, 3* Mitchell mpauinsiceeyy Sept. 27, 22 Se4.eral141S7t. Palmerston Sept. 27, IP Parkhill Sept. gPotpriteyElgin Sept. 29, Rodney Sept 27, Sept. 26, Strathroy Sept. 29, 30, Oct. I Thedford Sept. 27, 28 Wallacetown ...... ,.)..,Sept. 29, 39 Welland centrelanad,Sept. 27-29 w Sept 27 Wyoming Sept. 28, 29 Zurich Sept. 26, IT Zephyr Brigden Sept. Oct.4..6 27 Aberfoyle , Alvinston Oct. 6, 74 DorchesterCh"isworth Oct. 6, 7 0 librngaennon Oct. 6 7 E Braigirbggraoteund Oct. 8-40 Oct. 6 t rin teerfolf County (Simeoe)...0e:O.ent3t:- 764. Melbourne Oct. 7, 2 Mount Brydges Oct. 4 Ofutdvegtettorund SMgeen Indian' - .0ct. 1-4 '' Oct. Ot. 6, 7 4 - St. Marys .TTetieraswe'ter 00!. 3, 4 Oet. 6, 6 tiOrdwerweheonoct Oct. 4, ,6 Moraviantewn (Indian)0:te?tet• :8-1-2111 , Ittereational Plowing Match .and ' Perm MitchinerY DeMOnstrae to time Minesing, near lintheitige October II, 12, 13, 14. . " • a 4 4 446 6 4. • A