HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1950-02-16, Page 2°iDEAR ANNE HIRST: Perhaps
any problem is an old one, but it is
heartbreakingly tragic just the same.
My husband drinks, and when he
does he is brutal
v flt to me, even
striking me be-
.z a fore the children
and using un-
printable langu-
` ' age.
"I have tried
1 tr> to be patient,
h hoping he would
1 some day realize
how this is is affecting the girls.
When lie comes home drunk, the
oldest one cries, and begs me to
leave ihm . , - I have petted him. and
humored him—when 1 felt like hav-
ing him jailed. (He scoffs at Alco-
holics Anonymous).
',He has never taken the children
anywhere, even to school functions
I have tried to bring them up
properly, but how can 1, when he
goes on like this? We've been mar-
ried 14 years, and I love him dearly,
and want us to stay together, especi-
ally because of our family. When he
is sober, he says he loves me too.
00 HOME?
"I would be welcome back home
with the children to live with my
parents, but I'm not sure enough. He
doesn't think I ever would leave
him.
"I don't feel I can overlook all
this any longer. I'm at the end of my
patience. Help me:
"DESPERATE."
'a No mater how you love your
v husband, how loath you are to
e leave him, the welfare of the child-
* ren should be your first consider-
s' ation. Living day after day in
* in anxiety and fear, these girls are
e under a nervous strain which must
e inevitably affect their healthy de-
* velopment, as it musk also give
e them a distorted picture of mar-
e riage. As. their mother — regally
e their only responsible parent—
s' you cannot allow them to con-
e tinue to witness the recurring bru-
a tal scenes which their father cau-
ses.
e Tell your husband that the
• next time lie conies home intoxi-
• cated, you intend to take the child-
"` ren and go home to your parents.
w It is your last warning.
• He will not believe ,you, I ex -
a: pect, and you may have to leave,
m physically, before he realizes that
a, he has driven you all away: (Pre -
't° pare your parents for your tom-
s :.•ig,) Not all your pleas and ar-
guments have fazed him. He must
it seems, be suet with the fact
that he is alone.
*4 He will undoubtedly try to per-
suade you to return, making all
kinds of promises. Be firm, and
* convince him that he must prove,
'. and for a reasonable length of
e time, that he has stopped drinking
A' at all, before you will consider
s: consider coating home again,
o This really may make him for-
swear alcohol entirely. So before
s you start divorce nroceedings, give
him this last chance.
When divorce must be consi-
dered, it is the children's welfare
that should come first, If you
are threatened will^ this decision,
let Anne Hirst's wisdom help
y ou make it, Address her at Box
1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Tor-
onto,
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ISSUE wi 1950
w h tt- a headache they call he.
Then Jttl!nny come ill for Sunday
dinner And his frig prohleni was
whether or not to head for the West
again in time 'for sprint; seeding.
Partner and I have our prohlellrs
too—ilrajor and Minot•. The trouble
is one cannot always be sure which
are niajor and which are minor,
Minor problems very easily became
major, whereas it is possible that
Major problems have become major
only because we are all at little in-
clined to make mountains out of
molehills, .Now if the typesetter gets
tvitit ids %vork for th!. day and in-
tead:t gr,iilg apt; or c,•hetl business
or pleasure tapes hint to lite city,
thou, as l.otta Denipser
can't tell all editor frotr, a farmer"
—the ell tot• also haviagt'shed bite
worlcday clutlles, an(l gj5 -en his iralc-
stained fingers a bit of extra scrtib-
bjng,
We need tobe careful in our use
of the word "typical,". I ren7eniber
getting into trouble once by saying
that all unknu Aln visitor, had the ap-
pearance (if a "'typical insurance
agent t"
figure out what I meati.
u
I iniagine quite a lot of Mountains
�
and Molehills will be given an air-
%
ing at the, annual meeting Of the
e
Federation of Agriculture being
held jn Niagara Falls this week.
Apropos of that gathering, I like the
headline to Lotta Denipsey's column
X
°
today—"You can't tell an editor
from a fernier at the Falls.
After all, what does an editor,
or a farmer, look like? I. am not
going to stick my neck out by giv-
ing you any idea of a typical editor,
but I do ]cnow that some folks' idea
is in
Many women are subject to weak„
Many-
of a'• typical fanner a man
overalls, pant legs rolled over rub-
back. Often the kidneys are
to blame, for your, kidneys, along
ber hoots; wearing a smock or
with the liver, must filter out im-
ities from the 'bloodstream.
Berlin Brightens Up A Bit—The Berlin man -in -the -street, long windbreaker; cap pulled down over p $o if youfeeltired,wornoutrhead-
accustomed to Russians. and, rations, got an unexpected treat his ears and a beard admittedly a ach}—with tete nagging pain he an
little on the fuzzy. side. Yes, and aching back—look to both your kid -
you afashion store in the British sector hired live models to you can find this type in any small net's and liver. That's why Cana -
advertise its neer stock of nylon hosiery. dians have been relying on Dr.
-- town in an agricultural area, be- Chase's Kidney -Liver fills for over
cause naturally, each man must half a century.
a ` dress according to his trade or pro- Give your system a chance to
a fession• If'the farmer• had to shave work properly. Try Dr. Chase's
NDA18000t �'�"�' . and change his clothes before going KidnepLiverPillstoday : The name
g Dr. Chase" is your assurance. s
LESSON VI1CLES a town or and Hien change back
• � J`. �•7 again before starting his chores or Dr.
Chase's
%INQUIPAR
H going out a- the field, then he would
By The Rev. R. Barclay Warren sure lose a lot of time. KIDNIT�'-LIVE' PILLS
'°Y Cwor oloUne, P Ctor` e But when the farmer is'through
THE FIGHT FOR CHRISTIAN We had a houseful again this
FREEDOM week -end and the fun "and chatter
Acts 15: 1-6, 22-29; Gal, 2: 16 that went on was a welcome change 6
Golden Text: Stand fast therefore �����
in the liberty wherewith Christ hath from a week of considering prob- V
made us free, and be not entangled lems that were concerned only with
again with the yoke of bondage— failing farm prices and the eceen- wil . Wonderful New Fast Rising Dry Yeast!
Gal. 5:1. tricities of the weather. _
What we learnt in childhood, Daughter was home and in great
form—quite well• pleased with her "'a C�NNA�®� SUNS
sticks. The customs of childhood housing venture, but still wondering ;^
tend to gather a halo about thein, Measure into large bowl, 1 C.
which in later life we come to re -t. how she can cope with the various ;;: ' ^ '
with man of the Jews things that need to be done—all of. : lukewarm water, 2 tsps. granu-
vers. So, wi Y which cost money, But, as she says,
became Christians it was diffi- 1 _`> .. lated sugar; stir until sugar is
who a n- even if she doesn't make a fortune,. <'• 7 2 euvel-
cult to turn aside from the ceremo g dissolved. Sprinkle well
at least she has a comfortable home,
ial laws of Moses. Paul was a
He saw with per -
Daughter's,
young couple, friends of opes Fleischmann s Royal Fast
notable exception.1 nd >' :•». Let stand 10
Dau liter's, �t leo occupy the grow ...., . Rising Dry Yeast
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a 71- • clearness irie.s e
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feet f
��°�` 1�� floor rooms have been helping with A,.F;:,
lav to the gospel of Christ, To the, some of the decorating, min., THEN stir well. scald 1 a
By Roberta Lee Galatians who were beginning .to <' milk and stir in 1/2 c. granulated
e My
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works to save theist, he Just wait until you se sugar, it/a tsps.salt,6lbs.stott shortening;
trust in their' wo rr r, �'fi�!>^0•• d to east mix -
rote
It'S :s ties: cool to lukewarm. Ad Y
o says Daughter, ;:::s '>>
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Q. Is it now considered proper rote Before faith came we were d t' 'n 2 well -beaten eggs.
for one to light one's own cigar-
ette before that of a companion,
so as to avoid the taste of sulphur
in that person's cigarette?
A. No; this taste is in evidence
only during the first flaring of the
match. Light your match, and if
you wish, wait just a second before
applying it to -your friend's cigar-
ette—then light your own. ... ...
Q. If a woman is wearing a cor-
sage pinned on her. coat when
entering a restaurant, what does
she do with it?
A. She takes it off and pins it
on her dress where it will show
off to much better advantage.
Q. Is it proper to have ushers,
%vhen having no bridesmaids, at a
church wedding where about 100
guests are expected?
,A. This is not only proper, but
necessary.
Q. How does a young married
woman introduce her mother to
another person?
A. She must be sure to give her
mother's name, saying. "This is
my another, Mrs. Tones," so that
the other person will know what
t,0 call her in speaking to her.
Q. What refreshments should be
served at a reception that follows
the christening of s child?
A. The menu is the usual one
for an afternoon informal tea, with
refreshments served in buffet style,
vv 1kept under the law, shut up unto staell.' :::;:s,>' tine an s tr
t "k>ttbble R00117." (. echoed in 1)e- <:•r::.:...+ 1 Stir in 3 c. once -sifted bread flour;
the faith which should afterwards �..; _.;.; ;,,faa� s< :.,�.. beat until smooth. Work in 3 c. more
be revealed, therefore the law' lyes. wiidered surprise. :.> :° once -sifted bread flour. Knead until
"V es, that's what we call. it," , : smooth and elastic; place in greased
our schoolmaster to bring us unto. bowl; brush ton with melted butter
Christ, that we might be justified laughed Daughter. "You see, we got or shortening. Cover and set in
by faith. But after that faith is a bargain price on some real good ? warm place, tree from draught. Let
o eon er un�ter the wallpaper' but when it came to put- 5: rise until doubled in bulk. While
Coiile, x e are n g dough is rising, combine P/2 c. brown
heavy that it
a so v
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t on E`< •`:
Gal. 3: 23-5. ting i t Y :•
schoolmaster."•! F - told the paste properly. `:> sugar (lightly pressed down), 3 tsps.
ace Sadhu Sundae Singh enter-: �motrldn't 1 p P : \ �4', ground cinnamon, 1 c. washed and
O So because of the various places a .;;:,.;,Y;; ;; .;`; dried seedless raisins. Punch down
ed into conversation with a Hindu }•.•�••••.•
�' n a heti of where the paper didn't stick we dough and, divide into 2 equal nor -
holy man lying o 1 p '
For eighteen months the called it 'The Bubble Room'."s :•: x tions; torts into smooth balls. Roll
Soirees. g <;,;';,:,...: :`iG?lhi 'kms each piece into an oblong t/4 thick
Electric wiring has been another a � ;�> ,`:;_:,;;•.;� and 16" ton • loosen dough. Brush
n had been torturing his',body E>,:..\:..:�,.,.;;:a�a,;;,: a g,
I�r du g
Of her worries. The house, being ;:.: ''��::s>s:>.a:":``�:»:::<::•:: •,go:•:;�::�y,.•t.;>:: with melted butter or margarine.
h h might crush the desires of „ :?:: >.;,.�.
that e b'' i, `i�'i''r'ifii>i'r'?>`? '.::.,;;t•:.�: Sprinkle with raisin mixture. Begin -
have not vet old, has insufficient circuits. So,n
Self. He admitted, I Hing at a long edge, roll up each piece
gained ni object, nor is it possible said Daughter, `until I discovered ""'s'' loosely, like a jelly roll. Cut into
g Y the trouble, we spent most of our
to do so in so short a .trine. Ninny 1" slices. Place lust touching each
years, and indeed, many 'births, will. time blowing fuses," Partner has other, a cut -side up, in greased 7"
be necessary to accomplish it." Sun- already nicknamed her "the Land- ; , round layer -cake pans (or other shal.
�,�.. low pans), Grease t9ps. Cover and
tier Singh reasoned with bine and lady" and before starting back: on- .-s
- - ,..m.r� let rise until doubled in bulk, Bake
rip to esterd
testified as to how he had found her TToronto yay, in moderate oven, 350°, 20.25 minutes.
peace in an instant Daughter proved the title was well ���5 Serve hot, or reheated,
deliverance and
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but the other man replied, " I can deserved. it so happened the wind I l
never admit that salvation can be had got up, and it was also getting
obtained as a gift, and in one short quite a bit colder. "Oh, the dicket�! !1 I • No more taking chances with
life," says Daughter, as an extra he _1y f perishable yeast cakes that have lost
We can do nothing to merit salva- gust hit our house, "I hope that II their leavening power! New
tion. Joining the church, paying wind dies down—it's going to be ', q� Fleischmann's Fast DRY Yeast
money, trying to live a moral life; hard on my oil furnacel" What a ®Rq� YEAST keeps full strength and active right
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lot more interest a person takes in
none of these will bring God's peace ' � till the moment you use it, Needs
to the soul. We are saved by faith the most ordinary everyday affairs Acts FAaTau aAYs aaESNt NO refrigeration—keeps safely
and faith alone, It is not what we of life, if he, or she, has to foot the fm"U. in your cupboard. Try its marvellous
can do but faith in what Jesus has bill) _ _ _ - results in your next baking.
done. joy was also here and her big
"Jesus paid it all, All to Him i worry was making out an annual Qr.���. 'Wo/..,40 SL/�dply�
Owe—
Sin
report to the Board regarding her
nursing activities—and anyone who .. �.�.
Sin has left a crimson stain. He g -
washed it white as snow." has dealt with annual reports knows
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