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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1949-11-24, Page 6paNES "Dear Anne Hirst: I have been divorced for 10 years, and have a child 11 years old. For five years, t've been going with a man, and for the last three years, we have been engaged. But it seems he can't trust me. • "We split up once, and I dat- ed other sten. When we went back together, he taunted me about them, though I haven't been out with anyone else for the past two years. Even if I'm talking with a woman friend, he charges me with planning a date! "I have tried to get -along with him, but when he gets his temper up. he says things that hurt. "I've tried to get him to open a bank account for us to start on, but that's as far as I get. 1 have saved up money myself, and he thinks we should start on that. But 1 have a child to keep and put through school. and I must think about her. �c..r+st.e► �I Colorful vegetables on black lat- tice -work make a cheerful looking mextette of kitchen towels. Quick do embroider! A child could begin on these em- broidery motifs! Pattern 806; trans - or of 6 motifs 5%x67/2 inches. Laura Wheeler's unproved pat- tern makes needlework so simple with its charts, photos and concise directions. Send TWENTY-FIVE Cr:^'TS fn coins (stamps cannot be aa- epted) for this pattern to Uu:, 1. 123 Eighteenth Street, New Tor- nto, Ontario. Print plainly PAT - ERN NUMBER, your NAME and ADDRESS. ne "Sometimes I think I'll starry but then something happens again, and 1 get so nervous and worried 1 can't sleep or eat. He is good about bringing gifts, and says no other man would do as much for me. Perhaps not, but I am worried L.L." * 1 can't honestly recommend * that you marry this young man, ** even though he has some fine * qualities. He lacks, however, * traits which are essential in a * good husband. * First, he doubts every move * you make. He has no faith in your personal integrity. After * marriage, he would be even stare ** jealous, and I'm afraid he could " make your daily life a series of 4' Suspicions and accusations which * You could not, if you tried.. dispel * or refute. What self-respecting * woman wants to spend her time * continnaily defending herself? *• He is not provident. Though '' you two have been engaged for * three years, he has not put aside * a single dollar for expenses and * emergencies. That does not augur * well far your future. To suggest 4' that you use money you sac e * saved for your child's education, * is supremely selfish. It seems to • hie that, married to him, your * economic security wauld be very * slim indeed. • You two do not get along well. * You would probably get along * worse it you marry -and then it * would be too late to do anything * about it. A man will stake all * sorts of concessions for his a fiancee which he will refuse his * wife. * 1 expect lie has become such a * habit with you that you wonder * what you would do without him. * 'You are only 30. It is not rea-. a sonable to think he is the only * man who will be attracted to * you - particularly when it be- ** comes known that you no longer * see hini. * From what I glean from year letter, 1 think you deserve a better * husband than this rnan can pos- * sibly be. Any man who thinks * he is doing a girl a favor to * marry her, is too complacent to * live with. Don't let habit dull your critical sense. And never take second best, because it seems easier. Anne Hirst can help you see things as they ron to, Ont. sALI.Y''S 5#2,9. fES 'See here, Officer. XS hie wore any better than miner' D. Poem CROSSWORD10. New ilistglw,ad PUZZLE ACatOSS 1. nastiest R..Tewieh law 13, Understandtog 14. Roman official 1G, Uncovered B. Baseball f eosin ' 18. Tantalum fcymb.) 20. TtpaI estate I,'Iding 10. Small pie I21. Perfect golf 22. liip•hest point 3a.1.istern I24. },arbor 25. FM' 4.xam(1•7 tab.) +.i. NO ail 17 Pedal digit 23 rlenerator ! 40. hntibling Apoatlp 32 i'..•at of its kin4 I24. Vex i 83. roncernIntr I84. Tteseue 88. 8ha:p,d with ntta.X 1 80. Norse county 40, t:r:a 41. Appears 1 suddenlir 4t Radiate 42I'on fused Iowa 4t 1'.•ntnry plieyit ttbra 0, ''•,sauetic . 46. tr1ttid part of 1.,1 Ott, '.,tgtiyh pee& do M.o. x61 willows DOWN l L. Dleeoaa4*t1 2. Similarttr 8. Razor sharpener 4. Attention 5. Terminate d. Thorough feet* (eh.) 7. Occupant 3. Canvas shelter State (ab,) 111.. Place of worship 12. Red suit card 17 Annoy 20. bilepltant's ear 21. 'Rhymed composition 28. Domesticate 24. Table game 20. Stem 27. Slender 29. Part of a ehureh 30. ,.raw* at. Knight's, armor -bearer 82. [tet,. ;ngdol5a 34. Maya., 30. P1ac or 37. Nimble 38. Heated 39, lllntertale 41.8'astens 42. Ages 44, 'Fruit. stony 45. Turmeric 87. Printer's measure 4x1. Tiebrew letter _4q I S` Answer elsewhere on this page. 'lf l only knew how, to drive, this thin I'd crank "e r umi A Woman's, Intuition -Airs,. ' 'iatk,. a. socialist prominent resident Of .Adam, GGuth's farm has a Fee1nig that something's cookiirg and tvh'atever' it is.,, ft bodes, her no. good. 7 HRO IN,.I:' a ; tiI eweadotirve P. Ctettke 0V 1\ e have some inure tie* ueigtt• hours ---?*the third family within tit o years to live on one farm near here. In fact we have to hurry.up, these days to meet any tiew neighbours who come along or else they are gone before we have a chalice to. say "Hullo". We were sorry to. say goodbye the other day to these last neigh bours of ours that we had known for such a little while. and front whom we might have. learned- so much. had they stayed longer. Originally they came from Europe atrd_4vere intelligent, industrious, �ktu, yfo11; !.• ' 1\419 would have been �.. t:. to then :community, had stet $ i `uIn- stances, which wer not o 'their making, made it impossible for` thein to stay. Their life int Europe -had been tragic. In Canada they Thad been more fortunate - that is, until World '\Var.2 when their only son, serving with the Canadian forces, was killed two months before peace (?) was declared. Then' while they were living on tin farm, the w•otn- an's sister, with two teen-age chil- dren, came tto live with them. They were DIP from Central 'Europe. Originally there had been four children in the fancily, but the two eldest boys had been taken away to forced labour camps and their motller had no way of finding out whether they wer dead or alive. And yet we, in Canada, sometimes think we have reason t feel .sorry for ourselves! One thing I noticed particularly was the quiet stoicism with which the woman told me these things. 1 had the feeling she had suffered so much that she was drained of any further emotion. knowing these people made me especially glad to hear a splendid address given by Miss Ethel Chap- man on "Canadians All". .. Miss Chapman illustrated so clearly in her talk what each nationality had contributed. to Canada as a whole, proving that "unity without:- Uni- formity" was not only possible but desirable. Miss Chapman tried to make us realize that new Canadians should not be criticised because their ways and customs were differ- ent, but should be encouraged to cultivate their various arts and crafts in Canada, thus enriching the country of their adoption, As, for instance, the Scandinavian races with their agricultural experience; the Europeans with their culture and scientific skill, and the Latin races itlt their beautiful lsaudicrafts and their facility for adding colour to. their lives. And of course she men- tioned the thrift of the' Scats,. the wit of the !Halt, the tenacity of the English, and. the Welsh, with their music and intense love of country. a'Ui nationalities were mentioned: and the desirable qualities of each were empltasrzed- Looking at it that way, Canada should certainly be rich in every kind of cra{t and cul- ture.. Next duty daughter and. 1 enjoyed; a very different experience: We went to an auction! sale in; the coutt- try - farm stuff --natal!• furniture'- and w.tat fun we had!! Daughter wanted a good nciror for her house- keeping room, ht the city.. At this sale there was an old-fashioned: dresser with a large bevelled mirror -and we got the whole thing for .almost a song. Our next problem was how to get it home without Bob having to, snake a special. trip, with the truck. Looking it over I said: "If we take it to pieces t believe it will all go- inx the trunk of the car." (Amazing what you can. get into a trunk_) So we borrowed a screwdriver from a man who was standing around and then we went to work. Presently seeing us strug- gling with the rusty and embedded screws a sympathetic farmer casae to the rescue, and in no time at all the dresser was in four pieces. Then another man came along and helped es get it over to the car and into the trunk. Yes, it did go in, except for what stuck out behind. When we got home we divided the spoil. Daughter got the mirror; 1 was only too glad to have the dresser drawers for one of our spare rooms, and the little cupboard which was on one side of the dresser is going to make an excellent bathroom cab- inet. On the whole we were very well satisfied with our afternoon's outing. Even if we had not got the dresser it would still have been , .fun - More fun than any sale I had been to for a long time -and i came to the conclusion it was be- cause there were so many hien around! There were quips flying back and`.forth all the time, espe- cially when the men stood looking on -- some of then•, buying -- when the dishes. drapes and bedlinen were being sold. Sometimes even the auctioneer didn't know what he was selling.- which all added to the jokes and laughter. Retriever -Obviously this ambitious little explorer, isn't going iso et v1ir x with the Bolton terrier has his mind ,,made txp s tml (2t 4 mischief, Howard Nickerson won third psis tt nth #ittti8 pletta'e stn a contest sponsored by the Gaines og Research Center, HOW CAN 1? By Anne Ashley Q'.. Flow should fabric gloves be washed?' A. Wash them with •a good kind of soap flakes. Then hold the fin- gers tinder the faucet and fill with water. Hang on the line to drip, and see how nicely the fingers dry iatto tate proper shapes. Q. How can I relieve tender feet? A. Same people claim there is nothing better for tender feet than a cold foot bath, .followed by a brisk rub with either alcohol or olive oil, and then a dusting with talcum powder. Q.. How can 1 whiten clothes when' washing? A. Put a few slices of lemon, with the rind on, into the. boilet and trail with the white clothes. This will remove many stains an•1 also. make the clothes white, with• out danger of injury. Q. How* can I keep doughnuts flesh? A. Place a slice of bread in the doughnut box and it will keep the doughnuts soft -andlight. IJptide down to prevent peeking. r br N 0 $ M af Cad 7 1 a 3 O 70 I d 0 b N3 MOO to' ..ew And Use' t,t Home Billiard Table Pocket billiard tables designed, for home use are said to be exact counterparts, on a smaller scaJaj of championship tables, Clots, cushions and mails are of same workmanship as professional mno(lels with gullies carrying the pocketed balls to ball receivers quickly and ' sileit.tly, maker states. Simple level- ling device at bottom, of each leg said to permit true play at all times» Object balls of special formula' plastic are exact duplicates, of pro', fessional billiard balls:. Legs, may be folded and table store away. *t * Truck to Station Wagon. This equipment is said. to' quickly transform an ordinary one-half too truck into a completely enalosed) comfortable and weatherproof' con- veyance. Product' said to, be lbw - cost, light in weight Ione than' cart load and unload' it)„. but designed for rigidity, strength and' rough usage through use of steel' tuliingi and tough plastic upholstery on the, seats. Top it of canvas• rein- forced with hardwood slats. And the RELIEF is „`>' >:::` LASTING; Nobody knows the cause of rheuniar.- tism but we do know there's one • thing to ease the pain . . . 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