Zurich Herald, 1953-03-19, Page 6"IS THERE NO MAN WE CAN
TRUST ANY MORE?"
"I have tried to live right, but
I'm always getting hurt!" cries
a young woman who feels that
life has let her down. She has
been jilted — not once, but twice.
Today, in her despair, she la-
ments, "Is there no one in this
world we can trust any more?"
Who can wonder at her hope-
lessness? Five years ago she was
to have been: married; three
weeks before the day, her fiance
jilted her. "For a .year I thought
I couldn't bear it," she relates,
"until I met a young man who
was very good to vie , . . I be-
gan to live again. I trusted him
with all my heart, we became
engaged. I was to have been mar-
ried this past Christmas. A month
before, he Began dating a mar-
ried woman — and now he tells
me he loves her!
A Changed, Man
"He has fallen way below his
ideals; when he used to hear of
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girls cheating, he was always so
shocked! He says this one plans
to divorce her husband, who is
in the service, so I guess he in-
tends to marry her , .. It is pretty
hard to go with a man three years
and then be told to" forget him!
I can find no peace."
* Two shocks which send one's
* world crashing about her are
"' enough to make a girl fore-
" swear all males for the rest of
' her life. I hope this young wo--
' pian, however, will not yield
* to that idea. When she recov-
* ere, from her first disappoint-
"' ment, it proved the resilience
* of her nature. This second
blow reveals how a man's very
character was warped by his
s' mad passion for a married wo-
man. The girl he jilted is more
" fortunate than she will ad-
mit now; he might have sue-
* cumbed after they married. His
* unsavory double-crossing of a
* soldier in service proves to
* what despicable depths he has
" sunk. There seems no virtue
" in him.
* The young • woman who
r° trusted him is remembering
° him today, I expect, as he used
" to be, and her pain is not eased
d' by the fact. If this had hap-
* pened to a friend of hers, she
" would ,'comfort her with the
reality she anust live -with from, .
now on, and remind her that,
" with rare good fortune, she has
" escaped being married to a ras-
" cal. How much more bitter
°' could be her awagening then!
° Yes, there are still hien in
* this world whom women can
* trust. Later on, when her hurt
* has dulled and she sweeps
" along again on the blessed
e current of daily routine, she
" will recapture the hope that..
"1; one of them will find how'sor-
'° row has mellowed her, and
n spend his life proving his ap-
* preciation of all she has to
* give. him.
" TO "A STEADY READER":
w It is said that those who love
a most suffer most. Yet there are
° always compensations. For -
o you, there is the satisfying
w knowledge that you, at least,
s played fair; your loneliness
* will not be soiled by the re-
* morse which -plagues the gu l-
* ty. (That is reserved for this
* pian who failed you — and
himself).
* You will • take bold again,
believe me. Your church will
" help, your friends will rally
around—and don't withdraw
* yourself from them. Don't neg-
,° lect activities, either; they can
* open doors to new and adven-
* turous living that will be
* thrilling, even to you. Now
x° that you are in such trouble,
* you will find how many other
* women have suffered the same
* delusion, and come through
x: with colors flying. You will do
no less, I know. My sympathy
* and my warmest wishes go
°, with you.
When your greet seems Im-
possible to bear, remember that
there are always temptations
to relieve you. Anne Hirst can
remind you of thean, if you turn
to her. Write her at .Boer, 1, 123
Eighteenth 5t., New Toronto,
Ont.
Watta Manville --Tommy Manville, 58-year•okd heir to asbestos
millions, seems very pleased with his tenth bride-to-be,, Mrs. Lillian
Bishop, 28. However, Tommy ran into trouble trying to get his
licence at New Rochelle, N.Y., as his ninth wife is trying to,;void
sr Mexican divorce. The city clerk refused to issue the licence
until he could talk to Manville's- lawyer. However, Tommy saidhe
got one anyway at Greenwich, Conn.
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Something tells vie that cer-
tain species of cats, dogs and-
house plants cannot be raised to
gether — and they are the kind
we seem to possess.
For several years I have had
a huge fern — or plant — 1 hard-
ly know which to call it It has
long trailing branches and.. st.
sort of multiple bulbous root.
This plant filled one entire win-
dow in the living zoom and was
so heavy I couldn't even lift. it..
It had always been hardy and
healthy - and then suddenly . it
wasn't. It appeared lifeless, with
branches breaking off here and
there. I was at a loss to, account
for the change — until the day. I
discovered Mitchie-White asleep,
on top. of my precious fern! It
was an ideal spot, with the warm
sun streaming in through the
window. I knew Mitchie had been
playing with the trailing fronds
but making a bed .of .the fern
was something I hadn't even
thought of as possible. Eventual-
ly I had to cut off 'all the fronds
and repot the fern, splitting it
into four while I was at it.
In the • other living room win-
ddw 1 have 'an asparagus. fern.
Mitchie can't sleep on top of it
as the pot isn't big enough so he
nibbles at the fronds .instead.
Upstairs in a big south bedroom,
used only when we have guests,
I have a variety of house plants,
which I considered comparative-
ly safe — until last Sunday. Dee
and Art were out and brought, a
young married couple with them.
June brought her English terrier
with her — a nice little dog,
quite friendly and well-behaved
— even with Honey and Mitch.
It was all over the place. Pres-
ently I heard it chasing around
upstairs but in a few minutes it
was clown again. Next day I was
up to water my plants. Such a
sight as met my eyes! One cactus
was lying out of its pot; another
was on the floor, its fancy con-
tainer broken; two of my repot-
ted ferns were also lying among
a debris of broken pots and
earth. And various shoots were
snapped off my geraniums and
begonias. Worse than that, some
of these plants belonged to
friends who had been staying
here before Christmas. They had
left them in my charge until
they were ready to start house-
keeping again.
Well, 1 thought, a dog couldn't
possibly have done that much
damage. And then suddenly 1
realized what had happened. Big
Black Joe. had evidently been
sleeping on one of the beds.
When the dog ran upstairs, Joe,
scared to death by a canine
stranger, had made a (lying leap
for the window. And that was
that. I am sure that is what hap-
pened because I remember see-
ing Joe come through the hall
when everyone had gone. And it
could have been worse. Years
ago, when a strange dog come in-
to the house. Mitchie-Grey wept
right through the living room •
window, glass and all.
in Ivy den 1 have on the win-
dow sill one begonia and
flowering hop. Yesterday while
we were at breakfast I heard a
(trash . 1 found the begonia
lying on the floor, its pot broken,
end Mitchie-White scampering
away. So I have comic to the con-
clusion that Mitehie among
T,1ants is like a bull in a -china
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shop. Too bad, because in every
other respect he is a well-behaved
and intelligent pussy -cat. Which
' reminds me — I visited a house
in town last week where there
was a'four-year old cat that had
. never been outside by itself. It
had a little harness and was tak-
en outside by some Member of
the, family at various times dur-
ing the day. This was because
all its predecessors had either
been. killed, stolen, poisoned ' or
run away.
Before leaving the subject of
plants and cats ... I have two
Christmas ' cacti, both of which
bloomed just before Christmas.
One has already bloomed again
and the other is a mass of buds —
cats and dogs notwithstanding.
Has anyone else had a similar
experience? Maybe even house
plants don't know what to make
of this unusual winter.
It is certainly unusual all right.
Two days' ago the air was lust
like spring. Last night the tem-
perature took a nosedive and
here we are back to winter again.
I have just come in from feed-
ing the hens 'and found the ther-
mometer registering zero. That
suits me all right — I'm not
ready for spring yet.
Well, this is the day farm folk _
have been waiting for — the day
U.S. embargo against Canadian
Cattle is to be lifted. And then
what? Some say lower beef
prices will result — but that re -
.mains to 'be ween. In any : ease
',free movement of cattle is greatly
to' be desfred . .. especially off
this farm, if I have my way
Partner is spending far too much
time at the• barn these days. If
it hadn't been for the embargo
some of our cattle would have
gone out long ago. But who wants
to sell on a falling market?
Thomas Edison, believing that
luck or chance had no part in
a man's success (one of the few
successful men who ever be-
lieved this) once said, "I never
did anything worth doing by ac-
cident, nor did any of my in-
ventions coarse by accident; they
came by work."
SOME TYPES YOU SEE
THROUGH A WINDSHIELD
They Refuse To Fight,
But Not Through Fear
It is three hundred years since
George Fox had a vision at the
top of Pendle Hill, which moved
him to preach his message to the
people of England and the
American colonies, and found ' a
sect that in proportion to its
numbers is the most powerful in
the world.
For, according to statistics,
there are no more than 21,000
Quakers in all Britain, and about
160,000 in the world. Yet a
Quaker deputation to a country
like the U.S.S.R., for instance, is
far more respected than any other
body would be.
They do not believe in the
Trinity, the Immaculate Concep-
tion or the Resurrection, though
in essence they practise all that
is best in the Christian religion.
Courage and Integrity
George Fox, the founder of
Quakerism, was a man of im-
mense moral courage and in-
tegrity. And honesty is the rock
on which Quakerism is built. Be
honest with yourself and those
in contact with you, both in bus-
iness and in home life. The
Quakers are guided by an Inner
Light which we call conscience.
Fox believed that if you obey
the dictates of your conscience in
all natters, then your conscience
will grow and develop along the
right lines, and you cannot do
wrong. If you smother your con-
science, it' will ultimately wither
and you will allow. yourself to
do evil.
It is a simple creed requiring
no learning or dogma. •
Quakers believe in extreme
pacifism. Unlike those of other
creeds they have never tried to
convert by the sword, but rather
to convince by sword and precept,
William Penn, son of an admiral,
came under the influence of Fox
but continued to wear his sword,
as befitted a gentleman of the
time. He doubt e d, however,
whether he should continue to do
so and asked Fox's advice. "Wear
thy sword," advised Fox in the
Biblical phraseology Quakers then
used, "as long as thou canst.".
Some weeks later he met Penn.
"Where is thy sword?" he asked
with a smile.
"I wore it," said the other, "as
long as I could."
Ultimately, Penn went to
America and founded the Quaker
colony of Pennsylvania, and it is
noteworthy that d'u ring the
seventy-five years of Quaker
domination, which is now known
as the Golden Age of Colonial
Tranquillity, not a single Quaker
was massacred by an Indian; nor
was a single Indian defrauded by
a Quaker.
Made Enemies Quake
Quakers r e f use to fight, but
members of the Society of
Friends, which is their legal title,
were not so named because they
quaked in fear. They were called
Quakers because one of their op-
ponents said that "Fox made his
enemies quake and tremble at
the word of the Lord."
Since their foundatipn the
Quakers have been bitterly per-
secuted. Fox himself was in and
out of prison like a Jack-in-the-
box. He was married to Margaret
Fell, widow of Judge Thomas
Fell, for nearly twenty - three
years, but they enjoyed less than
five years together. And of the
early Quakers, a tenth of their
number was always in jail.
Gradually, people began to
realize that there was more than
a germ of truth in the Quaker
idea of honesty. and peace. And
the Quakers grew in strength and
made influential converts.
Quakers believe in extreme
simplicity and turn their faces
against all ceremony and ritual in
their houses of prayer, abolishing
even musical accompaniments
when they sing hymns. They also
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dress severely and live so Sparrta7pn,. R
a 111e that the Very. Rev. W.
Inge, former Dean of St. Pau1'a,
said: "The Quakers, of all Chris-
tian bodies, have remained nears
est to the teaching and example
of Christ." -
In business they are scrupulous••
ly honest, but they do not spin
money. "Make all you can, eev►rs
all you can, and give all you calm
is the Quaker's rule.
Commercial Success
Men at first refused to trade.
with Quakers, but their honesty
became so widely known that
strangers, on entering a town felt;
business, would ask, "Where la
there a tradesman that Is ea-.
Quaker?"
No other community, except
perhaps the Parsees of In di sl,.
have been so successful in th
world of industry and commerce.
Two of the banks known as the
:Big Five, Lloyds and Barclay;
were founded by Quakers. Quak-
ers started the Sheffield steel and
cutlery industries. Firm s with
names that are household word.
today were founded by them:
B r y ant and May, the match
manufacturers; Hornimans. ..hose
Quaker tea is known throughout
the land; Clark's of Street; Carr,
Jacob, and Palmer's of Reading
the biscuit people; James Reckitt,.
manufacturers of starches and
dyes; and George Bradshaw, e1
railway time -table fame.
Most people do not realize that
these firm were founded by
Quakers, though they know that
the great chocolate houses Of
Cadbury, Fry, and Rowntree
were.
The fact that a business Is run
by a Quaker is a guarantee ref
honest dealing. And a proportions
of all their profits is invariably
set aside for charitable purposes..
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