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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1952-10-23, Page 6Of ren adll ;- Shoe the. . held • "-norr' wver aervic• be fp' Anew 1ti auppiiF rur Uri1 TEI, wEp.' (DONIIi V (THIS BROA, BE d/ vf,raA 40t- fir 1 1p. `"i ::MADA BAGS "Dear Anne Hirst: Many of your letters come from women who have failed in marriage, and blame, 'the other woman.' I am one of those. From the standpoint amcan outcast. "When I left illy shiftless hus- band, I had two small children. It was impas- sible sible t o work, so I start- ed going out with Hien A' third child was born. "Now I've met a man who loves me and my children. ,fie is willing to marry me and take care of us. He has a good position—but he is married, and has two grown boys. CAN'T GET FREE "His wife has refused a divorce. She has threatened eel too. prShee is the nagging kind, to be always sick. "Now I think I am to have hs baby. Since he has always p' i ded for his family, and will con- tinue to, don't you think his first duty is to his unborn child? "How can we make bis wife see that it would be best for all con- cerned to set him free to marry me? We won't give each other up. M. G." * If this man can convince his * wife that she should free him * to marry you, he will be one of * the very few who succeeded. ' Women are possessive creat- * ures. Once we. acquire a man, we • won't let him go. She will be no * exception, I expect, particularly * because a baby is expected. When $' she learns of that she is apt to * retort: "That's her lookout." * This man's first duty lies with * his wife and legitimate ri�ld ie. * He is morally, legally and. finan- * cially responsible to. them.cmfor * If this man really *• you, he will not let you suffer * economically through this added * responsibility he has caused you. * I hope he will assume it. * When you think of your future, * choose a course that will not * shame the children you have * brought into the world. Your * life lies partly behind you. Theirs * is yet to come—and it is only * you who can make it a proud one. * * * When one breaks a social law, she must pay the price --which is always higher than she thinks. If you are tempted ask Anne Hirst's opinion. She is sympathetic and wise, a. Addr Addressher help her at here 123 Eight- eenth Ont. St., New Toronto, Set To Beautify a mrad��%�`�e�'°¢�• *�6e0�®®�9968�- a"•e rte;++i <c,, ao CHECKED WITH THE LUGGAGE Ten -month-old Sonya Mastine smiles from the pile of luggage surrounding her on board the Italian liner ss Italia docked in New York harbor. She is waiting for her mother, a German war bride, to take care of landin6 details. Modern Etiquette By ROBERTA LEE Q. Is it proper to use the type- writer for social correspondence? A. Yes, this is quite proper. There was a time when the type- writer was considered suitable for only business. corresptide course, that time has passed. stationery should he used when only the single -sheet variety of typing a letter, and be sure to sign your name by hand. Q. If a girl has no parents and she has no means of giving a par- ty to announce her engagement, how can she make her announce- ment? tror • 767 A. The best way to do this is through the society -news page of her .local paper. Q. When passing your plate at the dinner table for a second he p- ing of some dish, what should you • do with your silverware? A.Always leave this on the plate. Q. What are the duties of the, maid -of -honor while the marriage ceremony is taking place? A. She stands nearest prayer bride, takes her bouquets orcpigyput o book while the ring returning them at the proper time, and arranges the bride's train when she turns from the altar to proceed up the aisle after the ceremony. Q. Is it the man's or t h e worran's place to make the move to stop for conversation on the street? A. The man's lasses be Q. Should the water g filled before the guests are sum- moned to the table for a luncheon? A. Yes, the glasses are filled, and the butter is placed on the plates. Q. Shou'd the recipient of gifts at a birthday party open those gifts immediately, or wait until af- ter the party? A. Un der no circumstances should the gifts be opened later. They should be opened immediate- ly upon receipt, and each donor thanked sincerely. It would be an act of bad taste and thoughtless- ness not to allow your friends to witness the opening of their gifts. Q. I have heard that wearing a tuxedo is not proper on Sunday evenings. Is this correct? A. White tie and tails are very rarely worn on Sundays—but tux- edos are often worn, and quite properly. NICLES E F e arcia.d.oti.ta.e. D C1.6 nk,m More changes in our family life! This time Bob has provided the exitement — or maybe lack, of it would be more correct — that is,r insofar as we are concerned. Staying put isn't usually consi- dered exciting which ' is what we are most likely to do. But there may be excitement in store for Bob, as last Thursday he started out for Alberta, alone, and driv- ing'his own car.. He intends stick- ing to Canadian roads all the way so the going"is bound to be rough in spots. 'Plow, : wonderful to footloose and freer E'ver since he was in training `at Wainwright during the war.'Bob .has wati'ted to take a trip back to Alberta. lie expects to be away two -torahs — but I have a feeling that `this; "two months" may strtch out con= siderably. ° find t� 4 Life is certainly beautiful—when you have this butterfly chair -set to decorate a room! Economical too—just TWO balls of cotton for lovely pineapple -design set! Crochet that really makes a dif- ference! Thrifty ton. Pattern 767 has directions for chair -set, Send TWENTY-FIVE CENTS in coins (stamps cannot be accep- ted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. Print Plainly PATTERN NUMVMBER, your NAME and AD- DRESS. Such a colorful roundup of handi- work ideas! Send twenty-tive cents ;flow for our Laura Wheeler Needle- craft Catalog. Choose your pat- terns from our gailyillustrated toys, dolls, household at accessories. A pattern for a handbag is printed right in the book. WITH THE HELP OF TOBACCO ELIMINATOR par free Isnottlet itr Who i;ladlYteetifYto ttte atoozlna l.•Nnlrty of titin non -lista forming ,moo,ty, write IfEtne Dltartnneit Corn. Ltd.. box era, London, Ont. ISSUE 41 -- 1952 ti;y to figure out things once in awhile. In fact, it sometimes helps considerably. Conditions having changed so much since the "thirties" makes me wonder hdw well we would face up to reverses. The majority of farm folk now have so much more -- cars, hydro, radios, milk- ing machines, coolers, refrigera- tors, tractors, and in many cases machinery with power take -off. And we have become used to going places and seeing things, Very nice, and, to a .certain extent, as it should be. But there is a snag. This "higher •standard of living" — if you can call it such — runs into money. If the money equal to future requirments, what then? How shall we retrench? especially when the one thing we did have plenty of in the thir- ties is no longer available. By that I mean labour. It has been said that in present day construction and building, 60% of the total cost is for labour. l wonder what percentage of farm costs are spent in custom work, or in operating high-priced, machinery e equivalent of labour? or Who knows, group farming, may yet be the answer to the problems of tomor- row. If farm prices continue to drop only big -business -farmers will be able to operate independently. Hundred -acre farmers will have to cut their costs, share machinery and change work as they did be- fore. Looking back it seems to be there was more friendliness and then cooperation among than there these days is wis tobeatthetendency theother fellows' time in getting the baler, the combine or in filling silo. cattle just so long, and then they have to go. There be a definite reason — shortage of feed; lack of stable room; milkers that turn out to be boarders, or cows that fail to get in calf. If *a. farmer has to sell on a market it means quite a loss. And the average farm- er cannot stand not with operating ses too well these days costs so high. I often wonder what is likely to happen in the event of another depression, even on a lesser scale than before. I don't. want to bete gloomy but it does n one - somecourse we;,b-� t -,tet; t� w Soule without him couty r +O out, even though he warn t' work- ing at home. But I suppose we shall get used toi. Daughter hter phoned yesterday to t were standing up to it. and re- minded us that we still have a "son" even though Bob is away. Yes, that is something to remem- ber -- and appreciate. Now Daughter is married sand Bob headed west perhaps get down to work.; in a more set- tled frame of mind: Of course the cows have been milked right along; haying done; house and meals looked after, but apart from those little "chores" many things have been put off. First, until after the wedding, and then until after Bob shall have departed for the west. You folks will know what I mean. Naturally there have been things that couldn't wait -- tomatoes and peaches had to be done. But no pickles yet. Maybe the house will be reeking with onions and boiled vinegar some- time this week. Our unpredictable weather has changed again. Now it is really like fall. But who knows — 11�e may he enduring another heat wave by the time this column gets into print. If so it heaven be be - ort forbid. I want it I have had all the heat I want for awhile. Another unpredictable thing . the cattle market. Prices down one to three dollars on beef. And yet we don't seem to get,atty more for our money at the butcher shops. I don't get it. Maybe som- one knows the answer — we cer- tainly don't. The drop in cattle •prices is real- ly serious. .k termer can keep h Super for Supper— made with t 4 WICK 5 Inerne.........M.1.0.11.112.MMIMrtnialaInatOttetit HOT BISCUIT SUPPER -SANDWICH onionn to taste 1 and condiment saucecooked ;eat with moisten moisten slgl tly rated onion, salt, Popp with leftover gravy or cream sauce. Mix and sift twice, then sift into a bowl, 2 c. once -sifted pastry flour (or c . c. once-, 34 t�hassa-t,,lyeatsp. dryrmustard. Cut in finely Powder, c s '4 Make a well in dry ingredients 5 ids, chili c. shortening. and add '^e` c. chili sauce and trS c. milk, mixlightly with a fork, adding milk. if necessary, to make a soft 4---A=1"7-'2.1 dough. 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