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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1951-07-05, Page 2Discover" ''' ked T an Make tea double strength and while still hot pour intra glaases filled with cracked ice . , , Add sugar and lenion to taste. "Dear Anne Hirst: We have been married over a year, sand have a young baby whom we both are devoted to. But my husband com- pletely ignores ate! 1 can't under- stand it. t stn:• :. "The first few months we were so happy. But now when he conies home he has his dinner, and just sits and reads till bed- time. If I ask hila why he doesn't talk to me, he'll say he can't think of any- thing to talk about. If I persist, he loses his temper. 4524 SIZES 1-S yrs. Now that site can run and play, you want these adorables for herl A precious little scalloped dress has wing or puff -sleeves. Sunsuit has let -down seat, is cut in one piece. Bonnet is one piece, too. Pattern 4524 comes in Toddler sizes 1. 2, 3, 4, 5. Size 2 dress, 134 yards 35 -inch; playsuit, 1?/ yards. This pattern, easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit. Has complete illustrated instructions. Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35c) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print Plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS, STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1, 123 Eigh- teenth Street, New Toronto, Ont. It's ready for youl Our new Anne Adams Summer Pattern Book! Read all about your new vacation wardrobe, how easy it is to sew! GIamor-fashions, illustrations of thrift patterns in all sizes. Send twenty-five Cents for your copy to - da. Free Pattern of a Jr. Miss sun- suit printed in book, r"" "I love hint very much, but I can't find a spark of love in him for me. Maybe I try too hard. "I would be more than grateful if you can find some platisible rea- son for his behaviour, and help me solve this problem. L. H," NO COMMON INTERESTS * Before you two married, you * talked about each other, and your future. But weren't you inter- * ested then in other things too? * -His work, certain sports, your * friends, what's going on in the * world? • Mutual interests, as well as * mutual love, keep a marriage * exciting. Sharing opinions, dis- * cussing the man's business, talk- * ing over the state of the world, * enjoying baseball together, see- * ing your friends -all such things * make for close companionship. 4' As one mind stimulates the other, * they develop more and more res- * pect for each other as individuals * and so delight in being together' * as the years pass by. In other words, besides being * lovers, they are, each other's * best friends, * This relationship you must try * to develop between your husband * and yourself. 4` Start by learning more about * his work, if a wife listens with * intelligence, there are few sub- * jects closer to his heart, Take * time out to read a good news- * paper every day, and try to 4` digest its contents; then when * he reads after dinner, you two * can discuss the news. Remember * what your husband used to enjoy * in his leisure time - movies, * sports, dancing or whatnot -and * try to revive his interest in theta. * Cultivate the friends he used to * like being with, and visit back and * forth. Save amusing stories you " hear over the radio, so he'll get 4' a laugh now and then too. * These are only first s ug e ab S- * tions. Others will come to you * as you go along. " I agree that perhaps you are * "trying too hard." Friendly talk * conies naturally when two people "` arc interested in the same things. * Don't feel offended if at first a, your husband doesn't respond; if 4` you keep on, you will interest * him in spite of himself. I believe * that his settling down and read- * ing alone at night is only a habit. * I believe you can pry him, plea- * santly, out of it - unless, of * course, you two married with * nothing in common but mutual' * affection. Even if that is true, you * should be able to arouse his * interest in y ou as a person- * If you will stop feeling he does * not love you, and attack the job * intelligently. A wife whose husband refuses to be a companion to her, has her job cut out. Imagination, and tact, are needed, and Anne Hirst can help you use both. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St.. New 'l'oronto, Ont. CRO S Y9 d, ID PUZZLE ACROSS 4. Percussion 1, Difficult instrument 5, So. American river 8, 111nd or fug 18. Pitoher t8, Steal 14. River in Ireland 15. The crowfoot family 16, Stage play 19. Barber's call 29. ;raper ese coin 21. Food fish 22, ICind of duck 27, Cup for liquid 2A. Greasy 80. Search out U. Perform awkwardly 8t. Surface 38, Facing a glacier 89 it2oment 40. Compass point 41.1 -nee moun- tain 44. Dairy articles paid as rent. (Scot.') 45. Wireless 48. Reverbera- tions 68, Above 53 Worm 54. Wood - plant 55, Is Victorioue 55. Snug room 67. Dig)5atoh DOWN 1,1Drovei' 8. Con'nl2ant '1 Vrenelt au titer 5, Portion of a curve 8. Unita of weight 7, Competent 8 Divisions 9 Before 10 Y.iterary frag- 31. Ise mistaken ments 82. Brazilian money ot account 34. Employers 37. Act of holding 39. Spike of corn 41. Idolize 42. Fine fabric 43. Sat for a picture 45, Frosted 47. River islands 48. Tier 49. Biblical king 50. Writing implement 51. Transgression 11. Revolutionary general 16. Atother-of- pearl 17. Edged tool 22. ;inharmonious relationship 24. Errrow 2G. Addition to a building 26. Cereal grass 27. Thin dry biscuits 28. Very black 30 Corpulent 1 2 3 4 ''' 5 6 7 ip 8 9 10 11' 12 s13 14 15 16 17 ,.'./.fir •+4s IB R;;119 q 19 1, ' 20 ;.•:'.21 'Xi?, 22 >ti'' .f •1�. 23 24 25 26 1'T { t 30 31 32 33 34 35 •� h •` .�� 36 37 J..L,,Vti. •y <. 4 .YSt' 38 ; ao ,�' 41 42 43 �. r,,''' <a .•r. ,. 44 45 ' 46 47. 48 49 50 51 52 oSFa':? 53 54 55 Answer Elsewhere on This Page NOT A WORRY IN Ti'IE WORLD -What to do when the world's cares weigh too heavily is here demonstrated by Patrick Brown of the St. Peter's -St. Joseph's Homes. The recipe: take a sturdy branch, a piece of string, a bent pin, a fallen log, a quiet stream, and arrange them in this manner. One word of caution -this can be habit-forming. 11RON J LE 1NGERF 7f Gwq, clo1.in.e D Cl.eake Some weeks on a faun nothing goes right -everything wrong that can happen does happen. But not last week --the only thing not ac- cording to schedule was one of our cows getting in with the hei- fers -generally if the cattle get mixed up at all it is because a heifer jumps a fence and gets in with the cows. * • Maybe Partner might not agree with the foregoing stateznent%s'"he was busy most of the week clean- ing out the barnyard with the tractor hitched on to the spreader. Apparently backing into the barn- yard was quite a tricky business and there were times when I heard Partner talking to himself with considerable fluency . . . "of all the contary contraptions ... why did 1 ever think I wanted a tractor with horses I'd have had the spreader backed in and half a load on by now." One day he even had an audience -although at the time he didn't know it I I had a friend spending the day with me and while I was getting dinner she tool< a stroll around the farm. Partner was teased unmercifully at dinner -time as she would not tell him how long she had been watch- ing him -and listenirir . However it really has been a nice week - weather just pleasantly warm and sunny - except one day when it was raining most of the time, That, of course, was the day of our W.I. meeting so my freshly washed car got splattered with mud from end to end, We also had the census enumerator for dinner that day, and the poor dear looked tired out. Believe mc, anyone who works for the government on some of these temporary jobs deserves every cent they are paid. But of course, it depends on the job. For instance, according to press reports, Mayor McCallum is receiv- ing $25 a day, plus travelling ex- penses, as Consumer Representa- tive on the Milk Board, for every day the Board meets -and it has already had twelve meetings. Looks as if there is an easier way of get- ting money out of cows than by milking them. And with no danger of having the cows' tails flipped across your face, or of almost liter- ally having to bath the cows before you start earning your money. Oh well , . , I suppose that's the way of the world. 4: * * Friends from the city often bring forth many a smile. A few weeks ago Partner had the lane freshly gravelled and to make cars and trucks keep to the centre of the lane he placed a few large stones along either side. Apparently he ran out of rocks and used two of three blocks of wood instead. One visitor said she thought we had been drawing stovewood and some of it had dropped off. Another picked up one of the blocks and wondered should she bring it up to the house for ,i'.I * * 4' Sunday morning• Partner and I attended th • 131st Anniversary nrlivcrsary, Service, at Boston Church ---a beau. tiful little Country Church in the centre of this community. The church was filled to capacity. An- niversary Sunday always brings out a large congregation as so many who have left the district come back for this particular day. Al- ways there seems a special appeal. in the country churches of pioneer settlements. There, in the adjoin- ing churchyard, are the graves of the predecessors of many of those who were attending church that day. You could almost feel their presence in the lovely old church - taking part in the prayers and the hymns, and maybe listening to the sermon with a strange wonderment. The visiting minister was the Rev. Fred Douglas, Toronto -and he was a very fluent and forceful speaker. * 4: * He told us that recently in the U.S.A. a Gallup poll was taken in answer to the question -"What is the most important factor in your life today?" Eight per cent had answered "God" -fifty-six per cent, "Social Security I" Mr. Douglas said that fifty years ago the figures would probably have been exactly the reverse, as in those days there was more concern for the soul and less for the material things of life. Another pertinent question was this -"Communists deny the exist- ence of God . . . but how much better are we who merely ignore a 4 If it were possible to take an honest Gallup poll in a Communist country I wonder what would the answer to the same question that was asked in Democratic America - "What is the most important factor in your life today?" Maybe the an- swers might surprise us: Many Uses For Kitchen Shears Of course you use your kitchen shears for mincing parsley and chives, cutting up salad greens, green pepper. etc„ for salads, but do you also use them for: 1. Cutting large pieces of raw meat into smaller pieces? 2. Cutting large fish fillets into serving -size pieces before sauteing? 3. Cutting. yeast dough into uni- form pieces before shaping into rolls? 4. Snipping of overlapping pie - crust after it has been placed in the plate? 5. &or cutting up candied fruits, such as orange and lemon peels. citron, and cherries? 6. Removing neck and wing tips from poultry? 7. Cutting taffy or other pulled candy into pieces? \Vetting shears first helps here. 8. Opening boiled lobsters? Cut a slit through entire length of tail and body and break away the flesh in one piece, starting at the tail. 9. Cutting up giblets for gravy? 10. Cutting crusts from slices of ^bread? 11. Cutting up cold cooked chicken or other meat for salads, etc,? 12, Cutting snap beans? 1 Was Nearly Crazy With Fiery Itch Until 1 dlsoovercd Br D.». bonnie' amazingly Last relict 7). 7D.0. Prdedrtptlon, World popular, this pure, cooling, liquid mcdtcetion 'speeds, pence and comfort from cruel Itching caused by memo, titmice, rashes, athlete e foot and other Itch troubles. 'trial bottle, 41a First application 3500 20 even the moat intense Iretr or money bank. Ask druggist for B, Y3. 3) Prescription (ordinary or extra atrentth). ISSUE 27 --- 1051 Wives Expensive? That's Not News The British Colonial Office re- ported glumly that Western-style inflation has boosted the price of brides in East Africa among the Gusii` tribe until they have become a luxury item, according to an As- sociated Press report from London. Up until 1942 a man could get a Grade A •'bride for six cows, one hull and ten goats. But then the war and the effects of civilization began to penetrate into the British Crown Colony of Kenya, In 1947, there were complaints among the young tribesmen that they were being asked to deliver 16 crows, one bull and as many as 20 goats for the same quality wife they could have picked up at half the price a few years ago. Price controls were established by the tribal councils in order to meet the emergency. In 1948, the. grand tribal • council pegged the price of a reliable brand Gusii wife at the pre -inflation or "rollback" rate. of six cows, one bull and ten goats. Now, however, the Gusii economy is suffering from "hidden" infla- tion. Fathers with especially de- sirable daughters are demanding "under-the-counter" payments in addition to the fixed price of six cows, etc. So, the price spiral has started all over again, The moral? Wives are expensive all over the world. -The Commer- cial apd Financial Chronicle. SUMMER From the vantage point of june we can look back on the greater part of spring, even though the summer solstice still lies ahead. Looking back, with a wealth o ~. fresh peonies around us, and with a rainbow of iris and a garland of roses that make the heart leap, we can say that it was one of the most beautiful springs in years. Ours is a fortunate region. Some places have little or no spring, win- ter holding on too long and summer arriving too early. But our winter usually eases away, as it did this year, and the trees have time to leaf out leisurely and the field flowers to take their turn. That, after all, is what makes a springs;„ the leisurely leaf and the flowering fields and uplands, the sprouting and the first strong growth that reaches toward summer and matur- ity. So, because the frosts died early, we have had a spring that was a new and growing miracle week by week. The violets were like a pur- ple haze, so many, so big and so full of color. Dogwood spangled the woods with shimmering beauty. Lilacs outdid themselves'. and made the evenings heady with their fra- grance. The fruit trees were lavish with their blossoms. Chokecherry pow stands full of flower clusters and bees, and the honey locust fairly drips with blossom and sweet- ness. Blackberries . are like white cascades of petals. Buttercup and hawkweed gild the meadow. Morning after May morning it seemed that spring had reached its climax; and yet by evening the maple leaves were larger still, the grass was taller, the blossoms had increased their number. The mir- acle continued, as though to'over- ride human doubt and worry. And now we have June, and summer, for which spring was only prepar- ation. -From The New York Times. Forty-five years ago Angelo de Angelis of Avezzano, in Italy, was in the United States. While there he mailed a parcel of baby clothes to his wife in Italy for their son. It didn't turn up until the other day, when it came back to Angelis. Forty-five years too late for the son, the clothes, however, fit An- gelis' grandson perfectly. IINMY SCIIOOL LESSON 13y Rev, R. f3, Warren, fJtA„B„15„ Christian Living In The Family. 2 Tim, 1:2-6; 3:14-15; Eph, 5-22,25" 6:1-4. Memory Selection; And be ye . kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God' for Christ's sake hath forgiven yor3,; Eph. 4:32. "Things aren't what they used tea be; children no longer obey their .parents, and everyone wants to writ a book." This statement sounds modern but actually it' is the oldest known piece of writing in the world. It is on an ancient piece of papyrus in the museum of Constantinople. People talk much the same today. When a young person goes wrong, ask these pertinent ques- • tions. Did his mother and grand- mother have the unfeigned faith -hat Timothy's had? Was he given a knowledge 'of the holy scriptures from a child as Timothy was? X& the child did not have these the cause of his fault lies largely with his ancestors. God visits "the ini- quity of the fathers upon the chit, dren unto the third and fourth!. generation." Ex. 20;5. The laws of heredity illustrate this to be true. The relation of husband and wife is beautifully illustrated by the relation of Christ and the church, God said to Eve after the fait, "Thy desire shall be to thy hus- band, and he shall rule over thee." The arrangement whereby the. hus- band is not the head of the home is unnatural. The husband tends to belittle himself, the wife becomes overbearing and the family does not command the respect of the com- munity. But we must also note that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for it. One can- not conceive of a domineering hus- band in that pattern. He takes the heavy end. He loves. He gives. Children are to obey in the Lord their parents and honour them. But God has the right to first place is, the child's affections. The parents • in turn are not to provoke their children to wrath but to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, - What a responsibility to be rb parent. The child can quickly de- tect hypocrisy. He can likewise dis- cern between brutal punishment: and godly chastisement. To give your child the best opportunity you must be a Christian. ^WAKE UP YOUR LIVER BILE Without Calomel -And You'll Jump Out al Bed in the Morning Ruin' to Go The liver should pour out about 2 pinta oR bile juice into your digestive tract evory day. If this bile is not flowing freely, your food may not digest. It may just decay m the digestive tract. Then gas bloats up your stomach Yore get constipated. You feel sour, sunk and the world looks punk. It takes those mild, gentle Carter's Little Liver Pills to get these 2 pinta of bile Born• ing freely to make you feel "up and up." Get a package today. Effective in melons bile flow freely. Ask for Carter's Tittle Lives Pills. 85i et any ,lrucetnre Upsidedown to Prevent Peeking Let There Be Light -Shafts of light piercing the high windows ot St. Peter's Basilica in Italy's Vatican City illuminated the Pontifical Mass ceremony for the beatification of the late Pope Pius: X. 13elOww can be seen part of the great crowd on hand for the church most solemn ceremony since the Holy Year,