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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1951-06-14, Page 2"DE4\I. ANN1' 111R.S'1': I haven't a friend I could tcl.l _Illy tremble to, ao I come to you. WVe have beett married 20 years and grave two teen-age child- ren. We have al- ways been a per- fect teats - ex- cept that I was always the dem- onstrative one, not my ;:usband. Now 1 ant des- perate. Lately we Luce" been ;going out With another couple. The wife throws her husband at rte, so that she can try to get mine! And my husband, though he declares he loves nae, say:; he gets a thrill nut of seeing her. "Does this paean I have lost hint' He has been drinking a good bit lately. (I've been crying my eyes out.) He shows no affection for nae at all. I would be content to have things as they used to be, before this happened, "He knows he has hurt me, but says little about it. I ani sure we will not separate, but I can't stand not having a little affection from hint, for I love hint with all sty. heart. I should tell you that we ANNE ADA:1I" One easy day of sewing makes your whole summer's ironing easier, Motherl This dress opens flat, is done up in a jiffy. Your little girl can dress her own ,elf too, .Better make several: Pattern 4674 comes in siaes 2, 4, 6, 8, 10. Size 6 frock, 3 yards 35 - inch; panties, ?4 yard. " This pattern, easy to use. simple to sew, is tested for fit. Has coin- plete illustrated instruction;: Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35c) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted for this patters. Print plainly SIZE, NAME, ADDRESS. STYLE NUMBER. Send order to Box 1. 123 Eighteenth Street. New Toronto, Ont. It's ready for you! Our new Anne Adams Sumner Pattern hook! Read all about your new vacation • wardrobe, how easy it is to sew! Glan6r - fashions. illustrations of thrift patterns in all sizes. Sent Twenty -Five Cents for your copy today! rree Pattern of a Jr. Miss sunsuit printed in boo!,. both thing: the world ,; ,.sur ,:ttilc!rert, Can you advise tne .:A I,() Ef.,k \ I FF." AVOID TEMPTATION * The first thing to do is to stop * seeing this coupler, making ono * excuse and then another. " It is not a sign of weakness to * avoid temptation, even to run ': away when it pursues. If your • husband confesses that he gets a thrill out of seeing this woman, it is trate to keep out of her way. * If he is not strong enough to * renounce these two because it is " the right thing to do, then he * should remember he is the father * of two youngsters who are at an • inapressional4e age. They adore * their father, and they look }epos * him as the embodiment of all * goodness. As things are now, * how can he face them without 4' feeling guilty,? • The time to stop is before h* ▪ is tempted too far. Even a man * with a new thrill must acknow- ledge this logic. * Now is the time for hien to * show he is a ratan, not a weak creature led on the string of a • scheming woman, * Try to be eain:t through this * period, and corw'ince yourself that 8' hope. Crying 'and pleading will * everything will conte out as you .: to him through his love for the * only weaken your cause. Appeal • children, and stop there. • You have my deep sympathy-. 8: "[Gear Anne Hirst: Pre been go- ing with this boy for a long time. and now we are engaged. He knows my family well, of course, but he will not come to my home now! "Every time, his excuse is that he is out with the boys, or he is ill. "I'm sure he loves me, trot 1 am at the point where i don't know what to do. "tie also wants inc to give up smoking. now that we're engaged. I smoked long before I dated him, and I can't see why it matters now. "I atn desperately in need of our advice. "F. Li, R... ▪ Fur a man who is engaged to " marry, this young man is behav- *' ing strangely, I agree. One would * expect hirer to be more attentive * than ever, for you two have plans * to make together. He should not * let you doubt for moment his " increased devotion. * You should ask for an capitol- * ation. If he doesn't come around, * write him a note making tete date. * As to giving up smoking, malty • boys and men accept a girl as * she is -until, they decide they * want to marry her, Then they are * apt to set new standards for' the * wife she is to be. If you are wise, 4' you will not refuse; it is a little 8' thing to sacrifice. isn't it? Appeal to the highest and best in your husband, and he is apt to respond . , . Anne Hirst is under- standing and wise, and is here to help you. Write her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., New Toronto, Ont. NO WARNING On a sentimental pilgritnage to =their old home town an elderly couple lingered at a street corner. "Der you remember, John," the old lady sighed sentimentally, "we always used to meet here when we were courting?" "i'es, any dear," replied her hus- band. "but that sign wasn't there then." 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An unexplained phenomenon snakes you feel plumb out of line when you enter a small cabin built on the "Spot" --tom � •..? _.....-__^.,-..�.r-.. RONICLES GV2 ci 'i - ' C l e lao It will be quite a surprise to me if my column this week is even iu- telligible, what with one thing and another. First thing we know 1 won't have time to work . • . not if we have many weeks like last week, with everything happening, one right after the other, with no let-up in between. Canadian Club, •W.1. District Annual: ('Lurch -sponsored show; two -weeks' washing, one day Itouse-cleaning; shopping and getting my hair done -and then our niece's wedding in Toronto on Saturday, followed by company over the weak -end -in fact one of our visitors is still here. Yes, thats:..,the way it went and in the middle of it all Partner turned the cows tint to pasture for the first time this spring and in less than three hours one of the cows was bloated as Lig aht an elephant. '\Ve had to send for the "vet" and then sit up until 1:30 a.m. to give the prescribed medicine to the cow, Only it wasn't done as easily as 1 .can tell it. With every dose it was a hard Won fight as the cow was a hard one to "drench." Once she twisted around and got Partner pinned up iu the manger, Was I thankful that some months ago we had had all the rows de - horned! At the Canadian Club Ethel Chapman gave a splendid talk on "The Appreciation of Poetry." I had heard it before but it wasn't any hardship to hear it again. Miss Chapman is one of the best speak- ers, and the easiest to listen to. that i know. The District Aminal arcs held in one of our new township halls and it was a splendid building for such an occasion. The chairs were com- fortable -and that means a lot• -the hall airy and the acoustics perfect. The programme was interesting and did not appear to drag. The visiting officers were excellent speakers. As. for the lunch ... it was wonderful, I think the chefs at the Royal York shottid visit some of our country' and small-town banquets and find ottt how to put up a good meal! The shote we went to was "I'd Climb the highest Mountain." I'm glad we didn't think we were too tired or too busy to go. It was a grand, heart-warming picture. The humour was excellent, while the story throughout was an epic of courage and great faith -and very human. Friday f was doing all the jobs 1 hadn't done during the week and also making preparations for getting away the next clay. Saturday morn- ing saw nae on the train heading for Toronto, as :Daughter's house was one of our gathering places. Bobs' wedding was in the Chapel at. Sunnybrook Ifospitatl and the re- ception at P'artner's brother's home in the Moore "Park district, It was a 3111811 wedding hut very pretty, labs wore a dress of while net over egg- shell satin. it was uo attractive and everyone • I e cr vane rcits thrilled t r e c wiser they learned she had nnadc it her - sear Not t:vety girl wotttct have the courage to tackle at job like that. 1. ti., proud of her. Joy, -thebride's 31 ei" r, r . . was r Ina u tO 03'rO tt tand uo wore blue figured eel over blue sato, The men of the party alt wore grey snits. It can't be much funbeing t lila t r 0 1, hM 1~I it tomes to special occasions! The minister was the 'Protestant padre 1t Sunny - brook and 1 don't think 1 ever met anyone with as more kindly expres- si.on. There were about forty guests and. at the back of the Chapel, quite a, utintb-r of 1' lilt0'r1 id misses were Bells On Her Toes -Three-year- old Monica Leslie tries on her, fire engines, which are in fart the latest in children's slippers. Those of the "Zwieback Set" have their choice of racing cars, locomotives, or fire engines. seated in the back pews. And from the solarium many nurses waved their farewells. There was an air of quiet dignity in the chapel and the service was beautiful in its simplicity. And the reception --mingling of guests, fun and laughter, more to eat than was good for us; fruit punch (minus the "kick" that some- times accompanies it) confetti, fare- wells, car jacked up off its hind wheels, but no noisy horn -blowing, thank goodness. Finally the bride and groom were away -on the first lap of what we all hope, will be a long and happy married life. After the last of the guests were gone the "father of the bride" took eight of us out to dinner at a rather unusual hotel or restaurant -I don't know which it was. Its main feature was in the nature of a "smorgas- bord" -but I'in not sure if that .is the way to spell it, and I have no way of finding out. Anyway they charge a flat rate -so much a plate -you help yourself to any number of the various dishes provided, and go back for more if you want it. The food was excellent. Around midnight four of us ar- rived back at the farm -and we are now on the way to rccoveryl WI -IAT SORT OF PEOPLE? The Governor-General hit the ball squarely dowlt the fairway in Kitch- ener last week end when he high- lighted the shortage of Canadians in this country. Viscount Alexander was talking about quantity, and its obvious that 22'e could use many more citizens. But another consideration is --- quality. Canada seems to have done pretty well since the war's end in screening immigrants forquality. ig s The steady 1t GradeA ailtlX of New Canadians anadaans (las tndoubtedly had a very real effedt in increasing procltiction and stabilizing Canadian prosperity. Canada doesn't arced ee`u t t just more people. It needs s elf tcl' iu t,inch- s tri us ambitious people, o t 1 e plc. But to believe that immigration possibilities are unlimited is to shake the grave error of confusing people with statistical units. It's all very well to say Canada's population stay he 50 millions in 100 years or so, Ti's more to the point to asks if and when that goal were reached, what kind of Canadians they will he. -- Prom The Financial Post. Modern ern Et 1quett By ROBERTA LEE Q. Is it ever permissible to send printed or engraved "thank you' cards? A. I myself, always have a let- down feeling upon receipt of such a card. It gives the feeling that the recipient of your gift or favour doesn't think enough of the gift or of you to sit down and write you a personal note of appreciation. Q. I know that ice cream, when eaten alone, should be conveyed to the mouth with a spoon. But how is the ice cream that is served with pie a la mode eaten? A. Both pie and ice cream' are eaten with the fork, Q. Should a bride have brides- maids when she is being married in a traveling dress? A. No; although she may have a maid of honor, Q. Is it all right for the mother of a bride-to-be or her fiance's mo- ther to give a shower for her? A. Neither one of these persons should give a shower, as this would be in the nature of inviting gift donations. Properly, only close friends of the bride-to-be should give showers for her. Q. is it necessary to mall out engraved invitations to an open house one is holding in one's home? A. No; this is an ibfornxia%k: type of entertainment, and you erra3T ex- tend your invitations either person- ally or over the telephone, Q. Is it correct to fold napkins in -a cone shape, so that they will stand upright? A. No; this custom it. obsolete. Q. My wedding is to be very small and doesn't warrant the mail- ing of engraved invitations. How should I word the short notes of invitation to those friends I would like to attend? A. 1 hey may be worded exact- ly as the engraved invitations are. Q. When a man is walking in the rain with a woman who is car- rying an umbrella, should he offer to hold it? A. .Yes. IINDAY JJSSON• By Rev. R. B. Warren, B.A.,B,ip, The Spread Of The Gospel Acts 1:8; 4, 5-12; 28: 1546, 30-31, Memory Selection: Ye shall be wit• nesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea, and in Samar•ia, and unto the uttermost parts of The earth. Acts 1:86. When Jesus died on the cross, His cause seemed lost. Many of the disciples had fled; But on the day of Pentecost, ten days afte'a' the`asceh= cion of their risen Lord, the 120 h' the upper room received - a new dynamic. God gave thein the, Holy Ghost, putifyitag 'their hearts by faith. (Acts 15:8, 9). They were en- dued with power from on high. The Holy Spirit, the thrid person of the Trinity had come in all His fulness to abide in their hearts. Peter, who on the night of the betrayal, had denied his Lord when a maid identi- fied him as one of the disciples, was now bold and fearless. Aren't you thrilled as you hear him declare be- fore the ecclesiastical court, "Be it known unto you all, and to alt the people of Israel, that by • the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom ye crucified, whom God raised from the dead, even by him doth this man stand here before you 'whole. Neither is there salvation' itC any other: for there is tome oilier name given among .inen, whereby we must be saved." These melt and wonieri went everywhere preaching the Gospel. Paul, the greatest of the apostles took the message of Christ to Rome,, the heart of the Empire. Though lie went as a prisoner he preached the kingdom of God, and taught. Among the converts were some of Caesar's household:, et• Christianity '"ii; for the whole world, It is not just one of the world religions. It is the plan' of salvation provided by God through 'Elis Son Jesus Christ. If you have Hin, then you will want others to share of His grace. Ye are witnesses. How To Lighten The Work On Those Dreaded Washdays 11 you're one of those lucky women who has an atitomatie washer and dryer (and may their tribe swiftly increase), don't bother reading this little piece. But if you still keep company every Monday' with - an ordinary washing 3nacliine, I can tell you how, given a bright, blowy day and a washing that isn't too whopping, you can finish it and a lot of your ironing and still have energy left to bake a pie for supper, writes' Lois J. Hurley in "Wallace's Farmer." It's just 'a master of relaxed nerves and a little change itt the commonly accepted system of hand- ling the job. So, in the first place, don't strain yourself to be the first one in the neighborhood to hit the washline with the sheets. Have a good breakfast, with a leisurely second cup of coffee. Then, if it retakes you feel better, spread up the beds and pick tip in the living room. This will take you until around nine o'clock, Now to the washing, which .you've previously sorted and soaked (if you're a soaker). Go right though with it, without stops and delays to hang it on the line basketful by basketful. That's the big difference. Keep it all back and hang it all out at once. And tidy the basement or laun- drfy before you take out the wash. That way, you're all through with the watery part of washday, and you don't have the hateful chore of go- ing, back to empty the tubs and sweep tate floor. By the time the clothes are on the line, it'll be around eleven -thirty or quarter to twelve. Go in and fix lunch. You won't have anything very fancy or tinge -consuming on Washday, so this won't take very long. While you're waiting for the then to conte in, or while they're finish- ing at the table, go out and take clown the clothes that you want to iron 'that afternoon, and fold then into the clothes baslret. They should be just about. right for ironing, without the time-con- suming sprinkling and folding oper- ation. Now clear away the wishes and lie down for a half-hour. Yes -I said "lie down." Forty winks on washday are, especially important. Then get out the ironing board - you've a good two hours, and you can put away a pile of rough iron• ing in that length of time. Don't iron much later than four o'clock. You've supper to get, and there's that pie I promised you. Get it in the oven. Then go oat and take down the folding clothes that don't have to be ironed, and carry them, -sun- sweet, right up to drawers and liners closet. Sprinkle and fold away the starched things, of which there won't be too many, if you're smart at choosing your summer 'fabrics.'" There! You've al.tnost ftnashed the week's biggest task in one day. Only a couple of horn's' work left for next day. The rest of the week is clear and free for the many jobs ahead. You're tired, of course, but not too completely fagged. Just ready for a good night's refreshing 'sleep, - with the comforting thought of a big job well done. Upsidedown to Prevent Peeking J- 3 V'1 V P1 3 M 3 l3 P4 1 3 3 Al O0 is V I 0 d V N N Wild'] D MVO O? V V 7 as 3 3 a 11 3 t1 d 3 O 3 1 9 N N n 8 H a d 0 N 3 w S S NV N 9 a 3n NO V N 3 1 9 0 n o 3 V ISSUE 24 -- 1951 enJ`;•2: 3; '^, : a4s hast :::::W .a ir.,:::oiY.:::••`eSel; t}>•�S '' Men sure go for a MAGIC cake ett St7 A\( ec G C1• IEvnhI7 COCONUT FUDGE CHIFFON CAKE Mix and sift into a bowl, 1 c. plus 2 tbs. once -sifted cake flour, 136 tsps. Magic Baking Powder, M tsp. salt, 11 c. tine granulated sugar; mucin M c. desiccated coconut. Make a well int the dryingredients sand add in the colder given b`ig v n (do not star mixtuxe), h e. corn (salad) oil, 2 tuibeaten egg yolks, c. plus 2 tbs. water, 1 tsp. vanilla, 234 ounces unsweetened - ehocolate, melted and cooled, Stir the liquids to .intermingle, then stir inn•1 ttoi dry ngtcdients beat tnttrl batter is C smooth Measuro into a largo bowl 36 c. ,egg whites (at 2. room temperature) and sprinkle with 3 tsp. cream bf tartar; beat until the egg whites aro very very stiff much sniffer than for meringues, angel cakes, etc.Add flour mixture, about a natter ,ata1 qtime,arc fold After each addition until batter and egg whites are thoroughly conabiiiod..Turn batter into au. urrgreased 8" ttzagel cake pan; bake in a rather slow oven, 335e, aboitt 1 hour. Immediately cake coshes Prom oven, ; mart ,pan „andsuspend cake until cold,