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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1956-05-10, Page 6AN NHU "Al! I get at home to eat is a boarding - house grub:" com- plains a young husband, "Par- ents demand a great deal of sons-in-law, but what do they expect of their daughters? From their own experience, they must know how essential it is that a girl know how to cook and keep house. Mothers can- not expect marriage miracles when they don't even teach their daughters how to live on an allowance; money doesn't grow on trees, and a bride should know how little a dol- lar buys nowadays. Many young husbands, f r e s h from their mothers' well - run homes, get the shock of their lives when they witness the disorder they come home tol "A good marriage depends largely on the ability of both to give and take — but how many girls are brought up with no consideration for the rest of the family, just demanding and getting their own way? They can't expect a husband to be contented unless they ack- nowledge he has some rights, too. One mother I know told her ive to children girls, what tyou you seot lf have not developed." I say to moth- ers, you aren't good enough to deserve children unless you have learned to discipline yourself. "I am not a slacker, Anne Hirst. I work on my job and I come home every night. I am building my own home — and I'm doing most of the shopping, too," PARTNERSHIP * This young husband dwells * on one of my favorite themes, * No business partnership can * continue successfully w h en * one of the men shirks his re- * sponsibilities. How then can * marriage, that most intimate * of alliances, flourish if the * bride is not properly equipped * to do her part? If she hap- * pens to be a carefree daughter * untrained in the rudiments of * homemaking, certainly when * she becomes engaged she * should master the arts of keep- * ing a husband content in the * home he provides for her. Any * self-respecting girl would be * ashamed to be found wanting * in this fundamental field; if * she is, there are sources ga- * lore to teach her all the how- * to's she needs to know, and * the sooner she embarks on a Week's Sew- Thrifty Brighten your summer, sew these gay fashions now — so wonderful for sun and fun! Carefree T-shirt with cool con- vertible• neckline, slim -trim thorts, pedal pushers too! Per- fect styles for hardy denim, sailcloth, poplin -- in bold pat- terns, soft pastels! Pattern 4532. Misses' Sizes 1Q, 12, 14, 16, 18, Size 16 shirt, 21,s yards 35 -inch; shorts, '1x/$yards. This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested tor fit, leas Complete illustrated instruc-. lions, Send THIRTY-FIVE CENTS (35¢) (stamps cannot be accept - .d, use postal note for safety) tar this pattern. Print ;plainly IZE, NAIVE, ADO RES S. B'TYU; NUMBER. Send order to ANNE ADAMS, 123 Eighteenth St., New Torun- i'o, Ont, 'Snit l!1 -- 1955 * do-it-yourself program, the * better are her chances to keep * the man happy. * I often have been forced to * agree with a husband like this * one who puts the blame where * it belongs, on the girl's moth- er. To fling her into marriage '' unprepared is a cruel gesture, * one whose consequences have * disillusioned many a hopeful * bridegroom. She owes him at * least a knowledge of house- * hold routine, making today's * dollar stretch twice as far as * her mother's did, the appetiz- * ing preparation of good foods; * the myriad details of aim- * fortable living should be at * her fingertips, as they can be * only when she has learned * and practiced them. Surely the * bride can wear no more be- * coming wedding wreath than * a thorough preparation for * that most essential of all * crowning glories, the ability * to create a well-run home for * the man she professes to cher- * rsh. MOUSE OR MAN? "Dear Anne Hirst: The man I am in love with is 13 years older; I am 17. My family think he is too old for me, so he won't come to the hous e. I don't agree, I think he should, so they really can come to know him. I've been meeting him outside because he says that is the only way out. • - "I have thought of leaving home next year, when Pll he of age. I'm certainly old enough to know what I want, and I want him. ' MARIE" * It is the man who is wrong, * not you. He should welcome * the chance to visit your par- * ents and ^talk things out. If * they like him, he might con- * vince them that, being older, * he understands you and can * make you happy. You will * probably wish to get their ui- * timate consent, but this ap- * proach is the first door . to open for it. * A girl of your age who con- * siders leaving home is not ma- * ture enough to choose her life * mate. She lacks the necessary * judgment, and she hasn't the. * stability to face disappoint- * ment. * Relax. Ask your mother and * father to welcome this man, * and tell him if he does not * seize this opportunity, you will * have nothing to do with him, * That should' reveal his integ-• * rity — or the lack of it. * * Next to an unselfish love, the finest dowery a girl can bring to her groom is- a knowledge of homemaking and pride in her - job. One of the rewards is knowing that a husband who is comfortable and appreciated at home seldom seeks happiness elsewhere. Write your problems to Anne Hirst, Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., N e w Toronto, Ontario, c-.-.- 11RO I L 'S FISHY FASHIONS — Wicker fishing creels .topped with cher- ries make novel pockets for this eye-catching Italian import` of• red - and -white polka dotted material modeled by equally eye-catching Ellen Smit h. Crownless hat matches the baskets. Appropriate setting for the creation is the Italian gar- dens of Vizcaya in Coral Gables, Fla. bed and was in the process of untangling the cords when Partner woke up — at least he partially woke up, "Anything wrong?" he inquired sleepily. Anything wrong! As if I • were accustomed to crawling under beds in the middle of the night, "No, nothing at all;': I 'an- swered sweetly. "Just go back to sleep,'there's nothing -to wor- ry about" I yanked out the plug, somewhat viciously, I'm afraid. Peace and quietness at last And then I slept until day- break. With the dawn we found the ground covered with snow, and big, fluffy white snowflakes still drifting down, partially covering the rain -soaked fields and decorating the shrubs and trees. We were so disappoint- . ed because Bob and Joy were coming to take us to visit friends away up in the Shel- burne district. Seeing the snow we at first gave up the idea. After all, if it was snowing here we didn't know what we might run into up in the snow - belt. And then the sun came out and we changed our minds. By noon we were on our way. The farther north' we got the more snow we found, Some roads were slushy but with solid snowbanks on either side. But the snowplows soon had the highways in good condition The well -wooded, snow-capped hills were very lovely. Down in the swamps were the greenest cedar trees we had seen for a long while, different from the brow- nish trees we get around here, The friends we were visiting ive on a snow -filled side road. wouldn't have tackled that road for anything but Bob took 1 all in his stride and by care- ul driving, and backing up iere and there, got us through with hardly any trouble at all, We saw another car, left a little iece in from the highway, and we' knew its occupants were heading for the same place as we were, and visiting the .same people, but had decided against running the risk of getting - stuck, As far as scenery was con- cerned we were in a lovely di- strict. Wonderf.] for summer living. But for winter sacrifice a little rugged beauty for comfort and convenient e: As we grow older easy living ' seems to be of primary impor- tance, Country living, yea but with conveniences and away from congested areas The perfect sat -up but hard to find. We passed many lovely . places . . ranch houses set among ING.M i I sss Saturday night 1 had a very restless night. Not because I couldn't sleep but because every ; 1 time I got to sleep I was awak- enea again by a strange noise. In fact the noise was of two ' p types -.- one a steady sort of purr, which I didn't mind, the other was intermittent and re- sembled the operation of a buzz -saw. That I couldn't take. It would stop and then start. Stop and start again, The in- tervals between were irregular, When all was quiet I wondered how long it would be before 'it would start again, and when . the sawing was in progress 1 ' listened for it to stop. One way was as bad' as the other Some- times during an extended quiet spell I dropped off to sleep but only to be awakened again. Now 1 give yet. three guesses, Radia or television left on? No, It wasn't that. Wind rattling the shutters? Wrong again. Partner snoring? Oh no, he couldn't be that bad! Then what was it? Nothing more or Tess than a small electric bedroom clock! Just a nice, neat little -lock, not ore than six inches square, You wouldn't think 'anything so small could make such a noise. Until a few days ago it was as quiet and well-behaved as a clock could be, 'Then it began a purring sound which 'wasn't, too distracting. Finally this aw- ful rasping noise. I listened un- til it nearly `drove me crazy I would have pulled out the plug immediately except that it was in a socket under Partner's bed, into which was also plugged the r'ad'io and a bed -lamp. But at long last it had to .be done, 1 got up crawled under Painter's aces; summer cottages beside a rippling stream; rambling ,old farm houses that probably take a fortune to heat; good roads and poor roads; television aert- ais few and tar between A few semi-indutri.alized a' eas and, on Sunday, not much traffic l began to wonder could there possibly be a more. diversified province than Ontario? 'Inside of a fifty -mile radius one can pass from primitive living con- ditions to suburbia, We were away only six hours, including our visit, and in that time we say living conditions all the way from good, poor and indif- ferent. When we got home we found a jar of maple syrup between the two front doors so I ima- gine visitors c arae calling in our absence. Friends are so used to finding us always at home on Sundays it must havebeen quite a surprise to have + only the dogs to greet them, And now it is Monday again, The sun is shining, spring flow- ers are peeking through the ground, and along the south' side of the house rosy rhubarb crowns show that the miracle of spring has begun, even though it will be a little while yet before tractors are seen in the fields. How Can 1? ey Anne Ashley Q. How can I make a china cement.? A. Stir freshly -slaked lime into the white of an egg until it becomes the consistency of paste. Apply to the edges of broken china and let dry for at least three days. This cement can also be used on marble and glass. Q. How can I prevent shoes from cracking across the top near the toe, when the shoe is a little too large? A. Fill the toe of the shoe with hair combings.' This is better than cotton, which be- comes hard and uncomfortable. Q. How can I make a plant tonic? A. The water in which beef has been washed is an excel- lent tonic treatment for plants; and especially for roses and geraniums. Q. How can I clean rubber ar teles without injuring thein? A, A solution .of household ammonia and warrrl water is excellent for cleaning rubber articles, It not only cleans the rubber, but adds to its life by keeping it soft and pliable, Q. How can I repair a cane- seated chair when the cane in it -bas begun to loosen? A. Wash the cane in a strong solution of soda and water and ,let it dry thoroughly. When dry, it will be found that the cane has 'tightened, Q. How eon 1 remove tobaa 4 odor or paint odtt,. front a rfsfs4.44 A. Place in the xt+om a verse of water containing a handful of hay. Small, bundles of halt can be obtained from any .fuel) store, Q. How can I clot the furnai pipe or range pipe? A. Try -narking a line Where the cut is desired and using tie( can opener. shrunk and the gaadt Here's bread with a tasty difference! Dependable I:leischmann's Active Dry Yeast snakes it Buick and easy! ''.ate, s rola"'3;L'„ea.-sae:. ro , \ ' ';•+ r ^ ,t///.��. '"l $ R'M rS '{ Y t: hY:.• iY i' + <, ''t, ,' ,.:4, M1^: a' ^y,K &Q '= t Blest, 1. Measure into bowl 1 cup rolled oats 2 teaspoons salt 1V2 tablespoons shortening Stir in 1% cups boiling water and let stand until lukewarm: 2. in the meantime, measure into a large bowl 1(2 cup lukewarm water 2 teaspoons granulated sugar and stir until sugar is dissolved. Sprinkle with contents of 2 envelopes Fleischmann's Active Dry Yeast Let stand 10 minutes, THEN stir well. Stir in prepared rolled oat mixture and eos -a 3/n cup lightly -packed brown sugar 2 tablespoons molasses 2 cups once -sifted all-purpose flour and beat,until smooth and elastic. ;s` Work in an additional 2t/2 cups (about) once- fat sifted all-purpose flour 3. Turn out on lightly -floured board and knead until smooth and elastic; ,place in greased bowl, • Brush top of dough with melted .2 shortening, Cover. Let rise in warm ,e: place, free from droft, until clouts, led in bulk—about 1 hour. `. ttt 4. Punch down dough. Turn out and divide in half. Let rest 15 minutes, then shape each half into1 a loaf. Place in greased loaf pans IB%z x 4%z inches, top inside y measure), Brush with melted butter, margarine or shortening. Cover., Let rise until doubled in bulk -4 about 45 minutes. Bake in moder- afefy hot oven, 375°, about 50 `;.."4 minutes. Yield: 2 loaves. Needs no refrigeration "Corn Starch Makes Lighter Sponge Cake!” SPONGE CM(E 3 tablespoons sifted all-purpose flour Y3 cup BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch 3 egg yolks r/2 teaspoon vanilla 1/4 teaspoon lemon extract 1/4 teaspoon grated lemon rind 1 tablespoon water Yx cup granulated sugar 3 egg whites 1/ teaspoon salt MIX flour and BENSON'S or CANADA Corn Starch BEsiftolk tog s et BEAT T egg Y withrotary beater until very thick and light coloured. ADD vanilla, lemon extract, rind da water. rup sugar, CONTINUE beating and gradually add i FOLD in flour and BENSON'S or CANADA Corn StarchETmixturegradually.whites nu deep bowl with rotary beater BEAT egg until foamy. until stiff but not dry. ADD salt; continue beating BEAT in remaining' 1/4 cup sugar slowly. POUR egg yolk mixture over egg whites and fold together lightly. POUR into ungreased 9 -inch tube pan. BAKE in slow oven (325° F.) 1 hour or until done. INVERT on cake rack to cool; remove from pan. 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