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HomeMy WebLinkAboutZurich Herald, 1954-07-22, Page 6"Dear Anne Hirst: The young man_., Ihn in love with was hurt by a girl a long while ago. He will not yet believe true love exists anywhere; he con- tends it's just a word! He dates girls all the time, never going regularly with anyone. "I am 20, he is 26. We get along wonderfully. I never speak of love at all, of course, but I know he likes me — and the , other night he told me he had gotten over the girl who threw him over. Of course, that gives me hope, but what course should I take from here? Is there a chance that I can help him see how wonderful a thing love is — if you give it a chance? ON TIPTOES" * Wise you are not to , advo- cate love per se to this dis- * illusioned lad; the word is * still anathema to hiin At * the first suspicion that you * care for him he'd be out of * your sight. * .Play his game. When h e * decries love, smile quietly and * say you understand. Match his * moods — gay or somber, talk- * ative or not, always sympa- * thetic. Keep the converse- * tion limited to impersonal * topics on your part, but lead * him on to talk about himself his opinions, his tastes a his hopes, his career: lister * intelligently, alert to praise µ him, slow to disgrace. Play the * part of a sincere friend (and * mean it) so he feels free to * talk as frankly as he would * to another man. * In. other words, make him * feel at home with you Since * he admits he has recovered ''1' from the past, he should soon * be in the mood to concentrate * on one of the girls he still * knows. It might as well be you. * If you do mean more to him * than others, putting him off • now and then will quicken * his interest. So decline a date • occassionally, and don't let him think he can drop in any * time he likes and find you ac- * cessible. Let him wonder * where his competition lies. * It is a chance to take, of * course. But it is the only.. * course that may bring him to µ see, one day, that you are the 's most desirable girl of all "Dear Anne Hirst: I am en - aged to a grand boy,; andW' he rants us to marry right away. x ve known him for three years; Ave love each other deeply, and nay parents think he's wonder- ful. But — "I've had to work for my liv- ing for years and when at Can You "Tie" This? -• heated n d decorated with tinseled eeroliwork, the bow tie, a long- time favourite among men, fomes into its own as the latest ashion -fad for the ladies. Bobbi key designed this particular bit of neckwear, but there are do - %ens of other jeweled and bead- ed styles to choose from. home 1 was never taught any- thing about housekeeping. I can't even cook! "I want to be the perfect wile when I do get married. Don't you think it would be wiser to wait six months, at least, ' so I'll have the chance to learn and practice? WONDERING" * I am for your plan, Many * a fine boy in love can see no * fault in his fiancee, and rushes * her into marriage before she * is ready — taking it for grant- * ed she will be a perfect home- * maker in every detail. * Men are orderly folk, They * like their meals on time (and * satisfying, delicious meals at * that) and they want their * home to be an orderly and re- * laxing place. They seem to * think all this happens by some * magic. You and 1 know bet- * ter, * Take these months, and use * them well. Make a game of it, * and let the young man watch * you progress. It would be fun. * if he would learn along with * you. * Too many young husbands * are inhabited by an ingrown * ulcer before the first year is * out. Yours will not be. Love is a game of heads as well as hearts. The girl who uses her intelligence and wit stands a good chance of landing the man she wants. In time of confusion, ask Anne Hirst's opinion. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto. Ont. Hope To Salvage ing Jo bii s Crown Will King John's treasure, be- lieved to have been lost in the Wash nearly 740 years ago, be discovered soon? Hopes are high that it may be located and salvaged when a new plan to wrest 50,000 acres from the Wash under a reclama- tion scheme is put into effect. Legend says that the king's two-mile baggage train included priceless jewels and his regalia. Men have spent fortunes in eoinantic attempts to recover the treasure. Fenland farmers tell of fre- quent treasure hunts over some of the 75,000 acres of tidal land which have been reclaimed sinoe. the middle of the nineteenth century. Would-be discoverers of the thirteenth -century regalia in- clude an American millionaire who many years ago spent a large sum on a fruitless plan. Another treasure hunter used an electric divinator which, it was claimed, would d et e c t metals and precious. stones at a great depth. Each time the hunt is on Fen - people speculate about the treasure which might be found around their homesteads. But always the hunters have gone away empty-handed. Now this new scheme of re- clamation has stimulated fresh interest. It seems that such a large-scale plan cannot fail to include the treasure spot. Most of the treasure was probably being carried, when it sank, in a very big cart in the middle of a column of vehicles— all of which were lost when huge breakers poured over the royal train. In school some s m a 11 boys were being told about the ter- rific speed at which light tra- vels. "Just think of light corning to us from the sun at all those thousands of miles a second !" enthused the teacher. "isn't it wonderful?" "Not very," piped up one small voice room the back of the class. "It's downhill all the way." Admir. Gift --- President and Mrs. Eisenhower admire a century- old firep ace that was given to them as a 38th wedding anni- " ersory present by members of the White House staff and in. stoked in their farmhouse, But What About The Chips? — Workers pre dwarfed by this huge frying pan made to order for fish fry staged by fishermen in Camogli, Italy. The pan is 13 feet in diameter and has a 19- foot„handle. About three ton of fish can be,cooked in the pan. H ,; w Queen Mary gide a Cari et I like to think that, in her own special way, Queen Mary has also linked these countries, and the wonderful gros point carpet which became known to us all as Queen Mary's Carpet is a symbol of that achievement.. . She originally intended it as a gift for another member of the royal family. But when, after t h e war, Britain's economic plight . became desperate, s h e made up her mind to present the carpet to the nation for sale as a royal "dollar export," The money would help to buy new machines for Britain's factories from North America, and she hoped to set an example for her people by stressing the sacrifices we all must make to ensure the success of the drive for dollars. In 1948, six exquisite chair seat covers which she had made and given to a nursing organiza- tion were sold in the United States for $10,000; they are kept now among the art treasures of the Metropolitan Museum in New York City. Queen Mary started work on the carpet in the early days of the war when the German bombers were droning over her country. She chose the hundred pastel colours with special care— the soft beiges, the delicate grays, the b 1 u e s, turquoises, mauves and ambers for every individual flower and leaf, bird and blossom in the design. I5. my memory I can see her sitting,_ by the tall windows ,pf Marlborough House; sewing bag at hand, pursuing the intricate tracery of patterns, as soon as breakfast, letter writing and Palace business was completed. She was following a long tra- dition where British Queens are concerned, starting with Mar- garet, Anglo-Saxon Queen of Scotland in the tenth century, down through the centuries to Queen Victoria. In some ancient English palaces and manor - houses, one can still inspect the work of Catherine of Aragon and her daughter, Mary I. . Our Queen Mary worked as they must have done. The rows of wools, four- hundred and eighty different kinds by the time the carpet was finished, were ranged in parade -ground order beside her chair. Seated straight-backed and serene, she would choose the color she want- ed, snip off a length of it with her silver -gilt scissors kept in a worn leather case, swiftly thread• a needle without the aid or spectacles, and make another stitch... . She worked regularly until lunch and then again in the late evening, six to seven hours a day. Slowly but surely the tapestry grew, four stitches a minute in her ceaseless skill. The first of the twelve panels was completed in May, 1941, and she added the finishing touch of a true artist—her signature "Mary R." and the date. Eight years and one million stitches after she commenced her womanly, queen ly task, Queen Mary's Carpet was ready to be shipped across the 3,000 miles of ocean . aboard the Cunard liner which proudly bears her name, — From "Mother and Queen." by Marion Crawford. HISS'1TSTPi i A prizefighter and his lady dined at a large restaurant in the Titnes Square area. When the waiter presented the check, the prizefighter handed him a five dollar bill and told him to keep the change, The pug then got up and suddenly gave the waiter a black eye. On the sidewalk, the fighter lighted a cigar. Then the police arrived, "A fine waiter, that guy," the pug explained to the judge. "I expect to dine there again to- morrow." "If he's such a fine waiter," asked the judge, "why did you slip him that black eye?" The pug puffed on his cigar. "1 like that guy for a waiter," he ex- plained. "And when I go back there tomorrow, /II have no trouble pinking him out." Set A Mousetrap Caght A Thief When the proprietor of a Nantes (France) cafe went to investigate a trap he'd set, he found not a mouse, but a thief That's how he caught a woman who 'was dipping her hand in the till. Marauders are often trapped when they least expect it. On the Danish island of Mors a poul- try thief on the run- hid in the hen-house.`When he thought the coast was clear, he peered out. A sliding door dropped on to his head. He screamed, and- the po- lice came to his rescue. Another criminal who was re- lieved to see the police was the burglar who, in 1936, jammed himself 25 feet down a chimney in Aldgate. He had -been there for thirteen hours, having hoped to pick up a hoard in a fire- place which proved to be brick- ed up, Arrests are often made in the oddest' circumstances. A man in Hobart Tasmania, was nabbed as he lay -sleeping on a display bed in a shop window. No place 'is safe for a wanted man when the police are on his trail. Detectives in Cleveland, Ohio, . ; ,searching f o r Edward Brow i,. noticed that one of the beds .Hin his. house was sagging. Looking underneath, they found .Edward clinging to the springs and clear of the floor, Weakly = •- he said: "I 'was just resting. Then there was the house- breaker in Montreal attempting to escape through the attic. He fell through the ceiling into the arms' of the police, Perhaps even more astonished was the Indiana woman soaking in her bath. Police broke down the door and carried her, still dripping, to the police station. .. Sew -Easy Princess! FROSTY as icing on a cake is that large contrast collar! Turn your back — collar becomes a halter for coolness and comfort on ninety -degree days. Button the bolero on or off according to your whim! Dress has easy -to -sew, slimming princess sines. Pattern 483'7; Misses' Sizes .12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Size 16 ensemble, 41/e yards 35 -inch; riz yd. contrast, This pattern easy to use, sim- ple to sew, is tested for fit, [las complete illustrated instructions, Send TMETY-FIVE CENTS (35c) in coins (stamps cannot be accepted) for this pattern. Print p�l,y}�a,iny,ly 811, '1", l nATR, A'.1 I31tiESS, k-7.d,.R.JIat A�IU-TA Send order to Pent 1, 123 5li h- tee.nth St.„ New Toronto, Ont. RON!CL „S INGERF rienevl rel env D Cleo -lee Did you ever see so much baled hay in the fields as there is this year? It just seems that in passing through the country wherever youlook there are fields and fields of baled hay. But apparently there is a reason for it. According to one farm specialist hay should be baled a little on the tough side and the bales left out in the field for a day or two for the hay to cure— which is just the opposite from what farmers were doing: when baling first became popular. Then it was baled as dry as pos- sible and hurried into the barn before it had a chance to get wet. If the hay got well cured it was more by accident than good management — generally through lack of help to get it in. Besides that unless a farmer had his own baler he had to get his hay done whenever the baler could • come. This year it is a little different. There are so many fellows doing custom baling they are on the run to get to each farmer ahead of the other fellow. Hay baling is fine when there is such a definite shortage of farm help but it seems a crime there should be such a waste of good wire and twine afterwards. For the first year or two farmers could save the'wire and sell it for a cent a pound. Now you can't even give it away. Some of it can be used for fixing fences and so on but the rest is just a waste _product that nobody wants. Some .machines operate with twine, and that is almost as great a problem as the wire. A certain amount of it can be made use of but the proportion is very small as each bale contains 12 to 16 feet of twine. Multiply that by a thousand bales and you have a lot of twine. On many farms during the spring the twine is just gathered up and burnt. And yet, during the de- pression, I remember so well that after a threshing Partner used to rake through the straw to salvage binder twine for tying up his grain bags, rather than cut new twine from a ball. Sure- ly twine at least could be re -used in some way, perhaps in the manufacture of rope. Which re- minds me . Partner wanted a halter rope for a calf the other day, Instead of buying one he got several lengths of baler twine and braided them to- gether. 1t made an excellent rope. I think twine might also be used t0 make a braided mat for the back porch, but that I haven't tried yet. Another waste product .. . all the fine string that is used by the various food -mixing plants for fastening the top of jute bags. Partner always saves the string until he has a fair-sized ball. And I save what -I get with the groceries. I tie the ends in a flat knot and use the string for making crocheted dishcloths, done in an open mesh pattern — two chain, one treble. The; last longer than any dishcloths 1 have ever bought. Not only that you really have something solid to work with. Well, it seems that every gen- eration has its problems with waste products. When the early settlers cleared the land they burned the trees to get rid of them! Think of the lumber we could get f,3om that timber now! Instead of trees to worry about we have tin cans, glass bottles, baling wire and dozens of other things that we don't know what to do with. And yet with all the tin cans that are made today you can hardly find one that has a handle on it, Remember how useful those little lard or honey pails used to be for taking a drink out to the field. or for the children picking berries? It just seems that what one generation values another gen- eration condemns, I'or instance there is chicory! At one time ii was regarded as a highly nutri- tive feed for rattle — and not db, '" Rose s oiltle 751 At. "3-D" doilies! The roses look REAL — they're solid crochet raised above the open_mesh cen- ter, Crochet roses in red; leaves, green; center, white or green Crochet Pattern 751: Directions for large doily, 19 inches; small, 13 inches in No. 30 cotton. Send TWENTY-FIVE GENTS in coins (stamps cannot be ac- cepted) for this pattern to Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St., Ned Toronto, Ont. Print plainly PATTERN NUMBER, your NAME and,, AD- DRESS. Don't miss our Laura Wheeler 1954 Needlecraft Catalog! 79 em- broidery, crochet, color -transfer and embroidery patterns to send for — plus 4 complete patterns printed in book. Send 25 cents for your copy today! Ideas for gifts, bazaar sellers, fashions. Daily let To be healthy, the body needs fuel -foods, fats and carbohyd- rates (sugars and starches), to provide energy; proteins, such as meat, to build new tissues for growth or to replace those _worn out; calcium, in milk, for the strong bones and teeth; and various minerals, including salt, that help the body to maintain its chemical balance and to carry on its functions. Vitamins are not foods, but these "food -factors", as they are called, are, essential. They help the body to make use of the food we eat. Vitamins already pre- sent in food are usually enough for a normal person if his diet is otherwise well balanced. Every day you should eat some foods from each of these groups: (1) milk or milk pro- ducts,_ including cheese—at least a pint of milk for an adult and more for a child; (2) citrus fruits (oranges, grapefruit), tomatoes, or raw cabbage or salad greens —at least one; (3) green or yel- low vegetables, some raw, some cooked—at least one big serving; (4) other vegetables or fruits, including, potatoes; (5) bread and cereals; (6) meat, poultry or fish; (7) eggs—three or four a week at least; (8) butter or another vitamin -rich spread. without reason, Now chemical sprays are used to kill it. Partner always claims a good feed of fresh chicory will increase the • butter -fat content of the milk quicker than anything. Cows will even leave good alfalfa for a patch, of chicory. I remember reading a book—but•I have for- gotten what book — that the writer fully expected that the day would come when chicory. would be cultivated for its high food value! And just think what wealth there is in common cattails.' We used to call them bulrushes iu England but I suppose they are one and the same species. According to research findings at Syracuse University the cat- tail is a goldmine. The root can be eaten like a potato or ground into flour. The flour can be used for cookies or fermented to grow molds for antibiotics. The fluff can be used for stuffing for life- jackets and cushions. Oil, sixni- lar to linseed, can be extracted from the seeds, also .ware What remains can be used for cattle or chicken feed. And don't think it hasn't been done. The Rus- sians, French and Roumanians make good use of the cattails. Now I wonder, is Canada profiting by tills goldmine? If so perhaps it might be a good idea if some of us Look to cattail farming, It might even be a little less comolrca,ed than ordinary„ present cr . { ...� nit. • u i ;rt li)a�1�